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WHAT GOT YOU HERE
        WON’T GET YOU THERE
How successful people become even more successful
Peter Drucker said “We spend
a lot of time teaching leaders
 what to do. We don’t spend
 enough time teaching leaders
        what to stop.”
Winning too much


   Argue too much
   Putting down people
   Ignore people
Adding too much value


   Great idea but would
    work better if….
   We already knew
    that…
   We know a better
    way….
Passing Judgment


   Grading peoples
  answer
 Taking peoples side
Making destructive comments



   That wasn’t bright..
   Do you remember
    the time you…
Starting with “no,” “but.” Or “however”



   Start sentence
    with
     No

     But

     however
Telling the world how smart we are



   Why are you
    bothering me with this
Speaking when angry



   When are angry we
    are speaking at an
    empty vassal.
Negativity or let me explain why that
won’t work.



   Only problem with that
    is….
Withholding information



   Simple solution :
    start sharing
Failing to give proper recognition



   If you want to tick
    people off; don’t
    recognize them
Claiming credit that we don’t deserve


   Give the due credit
    to the due person
Making excuses
   Blunt and subtle
   Dog ate my lunch
Clinging to the past


   Stop blaming others
    for choices you made
Playing favorites


   Why does the dog
    gets most of your
    attention ?
Refusing to express regret


   We rarely have to
    apologies for being
    right.
Not listening


   Wrong signal
     I don’t care
      about you
     You are wrong

     All of the above
Failing to express gratitude


   If you cant say
    anything say “THANK
    YOU”
Punishing the messenger


   Angry on employee who
    tells us something we
    don’t want to hear
Passing the buck



   Opposite of claiming
    the credit that
    others deserve
An excessive need to be me




   Me me me me
CONTACT ME

 Vinod Mehra
 Vinod.mehra@gmail.com

 www.vinodkmehra.com

 www.SalesGyan.com

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