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How to know your child is has a dependance syndrome

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One of the challenge of our children today is dependent syndrome.This problem sometimes goes without parents noting. This presentation should help parents get insight on the characteristics of children or even adults with dependence syndrome. www.crikeonline.org

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CHARACTERISTICS OF DEPENDENT CHILDREN CHARACTERISTICS OF DEPENDENT CHILDREN Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
Prepared by Stephen Kamore Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They have difficulty in making everyday decisions without excessive amount of advice and reassurance from others. They have difficulty in making everyday decisions without excessive amount of advice and reassurance from others. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They are passive and allow other people to take initiative and assume responsibility for most major areas of their life They are passive and allow other people to take initiative and assume responsibility for most major areas of their life Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They depend on parents to make decisions for them such as what they wear, whom to associate with, how to spend their free time or what college to attend They depend on parents to make decisions for them such as what they wear, whom to associate with, how to spend their free time or what college to attend Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They fear losing support and approval and have difficulty expressing disagreement with other people especially those they depend on. They can easily be victims of abuse. They fear losing support and approval and have difficulty expressing disagreement with other people especially those they depend on. They can easily be victims of abuse. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They feel unable to function alone. They agree with things that are wrong rather than taking risk of losing the help of those they depend on due to fear of getting alienated. They feel unable to function alone. They agree with things that are wrong rather than taking risk of losing the help of those they depend on due to fear of getting alienated. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They fear to initiate things or doing things independently. They lack self - confidence and believe they need help to begin and carry through work. They fear to initiate things or doing things independently. They lack self - confidence and believe they need help to begin and carry through work. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They wait for others to start things because they believe that others can do better. They wait for others to start things because they believe that others can do better. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They may be tempted to volunteer for unpleasant task. If such behaviour will bring the care they need. They may be tempted to volunteer for unpleasant task. If such behaviour will bring the care they need. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They are willing to submit to what others want, even if the demands are unreasonable. They make extraordinary self - sacrifices or tolerate verbal or physical or sexual abuse. They are willing to submit to what others want, even if the demands are unreasonable. They make extraordinary self - sacrifices or tolerate verbal or physical or sexual abuse. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They will “tag long” with important others just to avoid being alone even if they are not interested or involved in what is happening. They will “tag long” with important others just to avoid being alone even if they are not interested or involved in what is happening. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
When a close relationship breaks with a peer they tend to urgently seek another relationship to provide the needed care and support. When a close relationship breaks with a peer they tend to urgently seek another relationship to provide the needed care and support. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
They perceive themselves as totally dependent on the advice and help of significant others that they worry about being abandoned by others when there is no ground to justify such fear. They perceive themselves as totally dependent on the advice and help of significant others that they worry about being abandoned by others when there is no ground to justify such fear. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
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PURPOSE TO ENROLL YOUR SON NEXT EPISODE COMING IN APRIL 2019 For boys between 10 -18 years
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How to know your child is has a dependance syndrome

  • 1. CHARACTERISTICS OF DEPENDENT CHILDREN CHARACTERISTICS OF DEPENDENT CHILDREN Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 2. Prepared by Stephen Kamore Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 3. They have difficulty in making everyday decisions without excessive amount of advice and reassurance from others. They have difficulty in making everyday decisions without excessive amount of advice and reassurance from others. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 4. They are passive and allow other people to take initiative and assume responsibility for most major areas of their life They are passive and allow other people to take initiative and assume responsibility for most major areas of their life Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 5. They depend on parents to make decisions for them such as what they wear, whom to associate with, how to spend their free time or what college to attend They depend on parents to make decisions for them such as what they wear, whom to associate with, how to spend their free time or what college to attend Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 6. They fear losing support and approval and have difficulty expressing disagreement with other people especially those they depend on. They can easily be victims of abuse. They fear losing support and approval and have difficulty expressing disagreement with other people especially those they depend on. They can easily be victims of abuse. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 7. They feel unable to function alone. They agree with things that are wrong rather than taking risk of losing the help of those they depend on due to fear of getting alienated. They feel unable to function alone. They agree with things that are wrong rather than taking risk of losing the help of those they depend on due to fear of getting alienated. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 8. They fear to initiate things or doing things independently. They lack self - confidence and believe they need help to begin and carry through work. They fear to initiate things or doing things independently. They lack self - confidence and believe they need help to begin and carry through work. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 9. They wait for others to start things because they believe that others can do better. They wait for others to start things because they believe that others can do better. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 10. They may be tempted to volunteer for unpleasant task. If such behaviour will bring the care they need. They may be tempted to volunteer for unpleasant task. If such behaviour will bring the care they need. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 11. They are willing to submit to what others want, even if the demands are unreasonable. They make extraordinary self - sacrifices or tolerate verbal or physical or sexual abuse. They are willing to submit to what others want, even if the demands are unreasonable. They make extraordinary self - sacrifices or tolerate verbal or physical or sexual abuse. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 12. They will “tag long” with important others just to avoid being alone even if they are not interested or involved in what is happening. They will “tag long” with important others just to avoid being alone even if they are not interested or involved in what is happening. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 13. When a close relationship breaks with a peer they tend to urgently seek another relationship to provide the needed care and support. When a close relationship breaks with a peer they tend to urgently seek another relationship to provide the needed care and support. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 14. They perceive themselves as totally dependent on the advice and help of significant others that they worry about being abandoned by others when there is no ground to justify such fear. They perceive themselves as totally dependent on the advice and help of significant others that they worry about being abandoned by others when there is no ground to justify such fear. Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 15. WE FACILITATE EMPOWERMENT SEMINARS AND WORKSHOPS FOR PARENTS, EMPLOYEES, YOUTH AND LEADERS WE FACILITATE EMPOWERMENT SEMINARS AND WORKSHOPS FOR PARENTS, EMPLOYEES, YOUTH AND LEADERS Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 16. PURPOSE TO ENROLL YOUR SON NEXT EPISODE COMING IN APRIL 2019 For boys between 10 -18 years
  • 17. Follow us: www.crikeonline.org @ Counseling Research institute of Kenya @ Crike Kenya Or call : 0721345450 Follow us: www.crikeonline.org @ Counseling Research institute of Kenya @ Crike Kenya Or call : 0721345450 Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org
  • 18. Contact and follow us NOW Counseling Research Institute of Kenya www.crikeonline.org