The Sun and Her Flowers
By Rupi Kaur
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this is the recipe of life
said my mother
as she held me in her arms as i wept
think of those flowers you plant
in the garden each year
they will teach you
that people too
must wilt
fall
root
rise
in order to bloom
Rupi Kaur
A breakout literary phenomenon and #1 New York Times Bestselling Author, Rupi Kaur wrote, illustrated, and self-published her first poetry collection milk and honey in 2014. Next came its artistic siblings the sun and her flowers and home body, both debuting at #1 on bestseller lists across the world. These collections have sold more than 11 million copies and have been translated into over 43 languages. In 2022, she released her fourth book Healing Through Words which is a journey of guided writing exercises to help the reader explore their creativity. As she has done from the very beginning, Rupi self-produced Rupi Kaur Live, the first poetry special of its kind, which debuted on Amazon Prime Video in 2021. Rupi Kaur graces stages across the globe on sold-out world tours. These shows are a poetic theatrical experience interlaced with her own touch of stand-up. Her work touches on love, loss, trauma, healing, femininity, and migration. She feels most at home when creating art, performing her poetry onstage, and spending time with family and friends.
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Readers find this title gorgeously written, emotional, relatable, and impactful. The book is praised for its structure, meaningful illustrations, and its ability to express love and loss. Some readers find it simple and brilliant, resonating deeply with the poems. While there are a few negative reviews mentioning repetition and similarity to the author's previous work, overall, readers enjoy connecting with Rupi Kaur through her writing. The book is considered a beautiful and empowering read that helps readers love their roots.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5LOVED LOVED LOVED this! Normally I'm not one for poetry but Rupi Kaur showed me what's up. I didn't think anything could top her last collection (Milk and Honey), but my god, this is heaven. It's profoundly emotional, soul jarring, and introspective. It's word porn of the highest order. The Sun and Her Flowers is split into five sections: wilting, falling, rooting, rising, and blooming. Rooting was especially moving, delving into immigration and making a new life in a new country, her poems about her mother are profoundly touching. The accompanying illustrations really add to her poems, helping elicit even more of an emotional response from the reader. Her poems range from break-ups, self doubt, self-love, trust, immigration, and womanhood. I literally loved this book so much, I went out and bought it because I knew I had to possess such a a beautiful collection. A definite must read, especially for women.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Loved this collection just as much as the first one! Can't wait to read more
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Simple and Brilliant. I resonate so deeply with this! A favorite!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Just like her first book, this was an amazing heart touching second book. I love how every illustration has so much meaning and sympathy hidden in it that it feels like it's flooding the room. Ten out of ten, you should read it!
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Though I only gave this collection of poetry an average rating, that doesn’t go to say that it wasn’t impactful and empowering in certain areas. I’ve always loved that Rupi Kaur writes from not only experience, but on a level that is relatable. My main issue however was that it seemed to match her first work a little much. I found it very repetitive in a lot of areas, and sadly unforgettable overall.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5good one for reading this book. worth to read this.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5In all honesty, I think this book is underrated compared to the hype Milk and Honey received. I'm a fan of both works but I loved the structure of this book.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Amazing book! I really enjoyed it. I feel as if I can connect with Rupi through her writing.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Beautiful, it helped me learn to love my roots
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A beautiful book of poetry about love and loss, and all the other heartbreaking experiences of life. I am excited to see how she continues to improve as a poet and I relate to so many of these poems.
Don’t expect super metaphorical or figurative language, but I guess that’s the point of poetry... to be able to express yourself in whatever you want. - Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5Is easy then difficult to read. Make sure you read up about it before diving in. Beautiful written, trigger warning, re sexual assaults.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5One of the great things about reading is that it opens doors to other cultures and ways of life. This by Rupi Kaur is one of these books in it she deals with grief, love and empowering herself. A unique writing style that took a little getting use to but a good book.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I LOVED THIS POEM SO MUCH! I love her work.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5It was gorgeously written. Definitely had me emotional. 10/10 reccomend
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5She is absolutely amazing. Her words are relatable to essentially everyone. I own the paperback copy and I am always going back to it. Simply amazing!
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5I liked this!
Rupi Kaur introduced me to a style of poetry a few years ago that I really liked, and I embarked on a rather winding journey, picking up poets along the way whose work I really enjoyed and was drawn to. Nayyirah Waheed's salt, Yrsa Daley-Ward's bone, Warsan Shire's works and Vivek Shraya's poetry sat happily among hers in my mind.
As such, I'm very grateful to Kaur for introducing me to a genre that I now have a deep love and affection for. milk and honey, her first collection made a rather big impression on me, and I enjoyed her second collection a lot too.
I really liked the section about immigrants -- while I'm not a person of colour I recently moved to Canada and have started the immigration process there, which is long and impossible, so hearing her poems about accents and splitting yourself across two worlds and becoming a bridge was a great comfort to me.
