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DOI 10.1007/s11013-014-9381-z
ORIGINAL PAPER
‘‘Pensando Mucho’’ (‘‘Thinking Too Much’’):
Embodied Distress Among Grandmothers
in Nicaraguan Transnational Families
Kristin Elizabeth Yarris
Published online: 28 June 2014
Springer Science+Business Media New York 2014
Abstract In this paper, I describe an embodied form of emotional distress
expressed by Nicaraguan grandmothers caring for children of migrant mothers,
‘‘pensando mucho’’ (‘‘thinking too much’’). I draw on ethnographic fieldwork and
semi-structured exploratory interviews about pensando mucho conducted with
grandmother heads-of-household to show the cultural significance of this complaint
within the context of women’s social roles as caregivers in transnational families.
Adopting an interpretive and meaning-centered approach, I analyze the cultural
significance of pensando mucho as expressed through women’s narratives about the
impacts of mother outmigration on their personal and family lives. I show how
women use pensando mucho to express the moral ambivalence of economic
remittances and the uncertainty surrounding migration, particularly given cultural
values for ‘‘unity’’ and ‘‘solidarity’’ in Nicaraguan family life. I also discuss the
relationship between pensando mucho and dolor de cerebro (‘‘brainache’’) as a way
of documenting the relationship between body/mind, emotional distress, and
somatic suffering. The findings presented here suggest that further research on
‘‘thinking too much’’ is needed to assess whether this idiom is used by women of the
grandmother generation in other cultural contexts to express embodied distress in
relation to broader social transformations.
Resumen en Español En este ensayo, describo una forma de aflicción corporeal e
emocional expresada por las abuelas Nicaragüenses quienes cuidan hijo/as de madres
migrantes, ‘‘pensando mucho’’. Planteo mi analisis sobre datos etnográficos y entrevistas semi-estructuradas y exploratorias enfocadas en pensando mucho llevado a
cabo con abuelas jefas de hogar para mostrar el significado cultural de esta queja de
aflicción adentro del contexto de los papeles sociales de estas mujeres como cuidadoras en familias transnacionales. Adoptando un enfoque interpretativo y centrando
K. E. Yarris (&)
Department of International Studies, University of Oregon, Eugene, OR, USA
e-mail: keyarris@uoregon.edu
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en el significado de las quejas de aflicción expresadas, analizo pensando mucho como
es expresado en las historias narrativas de las abuelas-cuidadoras sobre los impactos
de la emigración maternal en sus vidas individuales y familares. Demuestro como las
abuelas-cuidadoras utilizan pensando mucho para expresar la ambivalencia moral de
las remesas económicas y el incertidumbre detrás de la migración, en particular dado
los valores culturales para la ‘‘unidad’’ y ‘‘solidaridad’’ en la vida familiar Nicaragüense. Además, describo la relación entre pensando mucho y el dolor de cerebro,
como una manera de documentar la relación entre cuerpo/mente, aflicción emocional,
y sufrimiento corporal. Los hallazgos aquı́ presentados llaman la atención a la necesidad por más investigación sobre ‘‘pensando mucho’’ para determinar sı́ esta
aflicción está expresada por mujeres de la tercera edad en otros contextos culturales
para indicar su relación con transformaciones sociales.
Keywords Emotional distress Mental health Grandmothers
Nicaragua Migration
Palabras Claves Aflicción Emocional Salud Mental Abuelas
Nicaragua Migración
Introduction
‘‘Bueno, en si pienso mucho en lo económico, en la salud y en los hijos que no
están. De que hacer el dı́a mañana.’’ ‘‘Well, I think too much about the
economic situation, about health, and about the children who aren’t here.
About what do to tomorrow.’’ *Juana
Nicaraguan Migration and Grandmother Caregiving
This article explores the emotional experiences of grandmothers in transnational
families, women who assume primary caregiving responsibilities for their grandchildren in Nicaragua after the children’s mothers migrate in search of opportunities
elsewhere. These grandmother caregivers participate socially, culturally, and
emotionally in transnational family life, even though they themselves do not cross
national borders. Like other Latin American women of the tercera edad (‘‘third
age’’), these are women who experience migration simultaneously as mothers whose
daughters leave and as grandmothers who assume care for another generation of
children back home. They thus occupy a social location within transnational
families that Leinaweaver has referred to as the ‘‘care slot,’’ as they contend with
‘‘the meaningful absence of [their daughters] who are both parents to small children
and children of aging parents’’ (Leinaweaver 2010, p. 69). In what follows, I argue
that the uncertainties of the social location inhabited by grandmother caregivers
shape their subjectivities and find expression through the culturally significant idiom
of distress, ‘‘pensando mucho’’ (‘‘thinking too much’’).
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Feminist scholars have described the globalization of women’s reproductive
labor as constituting a ‘‘global care chain’’ (for example, see Parreñas 2001;
Ehrenreich et al. 2002; Yeates 2005). While analyses of the feminization of global
migration highlight the importance of immigrant women’s caregiving for domestic
and national economies in the Global North (Sassen 1998; Parreñas 2002), relatively
little attention has been focused on the caregiving that women in the Global South
provide for children and families left behind by transnational processes of migration
and labor extraction. In contemporary Latin America, for example, women
comprise more than 50 % of contemporary migrants (Pessar 2005) and most of
these women work in service industries (such as domestic workers) in host
countries. The feminization of migration pushes migration scholars to consider the
impact of women’s migration on intergenerational transformations in family
caregiving in migrant-sending communities.
Migration from Nicaragua over the past two decades has been primarily driven by
economic ‘‘push’’ factors, including structural under- and un-employment and chronic
poverty (Baumeister 2006). Today, the main destination of Nicaraguan migrants is
Costa Rica, followed by the United States, other Central American nations (such as
Panamá and El Salvador), and Spain. Estimates are that over 40,000 Nicaraguans leave
the country each year as external migrants (Andersen et al. 2009). This demographic
shift means that one out of every ten Nicaraguans lives outside their country of birth, a
relatively high proportion when compared to other Latin American nations
(Baumeister 2006). The proportion of male to female migrants from Nicaragua is
roughly equal and the majority of migrants (male and female) are between the ages of
20 and 49, meaning that tens of thousands of Nicaraguan children are growing up with
one or more parents absent due to migration (Torres and Barahona 2004, p. 37).
While discussions of the feminization of migration usually refer to women as migrants
themselves, here I want to open the analytical frame to include women of the
grandmother generation who assume caregiving after parents migrate as important actors
in global care chains. Although when fathers migrate, children are left under the care of
their mothers thus providing continuity in caregiving configurations, when mothers
migrate, fathers are usually already absent from family life due to the prevalence of
paternal irresponsibility and conjugal fragility in Nicaragua. Thus, mother migration
implies a shift of caregiving responsibilities to grandmothers or other women in extended
kin networks. However, despite the centrality of their caregiving roles, women of the
grandmother generation have been largely overlooked in academic accounts of
migration. For this reason, attending closely to the ways grandmothers articulate their
subjective responses to the transformations and uncertainties that characterize their
particular social location in global care chains is a way of legitimizing their experiences,
taking seriously their distress, and giving voice to their complaints about the impacts of
transnational migration on their individual, family, and cultural lives.
Interpreting Pensando Mucho
Focusing on this particular expression of distress, I draw attention to the ways
Nicaraguan grandmothers’ emotional experiences are both reflective of the social
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transformations of migration and also generative sites where women render the
significance of these changes for their individual and family lives. Das has argued
that subjectivity is a ‘‘contested field’’ through which large-scale socio-political
processes, changing family relations, and individual emotionality become ‘‘inescapably sutured’’ together (Das 1997, p. 68). Quesada has documented how the
disruption of Nicaragua’s war and political violence in the 1980s shaped the
subjective emotional experiences of one mother and her ‘‘suffering child’’ (Quesada
1998). In a similar way, I view grandmothers’ subjective experiences as reflective of
the broader political and economic processes structuring transnational migration
flows, of the cultural values that shape and give meaning to family relationships, and
of the uncertain emotional terrain of transnational family life.
