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ABSTRACT
This report explored links between Big Five personality traits
and the quality of romantic relationships. Interpersonal func-
tioning was operationalized at three levels of analysis (self-
reported quality, observed emotional tone, and physiological
reactivity) in three samples (dating, engaged, and married
couples). Couples completed questionnaires about their own
and partners’ personalities and then discussed a disagreement
in their relationship while being physiologically monitored.
Two conceptual frameworks were examined; the first predicted
that personality would be consistently associated with all indi-
cators of functioning. The second framework predicted that
personality would be consistently linked to perceived quality
and trivially associated with observed emotional tone and
electrodermal/cardiac reactivity. Significant associations were
identified between personality and self-reported quality, and
only trivial associations with other indictors.
This article is based on a Masters thesis completed by the first author in the Department of
Psychology at the University of Illinois at Urbana–Champaign. Data collection for the studies
involving engaged and married couples was supported by a grant from the Research Board
at the University of Illinois at Urbana–Champaign to the second author. The dating couples
study was sponsored by a grant by the National Science Foundation to R. Chris Fraley. All
correspondence relating to this article should be addressed to Glenn I. Roisman, Department
of Psychology, University of Illinois at Urbana–Champaign, 603 East Daniel Street, Cham-
paign, IL 61820, USA [e-mail: roisman@uiuc.edu]. Duncan Cramer served as Action Editor
for this manuscript.
Measuring personality
disagreeable people are impolite, stubborn, and aggressive. The last trait,
openness to experience (sometimes called intellect), is the least-well under-
stood trait of the Big Five dimensions (Caspi et al., 2005) and reflects indi-
viduals who are inventive and creative.
A number of studies have examined which personality traits are most highly
correlated with relationship satisfaction. For instance, low levels of negative
personality traits such as neuroticism and negative emotionality have been
consistently associated with self-reports of relationship quality and satis-
faction (Caughlin, Huston, & Houts, 2000; Robins et al., 2002; Watson et al.,
2000). A meta-analysis (Heller, Watson, & Ilies, 2004) found that overall
neuroticism is the strongest personality correlate of marital satisfaction. In
addition, Karney and Bradbury (1997) have found that negative personality
traits such as neuroticism are associated with decreased satisfaction from
the onset of marriage. Kelly and Conley (1987) similarly found that neuroti-
cism in both husbands and wives was negatively associated with marital
satisfaction. Another study (Gattis, Berns, Simpson, & Christensen, 2004)
found that neuroticism was significantly higher in a sample of distressed
couples than in a sample of non-distressed couples. Finally, a study by
Caughlin et al. (2000) found that trait anxiety is associated with marital
satisfaction, and this association was largely explained by self-reports of
communication patterns between partners. Consequently, it seems clear
that the presence of highly neurotic individuals in relationships may have
important implications for self-reported relationship quality and satisfaction
(Robins et al., 2000).
Positive emotionality and other positive personality traits are also fre-
quently examined in conjunction with self-reported relationship quality.
Robins et al. (2002) found that positive emotionality was related to higher-
quality relationships and also low levels of negative relationship outcomes,
such as self-reported conflict and abuse. Likewise, Watson et al. (2000)
examined personality and relationship satisfaction in a sample that included
both married couples and a sample of dating couples. Specifically, they
found that extraversion was associated with satisfaction in married couples
and that conscientiousness and agreeableness were associated with satis-
faction in dating couples. In another study (Botwin, Buss, & Shackelford,
1997), conscientious wives had husbands who were more sexually satisfied
and conscientious husbands had wives who were more generally satisfied
with their relationships.
It is important to note that all of the results described above are based
on self-reported and informant-reported personality and quality/satisfaction
assessed using questionnaire methods. Recently, new research has emerged
that has utilized other indicators of relationship quality in addition to self-
reported quality, including observed quality (Donnellan et al., 2004, 2005).
