Child Development, March/April 2002, Volume 73, Number 2, Pages 581–600
Emotion Regulation in Context: The Jealousy Complex between Young
Siblings and Its Relations with Child and Family Characteristics
Brenda L. Volling, Nancy L. McElwain, and Alison L. Miller
Jealousy is a social emotion that has received little attention by developmental researchers. The current study
examined sibling jealousy and its relations to child and family characteristics in 60 families with a 16-monthold toddler and an older preschool-age sibling. Sibling jealousy was elicited in social triads consisting of a parent (mother or father) and the two siblings. Positive marital relationship quality (i.e., love and relationship
maintenance) was a particularly strong predictor of the older siblings’ abilities to regulate jealousy reactions in
the mother sessions. Younger siblings’ jealous affect with mothers was linked to the child’s temperament,
whereas older siblings’ jealous affect with mothers was related to the child’s emotional understanding. Younger
siblings displayed more behavioral dysregulation in the mother–sibling triads if there was greater sibling rivalry reported by mothers. Session order (i.e., which sibling was challenged first in the jealousy paradigm) had
a strong effect on both the affect and behavioral dysregulation displayed by the older and younger siblings.
Results are discussed with respect to the need for future research to consider social relationships as developmental contexts for young children’s emotion regulation.
INTRODUCTION
Emotion regulation has recently received a great deal
of attention by developmental and clinical scholars.
Acquiring emotional control and managing one’s
emotions in social situations is considered a central
developmental task of early childhood (Kopp, 1989;
Sroufe, 1996; Thompson, 1994); yet, as Thompson
(1994) has noted, the concept of emotion regulation is
still “in search of definition,” and various definitions of
emotion regulation can be found (e.g., Cole, Michel, &
Teti, 1994; Garber & Dodge, 1991). Thompson (1994,
p. 28) offered the following definition: “Emotion regulation consists of the extrinsic and intrinsic processes
responsible for monitoring, evaluating, and modifying emotional reactions, especially their intensive and
temporal features, to accomplish one’s goals.” Even
though this definition, like others, underscores both
internal and external processes, Campos, Mumme,
Kermoian, and Campos (1994) pointed out that current
empirical work that examines emotion regulation tends
to focus on emotion regulation as an intrapersonal process and rarely considers the contextual factors that
may contribute to regulation strategies. According to
Campos et al. (1994, p. 298), “no treatment of emotion
regulation from a functionalist perspective can avoid
discussion of the social context that elicited the need
for regulation in the first place and that specifies the
rules of proper conduct.” The purpose of the present
report was to expand on the study of emotion regulation by examining the social emotion of jealousy and
its regulation in early childhood.
Even though the predominant model of much of
current emotion regulation research focuses on intra-
personal regulation, certain complex emotions, such
as jealousy, cannot be understood nor even defined
without reference to the interpersonal context. In the
present article, we argue that studying jealousy between young siblings provides a window on early
emotion regulation within the context of family relationships. The study of sibling jealousy underscores
the contextual sensitivity of certain emotional reactions, as well as the complexity of family dynamics in
contributing to and explaining emotional expression
and its regulation.
What Is Jealousy?
Jealousy is a complex social emotion, unlike the basic emotions of anger, fear, sadness, and joy. Jealousy
has been studied predominantly by social psychologists within the context of adult romantic relationships (see Salovey, 1991) and is not an emotion that
has garnered the attention of most developmental or
family researchers. This is rather unfortunate given
that concerns about childhood jealousy, often seen as
sibling rivalry, surface frequently in clinical and pediatric texts (DelGuidice, 1986; Griffin & De La Torre, 1985;
Leung & Robson, 1991; Neubauer, 1983; Pietropinto,
1985), as well as in dozens of books offering childrearing advice to parents (e.g., Bode, 1991; Faber & Mazlish, 1998; Goldenthal, 1999). As with most emerging
disciplines, research on romantic jealousy is littered
with controversy concerning the conceptualization,
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measurement, and causes of jealousy, and debates
have erupted over the distinction between jealousy
and envy; whether jealousy is a simple, complex, or
blended emotion; and whether it is caused by threats
to self-esteem or threats to a valued relationship (for
reviews of this literature, see Salovey, 1991; White and
Mullen, 1989). Although different definitions have
been formulated based on different theoretical orientations, the important point to be stressed for developmental researchers interested in the study of emotion is that jealousy absolutely cannot be defined nor
understood without reference to the social context.
Regardless of theoretical orientation, one distinguishing characteristic has continued to be underscored by
all jealousy theorists: jealousy occurs in the context of
a social triangle. It should be noted, however, that the
triangle may not always involve a third person, as in
the case of a woman who is jealous of her husband’s
love of golf. “What is always true is that jealousy involves a triangle of relations” (Parrott, 1991, p. 16).
The present study focused on the social triangle,
given our interest in sibling jealousy.
White and Mullen (1989) have referred to the “interpersonal jealousy system” to describe the system
of relationships between the three participants of the
social triangle. There are three dyadic relationships
within the triangle in addition to the triadic relationship system: (1) the relationship between the jealous
individual and the beloved (the primary or jealous relationship), (2) the relationship between the beloved
and the rival (the secondary or rival relationship),
and (3) the relationship between the jealous individual and the rival (the adverse relationship). Several
criteria need to be satisfied for the emotion of jealousy
to be elicited. As already mentioned, jealousy occurs
within a social triangle, yet any three people randomly grouped together will not elicit jealousy. Thus,
a second requirement is that the relationship between
the jealous person and the beloved must be a valued
close relationship. This relationship need not be a
love relationship, but often the most powerful jealousy reactions are observed when a love relationship
is involved (Buss, 2000). Third, jealousy is triggered
by the real or perceived loss of this relationship to a
rival. The feelings arising from the loss of a love relationship due to death or separation would not constitute jealousy. Finally, it is not simply the loss of
love that produces jealousy, because jealousy can occur in nonromantic relationships. Tov-Ruach (1980)
claims it is the loss of formative attention (i.e., the attention that sustains one’s self-concept) from the beloved to a rival that is similar across all forms of jealousy. Young siblings are no doubt reacting to this
loss of formative attention when a parent turns his or
her attention from them and interacts with their
brother or sister.
The definition of jealousy and the theoretical
framework guiding the current work is based on the
original model of romantic jealousy proposed by
White and Mullen (1989, p. 1): “. . . jealousy is neither
an emotion, nor merely a state of mind, still less a way
of behaving. Rather, we believe it is more useful to
think of jealousy as particular patterns of emotions,
thoughts, and actions that emerge in particular social
and psychological situations.” Jealousy, then, is an organized complex of emotions, cognitions, and behaviors following the threat to or loss of a beloved relationship to a rival. In the world of siblings, the
beloved is one’s parent and the rival is one’s sibling.
Consistent with White and Mullen (1989), we use
the term jealousy complex to underscore this notion
that jealousy is a complex of interrelated affects, behaviors, and cognitions organized within a specific
social context (for a similar discussion on the organization of emotion, see Averill, 1997). In any jealousyinducing situation, there may be several possible jealousy complexes, and different complexes may be
seen in different social triangles. Thus, there is no single complex of behaviors, emotions, or cognitions
that would constitute the jealousy response. For example, one complex may include a cognitive appraisal of
potentially losing the relationship to another, the emotional expression of sadness, and behavioral withdrawal from the beloved; whereas another complex
might include a cognitive appraisal of the partner’s
betrayal, the emotional expression of anger, and aggression against the partner as a behavioral response.
The current research sought to examine the interrelations between expressed emotions and behavioral
coping in a laboratory-based jealousy paradigm. Given
the young age of the children studied, we did not focus on cognitive factors such as primary appraisal
processes, because these were well beyond the developmental level of the young children studied. Observable behaviors and emotional expressions seemed like
a more plausible place to begin.
White and Mullen’s (1989) model is consistent with
current developmental thinking that underscores the
organization of behavior, affect, and cognition (Sroufe,
1996), as well as with dynamic systems and transactional models of emotional development (Fogel et al.,
1992; Izard, 1991; Sameroff & Emde, 1989). Jealousy
not only defines the person (i.e., the intrapersonal), it
also defines a social situation (i.e., the interpersonal).
Any person within the triad is embedded within a
more complex network of relationships and any
change in one component of the system (intrapersonal or interpersonal) can bring about change in an-
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other. These dynamic transactions between person
and context can change over time as children mature
and relationships change. It is possible, however, that
the jealousy complex remains stable over time. In
other words, even though observable behaviors and
emotional expressions may change, continuity may
still be seen in the underlying organization of the response (e.g., a focus on betrayal, aggression, and anger). Finally, characteristics of the siblings, characteristics of their parents, the quality of the relationships
within the social triangle, and external features of the
social environment contribute to both the intrapersonal and interpersonal dynamics of jealousy.