Adopting a meaning-centered approach to analyze narratives of distress (Kleinman
1988; Garro et al. 2000), I follow the layers of meaning women ascribe to pensando
mucho outward into the social and cultural worlds in which this complaint is embedded
and out of which its significance is rendered. Rather than a bounded illness experience or
the local manifestation of a global diagnostic category, I approach the complaint of
pensando mucho as a syndrome or an idiom of distress. Nichter has described idioms of
distress as ‘‘symbolic and affective associations, which take on contextual meaning in
relation to particular stressors’’ (Nichter 1981, p. 379). Of particular importance to this
analysis, idioms of distress contain significance in relation to interpersonal relations,
social relations, and political and economic contexts (Nichter 2010). Idioms of distress
may be particularly salient for women who are socially and economically marginalized,
as they find themselves with few alternate outlets for their complaints (Parsons 1984;
Briggs 1992; Das 1997). In Latin America, there is a long history of anthropological
research on idioms of distress expressed by women. One syndrome that has received a
good deal of attention is nervios, a distress response related to chronic worrying or acute
stressors (for example, see Low 1985; Guarnaccia and Farias 1988; Jenkins et al. 1994).
More recently, Darghouth et al. documented how headache (dolor de cabeza) is a
somatic mode through which women express present distress, memories of past
suffering, and concerns about the future (Darghouth et al. 2006, p. 281). My research
with Nicaraguan women has shown that nervios is not a widely shared experience; in
fact, it is rarely mentioned in the conversations I have with the grandmother caregivers in
my study. Furthermore, as I show below, Nicaraguan women make a clear distinction
between the chronicity of ‘‘pensando mucho’’ and its associated pain, ‘‘dolor de
cerebro’’ (‘‘brainache’’), and the more acute worrying (‘‘preocupaciones’’) that might
lead to what is locally understood to be ‘‘headache.’’ Notably, unlike other studies of
women’s distress in Latin America that have relied on clinical samples, mine is a
community-based ethnography. Although women may take complaints of pensando
mucho to biomedical practitioners, more often these complaints circulate and find
significance in local networks of families and communities, and, in this case, in
conversations with the interested anthropologist.
As Kleinman has argued, pain and suffering is best understood in relation to the
local moral worlds in which it is experienced (Kleinman 2006, 1992). I propose that
the meanings of pensando mucho are intricately related to ‘‘wider context of
experience’’ (Kleinman 1992, p. 173) that surrounds women’s roles as grandmother
caregivers and mediators of the uncertainties of transnational family life. Pensando
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mucho is an expression of emotional distress that marks grandmothers’ social
locations as intergenerational caregivers in transnational families and articulates a
moral critique of the transformations and discontinuities implied by mother
migration. While grandmother caregiving in Nicaraguan families is not unique to
situations of parental migration, mother migration in particular implies a disruption
in the expected roles that women will play across the generations and thus
‘‘pensando mucho’’ has a particular set of meanings tied to these transformations in
kinship and caregiving. Anthropologists studying the emotional dimensions of
global migration have emphasized either an increased sense of interconnectedness
emerging across contemporary transnational spaces (Svašek and Skrbiš 2007), or
instead focused on the disconnection and emotional, social, and cultural distance
between children and transnational parents (Parreñas 2005; Horton 2009). I will
show that Nicaraguan grandmother caregivers experience transnational migration
simultaneously as increasing the physical and emotional distance within families
while also as an opportunity for strengthening shared emotional ties with the
children in their care. In other words, transnational migration is morally ambivalent
social and cultural terrain, as grandmothers balance the economic and emotional
tensions surrounding remittances, and face the prospect of children’s potential
future reunification with mothers abroad. Pensando mucho provides grandmothers a
way of making (affective, emotional, and embodied) sense of these complex social
and cultural experiences within transnational family life.
Taking seriously grandmothers’ complaints of pensando mucho requires sorting out
the complex associations between thoughts and emotions, minds (heads) and bodies.
While I do not pretend to provide an exhaustive account of these issues here, I do intend
to complicate simplistic dichotomies between mind and body, thoughts and emotions.
Scheper-Hughes and Lock’s framework of the mindful body (1987) is foundational for
understanding the body as simultaneously the site of individual/phenomenological
experience and of social/political relations. Csordas has argued that attending to bodily
sensations is not ‘‘attending to the body as an isolated object, but to the body’s situation
in the world…the intersubjective milieu that gave rise to that sensation’’ (Csordas 1993,
p. 138). These frameworks clearly situate the mind–body in a complex relationship to
culture and society, where the mind–body can be both a site upon which social relations
are inscribed and a generative source of cultural meaning. Yet, there is a tendency in the
anthropological literature on embodiment to view the body as ‘‘pre-reflective,’’ as
somehow outside or prior to the elaborations of culture and language (see MerleauPonty 1962, cited in Csordas 1990). The present discussion of pensando mucho suggests
something different about the relationship between body, mind, emotions, and pain. In
particular, what emerges from this analysis is that the somatic pain (felt in the head/
brain) associated with pensando mucho is post-reflective, constituted through thought
rather than prior to thought, and with thoughts the generative substance of its meaning.
Not only does this analysis complicate mind–body dichotomies, it also suggests that
thoughts and emotions are overlapping cultural processes through which subjects make
meaning of their social worlds and the disruption in those worlds.
I frame pensando mucho both as a reflection of wider social disruptions in family
continuity implied by transnational migration and as a means of expressing locally
salient cultural ideals of solidarity in family life. I show how family solidarity—
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understood as unity and togetherness within family life—has local and specific
meanings for grandmothers caring for children in transnational families, and how in turn
these ideals are threatened by global migration. In making this argument, it is important
to situate ‘‘solidarity’’ within the particular political and cultural history of Nicaragua.
During the 1980s, ‘‘solidarity’’ was a central feature of the revolutionary project, as
Sandinistas and their international supporters would join together in ‘‘solidarity circles’’
to discuss gender, class, and national forms of oppression and brainstorm ways to
transform social inequalities (Babb 2001, p. 11). While the historical context has shifted,
solidarity remains a central feature of contemporary social and political life in
Nicaragua. Since 2006, President Daniel Ortega has made ‘‘solidarity’’ one of the three
defining features of his rebranded FSLN (Frente Sandinista de Liberación Nacional)
party, whose bright pink Party posters dot the Managua landscape with the slogan
‘‘Cristiana, Socialista, Solidaria’’ [‘‘Christian, Socialist, and Solidarity (sic)’’]. Historically and in the present, discourse of solidarity recalls an external threat (in the 1980s,
the U.S.-funded counter-revolutionary Contras; today, the economic threat of contemporary global capitalism), against which Nicaraguans must stand united. Such political
discourse has resonance not just in terms of consolidating national identity, but also in
shaping social and affective relationships. Jenkins has made a similar argument in her
research on ‘‘el calor’’ among Salvadoran women refugees in the U.S. in the 1980s,
whose embodied distress indexed the very real ‘‘heat’’ of the civil war (‘‘la situación’’)
they were fleeing (Jenkins 1991, p. 141). In other words, I am arguing here that pensando
mucho is a claim of embodied distress that indexes a political ethos of solidarity in
Nicaraguan cultural life.
While my focus here is on ‘‘thinking too much’’ expressed by grandmothers
raising children in transnational families, as I mention in the concluding section, this
idiom of distress may have significance in other cultural locations where broad
social transformations are reconfiguring family relations, particularly for women
who have central responsibility for maintaining continuity in family life in the face
of such changes. Thus, for Nicaraguan grandmothers to say ‘‘pienso mucho’’ (‘‘I
think too much’’) or ‘‘me pongo a pensar’’ (‘‘I get to thinking’’) is not merely a
statement about a cognitive process or a mental disposition; instead, I show that it is
a visceral, embodied way for grandmothers to express their experiences of absence,
separation, and moral uncertainty as caregivers in transnational families. In other
words, through the idiom of pensando mucho, ‘‘thinking’’ and ‘‘feeling’’ are best
understood as overlapping and entangled emotional experiences whose object is the
ways transnational migration upends expectations for solidarity and unity in family
life. To say ‘‘estoy pensando mucho’’ in the interpersonal domain of family life is to
make a recognizable claim of distress, which draws the attention of immediate and
extended family members (and this anthropologist) to grandmothers’ roles in
transnational families and the moral significance of these roles.