In these path-finding studies, participants talked about agreements and
It seems plausible that personality traits influence the nature and quality of
adults’ romantic relationships. However, there are at least two different
ways of conceptualizing the nature of this association. In this study, two
different frameworks for understanding links between personality traits and
relationship quality were contrasted. As described earlier, robust associ-
ations between personality and self-reported relationship quality have been
found in previous studies and consequently, broad conclusions about the
nature of the association between personality and relationship quality have
been suggested. For example, Caspi et al (2005) state that there is “robust
evidence that early-emerging individual differences in personality shape
how individuals experience, interpret, and respond to the developmental
tasks they face across the life course” (p. 471), and more specifically that
“personality continues to be an important predictor of relationships in
adulthood” (p. 471). Consistent with this predominant view, the first frame-
work anticipates that personality will be broadly associated with interper-
sonal functioning. Thus, this framework would predict consistent effects of
personality on self-reported quality, observed emotional tone, and physio-
logical responding. A lack of previous literature limits the scope of predic-
tion in reference to specific physiological patterns of responding, although
it might be predicted that a negative trait, such as neuroticism, would create
previous data we did not make specific predictions with respect to couple
type a priori.
Method
Participants
Three different samples of heterosexual couples were utilized for this study.
First, 109 dating couples (average length of relationship = 15.6 months,
range = 1 to 69 months) were recruited from a small town in the Midwest.
The men averaged 20.7 years of age (SD = 1.8, range = 18 to 25 years) and
the women averaged 20.1 years of age (SD = 1.5, range = 18 to 25 years).
Second, 50 engaged couples (between the ages of 18 and 30 years who were
not previously married; average length of relationship = 41 months, range
= 4 to 108 months) were also recruited from the same community. The
men averaged 22.7 years of age (SD = 2.7, range = 19 to 29 years) and the
women averaged 22.2 years of age (SD = 3.0, range = 18 to 30 years).
Finally, 40 married couples (50 years of age and older and married at least
15 years; average length of relationship = 379 months, range = 201 to 621
months) were again recruited from the same small town. The men averaged
57.9 years of age (SD = 7.6, range = 50 to 77 years) and the women averaged
55.8 years of age (SD = 6.2, range = 50 to 73 years). The three samples were
homogeneous in terms of ethnicity (dating = 75% Caucasian, engaged =
87% Caucasian, married = 97.5% Caucasian). The dating couples received
US$20.00 as compensation for their participation and both the engaged and
married couples received US$50.00 as compensation for their participation.
Procedure
Before arriving in the laboratory, all of the participants completed a packet
of self-report questionnaires about themselves, their significant other, and
their relationship in general, including a self- and partner-report on person-
ality. After providing informed consent, the participants were separated
and each was interviewed about their childhood experiences (see Roisman,
2007). Participants then completed several self-report measures, including
a questionnaire that listed 11 common relationship problem areas (e.g.,
money, communication, sex, etc.). Participants were informed that this
questionnaire would be the only questionnaire that their significant other
would see. Participants rated whether the problem area was currently a
problem in their relationship using a 10-point scale (where 1 = not a problem,
10 = is a serious problem).
After completing the problem area questionnaire, participants were re-
united to engage in a standard marital interaction task. Couples used the
problem area questionnaire to decide on a single problem area to discuss.
Participants were given 10 minutes to discuss and arrive at a solution to this
problem area in their relationship (i.e., the disagreement epoch). As a way
of “cooling down” following the disagreement discussion, couples then
spent five minutes discussing areas in their relationship they agreed about.
Apparatus
Measures
• positive affect: dating couples = .84, engaged couples = .78, married couples
= .72;
• negative affect: dating couples = .78, engaged couples = .69, married couples
= .70.
Results
Analytic plan
HLM 6.0 (Bryk & Raudenbush, 1992) was used to examine the effects of
personality on each measure of relationship quality. Two sets of analyses
were conducted per relationship outcome in HLM. First, we examined the
self-reported personality traits in relation to each relationship quality indi-
cator. Next, partner-reports of personality were examined, in part to deter-
mine whether personality traits per se or a single informant (i.e., self-report)
accounted for expected associations between personality and self-reported
relationship quality. Thus, partner-report analyses were conducted as a
means of corroborating analyses based on self-reported personality traits.
Note that analyses were conducted by relationship type (dating, engaged,
and married) and only included actor effects (influence of an individual on
his or her own outcome) and not partner effects (influence of individual on
his or her partner’s outcome). We were not especially interested in partner
effects in this study, but rather in using partner-reports as a secondary infor-
mant to corroborate self-reported findings. Finally, additional analyses were
conducted in HLM to determine whether gender or duration of the rela-
tionship moderated any of the effects of personality traits on relationship
quality. More specifically, gender was examined as a potential moderator of
Level 1 personality effects (e.g., slopes) and duration was entered as a Level
2 (dyadic) predictor of each Level 1 personality slope.
