Importance of Verbal & Nonverbal Communication
Importance of Verbal & Nonverbal Communication
Importance of Verbal & Nonverbal Communication
NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
two people smile at each other at a party. They want to get to know
each other so they start chatting.
someone is going to be late for work, so he phones his boss to let
him know.
Someone is having hard time in his life, so he calls a friend to talk it
through face to face.
A lecturer in lecture hall explains a topic to his students using just
the power of his voice.
Types of Verbal Communication
Another definition is that, it refers to the use of verbal cue such as body language, eye
contact, facial expression, posture, touch, tone, appearance and gesture to convey
meanings.
For Non-Verbal Communication important in
many ways:
It complements or adds to verbal sounds. Example: pointing and nodding the head while
speaking.
It shows interest or regulates the flow of interaction. Example: hand signal of divers;
raising hand to show you want to say something.
It can contradict verbal meaning by displaying opposite behavior. Example: sarcasm;
facial expression (bored but nods and keep eye contact)
It can create and control others perception about yourself. Example: using a car, a
beautiful house; a jewelry to create an impression about yourself.
Five Non-Verbal Behaviors/ Elements
of Non-Verbal Communication
Vocalic/Paralanguage- refers to the use of volume, tone, pitch
and rate of speaking to give additional meaning or emphasis to
what is spoken. Say “come here” using a variety tone, volume
and pitch to highlight different meanings.
Proxemics- refers to the use of space to convey an idea or
image. The use of space or proximity is a significant indicator
of how close or intimate we feel toward people.
Chronemics- is an attitude of time which disclose information with others about status
and relationship with others. It just our self-concept.
Artifacts- refer to the things a person owns, use, wear, and even discard convey
message about such person. It includes your preference, taste, resources or lack of it to
convey meanings.
Movement- is your posture, gesture, facial expression, body language and everything
you do are perhaps the most obvious in communicating messages.
Functions of Non-Verbal Communication
It can portray a massage both vocally and with the correct body signals for
gestures.
Psychologist Paul Eckman and Wallace Fresin (1969) identified six (6)
importance of non-verbal communication, in addition to the above. These are:
First, we can use nonverbal signals to emphasizes our words. All good
speakers know how to do this with forceful gestures, changes in vocal
volume or speech rate, deliberate pauses, and so forth…
Second, our nonverbal behavior can repeat what we say. We can say yes to someone
while nodding our head…
Third, nonverbal signals can substitute for words. Often, there isn’t much need to put
things in words. A simple gesturer can suffice( shaking your head to say no, using the
thumbs-up sign to say “Nice job, etc.)…
Fourth, we can use nonverbal signals to regulate speech. Called turn taking signals,
these gesture and vocalizations make it possible for alternate the conversational roles
of speaking and listening…
Fifth, nonverbal messages sometimes contradict what we say.
A friend tell us she had a great time at he beach, but were not sure
because her voice is flat and her face lacks emotion…
“Finally, we can use nonverbal signals to complement the verbal
content of our message. Being upset could mean we feel angry,
depressed, disappointed, or just a bit on edge. Nonverbal signals can
help us to clarify the words we use and reveal the true nature of our
feelings.”