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Good touch bad touch(safe and unsafe touch)

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Mitashi Pawar
Mitashi Pawar

This presentation will help you educate students about the various kinds of touch they get from people around them and how to differentiate between them.

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GOOD TOUCH (Safe touch) vs. BAD TOUCH (Unsafe touch)
• What do you mean by the word Good? • What do you mean by the word Bad?
• Touches and Feelings What do they mean?
• Good Touch – A good touch for me is when someone gives me a hug and says hi. – What about you?
• Bad Touch – Bad touch for me is when someone hits me. – Or someone who I don’t know touches me when I don’t want to be touched. – Or someone touches me, where I don’t want to be touched – What about you?
• Who according to you will give you a good touch? • What kind of a touch will they give you?
• Who according to you will give you a bad touch? • What kind of a touch will they give you?
Activity time: • Ask a volunteer to come up on to the stage and then do the following: • 1. Shake hands with the kid and ask other students to notice his/her facial expression. Let them judge whether he/she is happy or unhappy; whether it’s a good touch or a bad one. • 2. Next, again shake hands with the same kid but this time rub it for a little longer (making it a little uncomfortable for the kid) and ask the students to judge the facial expression and whether it’s a good touch or a bad touch.
• Story Narration: • In order to help kids understand better, narrate a story in which a kid of their age has experienced some kind of bad touch and how he/she dealt with it. • This will help them connect more with the topic.
How many of us like hugs, kisses, and touches from people we know, love, and trust?
• How about those same kinds of touches from people we do not know, do not like, or do not trust?
• When we get touches, we get feelings inside. Good touches give us good feelings.
• Sometimes touches can give us bad feelings inside . – Sad – Frightened – Unloved – Unwanted
• Do you like to be tickled? – How many of us do not like being tickled? – For those of us who like being tickled, is that a good touch or a bad touch? – For those of us who do not like being tickled, is that a good touch or a bad touch?
• Tickling!! – Sometimes even when we think tickling is a good touch it can become a bad touch. – Before we get started, can everyone give a thumbs up sign? How about a thumbs down sign? – Good! Now if you like to be tickled then give a thumbs up and if you do not like to be tickled then give a thumbs down.
• When tickling becomes bad touch. – It lasts too long – It is too hard – It starts to hurt – You start to cry – It gets hard to breathe – You are being touched in your private areas – Strangers like bus attendants, drivers or lift men try to tickle
• You make the call!!! If you get a touch you do not like what is it called? A Bad Touch!! • You are the one who decides what makes you uneasy!
• Make sure nobody touches you on your private parts except for your parents.
If someone gives you a bad touch then who can you tell? – Parents – Grandparents – Teacher – Other trusted adults
• Will it ever be your fault if someone tried to break a touching rule with you? No. • If it’s not your fault, • Whose fault is it? THE PERSON WHO DID THE TOUCHING.
Prepared by: Ms. Mitashi Pawar Psychological Counselor Email: mitashipawar@gmail.com

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Good touch bad touch(safe and unsafe touch)

  • 1. GOOD TOUCH (Safe touch) vs. BAD TOUCH (Unsafe touch)
  • 2. • What do you mean by the word Good? • What do you mean by the word Bad?
  • 4. • Good Touch – A good touch for me is when someone gives me a hug and says hi. – What about you?
  • 5. • Bad Touch – Bad touch for me is when someone hits me. – Or someone who I don’t know touches me when I don’t want to be touched. – Or someone touches me, where I don’t want to be touched – What about you?
  • 6. • Who according to you will give you a good touch? • What kind of a touch will they give you?
  • 7. • Who according to you will give you a bad touch? • What kind of a touch will they give you?
  • 8. Activity time: • Ask a volunteer to come up on to the stage and then do the following: • 1. Shake hands with the kid and ask other students to notice his/her facial expression. Let them judge whether he/she is happy or unhappy; whether it’s a good touch or a bad one. • 2. Next, again shake hands with the same kid but this time rub it for a little longer (making it a little uncomfortable for the kid) and ask the students to judge the facial expression and whether it’s a good touch or a bad touch.
  • 9. • Story Narration: • In order to help kids understand better, narrate a story in which a kid of their age has experienced some kind of bad touch and how he/she dealt with it. • This will help them connect more with the topic.
  • 10. How many of us like hugs, kisses, and touches from people we know, love, and trust?
  • 11. • How about those same kinds of touches from people we do not know, do not like, or do not trust?
  • 12. • When we get touches, we get feelings inside. Good touches give us good feelings.
  • 13. • Sometimes touches can give us bad feelings inside . – Sad – Frightened – Unloved – Unwanted
  • 14. • Do you like to be tickled? – How many of us do not like being tickled? – For those of us who like being tickled, is that a good touch or a bad touch? – For those of us who do not like being tickled, is that a good touch or a bad touch?
  • 15. • Tickling!! – Sometimes even when we think tickling is a good touch it can become a bad touch. – Before we get started, can everyone give a thumbs up sign? How about a thumbs down sign? – Good! Now if you like to be tickled then give a thumbs up and if you do not like to be tickled then give a thumbs down.
  • 16. • When tickling becomes bad touch. – It lasts too long – It is too hard – It starts to hurt – You start to cry – It gets hard to breathe – You are being touched in your private areas – Strangers like bus attendants, drivers or lift men try to tickle
  • 17. • You make the call!!! If you get a touch you do not like what is it called? A Bad Touch!! • You are the one who decides what makes you uneasy!
  • 18. • Make sure nobody touches you on your private parts except for your parents.
  • 19. If someone gives you a bad touch then who can you tell? – Parents – Grandparents – Teacher – Other trusted adults
  • 20. • Will it ever be your fault if someone tried to break a touching rule with you? No. • If it’s not your fault, • Whose fault is it? THE PERSON WHO DID THE TOUCHING.
  • 21. Prepared by: Ms. Mitashi Pawar Psychological Counselor Email: mitashipawar@gmail.com