The Emotional Experience of Jealousy
What exactly is the emotional experience of jealousy? Several have proposed that jealousy is a compound or blended emotion consisting of anger, sadness, or fear (Izard, 1991; Plutchik, 1980), but Hupka
(1984) has shown quite convincingly that individuals
in jealousy-inducing situations express a range of emotions including fear, anger, or even relief, depending on
the individual’s focus of attention with respect to
the social triangle. If individuals focus on the loss of
the relationship, for instance, sadness may be reported; if they focus on the betrayal of their partner,
they may feel anger; and if they focus on being left
alone, they may feel anxiety or fear. Thus, Hupka suggests that the term jealousy does not describe the
emotional experience, but provides the explanation
of the experience. The basic emotions are sufficient to
describe the emotional expressions observed. As
Hupka notes, jealous people feel anger, but if asked
“why are they angry?”, the explanation given is “because they are jealous.” In the current work, the basic
emotional expressions of anger, distress, sadness, and
fear were coded from observations of triadic interaction involving a parent, child, and sibling, and the explanation for why these emotions were expressed in
these social triangles was assumed to be due to the
child’s jealousy.
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beloved or the rival, developing alternative sources of
pleasure, or avoidance of the social situation. Several
of these regulatory strategies bear little resemblance
to those coded frequently in current developmental
research examining the self-regulation of infants, toddlers, or preschoolers (e.g., Buss & Goldsmith, 1998;
Calkins & Johnson, 1998). Jealousy, however, is a social emotion. Therefore, the repertoire of regulatory
strategies coded for toddlers and preschoolers in jealousy situations must include how these young children
cope by altering the constellation of social relationships
giving rise to the jealous emotional experience. The
current research focused on three possible behavioral
coping strategies that might be used by toddler and
preschool siblings when confronted with jealousy: (1)
attempts to interfere with the interaction between the
sibling and the parent, (2) directing hostility toward
either parent or sibling, and (3) focusing attention on
alternative pleasurable activities (i.e., play).
Can Young Children Experience Jealousy?
Is there empirical evidence to suggest that young
children respond to the loss of a formative relationship with a beloved? Several lines of research indicate
that very young children are sensitive to the loss of
parental attention to another. First, Dunn (Dunn,
1988; Dunn & Kendrick, 1982) has reported that toddler and preschool children were very attuned to the
interactions occurring between their parents and
their sibling and would often try to disrupt the ongoing interaction. Second, the few extant studies that
addressed childhood jealousy have documented that
children as young as 1 year of age were sensitive to
maternal attention directed toward an infant-size doll
(Hart, Field, DelValle, & Letourneau, 1998; Hart, Field,
Letourneau, & DelValle, 1998), a newborn infant (Case,
Hayward, Lewis, & Hurst, 1988), or an unfamiliar
peer (Case et al., 1988; Masciuch & Kienapple, 1993).
It appears, then, that even infants and young children
are sensitive to the loss of attention from parents to
another, whether this loss is experienced in relation
to a doll, a peer, or a sibling.
Coping with the Emotional Experience of Jealousy
How do individuals cope with jealousy and regulate
the emotional reaction? Based on Lazarus’s (Lazarus &
Folkman, 1984) cognitive–transactional theory of stress
and coping, White and Mullen (1989) offered several
possible coping responses that individuals may use
once they have appraised the threat of a rival relationship. Examples included attempts to improve one’s primary relationship, interference with the rival relationship, seeking support from others, derogating the
Sibling Jealousy in Early Childhood
Sibling jealousy has been described by Parrott
(1991, p. 17) as the “most powerful jealousy of youth”
and the parent–child relationship that is threatened
by a sibling rival is the most important and formative
relationship of a young child’s early life. Adults have
actually used terms such as “total rage,” “ferocious,”
and “outrageous” to describe their jealousy reactions
upon learning of the betrayal of a romantic partner
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(Bernhard, 1986); yet, little is known about the intensity of jealousy between young siblings. What is
known is that parents cannot attend and respond to
both children’s needs at all times. Thus, intense jealousy could very well be a normal, perhaps daily, experience for these young children.
In an earlier article (Miller, Volling, & McElwain,
2000), we reported on the development and validation of a laboratory-based, observational protocol designed to elicit jealousy reactions in young toddler
and preschool siblings. During observations of social
triangles involving the mother and the siblings, and
the father and the siblings, we found that both older
and younger siblings were more likely to express jealousy (i.e., sadness and distress) during sessions in
which the parent’s attention was directed toward the
sibling than when the parent was interacting with the
child. Further, there were developmental differences
in the older and younger siblings’ jealousy responses,
with older children much less likely to show negative
affect and better able to focus attention and play during the jealousy paradigm. This earlier study also examined consistent individual differences in parent and
child behaviors across siblings; the associations between parent behaviors and child behaviors within the
jealousy session; and finally, differences in how
mothers and fathers responded to jealousy with older
and younger siblings.
The current work extended this earlier research in
several ways. First, the intercorrelations between children’s expressed emotion and their behavioral coping
were examined within the jealousy triangle in an effort to determine whether affect and behavior were organized in line with the notion of a jealousy complex.
Second, children’s jealousy responses were addressed
with mothers and fathers to ascertain whether there
was consistency across social triangles with respect to
children’s jealousy or whether these responses were
sensitive to, and therefore, specific to a given social
triangle. Third, family and child correlates of young
children’s jealousy reactions were examined. Specifically, this study addressed whether children’s emotional understanding, negative emotionality, their attachment relationships to mother and father, parenting
behavior, and the quality of marital and sibling relationships predicted both the older and younger siblings’ jealousy with mothers and fathers.
METHOD
Participants
Study participants included mothers, fathers, and
sibling pairs from 60 maritally intact families who
were participating in a short-term longitudinal study
of parent–child and sibling relationships in infancy
and early childhood. Families were initially recruited
from birth announcements, local day-care centers,
and through referrals from participating families.
Families were required to meet three criteria to be eligible for the study: (1) intact marital status; (2) participation from both mothers and fathers; and (3) at least
two children in the family, with the youngest child
nearing 12 months of age and the older sibling between the ages of 2 and 6 years. Of the total families
meeting study criteria, 69% agreed to participate. All
parents were the biological mothers and fathers of the
two children. Participating families were primarily
European American (n 5 56), with one Native American couple and three interracial couples. Parents had
been married for an average of 7 years (range 5 3–16
years). On average, fathers were 35.6 years old and
had completed 17.4 years of education, whereas
mothers were, on average, 33.2 years old and had
completed 16.5 years of education. The mean family
income was $73,607 (SD 5 $41,791). The age of the
younger sibling (toddler) in all families was 16
months at the time of the third visit the mean age of
the older sibling was 50 months (range 5 2–6 years),
and the average age space between siblings was 35
months (range 5 11–68 months). Most of the toddlers
in the study (n 5 44) were second-born; the remaining
16 toddlers were third- through fifth-born. For families with more than two children, the older sibling
closest in age to the 16-month-old was asked to participate. The sample included 20 girl/girl dyads
(younger/older), 14 boy/boy dyads, 10 girl/boy
dyads, and 16 boy/girl dyads.
Procedures
Families were invited to participate in laboratory
visits when the younger sibling was 12, 13, and 16
months of age. The 12- and 13-month visits were counterbalanced assessments of mother–infant and father–
infant interaction and will be referred to as 12/13
month visits throughout. Data for the current report
are from the triadic interactions involving parents and
siblings completed during the 16-month visit. The 16month laboratory visit was approximately 90 min and
included (1) a puppet interview with the older sibling;
(2) 15 min of family free play involving mother, father,
and the two siblings; (3) a 10-min sibling free-play session during which parents completed questionnaires
at a nearby table; (4) triadic interaction with first parent
(9 min); (5) triadic interaction with second parent (9
min); (6) a separation (5 min), (7) a 3-min reunion with
the entire family; and (8) a 5-min family cleanup. All
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sessions were videotaped in the laboratory with the
use of wall-mounted cameras and split-screen capability. Mothers and fathers were also asked to complete a
series of questionnaires to assess the marital relationship and children’s temperament (at 12/13 months), as
well as sibling relationship quality (at 16 months). At
12/13 months, mothers and fathers completed the Attachment Q-Set (AQS; Waters & Deane, 1985) for older
siblings and the Strange Situation was conducted to assess infant–mother and infant–father attachments for
the younger sibling. Finally, the older siblings’ emotional understanding was assessed during the puppet
interview at the 16-month visit.
Observations of Social Triangles
At the 16-month visit, siblings were videotaped in
a triadic interaction paradigm (once with mother and
once with father) similar to one developed by Teti and
Ablard (1989). Parents were given an attractive toy (a
Lego™ playset or a talking phone) to use during the
interaction sessions (order of the mother and father
sessions was counterbalanced). Family triads were
videotaped in three 3-min sessions. In the first 3-min
session, the parent was instructed to focus on one
child (either the older sibling or the toddler, determined by counterbalancing) while encouraging the
other child to play with other toys in the room. Parents were instructed to interact with their children as
they would at home if a new toy were brought into
the house (e.g., a birthday gift). For the second, 3-min
session, parents switched their involvement and
played with the other child, while the first child was
instructed to play with other toys in the room. After
this 3-min session, the parent was instructed to play
with both children in any way he or she chose. This
third session was viewed as a transitional period between the mother and father sessions and was intended to alleviate any distress that may have been
elicited during the jealousy sessions. Toddler jealousy
was the focus during the sessions in which the parent
was involved with the older sibling, whereas older
sibling jealousy was the focus during parent–toddler
interaction sessions. Only child behavior and emotions observed during these sessions were of interest
to this investigation.