Research Methods and Participants
The analysis that follows responds to the following questions: What do women view
as the causes and embodied symptoms associated with pensando mucho? How is
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pensando mucho related to grandmothers’ experiences as caregivers in transnational
families? My intention is that this discussion will establish a basis for future analysis
of the association between pensando mucho and other forms of distress (especially
depression) and somatic conditions (especially alterations in blood pressure) among
Nicaraguan women of the grandmother generation.
The data presented here are drawn from a larger ethnographic study of
transnational migration, caregiving, and family health and well-being conducted in
Nicaragua from July 2009 to July 2010.1 As my primary interest was exploring
intergenerational transformations in caregiving following parent migration, all the
families in my study were selected because grandmothers were primary caregivers
for one or more children of a parent migrant. I included families where children
were of primary school age (7–13 years) to provide a common range of family
experiences. While my study included a total of 24 families, here I focus my
analysis on the fifteen families where grandmothers are caring for children of
migrant mothers. I focus on these families of mother migrants because the cultural
expectations for women to be physically and emotionally present in family life
mean that mother migration has particular impacts on children and their caregivers.2
In all but two of the families discussed here, fathers did not live with children,
reflecting widespread paternal irresponsibility and conjugal instability in Nicaragua.3 In assuming caregiving responsibilities, grandmothers are motivated by deeply
seated values of women’s sacrifice and solidarity in family life; indeed,
grandmothers often told me that they assume care of their grandchildren after
mother migration because ‘‘tenemos que hacerlo’’ (‘‘we have to do it’’), reflecting
the ideal that women sacrifice their own interests for the sake of their families.4
Nine of the families live in Managua, Nicaragua’s capital city, and six live in
rural communities in neighboring departamentos (states). The destinations of the
migrants in this study include Costa Rica, Panamá, Spain, and the United States and
the duration of migration ranged from 6 months to more than 10 years.5
1
This research was approved by the UCLA Institutional Review Board, IRB# G09-04-043-01.
2
This does not mean that father migration is insignificant, however, given gender roles in Nicaragua and
cultural expectations for mothers, mother migration has particular emotional impacts on children and
their caregivers in sending communities.
3
For background on gender roles and conjugal and sexual relationships in Nicaragua, see Lancaster
(1992), Babb (2001), and Montoya and Rosario (2002).
4
The cultural ideals of women’s sacrifice for the sake of their families are reflected and reinforced by a
general reverence for the Virgin Mary in Nicaragua and witnessed in unique cultural holidays such as ‘‘La
Griterı́a,’’ which celebrate Mary’s role as mother of God and of Nicaragua. During this annual December
holiday, people go door-to-door in groups to pay homage to the Virgin Mary through the presentation of
ceremonial altars and the distribution of small gifts such as sugarcane and candy. After visiting a house, a
group commonly shouts ‘‘Marı́a de Nicaragua y Nicaragua de Marı́a’’ (Mary of Nicaragua and Nicaragua
of Mary).
5
The modal length of mother migration among families in this study is between 1 and 3 years, with nine
migrant mothers having left Nicaragua between 1 and 3 years prior to this research (of course, migration
continues past the period of this research and so these figures capture a glimpse of the ongoing duration of
migration). Five mothers migrated within 1 year, three mothers had been gone for over 10 years (two for
10 years and one for 12 years), and two mothers had migrated between 5 and 7 years of the study.
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Quite obviously, the duration of migration influences the experiences of both
grandmothers and the children in their care. When migration is still recent (during
the first year), families may be adjusting to mother absence and perceiving
migration as a temporary feature of life; when the duration of absence exceeds
5 years or more, families may have adapted to mother migration and view it as
representing a more permanent reconfiguration in family life. In addition,
destination country and duration of migration structure the possibilities mother
migrants have to return for visits. For instance, of the fifteen families discussed here,
only three mothers had returned to visit Nicaragua at the time of this study, their
visits were enabled by legal documentation in host countries that they had obtained
over the period of many years living abroad.6
All families can be considered working class or working poor, although their
social and economic resources vary somewhat (e.g., depending on whether
grandmothers have other adult children in Nicaragua who provide them with social
and/or economic support). With each participating family, I conducted a series of
informal, semi-structured, and structured interviews with grandmothers and
separately with children across at least three visits to the family home. I also
interviewed other family members in Nicaragua (e.g., coresident aunts) and with
five migrant mothers.7 Additionally, I conducted extensive participant observation
in family life, visiting, sharing meals, hanging out, helping children with homework,
going on outings with the families to church, to the movies, or to the mall. Finally, I
engaged in participant observation with two Nicaraguan non-governmental
organizations advocating for migrant rights, work that provides an important
contextual framing for the analysis presented here.
In this paper, I draw specifically on data from a semi-structured interview I
conducted with each of ten women who had referred to pensando mucho and/or
dolor de cerebro in earlier interviews; all were grandmothers in migrant mother
families. The interview was designed specifically to explore the meanings of
pensando mucho and to ascertain whether a shared explanatory model of this
syndrome existed. The interview questions were open-ended and probed women to
expand on their experiences as caregivers in transnational families and the
connections they made between these social experiences and pensando mucho. I
also probed the associations between pensando mucho and other complaints, such as
insomnia, dolor de cerebro, depresión (depression), and presión (alterations in blood
pressure). While the following analysis focuses on pensando mucho and dolor de
cerebro, future analysis will systematically explore the relationship between these
complaints, depresión and presión. All interviews were conducted in Spanish by the
author in women’s homes and lasted between 45 minutes and three hours. Interview
transcripts were analyzed using narrative content analysis to search for significance
within and across interviews. Despite particularities, these women’s narratives of
6
For a fuller discussion of the ways children perceive the duration of their mothers’ migration and
experience return visits, see Yarris (2014).
7
Three of the five interviews with migrant mothers were conducted on occasion of their return visits to
Nicaragua. I also interviewed two migrant mothers outside of Nicaragua: one interview was conducted
via Skype with a mother living in Miami, Florida, and another interview was conducted with a mother
migrant who I visited in Panama City, Panamá.
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pensando mucho reflect themes shared by other grandmothers who have assumed
primary caregiving responsibilities in Nicaraguan transnational families.
Pensando Mucho: The Moral Economies of Migration
In discussing pensando mucho, grandmothers often referred to economic tensions
and constraints as a source for and focus of their ‘‘pensamientos’’ (thoughts). These
grandmothers receive and manage remittances sent by migrant mothers and assume
primary responsibility for household economies. Despite the undeniable economic
benefits of migration (enabling families to send children to private school and make
needed home improvements),8 grandmothers refer to remittances as both materially
inadequate to cover household expenses and as morally insufficient to make up for
mothers’ absences. The moral ambivalences surrounding the economies of
migration permeate women’s discussions of pensando mucho.
For example, Marbeya—a 52-year-old grandmother raising two children (aged 8
and 14) of mother migrant Azucena who had lived in Costa Rica for over
11 years—explicitly associates pensando mucho with her responsibility to oversee
her household’s economic circumstances, which in the excerpt below she glosses
with the phrase ‘‘lo de la casa’’ (‘‘things at home’’). Marbeya heads a crowded
household of 21 members (five of her six children, four of her children’s spouses,
eleven grandchildren, and her husband) in an economically poor Managua barrio
and is primarily responsible for accomplishing household tasks (cooking, cleaning,
fetching water, and washing) and supporting family needs with the limited
economic resources she receives from remittances. Her household responsibilities
and economic constraints are evident in the following exchange:
K What are you thinking about when you think too much?
M When I get desperate (desesperada) is when I see that school tuition is coming
due, or when the kids ask me for something at exam time, that ask me for things
up and down and… it’s exasperating to see that the kids ask me for things and
the money hasn’t arrived.
K So when you get to thinking (cuando se pone a pensar), it’s usually for
economic reasons?
M Yeah, right. If I’m fine with things around the house (con lo de la casa), I don’t
think too much (yo no pienso mucho).
