This document provides tips for building confidence. It suggests practicing good posture, making eye contact while shaking hands, smiling, walking faster, dressing well, exercising regularly, listening to motivational talks, complimenting others, sitting in the front row, speaking up in group discussions, practicing gratitude, and focusing on contributing to others rather than dwelling on your own flaws. The overall message is that small changes to your behaviors and mindset can help increase self-confidence over time.
2. Have confidence
Self confidence is the difference between feeling
unstoppable and feeling scared.
Your perception of yourself has a huge impact on others
and how others perceive you.
Perception is reality - the more self confidence you have,
the more likely it is you'll succeed.
You know what confident people look like, the advantages
they get and that it's something worth emulating.
17. Walk faster
An easy way to tell how a person feels.
Slow,tired, painful?
Energetic and purposeful?
Places to go, people to see..
Even if you are n't in a hurry, you can increase your self
confidence by putting some pep in your step.
Walking 25% faster will make you feel and look more
confident.
19. Dress to impress
No one is more conscious of the way you look than you.
If you've never taken steps to improve your wardrobe, you
may not realise the dramatic effect it can have on your
confidence levels.
When you don't look good, it affects the way you carry
yourself and interact.
When how you appear is in sync with how you want
people to view you, confidence can easily follow.
22. Get active!
If getting active and staying healthy were easy,everyone
would do it....but we don't.
The effects of working out on your confidence are so
overwhelming that it can't be understated.
When you exercise, your body releases a cocktail of
endorphins making you feel positive.
25. Compliment others
When we think negatively about ourselves, we often
project that feeling on to others in the form of insults and
gossip.
To break this cycle of negativity, get in the habit of praising
others.
Make an effort to praise and compliment, in the process
you will be appreciated and become well liked and in the
process build self confidence.
By looking for the best in others, you bring out the best in
yourself.
27. Sit in the front row
In Universities and meetings around the world people
constantly strive to sit at the back of the room.
Most people prefer the back because they're afraid of
being noticed.
By deciding to sit in the front row, you can get over this
irrational fear and build your self confidence.
You'll also be more visible to the key people talking from
the front of the room.
29. Speak up
During group discussions some people never speak up
because they're afraid that others will judge them for
saying something stupid.
This fear is n't really justified as people are far more
accepting than we imagine.
Most people are dealing with the exact same fears.
By making an effort to speak up at least once in every
group discussion you'll become a better public speaker
and more confident in your own thoughts.
31. Gratitude
When you focus too much on what you want, the mind
creates reasons why you can't have it.
This leads you to dwell on your weaknesses.
Therefore a great strategy to avoid this is by focusing on
everything you have to be grateful for.
Recall past successes, unique skills, loving relationships
32. Focus on contribution
We focus too much on ourselves and not on the needs of
others.
If you stop thinking about yourself and concentrate on the
contribution you are making to the rest of the world, you
won't worry as much about your own flaws.