This triadic paradigm reliably elicits jealousy reactions in young children (Miller et al., 2000). Mean differences as a function of sibling, parent, and context
(challenged versus involved) along with cross-sibling
correlations and correlations between sibling and
parent behavior using the triadic observational paradigm with the current sample can be found in our earlier article (Miller et al., 2000).
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Observational coding of emotional displays and behavior. Videotapes of the triadic sessions were coded
using global ratings for the toddlers’ and older siblings’ emotional displays and 15-s interval sampling
for the children’s behavioral coping strategies and
parent behavior. Global rating scales of emotional displays were used to represent the emotional dynamics
(i.e., intensity and duration), as well as the emotional
meaning of the interaction (Bakeman & Gottman,
1997; Sroufe, 1996; Thompson, 1994). Interval coding
was used for behavioral coding because others have
noted that these coding schemes are best for capturing discrete behaviors (e.g., Isabella & Belsky, 1991).
Independent raters (n 5 7) assessed toddlers and
older children in the same session, and the same child
across sessions with mothers and fathers. Behaviors
and emotions were coded by the same coder, but during separate passes through the videotape. Coders
were trained on a subsample of tapes until interobserver agreement was 80% or higher. Reliability for
parent and child codes was calculated on approximately 20% of mother and father sessions. Cohen’s k
coefficients are reported below after the description
of the codes. Weighted k coefficients were used to
calculate reliability for the global scales, because
these are considered more appropriate for assessing
the reliability of rating scales (Bakeman & Gottman,
1997).
Global emotional displays. Children’s emotional displays were rated globally during each 3-min segment
and captured affective expressions indicating jealousy reactions (e.g., anger, fear, and sadness). The
emotional display codes were adapted from previous
work by Cole and colleagues (Cole, Barrett, & ZahnWaxler, 1992; Cole, Zahn-Waxler, & Smith, 1994). Each
emotion was coded on a 7-point scale, ranging from 0
(no display of emotion during segment) to 6 (frequent
and full displays of emotion during segment). The
global rating took into consideration the intensity, as
well as the frequency and duration, of emotional displays during the entire 3-min segment. Facial expression and vocal tone were considered when rating global
sadness (e.g., turned-down facial expression, whining voice, and slackening of muscular tone in face or
body; weighted k 5 .82), anger (e.g., hostility, annoyance, and harsh tone of voice; weighted k 5 .77), and
fear/anxiety (e.g., nervousness, fearfulness, and constricted strain in voice; k 5 .47) for older siblings. Because fear/anxiety for the older sibling was coded infrequently and the reliability for this code was low, it
was dropped from analyses.
Global ratings of toddlers’ distress (e.g., fussing,
whining, and crying; weighted k 5 .72) were also
coded on a 7-point scale. Toddlers’ negative affect
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was limited to this more encompassing “distress”
code because it is often difficult to distinguish among
anger, fear, and sadness in infant distress reactions
(Sroufe, 1996). Young children can experience distress
for a number of reasons other than jealousy. In the
present study, toddler distress was not coded as a jealousy response if it occurred in response to parental
prohibitions in other parts of the room (e.g., parent retrieves wandering toddler from climbing on chair),
frustration with an object (e.g., toddler is unable to
open cabinet door), or pain (e.g., toddler stands up
and bumps head on table). Distress was coded as a
jealousy response when it was directed at the parent–
sibling interaction (e.g., trying to get toy from sibling,
pushing self into parent’s lap, parent prohibiting toddler from playing with new toy). As a result, we were
fairly confident that the toddler’s distress was due
more to jealousy than to the other possible sources of
distress reactions listed above.
Child behavioral coping. Child and toddler behaviors were coded for each 15-s interval of the 3-min session as a means of assessing coping behaviors. Older
siblings’ and toddlers’ behaviors were coded for the
presence or absence of distracting the parent and/or
sibling from their activity (e.g., placing self between
parent and sibling; k 5 .82). As a means of assessing
the children’s ability to regulate their emotions in this
context and focus on an alternate pleasurable activity,
the older children’s and toddlers’ play involvement
was coded, weighted k 5 .87 for older sibling and .84
for younger sibling. This captured the extent to which
the challenged child was able to focus his or her attention on an alternative activity and play with other
toys in the room. Play involvement was coded on a 3point scale, ranging from 1 (uninvolved in play by
self) to 3 (fully involved with a toy or an activity by
self). Mean scores were created for each child behavior by summing across intervals and dividing by the
number of 15-s intervals coded during the session.
Disruptive behavior was captured by three codes:
negativity toward parent, negativity toward sibling
(e.g., hitting, pushing), and rough play (e.g., banging
toy in an aggressive or inappropriate manner). Each
was coded as present or absent during each of the 15-s
intervals and a composite of the older siblings’ hostile
behavior was created by summing across all three categories, k 5 .60. Negativity toward parent and sibling,
as well as rough play, rarely occurred for the younger
toddlers and these were not considered further.
Parent behavior. To provide a stringent test of the
unique effect of child and family characteristics on
sibling jealousy, it was necessary to control for parent
behavior observed during the triadic interaction. The
presence or absence of three parenting behaviors was
coded using 15-s interval sampling to assess the parents’ behavior in response to the children’s bids for attention during the jealousy paradigm. Parent codes
were based on the work of Belsky, Youngblade, Rovine, and Volling (1991) and included facilitative (e.g.,
uses reasoning; maintains warm, nurturing tone of
voice), controlling (e.g., uses commands, harsh tone
of voice), and unresponsive (e.g., ignores child’s bids)
behaviors. Interobserver agreement averaged 96%,
Cohen’s k 5 .83, for parent behavior codes. A proportion score was created for each parenting behavior in
which the sum of that behavior (e.g., facilitative) was
divided by total parenting behavior (facilitative 1 controlling 1 unresponsive) observed during the triadic
session. Parents were more likely to use facilitative behavior than controlling or unresponsive behavior in response to their children’s bids for attention (see Miller
et al., 2000). Therefore, only facilitative behavior was
included as the parental control variable in subsequent multivariate analyses.
Measures of Emotionality, Emotion Understanding,
and Family Relationship Functioning
Evaluation of the sibling relationship. To assess the
older sibling’s behavior, mothers and fathers completed 49 items of a modified version of the Sibling Inventory of Behavior (SIB; Schaefer & Edgerton, 1981)
developed by Hetherington and Clingempeel (1992),
which has six sibling relationship scales: involvement, empathy, rivalry, avoidance, aggression, and
teaching. Each item was answered using a 5-point
Likert scale, ranging from 1 (never) to 5 (always). A
15-item positive involvement scale consisting of the
sum of teaching, empathy, and involvement, a 5 .84
and .85 for mothers and fathers, respectively (e.g.,
“treats younger sibling as a good friend”) and a 12item aggressive rivalry scale consisting of the sum of
rivalry and aggression, a 5 .91 for both mothers and
fathers (e.g., “is very competitive with younger sibling”) were created. The five-item avoidance scale
was dropped because the internal consistency for one
of the scales was low, a 5 .43 and .69 for mothers and
fathers, respectively. Because many of the items on
the original SIB were inappropriate for a 16-monthold toddler (e.g., “makes plans that include the older
sibling”; “babysits the older sibling”), parents completed only 13 items from the SIB and an additional 18
items from the Sibling Relationships in Early Childhood questionnaire (Volling, 1997; Volling & Elins,
1998). Each item was answered on a 5-point Likert
scale from 1 (never) to 5 (always). Intercorrelations
between these items were examined and revealed
two internally consistent dimensions for the younger
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siblings’ behavior that corresponded closely to the
two scales used for the older siblings: (1) an eightitem positive involvement scale, a 5 .86 and .76 for
mothers and fathers, respectively (e.g., “has fun or a
good time with sibling”); and (2) a seven-item conflict/rivalry scale, a 5 .73 and .61 (e.g., “has physical
fights with older sibling, not just for fun”).
Correlations between mothers’ and fathers’ reports
were fairly low for the younger siblings, average
cross-parent r 5 .20, and moderate for the older siblings, average cross-parent r 5 .45. Dynamics within
the social triangles with mothers and fathers might be
very different given that mothers and fathers may
favor or treat the two children differently (Volling &
Elins, 1998). The individual parent’s perceptions of
sibling behavior may be a better predictor of the children’s jealousy within a specific social triangle involving either the mother or the father. Therefore,
mothers’ reports to predict the siblings’ jealousy in
mother sessions and fathers’ reports to predict the
children’s jealousy in the father sessions were used.
