Perdev Lesson 4
Perdev Lesson 4
• Beneficial Stress
• Destructive Stress
STRESS AS STIMULUS
- Caused by
situations (which
often called
stressors)
STRESS AS RESPONSE
This is the aspect of
stress emphasized
by Selye (1956), the
way the body reacts
to challenging
situations.
STRESS AS RELATIONAL
Lazarus and Folkman's (1984)
definition of stress reflects very
clearly this way of thinking.
Assessment here means that
when a person allows
reasoning to prevail and weigh
the relevance or irrelevance of
situation.
Healthy Stress
It can motivate,
energize, and
produce fruitful
actions.
Two sources of Stress
Flight
• Restless legs and feet
• Feeling trapped
• Anxiety/ adrenaline
• Wide eyes
• Tense
Freeze
• Feeling numb
• Heart pounding
• Sense of dread
• Pale skin
• Holding breath/ restricted
breathing
Teens can handle stress with the following
behaviors and techniques:
1. Exercise and eat regularly
2. Avoid excess caffeine intake which can increase feelings of anxiety and
agitation
3. Avoid illegal drugs, alcohol and tobacco
4. Learn relaxation exercise (abdominal breathing and muscle relaxation
technique).
5. Develop assertiveness training skills. For example, state feelings in polite
firm and not overly aggressive or passive ways: (“I feel angry when you
yell at me”, “Please stop yelling”)
Teens can handle stress with the following
behaviors and techniques:
6. Rehearse and practice situations which cause stress.
7. Learn practical coping skills
8. Decrease negative self-talk: challenge negative thoughts about yourself
with alternative neutral or positive thoughts.
9. Learn to feel good about doing a competent or good enough job rather
than demanding perfection from yourself and others.
10. Take a break from stressful situations.
11. Build a network of friends who help you cope in a positive way.
ACTIVITY:
STRESS
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