I’ve Got Your 6: Peer Support for First Responders
By Tania Glenn
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I've Got Your 6: Peer Support for First Responders is a step-by-step guide to create a peer support program. From writing policies to standing up a team, this book was created to assist departments and agencies in implementing professional teams in a timely manner. Now more than ever, first responders need assistance, and peer support is an invaluable resource.
Tania Glenn
Tania was three months from completing her Master's Degree at the University of Texas when she witnessed the dramatic and violent standoff between law enforcement and the Branch Davidian Cult in Waco, Texas. At that point, she knew her calling was to work with first responders and to focus on healing these warriors from the horrors of post-traumatic stress disorder. Tania spent the first ten years of her career working in a Level Two Trauma Emergency Department on weekend nights as she built her private practice during the week. In 2002, Tania transitioned to her private practice on a full-time basis and has dedicated her entire career to working with first responders and military members. Tania assisted with the aftermath of the Oklahoma City Murrah Federal Building bombing, the 9/11 attacks on the World Trade Center, Hurricane Katrina, the Dallas Police shootings, and numerous other incidents. Tania is referred to as the "warrior healer" by her colleagues, and she is passionate about her work. Tania resides in Central Texas. Her loves include her family, her pets and fitness.
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I’ve Got Your 6 - Tania Glenn
Foreword
Mental health in the fire service is something that fire departments around the country are finally starting to address. The use of peer support and peer support teams is something that I feel is invaluable. Too many of our brothers and sisters have felt that there was no way out, and the only option was to end their lives. This is where peer support possibly could have saved them. The ability to have someone to talk to that you can truly relate to and understands what you are dealing with could make a huge difference in the decision that a person in crisis might make. Peer support can guide a person to finding the help that is right for them.
The hard part in establishing a peer support program is explaining why you need a team to leadership and getting the buy-in from the members of the department. So many times, I have talked to different teams and everyone has the same problem—they have a hard time figuring out where to start. This book is a blueprint on how to build a team—where to start and how to keep it going. Everyone seems to keep reinventing the wheel, but this book takes it back to the basics. Once you read this book, you will definitely understand what I am talking about.
Brandon Porter
Firefighter/Paramedic
Richardson Fire Department Peer Support
Introduction
What it means for me to be part of a team that is able to meet a coworker right where they are, in a place of darkness, is fulfilling.
Chris
REACH Air Medical Peer Support Team
The year 2020 has presented a multitude of challenges for first responders. Stress and trauma are at all-time high levels with little relief in sight. Earlier this year, I wrote the book, Smashing the Stigma and Changing the Culture in Emergency Services, to essentially hand over the keys to every agency to start the engine in creating change. Change has to occur to both eliminate the stigma and change the culture in public safety, thereby allowing first responders to get the help they need. No one is immune to stress, and public safety professionals are not robots. These professionals have hearts, minds, and they all have limits.
I consider I’ve Got Your 6: Peer Support for First Responders a follow-up book to Smashing the Stigma and Changing the Culture in Emergency Services. This book is written to help the agencies that have taken the keys and started their engines to now put their change process in motion and start moving forward.
I am in my twenty-ninth year of service to others. I have cared for the hearts and minds of first responders my entire career. I have been to everything from large-scale national disasters to small, local events and everything in between. I have traveled constantly, worked with multitudes of peer support teams, and have figured out what I consider to be best practices. I share my take on peer support not to say this is the only way to implement it, but to provide ideas, insight, and understanding on what it takes to run a successful peer support program, and to give readers ideas and resources to launch their own teams to fit their specific needs.
Everything I share here comes from wisdom, which I always say is hard-earned and causes gray hair. Much of my wisdom comes from difficult lessons and even mistakes. I share all of it because I want to contribute what I can to save the lives of first responders, who save the lives of so many more.
Chapter One
Reasons
My favorite thing about peer support is how much it has changed my department. It has taken away the belief that PTSD is something we just have to live with. It has normalized our struggles in a way that has made talking about them easier. It has taught us better ways to help each other when we recognize something isn’t right. It’s made it understandable to admit we’re not ok and to take the time and the steps needed to recover. It has made us closer.
Doady
Fayette County EMS Peer Support Team
The concept of peer support has emerged out of need. Any study on first responders’ rates of suicide, divorce, alcoholism, post-traumatic stress disorder, and other mental health problems will show that public safety professionals are at much higher rates and risks than the general population. While our first responders are trained and generally are desensitized to much of what they deal with, as they are exposed to increasing amounts of trauma and human suffering over time, every first responder has their limit. The limits are a threshold beyond which they are overwhelmed. Every first responder has a threshold for stress, and while the threshold expands over time and with good experience, there is a limit. First responders are not made of steel; they have hearts and minds like everyone else.
The types of events that are typically beyond the coping threshold of first responders include pediatric calls, events involving serious injury or death to other first responders, mass casualty incidents, significant carnage, known victims, or prolonged events ending with a negative outcome. When these occur, they typically push first responders well beyond their comfort zone of coping, and if they do not have a chance to offload or process these calls, the events may become problematic.
Without a peer support program in place, first responders may only have each other to lean on. The problem with this is it leaves first responders leaning on each other when they’ve all been through the trauma. The least capable person to help another person is someone who is just as traumatized as the rest. Often what happens in this situation is the designated rock
in the group—the strong one who sucks it up to help the others—becomes the designated go-to for everyone else. The rock
then pushes their feelings aside, never has a chance to recover themselves, and ends up hurting significantly more in the end.
One of my air medical programs sent a flight paramedic to me a few years ago on an emergency request. This medic arrived at his base one day and called his supervisor from his vehicle. He told her, I can’t set foot on the base, I can’t take another flight, I can’t treat another patient. I am done. I just can’t do this anymore.
This medic arrived in my office two days later, completely defeated and hopeless. His issues were clear: he had a lot of bad calls he had not dealt with, and he was burned out. We got to work clearing his bad calls through the use of the technique called Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and we worked on restoring his resilience to combat his burnout through tangible goals and subsequent homework given by me to rebalance his life.
What also emerged in our time together was that this medic was also the rock
at this base. Everyone would lean on him after bad calls, and he would stifle his own reactions to be present for others. We had a long talk about how unhealthy this was, and he returned to his base and addressed this with his colleagues. Everyone completely understood that having a designated rock
basically crushes that rock
under the pressure with no outlets for the designated rock
to seek help. Instead, his base purposefully and deliberately redirected this practice to utilizing the peer support team that we had established in the organization.
Now, when I visit stations