I actually like a lot of her very spider-y artwork -- the fine lines feel very personal and a lot of the time I think they can communicate something which the text cannot.
However, I once again, as in my review with milk and honey, don't like the author's jealousy at all. I despise jealousy in general and I find it exhausting. I was in a long-distance relationship for about three years so any jealousy I had just died because it had to in order for my relationship with my wife to work.
Also, while I really like the title of the poem at the bottom of a page because it feels like it adds extra emphasis on the realisation of the poem, sometimes I was confused as to where the first poem ended and the next began. Not all poems were titled and some were, so often I would read the poems separately and then together, and get a completely different meaning each time.
I'm sure if Kaur knew about it she wouldn't mind, because each person takes a different meaning from any part of any poem and formatting isn't as important as feeling. BUT as a reader, I like to read poetry really effortlessly in order to best feel the emotions or connect with the text, and that whole title / no-title thing just took me out of the text while I tried to guess if she'd written one poem or two.
The collection grew on me the more I read it, it was an easy read but the problems I had with it are problems I've had with her previous work so that feels... almost a little discouraging.
Hopefully, this collection will grow more and more fond and affectionate in my memory. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Now here is a poetry book I enjoyed. Just like her first one I was moved by her words. Simple and too the point. Full of emotion and pain and love. I hope she continues to share with us.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5consider me surprised
to find
i enjoyed this book
despite not liking the first
opinions change and people grow
both as readers and as writers
never judge an author
by their first book
judge them by their second
This pretty much addressed all of my criticisms of the first book. It wasn't just about sex (though there was definitely a lot of that); it was about family and love and what it means to be an immigrant. It actually made me cry on several occasions, and while I marked only 3 poems in the first book, I marked 25 in this. It was worlds away from the messy nonsense of Milk and Honey. It felt more real and genuine. It felt less like a 13-year-old's tumblr poetry and more like an adult. The narrative poems were some of my favorites and the shorter ones had messages that weren't reiterated repeatedly. I really liked it. I'm glad the years between this publication and the previous showed some growth and honed skill. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I prefer to not review poetry because it's a collection of someone's inner thoughts and you shouldn't really judge that... However, I need the credit for my goodreads challenge so I will say this... If you are a woman, buy this book. If you need inspiration, buy this book. I found it to be thought provoking and very well wrote. I loved how it pushed me to dive below the surface of my thoughts and I appreciated the focus on insecurities and personal flaws.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5While it lacks the rawness which made milk and honey such a visceral experience, the sun and her flowers does not disappoint. It speaks more of self-acceptance, self-love, and the power of our predecessors than the of pain and rage that was intertwined throughout the first book. No doubt this is a reflection of the changes that occur in a woman as she moves from her early twenties into her mid. I look forward to seeing what age and experience bring to her future work.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5So much hype around this collection of poems. I think it was a good collection but it didn't live up to the hype for me. Some pieces of poetry were very unique and inspirational, while others just fell flat and read like thoughts on a page - stream of consciousness rather than captivating, insightful poetry and masterfully crafted language. Not to say that it was bad, but it wasn't as amazing as I had hoped based on all the buzz! It was good for some easy poetry.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Fantastic!!!
- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5This is the BEST book of poetry in 2017?
It’s a joke.
A BAD ONE.1 person found this helpful
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I absolutely love these poems. The art on each page is lovely as well. I like the story and message being told with each poem.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I thought this volume was just as good as her first one, I loved all of the poems and her writing style.
- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5i did like it more than the first one and she does have more beautiful lines in there and I actually highlighted a passage...
but
for god's sake
why do people like
this style...
seriously it just reminds me of bad texting and also overdramatic...
quick read though...45 mins or less :) - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Rupi Kaur is my favorite.
After binging on Milk and Honey of course I ran to Amazon for her second book of poetry immediately. Lucky for me, the kindle version was free for Prime members!
Broken into 5 parts; wilting, falling, rooting, rising, blooming; Rupi takes the reader through various depictions of love, in all it’s many forms and stages. Her writing is not only beautiful but deeply thought provoking. She has an uncanny ability to portray so much depth in such simple sentences. Her illustrations provide the perfect accompaniment to her words in that same simple yet powerful way that I have come to expect and love.1 person found this helpful
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5I purchased this book before I'd read Milk and Honey, and honestly, I wouldn't have bought this book at all had I not fallen for the hype of Rupi Kaur's poetry before sitting down and reading it.