K Yeah=
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That all the families of migrant mothers in this study send their children to private school is significant,
for it reflects the principal aim of mother migration; in the words of migrant mother Azucena, to ‘‘give my
children opportunities that I myself did not have.’’ Private grade schools in Nicaragua are often run by
church-affiliated groups and are located throughout the poor and working class neighborhoods where
families in this study live. Tuition in these schools is reasonable—averaging around $20 (USD) per month
per child; however, even this small fee is out of reach for most Nicaraguan families.
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M =You see, when I sleep well, I wake up fine. But when I have that insomnia and
can’t sleep, I wake up depressed.9
In this exchange, Marbeya describes how economic strains can lead her to think
too much, and how she struggles to manage remittances in a way that meets all the
various needs of the grandchildren in her care. She also links pensando mucho
implicitly to several related syndromes or symptoms: feelings of desperation
(‘‘desperación’’), insomnia (‘‘insomnia’’), and depression (‘‘depresión’’). Emerging
from Marbeya’s description of pensando mucho is a nascent explanatory model
wherein the economic responsibilities and constraints she faces as a primary
caregiver in a transnational family provoke ‘‘pensando mucho’’, contribute to
feelings of desperation, and cause sleeplessness, all of which contribute to
Marbeya’s feelings of depression.
On the other hand, Marbeya tells me that when everything is in order at home,
she feels well and does not think too much. In Marbeya’s words, ‘‘I’m well when
everything at home is good, when everything’s good, I feel calm about
everything…If I’m good, in other words, with things at home, I don’t think too
much (yo no pienso mucho).’’ This reflection hints at the ways that caregiving may
also provide grandmothers such as Marbeya a way of coping with the emotional
distress associated with mother migration.
Beatriz also associated pensando mucho with her family’s economic circumstances and her responsibilities to manage household finances. Beatriz is 63 and
raising her 9-year-old granddaughter Alejandra after Beatriz’ daughter Jimena
migrated to the U.S. about six months prior to our encounters. Like Marbeya,
Beatriz heads a crowded intergenerational household of children, children-in-law,
and grandchildren and depends on remittances to support household expenses.
While Beatriz was an animated and energetic woman, she often became pensive and
quiet during our interviews and thus invited her daughter Juana (J) to participate and
help elaborate on the family’s experiences of migration. During one such interview,
Beatriz became teary-eyed, affirming she was ‘‘pensando mucho’’ about ‘‘everything,’’ particularly about her economic problems. Here, I excerpt an exchange from
this interview:
K
B
J
B
K
So tell me, when you get to thinking too much, what are you thinking about
(>en qué se pone a pensar?)
Well you see, it depends on the occasion, because there are times that you have
thoughts (hay veces uno tiene pensamientos) about how to take care of
everything at home. You know, sometimes for the-for the=
=Because of the economic part.
The economic part and everything because, what can you do? I’m the one who
thinks about everything (soy la que piensa en todo). I mean, I’m the one who iswho is responsible.
Responsible=
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In the interview exchanges excerpted here, the symbol = indicates overlapping speech. I have also left
certain key phrases in Spanish so as to allow access to their original meaning and make transparent my
translations into English.
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=Yes, and if I weren’t attending to money- if I weren’t- this makes me think too
much. [Begins to cry]
Contributing to Beatriz’ pensando mucho about her responsibilities to oversee
her household’s economy is the recent migration of her daughter, Jimena. Jimena
had migrated within a few months of this interview, and had not yet found a job in
the U.S., so Beatriz had not yet received remittances. Before she migrated, Jimena
held a professional job at a Nicaraguan company, and provided Beatriz with a good
deal of economic support. Beatriz’ thoughts following Jimena’s migration were
focused on how she could support her household without Jimena’s help, and
specifically how to continue to send granddaughter Alejandra to private school. For
this reason, Beatriz’ ‘‘pensamientos’’ were focused on the economic impacts of
Jimena’s migration. She explained
Because she was the one who helped me a lot, with everything. What can I sayif she left, I thought about how I was going to make it by, make everything work
out. Because when she was here, if we ran out of gas [cooking fuel], I would tell
her and she would say, ‘Mom, here you go, take this, buy it.’ So you can see that
we can do it but, for everything to be in place, she’s missing. So those were my
thoughts (esos eran mis pensamientos). You see? I didn’t sleep, think (no
dormı́a pensando). I said to myself, ‘How am I going to do it?’
Beatriz went on to explain that after Jimena left, she thought she would have to take
Alejandra out of the private school that she attended because she did not have the money to
pay the tuition. Beatriz was able to solve this problem with the help of a co-resident son
who stepped up and helped pay for household expenses. However, even more than
Jimena’s physical absence, Beatriz is thinking about what her migration means for her
goal of having her family ‘‘unido’’ (united). As Beatriz told me, she and her husband have
always wanted a life where her family would ‘‘vivir unidos todos’’ (live united altogether),
articulating the cultural value for family unity and solidarity that migration disrupts.
Juana, a 47-year-old grandmother, also told me she ‘‘thought too much’’ about
the economic necessity that pushed her children to migrate and how their absence
negatively impacted the family unity and togetherness she desired. Juana (with the
help of her husband) is raising two young children of two daughters who had
migrated to Costa Rica within the past 5 years and were still living undocumented
in the neighboring country. Juana has personal migration experience, as she was the
first in her family to cross the border to Costa Rica where she worked as a doméstica
(domestic worker) when her children were in their teens. After a few years, Juana
and her family decided that her health could not sustain the demands of migrant life
and that her children would have better economic prospects as migrants than she
would. Of the necessity of migration for Nicaraguan families, Juana says
Thinking that (pensando que)… if there were a source of work here nearby there
wouldn’t be a necessity to go migrate to another country that isn’t ours. To be in
family (para estar en familia), together here, where they would just go out in the day
to work and we’d know that in the afternoon or the evening, they’d be here. And we
would be able to mutually help one another here united together (aquı́ todos unidos).
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In their discussions of pensando mucho, Marbeya, Beatriz, and Juana all refer to
their responsibilities as household economic managers, and the anxieties of making
economic ends meet given limited resources. Contrary to popularly held views of
remittances as pushing migrant-sending families into the middle/consumptive class,
financial anxieties are often compounded following migration, and grandmothers
who assume roles as primary caregivers also assume new burdens as household
economic managers.10 However, grandmothers’ discussions of pensando mucho are
not limited to the economic impacts of migration, but focus on the ways migration
reshapes their desires to have their families united and living together in Nicaragua.
Pensando Mucho: The Uncertainties of Transnational Family Life
Grandmothers associate pensando mucho with the ambivalences of the moral
economies of migration, their experiences of the care slot, and their sense of the
uncertain future of their families’ lives. These uncertainties are compounded by
restrictive immigration policy regimes and risky border crossings between
Nicaragua and destination countries. While space limits me from going into detail
about these migration dynamics, most Nicaraguans in Costa Rica are undocumented
and face racist exclusion, social discrimination, and police harassment (including
deportation).11 These risks and dangers of illicit migration are part of the content of
grandmother caregivers’ pensamientos (thoughts). For example, Juana described her
experience of the migration of her two daughters to Costa Rica this way:
Sometimes during the daytime you can pretend [you don’t feel it] because
there’s so much to do, but when nighttime arrives even sleep escapes us (hasta
el sueño se nos quita) as they say, because we get to thinking a lot (nos
ponemos a pensar mucho) about the fact that they’re not here, about how
they’re doing, about what’s happening, about when they may call us… We get
to thinking because, well, all this happens. Then you can’t sleep calmly. It’s
something that you’re already thinking (que ya estás pensando), maybe you
can’t even eat right, because you’re eating and you’re thinking (estás
pensando): How is she doing over there? What is she doing now? How is my
daughter? So, it just isn’t the same.
Interesting in this passage is the way Juana uses the third person singular and
plural, as if to emphasize that any woman in her situation (mother of adult daughter
migrants) would have a similar experience of loss, absence, and distress. Juana
clearly associates pensando mucho with her daughters’ absence; however, it is not
only a physical sense of absence that Juana is expressing here, for she is also
referring to an emotional separation, a feeling of detachment from her migrant
daughters associated with the physical distance of transnational space, which
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This negative economic impact is exacerbated in cases when mothers worked and provided significant
support to household economies pre-migration; as is the case of Jimena (Olga’s daughter) and other
migrant mothers in this study.