Assessment of the marital relationship. Husbands and
wives completed the Intimate Relations Scale (Braiker
& Kelley, 1979). This 25-item questionnaire assessed
four interpersonal aspects of the marital relationship:
(1) maintenance (five items)—the extent to which
spouses attempted to enrich, improve, and maintain
their relationship, a 5 .78 and .75 for wives and husbands, respectively; (2) conflict (five items)—the extent to which couples engaged in marital disputes, a 5
.79 and .86; (3) love (10 items)—the extent to which
spouses reported feelings of love for one another, a 5
.92 and .93; and (4) ambivalence (five items)—the extent to which spouses reported ambivalent feelings
about their relationship, a 5 .87 and .67. Items were
answered on a 9-point Likert scale ranging from 1
(very little or not at all) to 9 (very much or extremely).
Because of the significant intercorrelations between
marital scales, husbands’ and wives’ reports were
first standardized and then two composites were
formed: (1) positive marital relations, which was the
sum of marital love and maintenance, rs 5 .52 for
mothers and .56 for fathers, p , .001; and (2) negative
marital relations, which was the sum of marital conflict and feelings of ambivalence, rs 5 .57 for mothers
and .71 for fathers, p , .001. Given that husbands’ and
wives’ composites were highly intercorrelated, r 5 .52
for positive marriage and r 5 .75 for negative marriage, p , .001, husbands’ and wives’ scores were averaged to create global composites of positive and
negative marital relationship quality.
Preschooler’s attachment to mothers and fathers. The
AQS (Waters & Deane, 1985) was completed by
mothers and fathers to assess the attachment relation-
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ship between each parent and the older sibling.
Mothers and fathers each received materials and detailed instructions for the AQS during the 12/13month visits. The AQS consists of 90 cards, with each
card describing a young child’s behavior in the home
(e.g., easily comforted by adult; explores objects thoroughly). Parents were instructed to read through all
the cards, then put the sorting task away for a week
and watch their child at home. After 1 week, parents
sorted the 90 cards into nine piles (10 cards each)
ranging from “least characteristic” to “most characteristic” of their child. Teti and McGourty (1996) have
recently shown mothers’ AQS assessments were significantly correlated with AQS assessments conducted
by “blind” observers and concluded that mothers
should be preferred raters for the AQS because they
observe a broader, more representative sample of
children’s behavior in the home. Although fathers’
AQS assessments were not examined by Teti and McGourty (1996), we argue that fathers should also be
viewed as preferred raters given their frequent interaction with their children in the home. Scores of attachment security for the older siblings were calculated by correlating mothers’ and fathers’ sorts with a
criterion sort representing the hypothetically “most
secure” child. Higher scores indicate a closer fit to the
criterion sort for a securely attached child. For purposes of data analyses, Fisher’s r-to-z transformation
was used to transform the correlation coefficients.
Three mothers and four fathers did not return the
AQS, and therefore, these families’ data were missing
for analyses examining the older siblings’ attachment
security (n 5 57 and 56, respectively). Mothers’ and
fathers’ scores were uncorrelated, r 5 2.01.
Infant–parent attachment. Infants were observed at
12 and 13 months of age (counterbalanced across parents) in the Strange Situation following procedures
outlined by Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters, and Wall
(1978). The Strange Situation is a standardized procedure consisting of seven, 3-min episodes in which infants are exposed to increasing levels of stress in an
effort to examine whether they use the parent as a secure base to explore and rely on the parent to provide
comfort. On the basis of the infants’ exploratory behavior, their orientation to the stranger and their
behavior on reunion with the parent, infant–parent
relationships are classified into three types of attachment: Infants who greet the parent positively on reunion, approach the parent, and find comfort in contact with the parent when distressed are classified as
securely attached; infants who turn away from the
parent on reunion or avoid interaction are classified
as insecure–avoidant; and infants who have difficulty being comforted by the parent on reunion and
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who both seek and resist contact with the parent are
classified as insecure–resistant/ambivalent. All Strange
Situations were videotaped and subsequently coded
as insecure–avoidant (A), secure (B), or insecure–
resistant (C), according to the classification system of
Ainsworth et al. (1978). Videotapes were scored by
three coders who had achieved acceptable reliability
with a coding tape provided by L. Alan Sroufe prior
to coding. Interrater reliability among the three coders was 84%, k 5 .76. Disagreements on classifications
were resolved by consensus.
Of the 60 father – infant dyads classified, 20%
were insecure – avoidant (n 5 12), 58.3% were secure
(n 5 35), and 21.7% were insecure – resistant (n 5 13).
For the mother – infant dyads, 15.3% were classified
as insecure – avoidant (n 5 9), 69.4% as secure (n 5
41), and 15.3% as insecure – resistant (n 5 9). Because
of video equipment problems, Strange Situation
data were missing for 1 of the mother – infant dyads.
Two attachment groups were created by collapsing
the avoidant and resistant classifications into one insecure group and comparing it with the secure
group.
Emotion understanding of older sibling. Older siblings’ understanding of emotions was assessed using
Denham’s (1986) puppet interview at the 16-month
visit. Children were introduced to a puppet of the
same gender and shown four faces (happy, sad, angry, and scared) that could be affixed to the puppet’s
face. Children were first asked to label each expression (“How does Jenny/Johnny feel when she/he
wears this face?”) and point to the face that matched
the label provided by the interviewer (“Show me a
face where Jenny/Johnny feels happy”). Children
were then presented with 15 vignettes depicting emotional reactions to different situations and asked to
choose the face that matched the story character’s
emotion (“Can you find the face that shows how
Jenny/Johnny feels?”). In eight vignettes, the story
character’s emotional reaction was typical for the
given situation (e.g., being scared after having a bad
dream); whereas in seven nontypical vignettes, the
emotional reaction was more equivocal. Prior to the
interview, parents had been asked how their child
would most likely feel in these nontypical situations
(e.g., scared of a big dog) and a different emotional reaction was presented to the child during the interview (e.g., happy to see a big dog). Children’s responses
to each of the 15 vignettes were coded according to procedures used by Denham (1986) wherein children received 2 points for the correct identification of an
emotion (e.g., picking an angry face when the target
emotion was anger), 1 point for correct valence (e.g.,
picking a sad face when the target emotion was
scared), and 0 for incorrect valence (e.g., choosing a
happy face when the target emotion was anger) or no
response.
Because many of the youngest children did not respond to all vignettes, missing data were not randomly distributed within the sample. A simple sum
of scores across the 15 vignettes would mean the
younger children would be excluded from all analyses and the results would only be representative of
the older children in the sample who had scores on all
15 vignettes. Further, because the nontypical vignettes
required parents to tell the experimenter which emotion the child might display in a particular situation,
children were often being tested on different emotions during the last seven vignettes (e.g., some parents claimed the child would be scared in response to a
big dog, whereas others claimed the child would be
happy). Therefore, we composited across the vignettes
in a manner that allowed the youngest children to be
included in the analyses and also took into consideration the number of times a child was tested on a specific emotion. An emotion understanding score was
computed by first averaging responses across each individual emotion (i.e., happy, sad, angry, and scared),
yielding four scores ranging from 0 to 2. These four
scores were then summed to create a total score, ranging from 0 to 8. One child refused to participate in the
interview; thus, data were available for 59 children.
Temperament. The Toddler Behavior Assessment
Questionnaire (TBAQ; Goldsmith, 1996) was given to
both mothers and fathers at the 12/13 month visits to
be completed for the older siblings, and the IBQ (Rothbart, 1981) was completed by mothers and fathers at
12/13 months for the younger siblings. The TBAQ subscales included activity level, social fear, anger proneness, tendency to express pleasure, and interest/persistence; whereas the IBQ subscales included activity
level, smiling and laughter, distress and latency to approach sudden or novel stimuli, distress to limitations,
soothability, and duration of orienting. Parents rated
how often their child performed certain behaviors
using a 7-point scale (1 5 never; 7 5 always), and mean
scores were calculated across subscale items. The IBQ
and TBAQ were developed as parallel temperament
measures for younger and older children, and have
good convergent and discriminant validity (Goldsmith, Rieser-Danner, & Briggs, 1991). Prior research
has found greater conflict and rivalry between siblings
high on negative emotionality (e.g., Stoneman &
Brody, 1993). Therefore, only the anger proneness scale
from the TBAQ for older siblings and the distress to
limitations scale from the IBQ for younger siblings
were chosen to be included in the analyses. Internal
consistency for these two subscales were anger prone-
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ness: father 5 .92, mother 5 .85; and distress to limitations: father 5 .82, mother 5 .84. Correlations between
mothers’ and fathers’ reports of temperament revealed
moderate associations (older siblings’ proneness to anger, r 5 .37, p , .01; younger siblings’ distress to limitations, r 5 .26, p , .05. To increase construct validity
(Rushton, Brainerd, & Pressley, 1983), mothers’ and
fathers’ reports were averaged to create one score for
each child and are referred to as temperamental anger
throughout the remainder of this article.
The intercorrelations, means, and standard deviations for all independent variables are presented in
Table 1 for descriptive purposes only and will not be
discussed further.