Preliminary analyses
Correlations examining the association between self-reported personality
and partner-reported personality were conducted (see Table 1) to gain an
understanding of how the self-reports and partner-reports converged as the
partner-reports were important in establishing corroboration of the self-
report findings. Overall, for the dating, engaged, and married couples there
was significant convergence between informants within personality trait,
thus providing evidence of the validity of using the partner-reports as a
corroborating measure.
Analyses were conducted in HLM (see Table 2) to investigate the over-
lap between the different measures of relationship quality. These analyses
were important to investigate how the different measures of relationship
quality converge to ensure that we are capturing different constructs. Signifi-
cant associations were found between self-reported quality and observed
emotional tone for the dating couples and for the married couples. Signifi-
cant correlations between self-reported quality and observed emotional
tone were not found for the engaged couples. For both the dating couples
and the married couples, skin conductance and heart rate were significantly
correlated. While some overlap exists between the dependent measures, the
fact that such overlap was modest in magnitude suggested that it was best
to examine these constructs separately in analyses.
HLM analyses
TABLE 1
Correlations between male and female self-reported personality and male and
female partner-reported personality
Partner-reported personality 1 2 3 4 5
Dating couples
Male self-reported personality
1. Neuroticism .37** –.24* –.00 –.21* –.08
2. Extraversion –.39** .62** .00 .23* .14
3. Openness .11 –.09 .44** .15 .06
4. Agreeableness –.12 .14 .21* .44** .02
5. Conscientiousness –.08 .13 –.15 .14 .40**
Female self-reported personality
1. Neuroticism .13 –.16 .03 .12 –.22*
2. Extraversion –.23* .42** –.07 .17 .25**
3. Openness .23* .00 .41** –.08 –.15
4. Agreeableness .01 .20* .04 .31* .10
5. Conscientiousness –.02 .21 –.15 .02 .36**
Engaged couples
Male self-reported personality
1. Neuroticism .59** –.35* –.01 –.24 –.15
2. Extraversion –.22 .65** –.25 .24 .11
3. Openness .11 –.21 .65** .05 –.12
4. Agreeableness –.42 .29 –.10 .47** .36**
5. Conscientiousness –.06 .26 –.19 .31* .71**
Female self-reported personality
1. Neuroticism .57** –.29* –.03 –.38** .05
2. Extraversion –.15 .69** .17 .38** –.04
3. Openness .27 .05 .62** .04 –.33*
4. Agreeableness –.23 .17 –.05 .64** .08
5. Conscientiousness .01 .11 .04 .06 .55**
Married couples
Male self-reported personality
1. Neuroticism .44** –.20 .02 –.46** –.39*
2. Extraversion –.15 .50** –.14 .13 .10
3. Openness –.16 –.03 .68** –.13 –.09
4. Agreeableness .01 .12 –.09 .53** .01
5. Conscientiousness –.07 .17 –.13 .15 .62**
Female self-reported personality
1. Neuroticism .65** –.22 .06 –.06 –.23
2. Extraversion –.39* .43** .17 .14 .10
3. Openness –.20 .27 .47** .16 .06
4. Agreeableness –.04 –.18 –.01 .14 –.06
5. Conscientiousness –.23 –.04 –.03 –.09 .51**
TABLE 2
Standardized effects identified in HLM between self-reported quality,
observed emotional tone, and physiological responding for dating couples,
engaged couples, and married couples
Dating couples
Self-report
Observed .15*
Heart rate .05 .01
SCL .07 –.03 .17*
Engaged couples
Self-report
Observed .05
Heart rate –.12 .01
SCL –.08 –.04 –.13
Married couples
Self-report
Observed .29**
Heart rate –.16 .08
SCL .01 –.14 .38**
TABLE 3
HLM analyses predicting dating couples’ self-reported quality, observed
emotional tone, and physiological responding from self-reported personality
and partner-reported personality
Self-reported personality
Neuroticism .07 .05 .06 .08
Extraversion .08 .06 .06 .06
Openness .05 .09† .03 .04
Agreeableness .02 .11** .01 .05
Conscientiousness .12** .02 .07 .07
Pseudo-R2 .07 .03 –.02 –.02
Partner-reported personality
Neuroticism –.12** .06 .06 .07
Extraversion .02 .03 .10* .05
Openness .07 .06 .06 .05
Agreeableness .02 .05 .07 .02
Conscientiousness .13** .05 .08 .04
Pseudo-R2 .09 .01 .01 –.01
† p < .10; * p < .05; ** p < .01. Unless otherwise noted, coefficients above are standardized betas.