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renders Juana unable to know exactly what or how they are doing. Juana also refers
to her awareness of the ways transnational communication is altered so as not to
reveal the more troublesome side of migrants’ experiences. All of these dimensions
of transnational family life cause Juana to feel a growing sense of emotional
distance with her daughters, and, while she can distract herself during the day, at
night her thoughts enter her consciousness and prevent her from sleeping, as she
finds herself ‘‘thinking too much’’ about her migrant daughters.
Also, in Juana’s excerpt is a sense of the in-betweenness of transnational
migration. Even though they themselves do not migrate, grandmothers like Juana
feel a sense of dislocation when their daughters migrate, as their emotional lives
become suspended across national borders. In other words, grandmother caregivers
feel themselves occupying the ambivalent affective space between ‘‘here’’
(Nicaragua) and ‘‘there’’ (destination country) (Hondagneu-Sotelo and Avila
1997). This physical and intergenerational separation between women is significant,
as it represents a disruption of Nicaraguan cultural values for unidad (unity) and
solidaridad (solidarity) in family life. In their discussions of pensando mucho,
grandmothers highlight the intergenerational dimensions of family separation of
transnational migration, for as grandmothers, they find themselves caring for
another generation of children and as mothers they are separated from their migrant
daughters. Pensando mucho thus indexes the moral ambivalence of transnational
family life for grandmothers who work to maintain emotional ties between children
and their mother migrants abroad as they simultaneously negotiate the changes that
transnational migration implies for their own lived experiences and hopes for the
future.
For grandmothers like Juana, pensando mucho also indexes the emotional and
instrumental support that is missing from their experiences within the ‘‘care slot.’’
Juana talks about the dangers her daughters are exposed to as undocumented
migrants in Costa Rica and her own inability as a mother to protect them. Juana
wants to be present for her daughters and she wants them to be present for her in
ways that become impossible due to the distance and separation of transnational life.
This is clear when I ask Juana directly, ‘‘What are you thinking about when you get
to thinking too much?’’, and Juana replies
I think about the economic part, about the health of my family, and about my
children who aren’t here- you can feel the loneliness. You feel alone. After
being full of people, you find yourself alone. And sometimes you need
someone- even if it’s just for them to bring you a glass of water when you’re
sick.
Here, Juana refers with nostalgia to having her house ‘‘full of people’’ before her
three adult children (two daughters and one son) migrated to Costa Rica. Even
though she lives with her husband and grandchildren, and has a daughter and son-inlaw who live nearby, Juana still feels lonely. This sentiment runs counter to her
expectation that at this stage in her life, she would be surrounded by supportive
adult children, who would provide her with emotional and instrumental support,
even in tasks as small as bringing her a glass of water. Bringing a glass of water in
grandmothers’ narratives of transnational family life has symbolic meaning as a
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concrete example of the kinds of instrumental and emotional support that
grandmothers miss when their adult daughters migrate.
Nostalgia, or longing for a time before migration when ‘‘toda la familia era
unida’’ (all the family was united), was a recurrent theme in women’s narratives of
pensando mucho. When I ask Marbeya to describe her pensamientos, she talks of a
longing for a life prior to her daughter’s migration, before taking on the
(grand)parenting responsibilities she has assumed:
There are times, right, when a longing (una nostalgia) takes hold of me and I
say to myself, ‘Ay, if my daughter were here with me I might feel in good
health (bien de salud)’, or I would feel calm because I would be relieved of a
burden that I have now, I would pass it off onto her. It’s like an obligation I
have right now with her children. And if she were here, I wouldn’t have this
obligation, I would pass it off to her hands. So it would be fewer thoughts for
my brain (serı́a menos pensamientos para mi cerebro).
In Marbeya’s account, her ‘‘nostalgia’’ is a way of rendering her memories of a
past (prior to mother migration), when the order of reproductive and caregiving
responsibilities within her household would not have been disrupted and when she
would have been ‘‘bien de salud’’ (‘‘in good health’’), or well—in other words, when
mothers cared for children, and adult children cared for aging mothers. While I do
not know whether this memory matches pre-migration realities in Marbeya’s family,
her account of pensando mucho connects a remembered past with a longed-for
(post-migration) future, when she will be relieved of her responsibilities as what we
might call a mother-in-the-meantime, able to pass on care of her grandchildren to
their (hopefully returned) migrant mother, and to set straight the culturally valued
order of caregiving within her family life.
While pensando mucho contains feelings of nostalgia for longed-for pasts,
women’s thoughts also are focused on highly uncertain futures. An illustrative
example here is Angela, 53 years old and raising granddaughter Laleska, aged 11 at
the time of the study, whose mother Karla had migrated to the U.S. over 10 years
before. Also living with Angela are two other granddaughters who Angela has
raised since they were young, despite the fact that their mothers are not migrants,
but live elsewhere in Managua. Laleska views these maternal cousins as sisters and
Angela treats all three girls as ‘‘mis hijas’’ (my daughters). Angela maintains an
orderly household and has her ‘‘girls’’ help with regular chores, cooking, cleaning,
washing, and organizing the weekly meetings of her church Bible study that Angela
hosts.
Angela describes her experience of ‘‘thinking too much’’ in relation to the
possibility that Laleska will eventually ‘‘reunify’’ with Karla in the U.S., leaving
Angela alone and without the company she has grown to love. The possibility of
Laleska’s migration was highly uncertain at the time of this study, reflecting the
complexities of the U.S. immigration bureaucracy and the opaqueness of the family
reunification visa process. While in early interviews Angela talked about
reunification as an immanent possibility, over time it became much less clear
whether Karla had even initiated the necessary paperwork for her daughter’s and her
mother’s residency visas or whether either would be traveling to the U.S. anytime
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soon. When I ask Angela to describe her pensando mucho, she tells me that what she
most thinks about is this uncertain future of her family life. On a personal level,
Angela worries that if Karla were to obtain a residency visa for her, Angela would
not want to leave Nicaragua because of her family ties, responsibilities, and sense of
community. Angela has two children who live not far from her in Managua and she
is involved in their lives as they are in hers. Angela also helps care for grandchildren
other than Karla’s daughter and worries about leaving them behind were she to go to
Miami with Laleska. Angela also has very strong ties and a leadership role within
her church, and while she knows there are Christian churches in Miami that she
could attend, she does not want to leave her ‘‘hermanos y hermanas’’ (brothers and
sisters of the church). Angela knows life in the U.S. is different from Nicaragua,
more individualistic and less family oriented; she worries about the possibility that
she would end up being ‘‘encerrada’’ (closed up in) her daughter’s house, with few
friends and little of the social support she enjoys in Managua.
But even more than ‘‘thinking too much’’ about herself, Angela is thinking about
the uncertainty surrounding Laleska. For Angela, the decision about whether or not
Laleska migrates is not hers to make, but something that Karla will decide. Still,
Angela worries about Laleska’s future if she were to leave Nicaragua for the U.S.
after living for more than 10 years in her care. Angela is concerned that Laleska will
not adjust well to living with her mother and she contemplates the possibility that
Karla’s new husband will expect Laleska to babysit her younger siblings. She
wonders if Laleska might end up dropping out of school, just like her mother Karla
did after she migrated to the U.S. years earlier. As she describes these uncertainties
to me, Angela connects one concern to another in a litany of worry and fret; saying,
‘‘You see, I get to thinking too much about all of these things’’ (‘‘Ya ves, en todas
esas cosas yo me pongo a pensar mucho’’).
Angela’s emotional distress partially reflects the fact that she feels decisions
about the future of her family life are largely outside her control. First, there is the
complex and costly U.S. immigration bureaucracy, which makes possible ‘‘reunification’’ a long and expensive process for Karla and the family. Second, decisions
about ‘‘reunification’’ are largely in Karla’s hands since, as a U.S. resident and
Laleska’s mother, she has to submit residency petitions for her daughter and mother.
Thus, Angela feels marginalized from the very actions that will determine her
personal and family future. As Angela explains, this uncertainty provokes her
pensando mucho:
It’s this that has me- at any moment- it’s something that she’s already thought
about, it’s a situation that’s presenting itself and that I think about- in any
moment- How am I going to do it? How can I leave here? So, I get to thinking
(me pongo a pensar).
