How to Be Fine: What We Learned by Living by the Rules of 50 Self-Help Books
Written by Jolenta Greenberg and Kristen Meinzer
Narrated by Jolenta Greenberg and Kristen Meinzer
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About this audiobook
A humorous and insightful look into what advice works, what doesn’t, and what it means to transform yourself, by the co-hosts of the popular By the Book podcast.
In each episode of their podcast By the Book, Jolenta Greenberg and Kristen Meinzer take a deep dive into a different self-help book, following its specific instructions, rules, and advice to the letter. From diet and productivity to decorating to social interactions, they try it all, record themselves along the way, then share what they’ve learned with their devoted and growing audience of fans who tune in.
Before they began their podcast, Jolenta wanted to believe the promises of self-help books, while Kristen was very much the skeptic. They embraced their differences of opinion, hoping they’d be good for laughs and downloads. But in the years since launching the By the Book, they’ve come to realize their show is about much more than humor. In fact, reading and following each book’s advice has actually changed and improved their lives. Thanks to the show, Kristen penned the Amish romance novel she’d always joked about writing, traveled back to her past lives, and she broached some difficult conversations with her husband about their marriage. Jolenta finally memorized her husband’s phone number, began tracking her finances, and fell in love with cutting clutter.
In How to Be Fine, Jolenta and Kristen synthesize the lessons and insights they’ve learned and share their experiences with everyone. How to Be Fine is a thoughtful look at the books and practices that have worked, real talk on those that didn’t, and a list of philosophies they want to see explored in-depth. The topics they cover include:
Getting off your device
Engaging in positive self-talk
Downsizing
Admitting you're a liar
Meditation
Going outside
Getting in touch with your emotions
Seeing a therapist
Part memoir, part prescriptive handbook, this honest, funny, and heartfelt guide is like a warm soul-baring conversation with your closest and smartest friends.
Supplemental enhancement PDF accompanies the audiobook.
Jolenta Greenberg
Jolenta Greenberg is a comedian, podcaster, pop culture commentator, and self-proclaimed reality television historian. As a performer, her stand-up and storytelling have been featured all over NYC. She's a Moth StorySLAM winner and from 2014-2016 she held a comedic residency at Pete's Candy Store in Brooklyn. Her credits include hosting Stitcher's By The Book; story editing for Risk! Hosted by Kevin Allison, and producing for Freakonomics Radio. She lives in Brooklyn, New York.
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Readers find this title to be a fun and educational read. They appreciate the authors' critical approach to self-help books and the clear aggregation of information. However, some readers were disappointed with the authors' lack of awareness regarding feminist and socially popular beliefs. Overall, the book is praised for its entertainment value and ability to enrich readers' lives.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Fun read for fans of the fab By the Book podcast! I love the podcast.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Love these ladies and their By the Book podcast! This is my second time listening to this book over the last year and I learn so much everytime. Thank you for not only entertaining us but educating us and enriching our lives. Bravo! - Ontario, Canada
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I really liked their critical approach to self-help books and the way they aggregated so many in a clear way. I disliked the authors own blindness in the realm of the feminist and socially popular beliefs. For example, regarding fat shaming, "I don't even know what a hot body means." Really? This is sprinkled throughout the book but is mostly in the section with the authors own recommendations from chapter 30 until the end.