Memories of an Adopted Child
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Knowing that you are adopted is one thing, but to know your natural mother is living in the same village is quite another.
This is a true story of how an adopted child overcomes prejudice and ignorance to learn her true story.
Christine Carol Meakin
Christine Carol Meakin was born in 1944 in a small mining village in Stoke-on-Trent. She grew up always knowing she was adopted and that her natural mother lived in the same village. Christine trained as a nurse and has two children. She now lives in Cornwall with her husband.
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Memories of an Adopted Child - Christine Carol Meakin
Copyright © 2015 by Christine Carol meakin.
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Rev. date: 10/02/2015
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CONTENTS
Preface
Chapter 1 My Early Years
Chapter 2 The Beginnings of My Background
Chapter 3 The Start of My Journey
Chapter 4 Life Goes On
Chapter 5 The Early Years at School
Chapter 6 Teenage Years
Chapter 7 My Nursing Career
Chapter 8 Finding Out More of My Beginnings
Chapter 9 A Chance Meeting and a Sad Death
Chapter 10 A Visit from My Birth Mother
Chapter 11 The Death of My Birth Mother
Chapter 12 Finding Out about My Sister
Chapter 13 Meeting My Sister
Chapter 14 Journey’s End
Memories of an Adopted Child
This book is dedicated to my adoptive parents Louisa and
George Bossons to thank them for giving me a wonderful life!
December 1944
The birth of a daughter is a joyous occasion to be celebrated happily. However, if this child is your second daughter and the first one has been adopted, then the situation becomes more complex.
Preface
M y mother was a young single girl who came over to England from Ireland at the beginning of the 1940s. She was accompanied by her younger sister, and together they wanted a better life and to live and work in London. They had another sister who was already working there, training to be a nurse.
Eventually they both obtained work in a public house called the Greyhound near Hammersmith. The work was hard, but they began to build a life for themselves and made friends.
When I try to imagine what life was like in those war years, it seems difficult to know how my mother felt and adapted to life in London. Was she homesick? She had lived all her life in a tiny village in County Leitrim and was brought up in a Catholic family with two brothers and four sisters.
I was to find out much later in my life that this was where my mother and father met. He owned the Greyhound, so he was her employer. He was married with a daughter.
CHAPTER 1
My Early Years
image3.jpgI realised as a small happy child that I was different from my friends—not in looks, belongings, religion, clothes, or toys, but I knew in the way small children often do that I was in some way unique.
We lived in a small mining area in a semi-detached house which was situated at the edge of the village.
Everybody knew everybody in the village, and of course, everyone attended the Methodist chapel. Sunday school was a must, and we all enjoyed the Sunday school anniversaries, prize-giving, and Sunday school outings.
The differences were subtle and often beyond my understanding. I knew, for example, that my mum and dad were