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The Core Pattern
                 for Changing Minds™
                                                  @
                                     Friday, 29 March 2013

                                                   David Straker

Changing Works
                  The Core Pattern for Changing Minds (c) Changing Works Ltd   DS 310329   Page 1
The journey to the core pattern

                                                                 Leadership

                    Sales &
                                                                                   Psychology
                    Marketing

                                                                          The
    Storytelling                                                          Core                  Negotiation
                                                                         Pattern
                   Business                                                          Teaching
                   Change

                                                                 Counselling

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From practice to theory (and back again)


                                                 Disciplines
                                                                              What
                                                Techniques
                                                                              How
                                             Explanations


                                                     Theories
                                                                              Why



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The Core Pattern for Changing Minds™




   Information                        Trust                            Tension   Closure Commitment




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Tension


                                 I want                                       I have not




                                                                     Gaps
                          I fear                                                What may be

                               I am                                           I want to be

                      What is                                                    What should be

                                             Etc.                             Etc.



                 Tension = Total Gap
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Yerkes-Dodson curve

                                     Boredom                          Performance     Overload

                                      Tension-                                Flow      Relief-
                                      seeking                                          seeking
                 Performance




                                                                                      Collapse


                                                                      Tension
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Some gap variables

        • Time: Past – Present – Future
        • Ownership: Actual – Desired
        • Perception: Reality – Experience



        • Needs: Health, Belonging, Esteem, etc.
        • Values: What is good, right, important
        • Emotions: Love, anger, fear, etc.


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Cialdini’s Six Principles of Influence


                                                             Commitment
                                                                                 Social
         Reciprocity                                            and
                                                                                 Proof
                                                             Consistency




           Authority                                                    Liking   Scarcity




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Traditional selling


        Small talk


                                      Features &
                                       Benefits

                                                                                Closing
                                                                              Techniques

                                                                                           Objection-
                                                                                            Handling


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SPIN selling

        Situation
        Questions

                                        Problem
                                       Questions

                                                                              Implication
                                                                               Questions

                                                                                        Need-Payoff
                                                                                         Questions


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Principled Negotiation

     Go to the balcony


                 Step to their side


                                   Make it easy to say yes


                                                        Make it hard to say no


                                                                              Deploy your BATNA

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Tension at work




                                                      Workplace gaps include:

                                                                Understanding

                                                                      Motivation

                                                                              Ability

Changing Works
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Gaps in understanding

        • Sender: Unclear message
             Things missing, elaborations, distortions
             Assuming other think like me


        • Listener: Different cognitive structures
             Beliefs: Assumed truths, rights and wrongs
             Mental models: What works, how and why


   So:       Don’t just ‘communicate, communicate’
             Speak their language
             Check their understanding
Changing Works
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Gaps in motivation

        • Formal drivers
             Personal and organisational objectives
             Consequences of compliance or not


        • Personal motivations
             Ambitions and fears
             Pressures of external life


   So:       Don’t just tell or ‘vanilla sell’
             Ensure the whole organisation is aligned
             Speak to individual human concerns
Changing Works
                 The Core Pattern for Changing Minds (c) Changing Works Ltd   DS 310329   Page 14
Gaps in ability

        • Personal ability
             Skills and knowledge
             Technical and human


        • Organisational support
             Tools for the job
             Attention and escalation


   So: Don’t just allocate responsibility
             Ensure they are personally able
             Provide real operational support
Changing Works
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Major tension-closure pattern




                     Hurt                                           and
                                                                              Rescue




Changing Works
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Thank You
                                                             For more, see…

                                    http://changingminds.org




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  • 6. Yerkes-Dodson curve Boredom Performance Overload Tension- Flow Relief- seeking seeking Performance Collapse Tension Changing Works The Core Pattern for Changing Minds (c) Changing Works Ltd DS 310329 Page 6
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  • 8. Cialdini’s Six Principles of Influence Commitment Social Reciprocity and Proof Consistency Authority Liking Scarcity Changing Works The Core Pattern for Changing Minds (c) Changing Works Ltd DS 310329 Page 8
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  • 14. Gaps in motivation • Formal drivers Personal and organisational objectives Consequences of compliance or not • Personal motivations Ambitions and fears Pressures of external life So: Don’t just tell or ‘vanilla sell’ Ensure the whole organisation is aligned Speak to individual human concerns Changing Works The Core Pattern for Changing Minds (c) Changing Works Ltd DS 310329 Page 14
  • 15. Gaps in ability • Personal ability Skills and knowledge Technical and human • Organisational support Tools for the job Attention and escalation So: Don’t just allocate responsibility Ensure they are personally able Provide real operational support Changing Works The Core Pattern for Changing Minds (c) Changing Works Ltd DS 310329 Page 15
  • 16. Major tension-closure pattern Hurt and Rescue Changing Works The Core Pattern for Changing Minds (c) Changing Works Ltd DS 310329 Page 16
  • 17. Thank You For more, see… http://changingminds.org Changing Works The Core Pattern for Changing Minds (c) Changing Works Ltd DS 310329 Page 17