RESULTS
In an effort to address the coherence of emotional expression and behavior elicited in the triadic paradigm,
intercorrelations between emotional expressions and
behavioral coping strategies were examined. Based on
these intercorrelations, composites of emotional expression (i.e., jealous affect) and behavioral dysregulation were created. Next, analyses addressed whether
the emotional and behavioral composites differed as a
function of family structure variables (e.g., age spacing, gender, and birth order), as well as a function of
the order of counterbalancing during the laboratory
visits. Correlations between these composites of jealous affect and behavioral regulation were conducted
and related to facilitative parenting behavior, child
characteristics, and family characteristics. Finally, hierarchical multiple regression models were developed to
test the unique and combined influence of family and
child characteristics in predicting jealousy responses.
Intercorrelations of Jealous Emotions and Behavior
To address whether emotions and behaviors cohered in a manner consistent with the notion of a jealousy complex, correlations between emotional expressions and behavioral coping were conducted.
Tables 2 and 3 show the intercorrelations among children’s emotional expressions and coping behaviors in
the jealousy paradigm. As expected, there were significant relations between the children’s emotional
expressions and their behavioral coping. For older
siblings, a general pattern indicated that anger, sadness, distraction, and hostile behavior were positively
intercorrelated within mother and father sessions and
that all of these were negatively correlated with the
older sibling’s ability to focus on play activities (see
Table 2). A similar pattern of intercorrelations was evident for the toddler sessions with mother and father:
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distress and distraction were positively related within
mother and father sessions, but negatively correlated
with toddlers’ ability to remain involved in play (see
Table 3). Although there were fairly robust and consistent patterns of intercorrelations within the mother
and father sessions for both the preschool and toddler
siblings, it is striking that few significant associations
were revealed when the children’s behavior across
mother and father sessions were correlated. Correlations down the diagonals of Tables 2 and 3 indicate
the associations between the children’s (older sibling
or toddler) jealousy reactions with mother and jealousy reactions with father. With the exception of the
older siblings’ distracting behavior, there was little indication that children’s jealousy reactions were similar across mother and father sessions.
Based on these intercorrelations, two composites
were created for both the older siblings and the
younger toddlers. One reflected a composite of jealous affect and consisted of standardizing and summing sadness and anger for the older children and
using only the distress variable for the younger children. The second composite reflected behavioral dysregulation and included for the older siblings, standardizing and summing hostility and distraction, and
then subtracting play involvement. For the toddlers,
this included subtracting play involvement from distraction. Emotions and behaviors were composited separately as a means of assessing the children’s emotional
reactivity and behavioral regulation given that several
researchers have proposed that emotional reactivity
and regulation of that reactivity are distinct constructs
that can operate independently (Braungart-Rieker &
Stifter, 1996; Eisenberg & Fabes, 1992; Rothbart &
Derryberry, 1981). Even though reactivity and regulation may be distinct, there can be an association between them, as there was in this case, r 5 .53 for older
and .54 for younger siblings’ jealous affect and behavioral dysregulation with mothers; r 5 .57 for older and
.58 for younger siblings’ jealous affect and behavioral
dysregulation with fathers, p , .001. Correlations between the older and younger siblings’ composites were
conducted across mother and father sessions and revealed that for older siblings, the more global composites of behavioral dysregulation, r 5 .29, p , .05, and
jealous affect, r 5 .27, p , .05, were moderately related
across mother and father sessions, although this was
not the case for the toddlers’ behavioral dysregulation,
r 5 2.00, or jealous affect, r 5 .06 from Table 3.
Family Structure and Order Analyses
One-way ANOVAs and correlations were conducted to examine whether the dependent variables
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Table 1 Intercorrelations and Descriptive Statistics of Child and Family Characteristics
1
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.
OS EU
Temperament
Sib pos (M)
Sib rival (M)
Sib pos (F)
Sib rival (F)
Pos marriage
Neg marriage
Attach (M)
Attach (F)
Facilitate (M)
Facilitate (F)
M (SD) OS measures
M (SD) YS measures
6.24 (2.11)
—
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
11
12
2.30*
.03
.09
.16
2.06
.12
.09
.17
2.02
2.06
2.15
2.07
.12
2.38**
.59***
2.07
.45***
2.16
.23
2.20
2.09
.00
.07
.15
2.12
.26*
2.29*
.42**
2.06
.28*
.06
.05
.03
.19
.06
2.03
.33*
2.34**
.65***
2.30*
.59***
2.24
.13
2.20
2.16
.04
2.04
.10
2.12
.42**
2.53***
.47***
2.49***
.47***
2.06
.19
.16
2.11
.08
.18
2.07
2.03
.08
.15
.25
.01
—
2.49***
2.15
.01
.15
2.13
2.18
.24
2.19
.04
2.32*
.21
2.49***
—
.11
.00
2.15
2.08
.18
2.28*
.03
.08
.14
.07
2.03
2.08
2.19
.28*
2.09
.14
2.17
2.14
.30*
2.03
.16
2.34*
.16
2.26
.03
2.12
2.01
2.07
2.07
2.05
.04
2.05
2.01
2.11
2.18
.03
2.09
2.03
.10
.23
2.19
.17
2.01
.13
2.29*
.18
2.27*
.16
.02
2.05
.03
.09
50.65 (8.30)
28.70 (4.70)
31.59 (6.29)
15.51 (3.51)
48.93 (8.49)
27.68 (3.89)
30.87 (6.37)
14.12 (3.16)
103.35 (12.27)
—
35.00 (11.85)
—
2.02 (1.00)
.69 (.46)
.03 (.98)
.58 (.50)
.76 (.24)
.68 (.36)
3.59 (.69)
3.90 (.60)
.73 (.21)
.61 (.37)
Note: OS 5 older sibling; EU 5 emotion understanding; Sib pos 5 sibling positive involvement; M 5 mothers’ reports; Sib rival 5 sibling rivalry; F 5 fathers’ reports; Pos marriage 5
positive marriage; Neg marriage 5 negative marriage; Attach 5 attachment security; Facilitate 5 parental facilitative behavior during triadic challenge sessions (proportion scores); YS 5
younger sibling. Correlations above the diagonal are for the older sibling and correlations below the diagonal are for the younger sibling. Correlations between older and younger sibling measures (when applicable) are boldfaced and presented in the diagonal. Because the measures of the marital relationship were the same for both children, the correlations between these measures are reported twice. Emotion understanding was assessed for the older sibling only.
* p , .05; ** p , .01; *** p , .001.
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Table 2 Intercorrelations among Older Siblings’ Emotions and
Behaviors in Mother and Father Sessions
Anger
Sadness
Distract
Hostility
Play
Anger
Sadness
Distract
Hostility
Play
.14
.46**
.28*
.62**
2.41**
.66**
.20
.41**
.28*
2.32*
.18
.35**
.33*
.26*
2.74**
.62**
.60**
.39**
.23
2.37**
2.24
2.39**
2.69**
2.45**
.13
Note: Correlations for triadic session with mother are presented in
the upper diagonal; correlations for triadic session with father are
presented in the lower diagonal. Correlations between older siblings’ emotions and behaviors across sessions with mothers and
fathers are boldfaced and presented in the diagonal.
* p , .05; ** p , .01.
of jealous affect and behavioral dysregulation differed as a function of the older siblings’ age, age
space, birth order, and gender composition of the sibling dyad. Age of the older siblings and the age space
between siblings was negatively correlated with the
older siblings’ jealous affect in mother sessions, rs 5
2.29 for both. One-way ANOVAs examining the gender of the older and younger siblings, as well as the
gender composition of the dyad, were all nonsignificant. Thus, gender was not considered further. There
were also no birth order effects. Because the age of the
younger siblings was the same in all families (i.e., 16
months), the age of the older children and the age
space between children provided virtually identical
information given that there would be wider age
spaces for those dyads in which the older siblings
were older. In the multivariate regression analyses
that follow, age space between siblings was used as
the control variable, rather than including both variables in the models.
One-way ANOVAs examining order effects of
counterbalancing (i.e., which child was challenged
first) revealed order effects for toddler jealous affect,
F(1, 57) 5 4.35, p , .05, and behavioral dysregulation
for mother sessions, F(1, 57) 5 21.18, p , .001; and order effects for toddler jealous affect, F(1,58) 5 6.93,
p , .05, and behavioral dysregulation, F(1, 58) 5
13.44, p , .001, in father sessions. Order effects were
also found for the older siblings’ behavioral dysregulation, F(1, 58) 5 5.26, p , .05, in father sessions. Toddlers were more distressed (M 5 2.45) and dysregulated (M 5 .99) when they were challenged first than
when they were challenged second (Ms 5 1.40 and
2.96 for distress and dysregulation, respectively)
with their mothers. Similarly, toddlers were more distressed (M 5 2.0) and dysregulated (M 5.79) when
challenged first than when challenged second (Ms 5
.80 and 2.79 for distress and dysregulation, respec-
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Table 3 Intercorrelations among Younger Siblings’ Emotions
and Behaviors in Mother and Father Sessions
Distress
Distract
Play
Distress
Distract
Play
.06
.60**
2.46**
.47**
2.25
2.70**
2.55**
2.78**
2.12
Note: Correlations for triadic session with mother are presented in
the upper diagonal; correlations for triadic session with father are
presented in the lower diagonal. Correlations between toddlers’
emotions and behaviors across sessions with mothers and fathers
are boldfaced and presented in the diagonal.