In this excerpt, Angela frames future migration-related decisions as something
that her daughter Karla ‘‘has already thought about’’ (past tense) but that she herself
experiences as a situation that is ‘‘presenting itself’’ (in the troublesome present
perfect) and that she continues to ‘‘think about.’’ In other words, Angela portrays
Karla as the mother migrant and agent making decisions about the future; whereas
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she, as grandmother, is coping with the consequences of ‘‘reunification’’ on herself
and her family in the present.
Like Angela, Olga (62 years old and raising granddaughter Juliana, aged 9)
associates pensando mucho with the ways immigration politics impinge on her
family’s future. Olga’s daughter Manuela had lived undocumented in Panama City
for 2 years prior to my fieldwork. Olga knows of other residents of her lower-class
Managua neighborhood who have migrated to Panama and who have been deported,
and Olga considers this a real risk facing Manuela. Olga tells me that her pensando
mucho was precipitated by Manuela’s initial departure; however, her ongoing
thoughts are focused on the insecurity her daughter faces and the uncertain future
her family confronts. Olga says, ‘‘Ay! I think about the fact that migration
[Panamanian immigration enforcement] can grab her at any time (que la agarra la
migración) and they can send her back. Like they say, they’ll send her back without
anything, they say that everything [Manuela’s belongings] will stay where she lived.
Migration- Yes, I get to thinking (me pongo a pensar).’’
Olga’s fear of Manuela’s possible deportation (‘‘que la agarra la migración’’)
reflects a very real threat. I had occasion to visit Manuela in Panama City in the
small, two-room house she shares with another Nicaraguan migrant in an immigrant
neighborhood. At some point during our two-hour conversation, Manuela received a
phone call from a friend who resided nearby, telling her that ‘‘la migra’’ (migration
authorities) were conducting a sweep of the barrio, asking people to show their
immigration papers, and taking them into custody if they did not have documents.
Manuela seemed accustomed to such immigration raids and told me they happen all
the time (the ways Manuela and her friends use social networks and cell phones to
protect each other is revealing of the frequency of these raids and immigrants’
resourcefulness in responding to them). While her daughter has grown used to the
risks of her own undocumented status, back home in Nicaragua, Olga fears the
worst, thinking Manuela may be detained and deported at any time. When Olga does
not receive her bi-monthly phone call from Manuela, anxiety sets in and she gets to
thinking, ‘‘Could it be that immigration detained her? I get upset (Yo me quedo
afligida.)’’ For Olga, then, the vulnerabilities and uncertainties of transnational
family life provoke deeply felt anxieties (or aflicción), and contribute to her
pensando mucho. This discussion shows how ‘‘illegality’’ (see Willen 2007)
structures the subjective experiences not just of migrants themselves, but also of
family members of migrants in sending countries, who experience the vulnerabilities of undocumented status as a significant source of distress.
Somatic Symptoms of Pensando Mucho
The two most common somatic symptoms mentioned by women in conversations
about pensando mucho were ‘‘dolor de cerebro’’ (lit. ‘‘brainache’’) and ‘‘insomnia’’
(‘‘insomnia’’). Dolor de cerebro is described as a pulsing pain felt at the back of the
head or base of the skull/top of the neck; distinct from, but possibly co-occurring
with, both ‘‘dolor de cabeza’’ (headache) and ‘‘migraña’’ (migraine) (for a
discussion of dolor de cerebro among rural Nicaraguan women, see Yarris 2011).
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While ‘‘cerebro’’ can be translated literally as ‘‘brain,’’ women use ‘‘cerebro’’
almost interchangeably with ‘‘mente,’’ which would be translated as ‘‘mind.’’ Thus,
‘‘dolor de cerebro’’ could be translated as ‘‘brainache,’’ but could also be glossed by
the phrase ‘‘mindache.’’
Beatriz explains the association between pensando mucho and dolor de cerebro in
the following exchange:
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Do your thoughts (pensamientos) hurt you? Is there any place in your body
that=
=In the brain/mind (en el cerebro), yes, in the brain/mind. Because that wears
you out (desgastarse), the brain/mind- Well it’s the circumstances that we live
in. If you had the means, ahh- you’d live well! But you tell me, being poor, you
have to think (tiene que pensar) about how you’re going to get by.
In Beatriz’ explanation, she ‘‘thinks too much’’ about the circumstances of her
life, specifically her economic poverty. Thinking about how she is ‘‘going to get
by,’’ she feels a physical sensation of pain in her brain/mind, described as a
‘‘wearing oneself out’’ (desgastarse).
Similar to Beatriz, Marbeya describes dolor de cerebro as a somatic reflection of
pensando mucho. According to Marbeya,
I’m thinking (estoy pensando), how is money going to last me? What am I
going to spend it on? If the boy [her grandson Selso] gets sick today, tomorrow
I can’t buy the pair of shoes, because I have to take him to the doctor. So there
is the brain/mind (cerebro) going, it’s the mind (mente) and the brain
(cerebro), and everything is working. It’s like being super worried (super
preocupada).
In this excerpt, Marbeya portrays the experience of pensando mucho as a
sensation that her brain/mind is working, processing thoughts and worries related to
her responsibilities for her two grandchildren, and her economic constraints as their
primary caregiver. In her description, pensando mucho is ‘‘like being super
worried’’; in other words, pensar (to think) is different from, and more intense than,
preocupar (to worry). (The distinction between ‘‘thinking’’ and ‘‘worrying’’ will be
discussed further below.) In addition to associating pensando mucho with dolor de
cerebro, Marbeya also connects pensando mucho with symptoms of sleeplessness:
If I don’t think too much, I sleep well (Sı́ yo no pienso mucho, yo me duermo
tranquila). But if I lie down and I start to close up in thoughts, like going
‘riqui, riqui’ [makes machine-like sounds and points to her head], the cassette
going around, that tape is going round and round… but if I don’t think too
much, my brain is calm.
Like dolor de cerebro, Marbeya describes sleeplessness as caused by ‘‘thinking
too much.’’ When Marbeya is thinking too much, she ‘‘closes up in thoughts,’’ with
her brain/mind processing thoughts repeatedly and incessantly and thus making it
difficult for her to rest. On the other hand, when she is not distracted by thinking too
much, Marbeya’s ‘‘brain is calm’’ and she can sleep well. In her descriptions of
‘‘pensando mucho,’’ Marbeya describes how her ‘‘cerebro’’ (brain/mind) works,
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machine-like, to process her thoughts. In this view, the brain/mind is experienced as
a distinct object, organ, or site within the body that is an agent of thinking
(pensando) and of thoughts (pensamientos). The brain/mind ‘‘working too much’’
causes dolor de cerebro and insomnia, and in Marbeya’s portrayal, it seems there is
little she can do to intervene and control her thoughts so that her ‘‘brain is calm.’’
Marbeya talked about the experience of pensando mucho in a separate conversation
this way: ‘‘It’s when you are wearing yourself out (‘‘se está desgastando’’), you put
yourself- I feel like my brain (‘‘cerebro’’) is tired (‘‘cansado’’).’’
Beatriz and Marbeya make explicit the sensation of a ‘‘wearing out’’ or a
tiredness (‘‘cansancio’’) in the brain due to thinking too much. These findings recall
an earlier study of Puerto Rican mental health patients in the U.S., where dolor de
cerebro was cited as a specific pain associated with ‘‘un desgaste cerebral’’ (‘‘a
wearing out of the brain’’) (Abad and Boyce 1979). I have also documented this
embodied pain as experienced among a separate sample of rural Nicaraguan women
(Yarris 2011). While there is a need for more scholarly attention to dolor de cerebro
and pensando mucho in different cultural settings, these preliminary findings reveal
the possibility of an emergent explanatory model whereby the social location of
women of the grandmother generation and their experiences of cultural change and
uncertainty produce the embodied distress of pensando mucho.