This book offers some more emotion and I feel like I got to "know" the author more in this collection, but I just don't care for Rupi's style at all. Most of her poems just feel like random sentences (sometimes run-on sentences) that are oddly spaced, oftentimes followed by a title that sums up the poem. A sample of my own making:
Basically
a bunch of
sentences
and random
spaces that are
somehow
meant
to pass as
poetry
--This Book's Contents
I've taken to reading more poetry lately, and the more I read, the more I dislike Kaur's work. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5From my blog
There are times things come into your life at the perfect moment and the sun and her flowers was one of those moments. My niece bought this as my Christmas gift and I decided to start the year with it. Poetry is my simple pleasure but I hardly read any so I was grateful for this gift. I can see myself reading this one again.
This was a powerful book about the stages of grief, told in 5 chapters. Wilting reminded me of a broken relationship, the beginning of the grieving process. Falling was a heart felt moving chapter about the importance of self-love. Rooting was about diversity, the sacrifice we take for our families, the legacy. Rising started to give us the promise of new love. Blooming was moments of beauty, blessings and special lessons. These are my interpretations of the moments and chapters while reading the book.
I read 99% on my Kindle so reading a book felt like a new experience, going down memory lane. I never liked to dog ear books but without the highlight Kindle feature I had to, there was so much to love and have at my fingertips. I would like to share a poem from each chapter for you, hope you enjoy them.
Wilting
day by day i realize
everything i miss about you
was never there in the first place
- the person i fell in love with was a mirage
Falling
if i am the longest relationship
of my life
isn't it time to
nurture intimacy
and love
with the person
i lie in bed with each night
- acceptance
Rooting
when it came to listening
my mother taught me silence
if you are drowning their voice with yours
how will you hear them she asked
when it came to speaking
she said do it with commitment
every word you say
is your own responsibility
when it came to being
she said be tender and tough at once
you need to be vulnerable to live fully
but rough enough to survive it all
when it came to choosing
she asked me to be thankful
for the choices i had that
she never had the privilege of making
- lessons from mumma
Rising
the right one does not
stand in your way
they make space for you
to step forward
Blooming
to hate
is an easy lazy thing
but to love
takes strength
everyone has
but not all are
willing to practice - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Rupi Kapur captures the angst inherent in late adolescence in her poetry collection The Sun and Her Flowers, including such fraught topics as feminism, self-love, body image, painful breakups, and even rape. There's also a section about her parents' immigration. Young adults who can relate to her short, accessible verses and simple drawings will find much to treasure here.
As for me, I don't think that I'm the reader the poet had in mind. I found that a little of Kaur's poetic sensibility goes a long way.
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The Sun and Her Flowers - Rupi Kaur
also by rupi kaur
milk and honey
the sun and her flowers copyright © 2017 by Rupi Kaur. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission except in the case of reprints in the context of reviews.
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ISBN: 978-1-4494-8889-5
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to my makers
kamaljit kaur and suchet singh
i am. because of you.
i hope you look at us
and think
your sacrifices were worth it
to my stunning sisters and brother
prabhdeep kaur
kirandeep kaur
saaheb singh
we are in this together
you define love.
contents
wilting
falling
rooting
rising
blooming
bees came for honey
flowers giggled as they
undressed themselves
for the taking
the sun smiled
- the second birth
on the last day of love
my heart cracked inside my body
i spent the entire night
casting spells to bring you back
i reached for the last bouquet of flowers
you gave me
now wilting in their vase
one
by
one
i popped their heads off
and ate them
i stuffed a towel at the foot of every door
leave i told the air
i have no use for you
i drew every curtain in the house
go i told the light
no one is coming in
and no one is going out
- cemetery
you left
and i wanted you still
yet i deserved someone
who was willing to stay
i spend days in bed debilitated by loss
i attempt to cry you back
but the water is done
and still you have not returned
i pinch my belly till it bleeds
have lost count of the days
sun becomes moon and
moon becomes sun and
i become ghost
a dozen different thoughts
tear through me each second
you must be on your way
perhaps it’s best if you’re not
i am okay
no
i am angry
yes
i hate you
maybe
i can’t move on
i will
i forgive you
i want to rip my hair out
over and over and over again
till my mind exhausts itself into a silence
yesterday
the rain tried to imitate my hands
by running down your body
i ripped the sky apart for allowing it
- jealousy
in order to fall asleep
i have to imagine your body
crooked behind mine
spoon ladled into spoon
till i can hear your breath
i have to recite your name
till you answer and
we have a conversation
only then
can my mind
drift off to sleep
- pretend
it isn’t what we left behind
that breaks me
it’s what we could’ve built
had we stayed
i can still see our construction hats lying
exactly where we left them
pylons unsure of what to guard
bulldozers gazing out for our return
the planks of wood stiff in their boxes
yearning to be nailed up
but neither of us goes back
to tell them it is over
in time
the bricks will grow tired of waiting and crumble
the cranes will droop their necks in sorrow
the shovels will rust
do you think flowers will grow here
when you and i are off
building something new
with someone else
- the construction site of our future
i live for that first second in the morning
when i am still half-conscious
i