** p , .01.
tively) with their fathers. Older siblings were more
dysregulated with fathers when they were challenged second rather than first (Ms 5 .68 and 2.68). It
appears, then, that the contextual manipulation of the
jealousy paradigm results in different jealousy reactions for older and younger siblings, at least with
fathers. Thus, session order and age of the older sibling were controlled when examining the relations
with child and family characteristics in the correlational analyses below.
Family and Child Correlates of Jealousy
and Dysregulation
To address the family and child correlates of children’s jealous affect and behavioral dysregulation,
partial correlations were conducted between the two
composites and parents’ reports of family relationship quality, children’s temperamental anger, the
older siblings’ emotional understanding, and parents’ facilitative behavior during the observational
sessions (Table 4). Older siblings with higher emotional understanding scores were less likely to express jealous affect and behavioral dysregulation in
the social triangle with mothers. Older siblings were
also more behaviorally dysregulated in the mother sessions when parents reported that older siblings were
more temperamentally prone to anger, marriages
were less positive and more negative, and older siblings had less secure attachments to their mothers.
Not one of the sibling behavior scales was significantly correlated with older siblings’ behavioral dysregulation or jealous affect with mothers. Jealous affect expressed by older siblings in the social triangles
with fathers, however, was positively related to sibling rivalry. Older siblings’ behavioral dysregulation
was significantly associated with temperamental
anger, sibling rivalry, and a less secure attachment to
the father.
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Table 4 Correlates of Older and Younger Siblings’ Jealous Affect and Behavioral Dysregulation
Mother Session
Jealous
Affect
Behavioral
Dysregulation
Father Session
Jealous
Affect
Behavioral
Dysregulation
Older sibling
Emotion understanding
Temperamental anger
Sibling positive interaction
Sibling rivalry
Positive marriage
Negative marriage
Attachment security
Facilitative parenting
2.35**
.22
2.02
.16
.06
.21
2.05
2.18
2.27*
.31*
2.22
2.02
2.34**
.31*
2.31*
2.03
.02
.09
2.06
.30*
.20
.16
2.12
2.12
2.12
.26*
2.13
.27*
2.12
.25
2.27*
2.12
Younger sibling
Temperamental anger
Sibling positive interaction
Sibling rivalry
Positive marriage
Negative marriage
Attachment security
Facilitative parenting
.29*
2.10
.20
.24
.09
.01
.11
2.06
.11
.35**
.21
2.07
.02
.20
.08
2.02
.15
.04
.07
.13
.06
.09
.04
.09
2.10
.10
.10
.31*
Note: Partial correlations for older siblings controlled for older sibling age and order of sessions. Partial correlations for younger siblings controlled for order of sessions. Average scores across mothers’
and fathers’ reports were utilized for marriage and temperament, whereas separate measures for
mothers’ and fathers’ reports were utilized for sibling interaction, attachment, and facilitative parenting. Younger sibling attachment was coded as 0 5 insecure, 1 5 secure.
* p # .05; ** p # .01.
For the younger toddlers, jealous affect in the
mother sessions was significantly related to parents’
reports of temperamental anger (see Table 4). The toddlers’ behavioral dysregulation in mother sessions
was also positively correlated with mothers’ reports
of sibling rivalry, but to no other family characteristic.
Dysregulated toddler behavior in father sessions was
positively related to fathers’ facilitative behavior during interaction. Fathers were responding with more
facilitative behavior to the bids of the more behaviorally dysregulated toddler.
Multiple Prediction of Jealous Affect
and Behavioral Dysregulation
The final analyses addressed whether children’s
jealous affect and behavioral dysregulation could be
uniquely predicted by family and child characteristics, controlling for age space, session order, and facilitative parent behavior directed toward the child during the jealousy sessions. For each hierarchical multiple
regression model tested, the age space between siblings, session order, and parents’ facilitative behavior
were entered in the first step. Child characteristics
(i.e., temperament, emotion understanding) were
then entered in the second step. Family indicators
(marriage, sibling, attachment security) were then entered in the third step. Although the attachment security score could easily be entered as a single variable
in the final step, composites of positive sibling relationship quality and positive marital relationship
quality were created by subtracting the negative dimension from the positive dimension for both the
marital and sibling relationships. Each composite
score was then entered as a single variable in the final
step of the regressions. This strategy allowed for the
ability to run identical regression models for both siblings across both parents so that the strength of family
and child characteristics in predicting jealousy could
be compared across siblings.
The regression analyses for the older siblings’ jealousy in mother and father sessions is summarized in
Table 5. Beta coefficients reported in Step 3 are those
from the final regression when all variables were entered into the model. In the regression examining the
older siblings’ jealous affect with mothers, a significant 33% of the total variance was explained. The
older children’s temperamental anger and emotion
understanding accounted for a significant 19% of the
variance over the age space, session order, and parent
behavior when entered in Step 2. Family characteristics did not account for any additional variance in the
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children’s jealous affect when entered in the final
step. Only the older siblings’ emotion understanding
remained significant in the final equation when family characteristics were entered in the third step.
An examination of the regression results using the
older siblings’ behavioral dysregulation with mothers
as the criterion revealed that 32% of the variance was
explained in the final model. Once child characteristics were entered in the second step of the regression,
12% of the variance had been accounted for by these
variables. Family relationship functioning accounted
for a significant 14% of the variance in the older children’s behavioral dysregulation with mothers when
entered in the third step. As Table 5 indicates, however, only session order and the positive quality of
the marital relationship were significant predictors
of the older siblings’ behavioral dysregulation in the
mother sessions above age space, session order, parent behavior, and child characteristics in the final regression. Children were better at regulating their jealousy when parents reported more positive marital
relationships. Attachment security with mothers revealed a marginal association with the children’s
behavioral dysregulation, with more securely attached
children displaying less dysregulated behavior.
In the case of the older siblings’ jealous affect in the
father sessions, Table 5 indicates that none of the variables considered, including child and family characteristics, predicted the older siblings’ jealous affect
with fathers. For the older siblings’ behavioral dysregulation with fathers, session order was the only
unique predictor in the final regression model, yet the
R2 for the final model was only marginally significant.
Table 6 summarizes the regression findings that examined the younger siblings’ jealousy reactions in
both the mother and father sessions. Looking at the
results from the final regression predicting the children’s jealous affect with mothers, a significant 25%
of the variance was accounted for in the final model,
with the addition of the children’s temperament in
the second step explaining a significant 9% of additional variance. The addition of family characteristics
Table 5 Emotion Understanding, Temperamental Anger, and Family Relationships as Predictors
of Older Siblings’ Jealousy in the Triadic Sessions
Older Sibling in
Mother Session
Jealous
Affect
Step 1
Age space
Session order
Facilitative parenting
2.25
.15
2.18
2.11
.16
2.13
2.05
.25
2.11
2.11
.35**
2.13
Step 2
Age space
Session order
Facilitative parenting
Emotion understanding
Temperamental anger
.10
.14
2.21
2.40**
.29*
.15
.17
2.15
2.20
.33*
2.08
.24
2.12
.08
.06
.05
.34**
2.14
2.08
.24
Step 3
Age space
Session order
Facilitative parenting
Emotion understanding
Temperamental anger
Marital relationship
Sibling relationship
Attachment security
.08
.20
2.24
2.38*
.21
2.05
2.17
2.05
.03
.31*
2.24
2.15
.14
2.29*
2.21
2.271
2.07
.21
2.15
.12
2.01
.09
2.24
.01
2.06
.32*
2.21
2.06
.14
2.10
2.11
2.14
.05
.12*
.14*
.32*
.08
.01
.04
.13
.16*
.05
.05
.271
.12
.19**
.02
.33*
Behavioral
Dysregulation
Older Sibling in
Father Session
Predictors
Step 1: R2
Step 2: DR2
Step 3: DR2
Total R2
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Jealous
Affect
Behavioral
Dysregulation
Note: bs presented in Step 3 are from the final model in which all variables were entered.
* p # .05; ** p # .01; 1 p 5 .06.