In these descriptions of dolor de cerebro, the brain/mind is a generative source for
the broader social and cultural significance of pensando mucho. The descriptions
presented here also contain interesting insights into the meanings of ‘‘cerebro’’
(brain) and ‘‘mente’’ (mind). Although I did not explicitly ask women about the
distinctions between these three bodily sites, across women’s discussions of
pensando mucho emerges a sense that the cerebro is a generative site of
pensamientos (thoughts), which, when experienced in excess, can in turn cause
pain in the brain/mind. Studies of chronic pain in the U.S. have shown how the idea
of pain being ‘‘in the head’’ can delegitimize sufferer’s experiences by contributing
to a sense that pain has no biological basis but is instead imagined (for example, see
Garro 1992, p. 131). Interestingly, in the narratives of pensando mucho analyzed
here, women seem to use the assertion that this syndrome is somatically sensed as
pain in a particular physiological location (the brain/mind) as a way of emphasizing
their experiences of emotional distress. In other words, assigning pain a physical
location may be a way for women to legitimate their experiences of troubling social
realities (here, their roles as caregivers in transnational families). Thus, rather than
physical pain as the ‘‘ontological assault’’ unsettling the integrity of personhood
(Garro 1992, p. 130), in these descriptions of pensando mucho, the physical pain of
dolor de cerebro indexes the social assaults of transnational migration that are
upending grandmothers’ cultural expectations for family life.
Thinking, Worrying, and the (Im)Possibilities of Resolution
One way to understand the syndrome of pensando mucho is to consider how it
differs from other forms of distress. The women in my study were very clear in
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articulating the difference between pensando mucho and ‘‘preocupandose’’ (‘‘worrying oneself’’). In fact, while not a focus of my initial interview questions, women
would raise the difference between pensando mucho and preocupacı́on as a way of
explaining the significance of pensando mucho. This is a distinction of severity and
temporality: whereas preocupación is framed as a common sort of worrying about
everyday problems that have relatively straightforward solutions, pensando mucho
is situated as a chronic and intense form of distress associated with thoughts that
have neither an apparent nor a facile resolution and so extend into uncertain futures.
Angela explained this distinction:
Yes I think they’re different [pensando mucho and preocupación], because
worrying (la preocupación) you have it all the time, right. For example, you
worry about ‘what am I going to cook?’ Or if you have money, let’s see,
‘What am I going to do?’ It’s a worry, but it’s already over. On the other hand,
thinking too much is about a problem that you maybe don’t know how to
resolve. It’s different.
In Angela’s description, preocupación is related to everyday concerns of running
a household, such as preparing meals on a limited budget. Pensando mucho, on the
other hand, is a more profound form of thinking about problems without solutions,
problems that are in essence moral contradictions. For Angela, then, pensando
mucho is derived from ‘‘el problema de ser madre en esta situación’’ (‘‘the problem
of being a mother in this situation’’), a ‘‘problem’’ that is inherent to her condition as
a grandmother occupying the care slot in a transnational family. As discussed
earlier, Angela thinks too much about whether or not she and granddaughter Laleska
should leave for the U.S. and about the fragility of Laleska’s ongoing relationship
with her migrant mother. Angela says, ‘‘You’re always going to have these
thoughts, I feel like these are the things that sometimes drive you to- well, it’s that
you’d like to find a solution but you can’t, so you don’t stop having this problem in
your mind (no deja de tener ese problema en la mente).’’ While Angela would like
to find a resolution to her situation, she cannot change the fact that her daughter has
migrated and that she has assumed care for her granddaughter; thus, in her words,
‘‘you can’t stop because it’s hard to stop thinking about them.’’ In this way,
pensamientos are framed as chronic, persistent thinking that accompanies women’s
roles as grandmothers in transnational families responsible for caring across
distance and generation.
Juana similarly made a temporal distinction between pensando mucho and
preocupación, associating the former with a long-term problem and the latter with a
more immediate or short-term worry. Using the example of how she responds to her
granddaughter’s illness episodes (the 3 year old is asthmatic and has recurrent flareups), Juana says ‘‘me preocupo’’ (‘‘I worry’’) about finding money to cover the cost
of the medicines needed to treat her granddaughter’s asthma. However, Juana says,
‘‘me pongo a pensar’’ (‘‘I get to thinking’’) if she spends money on medical
treatment for the girl one day she will be unable to cover the costs of food to feed
her family over the following few weeks. For Juana, ‘‘Thoughts are more long term
(son más allá). If I spend on medicine for her today, what are we going to eat
tomorrow? It’s a problem without a solution. We’re—as we Nicaraguans say—
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between a rock and a hard place.’’12 Thus, not only are the thoughts of pensando
mucho situated within uncertain futures, they are also thoughts without easy
resolution.
In a separate interview, Juana provides another clear description of the way
pensando mucho is a reflection of the lack of a simple solution:
Because to think too much, I think that brings us … depression. Because I feel
depressed because I don’t feel there’s an exit or a solution to my problem. I
don’t have an answer or a way out of my problem, so this makes me tense, I
get… In other words, it’s like a continuous desperation because I can’t resolve
my problem. Or if the problem is too much for me…. For that reason I said
that with several people it’s more possible- my daughter told me when she was
here [on a recent visit], ‘Don’t worry mom, we are going to make a store, or
we’ll find a way to do something’. There you see there are two heads thinking,
not just one. We can do this or that other thing and there we go. But when
there’s only one person, then I’m like, ‘What am I going to do tomorrow?’ I
don’t know, I feel I don’t have a way out, I can’t figure out which way to go.
For Juana, depression is a reflection of the chronicity and gravity of the thoughts
at the basis of pensando mucho. Juana relates a very visceral sense of ‘‘continuous
desperation’’ associated with her perception of having no answer to her problems.
Juana also contrasts this emotional state of desperation—thinking too much about
problems without solutions—with an example of a recent conversation she had with
her daughter. During a visit home, her daughter offered promises of solutions to the
economic problems facing the family (solutions that imply her daughter’s return and
setting up a small store to generate income for the family). Juana uses this example
to illustrate how pensando mucho results from a sense of solitude since, if her
daughter were at her side, Juana would feel accompanied and able to address her
problems in a more proactive way. Alone, Juana finds herself back in the cycle of
pensamientos without an apparent solution; she ‘‘can’t figure out which way to go.’’
For her part, Beatriz explained that preocupación is about ‘‘something light’’
(‘‘algo leve’’), such as her son coming home late on a weekend night. Her son’s
drinking and partying is something Beatriz worries about, but it is also something
that has ‘‘una solución’’ (‘‘a solution’’), for once she hears him come in the front
door, she feels better and stops worrying. (Beatriz also believes this is just a phase of
early adulthood that her son, like all men, will pass through). On the other hand,
pensando mucho is distinct and for Beatriz related to her role as head of an
economically poor household. As she explains, ‘‘You tell me, when I’m thinking
about something like that [her economic concerns], it’s something that doesn’t have
a resolution. Because you see- it’s when I can’t make ends meet that I get to
thinking, how am I going to do it?’’ For Beatriz, financial constraints are
irresolvable, she thinks about them repeatedly and chronically, thus they are the
substance around which her pensando mucho has significance.
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Here, Juana uses the phrase, ‘‘Entre la espada y la pared’’, which literally translates as ‘‘Between the
sword and the wall’’ but can be idiomatically translated as ‘‘Between a rock and a hard place’’.
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Embedded in these discussions of pensando mucho are women’s feelings of
limited control over the problems that they ‘‘think too much’’ about. In fact,
grandmother caregivers are often sidelined from their daughters’ migration-related
decisions, and respond by assuming care for children out of a sense of moral
obligation to support family life. In some ways, then, pensando mucho is a reflection
of the limited agency women feel in relation to the economic circumstances causing
their daughters to migrate and their sense of limited control over the ongoing
challenges of caregiving in transnational families. On the other hand, women do
express an ability to intervene and overcome their ‘‘preocupaciones.’’ Since worries
are related to the everyday concerns that women face as heads-of-households, they
must face and overcome these immediate challenges as part of their social roles. As
another grandmother, Teresa, said of preocupaciones, ‘‘And being worried- we’re
always going to be worried- worries are always going to be a part of our lives. So
it’s up to us how we are going to respond to them.’’