TABLE 4
HLM analyses predicting engaged couples’ self-reported quality, observed
emotional tone, and physiological responding from self-reported personality
and partner-reported personality
Self-reported personality
Neuroticism –.14† .09 .14 .07
Extraversion .15* .14* .02 .05
Openness .06 .06 .05 .08
Agreeableness .13† .08 .01 .12
Conscientiousness .15* .13 .09 .18**
Pseudo-R2 .22 .02 –.06 .03
Partner-reported personality
Neuroticism –.15* .09 .16* .09
Extraversion .07 .09 .17* .08
Openness .17** .10 .07 .10
Agreeableness .18** .06 .16* .07
Conscientiousness .19** .09 .09 .11
Pseudo-R2 .30 .02 .00 –.05
† p < .10; * p < .05; ** p < .01. Unless otherwise noted, coefficients above are standardized betas.
TABLE 5
HLM analyses predicting married couples’ self-reported quality, observed
emotional tone, and physiological responding from self-reported personality
and partner-reported personality
Self-reported personality
Neuroticism –.17* .13 .05 .06
Extraversion .18* .10 .08 .05
Openness .13 .07 .06 .15†
Agreeableness .16* .05 .09 .06
Conscientiousness .07 .14 .13 .18*
Pseudo-R2 .26 –.01 .04 –.02
Partner-reported personality
Neuroticism .11 .08 .10 .09
Extraversion .08 .13 .01 .08
Openness .15† .08 .13 .07
Agreeableness .16† .17* .14 .13
Conscientiousness .16† .08 .15† .11
Pseudo-R2 .22 .02 –.04 .03
† p < .10; * p < .05. Unless otherwise noted, coefficients above are standardized betas.
Discussion
relationship quality was trivial across dating, engaged, and married couples.
Thus, more support was found for the second framework.
An association between personality traits and self-reported relationship
quality has been consistently identified in the literature (Karney & Bradbury,
1997; Robins et al., 2000, 2002; Watson et al., 2000). As such, neuroticism was
expected to emerge as an important personality trait in predicting relation-
ship quality. However, while a few significant effects were found for each
of the personality traits, a consistent pattern across informants and indi-
cators of quality did not clearly emerge for any specific personality trait. In
addition, there was some heterogeneity in unique effects across couple
type. The most consistent unique effects were found in the domain of self-
reported quality – and conscientiousness was the most consistent predictor
of this dependent measure. For example, among dating and engaged couples,
individuals who were more conscientious reported higher quality relation-
ships. In addition, married couples reported greater conscientiousness and
also exhibited higher levels of skin conductance. That said, we consider this
latter finding counterintuitive in that increases in skin conductance are often
associated with efforts to inhibit behavior – which would not be indicative
of a high quality interaction with a significant other.
A major strength of this study is the incorporation of partner-reports of
personality in an effort to corroborate self-reports of personality. It is
important to note that few studies have incorporated partner-reports of
personality in their work (Botwin et al., 1997; Donnellan et al., 2004; Kosek,
1996; Watson et al., 2000). In this study, the partner-reports of personality
only provided modest corroboration for self-reported personality. For the
dating and engaged couples, both self-reported and partner-reported con-
scientiousness was associated with higher self-reported relationship quality.
However, no other partner-reports corroborated self-reported personality
findings. Perhaps the lack of significant partner-reported findings is related
to the partner’s own current satisfaction with the relationship. Watson and
Humrichouse (2006) hypothesized that when raters are unsure about how
to answer a question about their partner’s personality that they compen-
sate by referring to their current level of satisfaction with the relationship.