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Table 6 Temperament and Family Relationships as Predictors of Younger Siblings’ Jealousy
in the Triadic Sessions
Younger Sibling in
Mother Session
Younger Sibling in
Father Session
Jealous
Affect
Behavioral
Dysregulation
Jealous
Affect
Step 1
Age space
Session order
Facilitative parenting
2.12
.27*
.13
2.08
.56***
.16
.23
.32*
.10
.24*
.43***
.33**
Step 2
Age space
Session order
Facilitative parenting
Temperamental anger
2.18
.21
.17
.31*
2.08
.56***
.15
2.01
.22
.33**
.11
.05
.23
.44***
.34**
.07
Step 3
Age space
Session order
Facilitative parenting
Temperamental anger
Marital relationship
Sibling relationship
Attachment security
2.18
.21
.17
.32*
.05
2.27*
.04
2.07
.56***
.14
2.01
.14
2.23*
.05
.24
.30*
.10
.05
.06
2.22
.15
.09
.09*
.07
.25*
.31***
.00
.07
.37***
.15*
.00
.06
.221
Predictors
Step 1: R2
Step 2: DR2
Step 3: DR2
Total R2
Behavioral
Dysregulation
.23
.43**
.33**
.08
2.05
2.11
.13
.31***
.01
.03
.35**
Note: bs presented in Step 3 are from the final model in which all variables were entered.
* p # .05; ** p # .01; *** p # .001; 1 p 5 .06.
did not explain a significant amount of additional
variance in the younger siblings’ jealous affect, but
the positive quality of the sibling relationship and the
children’s temperamental anger were significant predictors in the final regression model. Younger siblings
who were less temperamentally angry and who had
more positive sibling relationships were less likely to
display jealous affect in the mother sessions.
For the regression results that examined the younger
siblings’ behavioral dysregulation with mothers, a total of 37% of the variance was accounted for in the
final model. The majority of the variance (31%) was
explained in the first step. The addition of the child
and family relationship variables in the last two steps
did not add unique variance. In the final step of the
model, only session order and the positive quality of
the sibling relationship were significant predictors
of the younger siblings’ dysregulated behavior with
mothers (see Table 6).
In the two remaining models that examined the
younger siblings’ jealous affect and behavioral dysregulation with fathers, only a marginal 22% of the
variance in the children’s jealous affect was ac-
counted for by all the variables in the model. Session
order was the only significant predictor of the
younger siblings’ jealous affect in the final step (see
Table 6). A significant 35% of the variance in the
younger siblings’ behavioral dysregulation was accounted for in the final regression model, with session order and fathers’ facilitative behavior during
the jealousy paradigm the only significant predictors in the final model. Child characteristics and
family relationship quality did not account for additional variance in these models.
DISCUSSION
The current investigation addressed the social emotion of jealousy in early childhood, with a specific emphasis on sibling jealousy. We were particularly interested in the organization of emotional expressions
and coping behaviors in a jealousy-inducing paradigm consisting of parents and young siblings. We
were also interested in whether there was consistency
across social triangles with mothers and fathers with
respect to the children’s behavior and emotions, and
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whether children’s jealousy could be predicted from
child and family characteristics.
The Jealousy Complex between Young Siblings
As expected, there were coherent patterns of intercorrelations between emotional expressions and coping behaviors within the triadic contexts for older and
younger siblings and within the mother and father
sessions. A general pattern suggested that those children who expressed negative affect were more likely
to interfere with the interaction between parent and
sibling, and less likely to focus their attention on alternative play activities. This pattern of intercorrelations
between behavior and emotion was replicated for
both siblings and with both parents, thus providing
confirmation in four instances that jealousy can be described as a complex of emotion and behavior within
a specific relationship context. If the findings pertaining to the older siblings’ emotional understanding are
taken into account, there is also evidence for the cognitive component of the jealousy complex, at least on
the part of the older siblings. Recall that the older siblings’ emotional understanding was significantly correlated with their jealous affect and behavioral dysregulation in the mother–sibling sessions, with greater
emotional understanding associated with less jealous
affect and less behavioral dysregulation. These relations between jealous affect, behavioral dysregulation,
and emotion understanding would seem to support
the notion that jealousy is an interrelated complex of
behavior, affect, and cognition in a particular social
situation, even among these young children.
Despite this organized coherence within the mother
and father sessions, there was little consistency in the
same child’s behaviors and emotions across mother
and father sessions. In other words, if the child was
angry with the mother, this did not mean that the
child was angry with the father. This was the case
even though the mother and father sessions were
only separated by a short period of 3 min. The jealousy
complex appears to be sensitive to the dynamics inherent in a specific triad and does not necessarily generalize across social triangles, at least for this young age
group. Further support for contextual specificity was
found in many of the final regression models, wherein
the session order continued to be a strong independent predictor of both children’s jealousy in several
cases, and this was particularly true for the younger
toddler. That is, the contextual manipulation as to
which child was challenged first or second continued
to exert a significant and unique effect on the children’s affect and behavior even after controlling for
child and family characteristics.
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The contextual manipulation, however, did not
have the same effect on older and younger siblings.
Younger siblings expressed more jealousy if they had
been challenged first, rather than second, and this
was true for both mother and father sessions. In contrast, older siblings were more jealous with their
fathers if they had been challenged second. Why this
was the case is not entirely clear. Obviously, the
younger toddlers had a more difficult time regulating
their jealousy when they were not allowed to play
with their parent and the exciting new toy first. When
the parents did attend to them first, they were less
jealous of their older sibling in the later session, as if
being first somehow left them contented and better
able to regulate their jealousy when their parents attended to their older sibling. It is more difficult to understand why the older sibling would exhibit more
jealousy with fathers when they were challenged second. Knowing that younger siblings were more distressed when their older brother or sister had special
time with the father first reveals that this “special
time” was actually taking place in the presence of a
jealous younger sibling trying to intrude on the interaction between the father and the older sibling. Perhaps older siblings were more jealous with fathers
when challenged second because they felt cheated
out of having their time with the father, particularly
when the distressed toddler took their place and was
now getting all of father’s attention; or perhaps there
was an emotional contagion effect, wherein the distress of the younger sibling left the older sibling more
aroused during the second session and hence, less
able to maintain a regulated state. Whichever scenario is more accurate is hard to know without future
investigations into children’s jealousy, but in either
case, these findings underscore how contextual challenges may not have similar effects on children of different ages and that contextual changes that elicit
emotional reactions from one participant in the triad
may, in turn, initiate emotional reactions in others.
When emotional expressions and behaviors were
composited at a more global level, correlations across
mother and father sessions indicated that the older
siblings’ behavioral dysregulation and jealous affect
were moderately related; however, this was not the
case for the younger toddler siblings. What might explain these findings? One possibility is that older preschool children are better at self-regulated coping and
less dependent than their toddler siblings on external
regulation from caregivers. Thus, for older siblings
there may be greater consistency across contexts at
the organizational level (i.e., relations between jealous emotions and behaviors) than there is when examining the cross-context relations for independent
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behaviors and affects. In contrast to the older siblings,
the younger toddlers were more likely to be dependent on external regulation from parents and had yet
to develop an organized, coherent pattern of selfregulatory coping (Kopp, 1989; Sroufe, 1996). As expected, then, behavioral and emotional responses for
these children may have been determined almost entirely by the social dynamics inherent in a specific
jealousy triangle. Again, the regression results indicated that session order remained one of the strongest
predictors of the toddlers’ jealousy within both
mother and father sessions, with those toddlers who
were challenged first displaying more jealous affect
and behavioral dysregulation with their mothers and
fathers than if they were challenged second. In addition to session order, the fathers’ facilitative behavior
during the triadic paradigm was the only other significant predictor of the younger siblings’ behavioral
dysregulation with the father, indicating that the
fathers’ facilitative management of the children’s behavior within the social triangle supported the toddlers’ coping with jealousy.
Predicting Emotions and Behavior from
Child and Family Characteristics
In most cases, there were more significant relations between the child and family indicators and the
children’s behavioral dysregulation than between
these indicators and jealous affect. In the correlational analyses, for example, older siblings were
more behaviorally dysregulated with mothers when
they were less secure in their attachment to their
mothers, and their parents reported more negative
and less positive marital relationships. They were
more behaviorally dysregulated with their fathers
when fathers reported more sibling rivalry, and children had an insecure attachment to their fathers and
were prone to anger. In the regression analyses, however, positive marital interaction was the only significant family predictor of the older siblings’ ability to
regulate behavior in the jealousy triad with mothers,
and session order remained a strong predictor of the
older siblings’ behavioral dysregulation with both
mothers and fathers. In the case of the younger siblings, the quality of the sibling relationship was the
only family indicator to predict the younger children’s behavioral dysregulation and jealous affect,
with less jealous affect and dysregulation when
mothers reported more positive involvement between siblings. Surprisingly, none of the child or
family characteristics predicted either the older or
the younger siblings’ jealous affect and behavioral
dysregulation with fathers in the final regressions,
once session order, age space, and parent behavior
were controlled. As noted above, however, the fathers’
behavior during the jealousy paradigm was a significant predictor in the final regression analyses that
examined the younger siblings’ behavioral dysregulation, indicating that fathers were able to provide
the assistance necessary for these young children to
regulate their jealous behavior. Given the lack of
studies on childhood jealousy, in general, and with
fathers specifically, it is difficult to know what might
account for the current findings with fathers. Perhaps aspects of family life not captured in the current
investigation (e.g., co-parenting) would better predict children’s jealousy in the father–sibling triads.
