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OUR YOUTH IN THE WEST




                                       2013
                            KHALED ALAZHARI
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5W

What is the subject ?: To solve one of the youth’
  problems in the west
                           ……………………………….
Who are we ? Parents and imams
why ? To learn how to deal with youth
Where ? Islamic center in Sydny
When ? Today 22-1-2013
what is the challenge?

          Three years ago, An old man came to me and
      asked to help him: I asked him what's the matter
      with you ?. He said: my daughter 23 years old
      wants to leave my home: I asked Why? He said
      "she used to come so late after midnight, I
      commanded her to come early and told her that is
      not compatible with our religion and morals .She
      screamed and refused to listen to any word from
      me and shouted " I'm free and I like it".
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T.C. K

                      Command
      23
     years




                                Knowledge
             Method

4
What are the reasons?



       Time is too late
       Communication is so poor and not effective
       Knowledge is not enough




5
Time
What is The Best Time For
    Teaching

       Before delivering the birth by choosing a good
        mother or father
       The First 6 Years is the Key!
       Selecting appropriate time for discussion or
        advice




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Communication




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9
Family Communication
     activities skills

        Eat dinner together.
        Invite your child to talk to you
         about her interests
        Engage in small talk with your
         family
        Couples need to have time
         together to discuss adult
         concerns

10
Communication skills with Adults

     AVOID THESE WORDS

     Haram
     Prevented
     To command
     Must , should




11
The prophetic method




                    Show the way and let him or her to go
                    Respect his or her dignity & thought


12
" I'm free
                  and
     Knowledge   I like it".




13
The pillars of Faith


     Belief in Allah;
     Belief in the angels;
     Belief in the revealed books;
     Belief in the commissioned
     Messengers (peace be upon
     them).
     Belief in the resurrection
     and the events of Qiyamah.
     Belief in the predestination
     by Allah of all things, both
     the (seemingly) good and
     the (seemingly) bad.
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The Five Pillars of Islam


     1) Testimony
     2) Prayer
     3) The 'Zakat'
     4) The Fast
     5) Pilgrimage
     (Hajj)

15
IHSAN
     Good Morals
      (PERFECT GOODNESS)




16
Jazakom Allah khaira




        Khaled Alazhari
         imamkhaled@gmail.com

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Our youth in the west

  • 1. OUR YOUTH IN THE WEST 2013 KHALED ALAZHARI 1
  • 2. 5W What is the subject ?: To solve one of the youth’ problems in the west ………………………………. Who are we ? Parents and imams why ? To learn how to deal with youth Where ? Islamic center in Sydny When ? Today 22-1-2013
  • 3. what is the challenge? Three years ago, An old man came to me and asked to help him: I asked him what's the matter with you ?. He said: my daughter 23 years old wants to leave my home: I asked Why? He said "she used to come so late after midnight, I commanded her to come early and told her that is not compatible with our religion and morals .She screamed and refused to listen to any word from me and shouted " I'm free and I like it". 3
  • 4. T.C. K Command 23 years Knowledge Method 4
  • 5. What are the reasons?  Time is too late  Communication is so poor and not effective  Knowledge is not enough 5
  • 7. What is The Best Time For Teaching  Before delivering the birth by choosing a good mother or father  The First 6 Years is the Key!  Selecting appropriate time for discussion or advice 7
  • 9. 9
  • 10. Family Communication activities skills  Eat dinner together.  Invite your child to talk to you about her interests  Engage in small talk with your family  Couples need to have time together to discuss adult concerns 10
  • 11. Communication skills with Adults AVOID THESE WORDS Haram Prevented To command Must , should 11
  • 12. The prophetic method Show the way and let him or her to go Respect his or her dignity & thought 12
  • 13. " I'm free and Knowledge I like it". 13
  • 14. The pillars of Faith Belief in Allah; Belief in the angels; Belief in the revealed books; Belief in the commissioned Messengers (peace be upon them). Belief in the resurrection and the events of Qiyamah. Belief in the predestination by Allah of all things, both the (seemingly) good and the (seemingly) bad. 14
  • 15. The Five Pillars of Islam 1) Testimony 2) Prayer 3) The 'Zakat' 4) The Fast 5) Pilgrimage (Hajj) 15
  • 16. IHSAN Good Morals (PERFECT GOODNESS) 16
  • 17. Jazakom Allah khaira  Khaled Alazhari imamkhaled@gmail.com 17