While women cannot resolve the concerns that cause pensando mucho, they find
some relief for their chronic thoughts through the very acts of caring for
grandchildren that result from their troublesome social location in transnational
families. This is the dialectic complexity of caregiving in transnational families: the
very absences that lead grandmothers to concern also produce opportunities to
provide care that grandmothers experience as life affirming. In other words, while
daily routines of cooking, washing, cleaning, accompanying children to school, and
overseeing homework are partially burdensome, they also provide grandmothers the
chance to ‘‘mother again’’ for another generation of children. These caregiving
relationships also are uncertain; however, for grandmothers know they will forfeit
their emotional ties to grandchildren should mothers decide to reunify with their
children. Such uncertainties and moral ambivalences are at the core of the sentient
experience of pensando mucho for these Nicaraguan grandmothers. In sum, the
substance of pensando mucho involves the irresolvable concerns and contradictions
in family life provoked by mother migration. Through pensando mucho,
grandmothers contend with the moral limitations of remittances, the reconfigurations in their roles as intergenerational caregivers, and the upending of cultural
expectations to have ‘‘toda la familia unida.’’
Concluding Thoughts
As these examples demonstrate, grandmothers’ discussions of pensando mucho
highlight the ambivalence of transnational family life, where mother migration has
ruptured expectations of having ‘‘toda la familia unida’’ and resulted in a profound
sense of uncertainty about the future. Narratives allow participants to situate present
troubles ‘‘within a larger temporal surround’’ (Garro 2005, p. 62) that includes
nostalgic renderings of the past, problematic portrayals of the present, and
ambivalent accounts of possible futures. Through their narratives of pensando
mucho, grandmothers articulate broader concerns about the impact of mother
migration on their lived experiences of the ‘‘care slot,’’ as mothers of migrant
daughters and grandmothers of children of migrants. These women’s lives become
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suspended across national borders through an emotional in-betweenness that
characterizes the affective domain of transnational family life. Through the idiom of
pensando mucho, grandmother caregivers subtly critique the ways transnational
migration upends cultural ideals for solidarity and togetherness in Nicaraguan
family life. ‘‘Thinking too much’’ becomes a chronic worry about whether migration
is temporary or permanent, whether grandchildren will stay in Nicaragua or rejoin
migrant mothers in host countries, whether their migrant daughters will be deported
or return voluntarily, and how migration will impact family relationships in the
future. These are the tensions and uncertainties of transnational family life that give
significance to grandmothers’ emotional distress and are communicated through the
idiom of pensando mucho.
Pensando mucho indexes a rupture in cultural expectations for family life, which
hold that women of the ‘‘tercera edad’’ or grandmother generation would expect to
receive social, emotional, and instrumental support from their adult daughters as
they age into later adulthood. As indicated by the examples presented here, mother
migration undermines women’s desires to have ‘‘toda la familia unida’’ (‘‘all the
family united’’) in physical copresence and emotional support. It is in this cultural
context that we can understand grandmothers’ emotional experiences of mother
migration and the ongoing ambivalence and uncertainty associated with transnational life. Mother migration results from economic circumstances and provokes
troubling consequences for family life that grandmothers cannot resolve. Because
their thoughts lack a simple solution, women experience thinking too much as a
chronic source of embodied distress. The interpretation of pensando mucho I am
advancing here is that the prevalence of ‘‘pensamientos’’ among grandmother
caregivers indexes their social location in the care slot in transnational families, the
persistence of their migrant daughters’ absences, and the uncertainty of their
families’ futures. In other words, where migrant mothers were once physically
present in everyday family life, now grandmothers are left ‘‘thinking too much’’
about their ongoing absence; thoughts remain like emotional traces of the migrant
mothers now far removed in transnational space.
As discussed above, pensando mucho is distinct from other forms of emotional
distress because of its severity and chronicity. It may be precisely because women
see these as thoughts related to social situations of transnational migration that are
immutable that they are unlikely to see clinical or biomedical practitioners as
offering resolution for their distress. Furthermore, according to Marbeya, ‘‘We say
‘My brain/mind hurts’ (Me duele el cerebro). The doctor says, ‘The brain/mind
doesn’t hurt.’ (El cerebro no duele.) For us, we feel ‘my brain hurts’; but for doctors,
the brain can’t hurt. So I say to them, in other words, ‘Ok, fine, I feel exhausted.’’’
Here, Marbeya indicates that medical practitioners do not take women’s claims of
pensando mucho seriously, but rather disregard them as illegitimate claims of
suffering or possibly attempts at malingering. Given such disregard, it is unlikely
that women will present the pain of pensando mucho in clinical settings. It may also
be that precisely because I took such serious interest in pensando mucho that women
were willing and open to talk with me about their distress. I also argue that for the
grandmothers with whom I work, pensando mucho functions as an idiom of distress,
meaning that they use this complaint to draw attention (from this anthropologist and
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other concerned observers) to the importance of their intergenerational caregiving
for the maintenance of transnational families.
I have also documented the embodied dimensions of pensando mucho through a
discussion of dolor de cerebro. Here it is apparent that culture shapes not only ways
of talking about the body, but also, importantly, ways of feeling, sensing, and being
in the body; or, in the case of pensando mucho and the associated pain of dolor de
cerebro, of being in the brain/mind (which my interlocutors view as part of, not
separate from, the body). Thus, the thoughts associated with ‘‘thinking too much’’
are evidence not only of a cognitive process, but also of a social, emotional,
sentient, and embodied experience. Rather than situating pensando mucho in
relation to a pre-reflective—ontologically primary—body, these examples of dolor
de cerebro show how the body can be a sited upon which thoughts inscribe pain. In
other words, the argument about pensando mucho advanced here runs somewhat
counter to philosophical notions that the body is a pre-reflective generative force
(see Merleau-Ponty 1962). In the idiom of pensando mucho, thoughts and emotions
are productive, generative sources of cultural meaning, just as cultural meanings
shape emotional experiences and cognitive content. Based on this discussion of
pensando mucho, the relationship between body, mind, and culture appears
inextricably intertwined such that culture shapes mental, physiological, and
emotional experiences, which reciprocally are productive sources of cultural
meanings and actions.
It is hoped that additional research will determine whether ‘‘thinking too much’’
is an idiom of distress salient in other cultural contexts. From the present analysis, I
hypothesized that ‘‘thinking too much’’ may be revealed to be a significant form of
distress for women of the grandmother generation in social settings beyond
Nicaragua, particularly for women who find themselves assuming primary
caregiving responsibilities for (grand)children following parental migration or
other forms of parent absence. I propose that ‘‘thinking too much’’ indexes the
emotional distress of grandmothers who find themselves engaging in caregiving as a
way to foster family togetherness and broader cultural continuity in the face of
contemporary social upheaval such as that following transnational migration.
While it is possible to leave an analysis of pensando mucho at the level of
embodied distress or social suffering, doing so would represent an incomplete
interpretation of the experiences of the grandmothers discussed here. For, despite
the hardships and challenges of their caregiving roles, these are women of the
tercera edad who actively and affirmatively participate in the recreation of
individual, family, and cultural life despite their limited economic resources and in
the face of the challenges of transnational migration. As I suggested above, it is
through caregiving itself that grandmothers are able to find an internal source of
resilience they draw upon to counter their sense of loss and uncertainty surrounding
mother migration. In other words, while child caregiving is a significant social
responsibility and may at times be experienced as a burden, grandmothers also gain
a sense of purpose and motivation through extending care as a means of supporting
their migrant daughters and grandchildren. Thus, where pensando mucho evidences
the troubling emotional uncertainty and cultural disruption embodied in
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transnational migration, grandmothers may draw upon caregiving as a resource for
their own and their families’ emotional well-being.
Acknowledgments The author would like to thank the organizers and participants of the 2013 Cascadia
Seminar in Medical Anthropology for the opportunity to workshop an earlier version of this article in that
venue. Special thanks to Ana Paula Pimentel Walker for her helpful comments in the development of this
article and to Heather Wolford for her assistance with manuscript preparation. The research upon which
this article is based was supported by the National Science Foundation and the Fulbright Institute for
International Education. Heartfelt gratitude to all the women and families who participated in the research
and to Cándida Gómez Suárez and Karen González for their ongoing compañerismo in Nicaragua.
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