Only continuing investigations of children’s jealousy
can provide some insight into why child and family
characteristics did not predict the children’s affect
and behavior in the father sessions.
When associations were found for jealous affect, it
was mainly the children’s characteristics that revealed the most consistent findings. Yet, different
child characteristics were predictive of the older and
younger siblings’ jealous affect. In the final regressions, temperamental anger was clearly significant in
predicting the expression of the toddlers’ jealous affect with mothers, but it was the older children’s cognitive understanding of emotions, not their temperament, that was the sole predictor of the older siblings’
jealous affect with mothers. As children mature, their
cognitive understanding of cultural display rules and
the appropriate expression of anger in social situations may eventually temper the child’s biological
proclivity to react angrily. Children with a more sophisticated understanding of others’ emotions are
better at affective perspective taking and have the capacity to empathize with others (Lennon, Eisenberg,
& Carroll, 1983). Rather than simply reacting with anger, older children would not be expected to be as
emotionally reactive in the jealousy paradigm because they can cognitively process the social situation
in such a way that more positive, empathic feelings
for the younger sibling are aroused. Older children
may simply have a better understanding of why their
parents may direct more attention toward a younger
sibling than toward themselves (e.g., she’s my baby
sister and cries a lot) and this understanding helps
them cope effectively with jealousy (Kowal &
Kramer, 1997).
Family Processes in Two-Child Families
Children in the same family do not experience
mothers, fathers, siblings, and marriages in the same
manner (Hetherington, Reiss, & Plomin, 1994). Be-
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cause of differences in age, gender, and timing of family transitions, family relationship functioning need
not have a uniform effect on all children in the family.
This may explain, in part, why attachment security
and marital functioning revealed more associations
with the older siblings’ jealousy with mothers, whereas
sibling behaviors were the primary correlates of the
younger siblings’ jealousy with mothers. Recall that
many of the older children in these families had an exclusive relationship with their mothers 16 months
earlier. This changed dramatically and swiftly once
their baby siblings arrived. Little is known about
changes in family life over this transition period.
How parents cope with and manage stress, as well as
minimize disruption and conflict in family relationships during this time, surely has an effect on the
older children’s emotional well-being and their ability to cope with jealousy of the younger siblings (Baydar, Greek, & Brooks-Gunn, 1997; Kendrick & Dunn,
1982; Stewart, Mobley, Van Tuyl, & Salvador, 1987;
Teti, Sakin, Kucera, Corns, & Das Eiden, 1996).
Changes in the mother–child relationship across this
transition period (e.g., increased control, decreased
positive involvement) have been found to mediate
the effects of the sibling birth on the older children’s
socioemotional and cognitive development (Baydar
et al., 1997). Thus, the quality of parent–child and
marital relationships, and change in these relationships over the transition period, may be the best
predictors of the older siblings’ behavioral coping
with sibling jealousy.
As for the younger siblings, who have only
known life with an older brother and sister, the parents’ attention and love must always be shared with
an older sibling. How well the older siblings adapt
to this transition and the quality of the developing
sibling relationship may be a better predictor of the
toddler siblings’ coping with jealousy than the quality of other family relationships. Older preschool
siblings are more mature physically, emotionally,
and cognitively than the younger toddlers. They
also initiate more sibling conflict (Volling, Youngblade, & Belsky, 1997) and are more likely to manage
sibling interaction than are younger siblings (Stoneman, Brody, & MacKinnon, 1984). If, as Patterson
(1986) ascertains, sibling relationships are a “training ground” for childhood aggression, the quality of
the sibling relationship may be particularly relevant
for the developing toddlers’ emotion regulation.
Those toddlers who interact with a behaviorally
dysregulated, jealous older sibling who is physically
stronger and more likely to instigate conflict may be
at risk for the development of emotion regulation
disorders (Cole et al., 1994), whereas those toddlers
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who interact with an older sibling who is emotionally regulated, cooperative, and caring toward the
younger child may be less likely to experience behavioral dysregulation. In this regard, Tremblay, Nagin, Seguin, and Zoccolillo (2001) recently reported
that having a sibling in the home was the largest risk
factor in predicting the developmental trajectory of
a highly aggressive group of toddlers starting at 17
months of age.
Positive Marriages and Family Life
With so much emphasis on the link between marital conflict and children’s behavioral and emotional
maladjustment (e.g., Cummings & Davies, 1994), it
was striking to find that positive marital relationship
functioning emerged as the most significant family
predictor of the older child’s behavioral dysregulation with mothers.1 Older children were better regulated when spouses’ accounts of their marriage were
more positive. The positive marital relationship composite consisted of the spouses’ reported feelings of
love for one another, as well as their attempts to enhance their marital relationship through discussion,
disclosure, and problem solving. Discussion and
problem solving reflect a set of behavioral skills and
communication patterns that others have found to
predict satisfying, long-term marriages (Gottman,
1994; Prado & Markman, 1999). It is possible that parents involved in such marital communication model a
form of problem-solving or conflict resolution for
their children that allows them to cope adaptively
with sibling conflict and jealousy. Another possibility
for explaining the significance of positive marital relationships is that spouses who love one another and
make efforts to enhance their marital relationship create a family environment that is filled with positive
emotions (e.g., happiness, contentment, and pleasure). As a consequence, there is less reason to be jealous in a home in which love and happiness are shared
and expressed by all family members. Thus, it is not
simply the absence of anger or fear in children’s lives
that leads to optimal child development, but the presence of love, joy, and contentment that allows children to feel emotionally secure (Cummings & Davies,
1 In a follow-up regression analysis, the marital relationship
composite was broken down into its positive and negative dimensions and the regression analyses were rerun using both the
negative and positive marital composites as separate indicators
of marital relationship functioning. Spouses’ reports of positive
marital functioning (i.e., love and maintenance), not negative
marital functioning (i.e., conflict and ambivalence), continued to
predict the older siblings’ behavioral dysregulation with mothers,
above and beyond the Step 1 variables (i.e., age space, session
order, and parent behavior) and child characteristics.
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1996), to broaden their attention to environmental
events (Fredrickson, 1998), and to explore and learn
from these experiences (Sroufe, 1996).
The current research marks a first step in uncovering the complexity of social emotions within the family. There are a number of limitations to this work that
must be noted. First, the current sample was relatively
small, and consisted of young toddler and preschool
siblings and families who were primarily European
American, maritally intact, and low risk. It is not clear
whether similar findings would emerge in different
family structures (e.g., stepfamilies, families with
twins), families with older children, families of color,
or high-risk families. Second, given the young age of
the siblings studied, assessments of children’s cognitive processes were not included in delineating the
jealousy complex. From a developmental perspective,
cognitive appraisal processes should emerge over
time and become more sophisticated as the young
child relies less on others for self-regulation and more
on internalized strategies of regulation. Needless to
say, such possibilities should be explored further.
In closing, the present investigation attempted to
expand the study of emotion regulation by including
more complex social emotions and attending to the
social relationships that help to define and explain
such emotions. We presented a preliminary model of
sibling jealousy in childhood based on prior work on
romantic jealousy in adulthood. The current model
presents an initial attempt to formulate the jealousy
complex between young siblings and provide a
framework from which future developmental research on jealousy can begin. Because there are so few
developmental studies addressing jealousy, it is difficult to know how much of the proposed model will
endure scientific scrutiny and how much will need to
be amended. The model has been developed specifically to describe and explain sibling jealousy, but
there are certainly other areas within child development in which a similar model might be applied. Jealousy is suspect in explaining the hostility exchanged
between individuals involved in any close intimate
relationship, whether it be between best friends, angry spouses, or dating adolescents (Bookwala, Frieze,
Smith, & Ryan, 1992; Buss & Shackelford, 1997; Hansen, 1985; Paul, Foss, & Galloway, 1993). Much of what
developmental researchers have coded as aggression,
conflict, hostility, and anger could indeed be one piece
of a more complex social and emotional dynamic.
Without attention to the larger social relationship
contexts in which emotions, behaviors, and cognitive
appraisals occur, the meaning of emotional experiences, their explanation, and the possibilities for intervention remain limited.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
This research was supported by a faculty grant from
the Horace H. Rackham School of Graduate Studies
and the Office of the Vice President for Research at the
University of Michigan to the first author. The authors
are grateful to the families who participated in this research; and to Kimberly Freeman, Anouk Bonnewit,
Jill Blakemore, Stacey Connoy, Jennifer Fedewa, and
Melissa Schnarr for their assistance with videotape
coding. They also appreciate the helpful and thoughtful comments of Ross Thompson and three anonymous reviewers on an earlier draft of this article. Portions of this research were presented at the biennial
meeting of the Society for Research in Child Development, Albuquerque, NM, 1999.
ADDRESSES AND AFFILIATIONS
Corresponding author: Brenda L. Volling, Department of Psychology, University of Michigan, 525 E.
University Avenue, Ann Arbor, MI 48109-1109; e-mail:
volling@umich.edu. Nancy L. McElwain is at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill; and Alison L. Miller is at Brown University, Providence, RI.
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