Their data showed that when participants were very satisfied with their
relationship, that they rated their partners as more positive than even their
partners self-reported. However, they judged their partners more nega-
tively when they were less satisfied with the relationship.
A major goal of this study was to more fully explore how personality and
relationship quality are associated by including a range of measures of
romantic relationship quality. This goal was complicated by the fact that
much of the existing literature does not explicitly acknowledge that the
association between personality and relationship quality is based on an
approach that primarily utilizes self-reports of personality and self-reports
of relationship quality. Thus, an additional strength of this study is the use
of a multi-method, multi-informant approach. This design allowed us to
examine questions previously not extensively explored in the existing litera-
ture related to the range of relationship-relevant outcomes associated with
personality traits.
Limitations
This analysis focused on a specific operationalization of personality (i.e.,
self-reported and partner-reported personality). This operationalization was
used because is it is the most common method utilized when measuring
personality. Nonetheless, as a reviewer of this paper noted, both observed
emotional tone and physiological responding are behavioral assessments
of relationship quality. As such, if a more behaviorally-based measure of
personality was utilized, more evidence that personality has broad predic-
tive significance might have emerged in this analysis.
In addition, the sub-samples of this study were relatively small in size and
we chose not to aggregate them because different measures of self-reported
quality were used for the dating couples (the DAS) and the engaged and
married couples (the ETI). Re-scaling one of the measures seemed inappro-
priate conceptually, as the two measures differ in their focus and scope, even
though they both assess self-reported quality. In addition, it is important to
acknowledge that our methodologically intensive design limited our ability
to collect data from larger samples. Finally, a significant limitation is that this
study only examined personality and relationship quality at a single time
point. However, before conducting longitudinal studies, it seems appropriate
first to examine cross-sectional associations, which were not identified in this
study for observations and physiological indicators of relationship quality.
Nonetheless, future work still needs to incorporate multiple levels of
analysis longitudinally in order to fully examine how personality traits and
relationship quality are interrelated over time (Donnellan et al., 2005;
Robins et al., 2002; Watson et al., 2000). Researchers have in fact acknowl-
edged that individuals are likely to influence their partner over the duration
of the relationship; thus individuals may become increasingly dissimilar from
or similar to their partner as the relationship progresses (Gattis et al., 2004).
This study utilized samples of exclusive dating, engaged, and married
couples and, interestingly, the smallest effects of personality were found for
dating couples. One possible explanation for this finding is that different
measures were used for the dating couples versus the engaged and married
couples. That said, previous studies have not specifically investigated how
the association between personality and relationship quality differs as a
function of relationship type; based on these results perhaps associations in
this domain are stronger in more serious relationships, thus reflecting a
developmental shift in terms of the salience of personality traits in adults’
romantic relationships. In other words, it may be that dating relationships
are not yet fully developed enough to see the same kind of effects that were
found in more seriously committed couples. However, a related explanation
is that tasks of social living, such as having children and beginning a career
path may influence personality change (Roberts, Wood, & Smith, 2005).
Thus, younger couples, such as the dating and engaged couples who are
more likely beginning to approach these challenges, may be exhibiting more
personality change than the older, married couples. In fact, Roberts et al.
(2005) discuss how investing heavily in social relationships may help explain
increases in agreeableness and conscientiousness in young and middle
adulthood. Consequently, it is possible that increases in agreeableness and
Conclusion
This study explored how the Big Five personality traits are associated with
relationship quality in the context of two different conceptual frameworks.
Among samples of dating, engaged, and married couples, the data were more
consistent with a framework that predicted that personality traits would be
most strongly associated with self-reported quality and only weakly associ-
ated with other indicators of relationship quality, such as observed quality and
physiological response during a dyadic interaction. The common approach
to addressing questions about the predictive significance of personality
traits typically uses self-reports of personality and self-reports of relation-
ship quality. However, this study clearly indicates that such a mono-method
approach is not sufficient. Instead, it is necessary to utilize multi-method,
multi-informant designs in order to fully clarify how personality is associ-
ated with the full range of relationship quality indicators routinely used by
interpersonal relationships scholars. Understanding the nature and differ-
ential magnitude of these associations across relationship quality outcomes
is a critical step in accurately portraying the predictive significance of person-
ality traits for the quality of adults’ interpersonal relationships.
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