14 Stress 15 Success
14 Stress 15 Success
14 Stress 15 Success
Stress – Good discussion of stress and its symptoms and long-term effects,
with focus on cardiovascular health. (Mount Sinai School of Medicine)
Exercise and eat regularly
Avoid excess caffeine intake which can increase feelings of anxiety and agitation
Avoid illegal drugs, alcohol and tobacco
Learn relaxation exercises (abdominal breathing and muscle relaxation
techniques)
Develop assertiveness training skills. For example, state feelings in polite firm
and not overly aggressive or passive ways: ("I feel angry when you yell at me”
"Please stop yelling.”)
Rehearse and practice situations which cause stress. One example is taking a
speech class if talking in front of a class makes you anxious
Learn practical coping skills. For example, break a large task into smaller, more
attainable tasks
Decrease negative self talk: challenge negative thoughts about yourself with
alternative neutral or positive thoughts. "My life will never get better” can be
transformed into "I may
Relax. It’s important to unwind. Each person has her own way to relax. Some
ways include deep breathing, yoga, meditation, and massage therapy. If you
can’t do these things, take a few minutes to sit, listen to soothing music, or read a
book.
Make time for yourself. It’s important to care for yourself. Think of this as an
order from your doctor, so you don’t feel guilty! No matter how busy you are,
you can try to set aside at least 15 minutes each day in your schedule to do
something for yourself, like taking a bubble bath, going for a walk, or calling a
friend.
Sleep. Sleeping is a great way to help both your body and mind. Your stress
could get worse if you don’t get enough sleep. You also can’t fight off sickness
as well when you sleep poorly. With enough sleep, you can tackle your problems
better and lower your risk for illness. Try to get seven to nine hours of sleep
every night.
Eat right. Try to fuel up with fruits, vegetables, and proteins. Good sources of
protein can be peanut butter, chicken, or tuna salad. Eat whole-grains, such as
wheat breads and wheat crackers. Don’t be fooled by the jolt you get from
caffeine or sugar. Your energy will wear off.
“To be totally without
stress is to be dead.”
- Hans Selye
Negative “bad” stress vs. Positive “good” stress – how
can that be?
This response provides the body with increased energy to deal with
perceived threatening situations whether real or imagined.
If we overuse it and
keep our body in a
near constant state
of arousal = painful
physical symptoms
Your body can’t distinguish between physical stress and
mental stress.
So your body is ready to FIGHT or FLEE even when that’s
not what you need to do
This activation is hard on your body and you’re more likely to
get sick if it continues
Sources are often different
◦ Married men show better mental health than married women
◦ Caring for children is more stressful than almost any job
Coping =control!
*How stressed we are
depends on how we
appraise events.*
Appraisal
Response
THREAT Panic,
(“Yikes, this is freeze up
Stressful event beyond me!”)
(tough math test)
CHALLENGE Aroused,
(“I’ve got to apply
focused all I know!”)
Locus of control: our belief about how much control we
have over our situations in our lives
They falsely mistake most people as being more like them than they
are
Thinking by itself is not a success