North Jersey Jewish Standard, December 5, 2015
North Jersey Jewish Standard, December 5, 2015
North Jersey Jewish Standard, December 5, 2015
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Remembering Teanecks
Rabbi Feldman,
North Bergens Rabbi
Zigelman, and his son,
Dr. Lawrence Zigelman
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Seasons gratings
Chanukah falls well after Thanksgiving this year, but that doesnt mean that
this years crop of Chanukah merchandise lacks turkeys.
Manischewitz, a long-time supplier
of Passover staples, has made its
move into marketing the Maccabee
celebration with a Do-It-Yourself
Chanukah House Vanilla Cookie
Decorating Kit.
Someone should tell the fine folks at
Bain Capital who bought Manischwitz
this year that Hanukat Habayit means
the dedication of the Temple, not any
house in general.
And then theres the Menorah Tree,
which debuted last year. According to
the Religious News Service, Michael
Patchen didnt want a Christmas tree in
his Jewish home, but his wife did. Thus:
the Menorah Tree.
Heres one more reason for our diaspora inferiority complex. Despite our
calorie-intensive Thanksgiving celebrations last week, America trails Israel
when it comes to per capita turkey
consumption.
Official statistics proclaim that the
average Israeli eats about 28 pounds
of turkey per year, compared with the
16.7 pounds consumed by the average
American. Turkey represents a quarter
of Israels total meat production, and
the Jewish state is known for inventing
the deli meat called turkey pastrami
and the even less popular turkey-based
faux bacon.
Credit the lack of refrigeration
in Israels early, poorer days. Cows
needed room for grazing; chicken had
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CONTENTS
NOSHES ...................................................4
OPINION ................................................ 16
COVER STORY ....................................20
GALLERY .............................................. 38
KEEPING KOSHER.............................40
DEAR RABBI ....................................... 42
TORAH COMMENTARY ................... 43
CROSSWORD PUZZLE ....................44
ARTS & CULTURE .............................. 45
CALENDAR ..........................................46
OBITUARIES ........................................49
CLASSIFIEDS ......................................50
REAL ESTATE...................................... 52
Noshes
MURRAY CHRISTMAS :
Stiller fills in
when Santa fails
I usually dont
mention any of
the veritable blizzard of
Christmas specials that
begin around Thanksgiving. But this one is different. How Murray Saved
Christmas is an animated special, with some
musical numbers, that
will be shown on NBC on
Friday, December 5, at 8
p.m. The special is from a
bestselling 2004 book of
the same name by MIKE
REISS, 54, a principal
writer for The Simpsons. Heres the official
plot description: When
Santas knocked out cold
by a Jack-in-the-Boxers
walloping punch, Jewish
deli owner Murray Kleiner (voiced by JERRY
STILLER, 87) reluctantly
agrees to take his place.
The suit doesnt fit, Murray smells a bit like pickles, and theres no way
he can remember the
names of all those reindeer. But with the help of
a pushy elf (Sean Hayes)
and an eager-to-believe
young boy, Murray finds
out that even though
hes not big enough to
fill Santas suit, hes got
more than enough heart
to get the job done.
Murray features JASON
ALEXANDER, 55, as the
voice of Doc Holiday.
This wryly amusing character is a physician who
treats famous holiday
Mike Reiss
Jerry Stiller
Pauly Shore
Jason Alexander
Hailee Steinfeld
Briggs.
Last October, Jay
Leno was given
the prestigious
Mark Twain Award for
his comedy career. Most
PBS stations showed the
ceremony last week. No
doubt, it will be repeated
several times in the next
year, and you also can
see it online. ROBERT
KLEIN, 72, worked in
some stand-up shtick as
he praised Leno. This bit
tickled me:
Jay will never retire.
Youll never see him in
Florida with an aluminum thing under his chin.
Anyway, I have a beef
with Florida. I sent two,
vital 65-year-old parents
to South Florida and 30
years later they were
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to work with, which I did, it was enjoyable
and quite easy.
Emotionally it was easy. It was tough
physically. The film itself was not easy: It
was shot in the winter. It was a road movie
across Romania.
Dancing Arabs is based on a novel by
Mr. Kashua, creator of the hit Israeli television show Arab Labor, a comedy about
the difficulties of an Arab trying to assimilate into Jewish Israeli society.
The film and TV show are totally different, Mr. Riklis said. The only thing you
can say that is kind of similar is that it uses
humor as a way to neutralize whatever
resistance an audience might have. Dancing Arabs is much more profound than
Arab Labor. Arab Labor is a wonderful
situation comedy, very observant of an
Arabs situation in Israel. Dancing Arabs
is more a coming-of-age story that deals
with issues. A feature film is like a novel. A
television show is something much lighter,
even if it has serious undertones. That
said, if a certain person is a fan of Arab
Labor, you wont be disappointed.
The Israeli public and the Israeli film
industry has had a kind of love-hate relationship thats been going on for ages, he
said. In the 60s and 70s, Israeli films
drew in huge audiences. The county was
Want to explore the films of Eran Riklis? The collections of the Bergen County Cooperative
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The Human Resources Manager, and this years Zaytoun. (The PALSPLUS system, which
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has a fifth, Cup Final.)
Mr. Riklis wouldnt admit to having a favorite among his films. Theyre all my kids, he said. I
love them in equal amounts. They all tell a good story.
But if youre only going to watch one film, I would possibly say The Syrian Bride. A lot of the
elements I dealt with before and after are sort of integrated in The Syrian Bride in terms of
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leaders to speak out on these issues. As Jews we are
responsible for the care and protection of this planet
Earth that, according to Genesis, God has placed in
our custodial care.
The second reason I signed on to this effort is
that it affords us a vehicle as rabbis and cantors to
work together with religious leaders of other faiths.
Therefore, in addition to the focus on environmental
challenges, I am hopeful that Shomrei Breishit will
offer another opportunity for cooperative work that
in and of itself will help us in our goal of better interfaith understanding.
Shomrei Breishit went public a few weeks ago
through Facebook and Twitter and hopes to get several hundred additional members and statementsigners by the spring.
Rabbi Troster said he has been driven to do this
for almost three decades, since identifying environmental concerns as a moral issue. The most
affected are the least responsible for it and have the
fewest resources to deal with it, he said. It resonates with Jewish ideas about justice.
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and his wife, called Sephora in the film, played by Yvonne DeCarlo, relax as
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that is the basis of Jewish national
identity.
The story is so old and so deep that
clearly it resonates with us. But it is not
necessarily history, he said. Our job, as
explorers of history, is to say which parts
might have been historical, and what led
us to develop this particular truth.
My talk is going to be about how there
is no historical evidence for the Exodus,
beyond what we read in the Hebrew
Bible. There is not a shred of evidence
that it happened.
But on the other hand, there has to
have been an exodus of some sort, or we
wouldnt have a tradition no matter
how mythical, no matter how symbolic
unless there was some sort of historical
event behind it. The text, though, does
not give us clear historical insight into
that event.
The argument is that something must
have happened. And yes, he said, the
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ship now in its fourth year. Fellows work as
teachers aides in underserved and overcrowded classrooms, aiming to improve
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She had thought about applying for Birthright, but when she came across Masa Israel
Teaching Fellows online, she decided that
teaching abroad would provide a better
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In response to his critics, Rabbi Pruzansky has said all along that he had been
misunderstood, and his intent twisted. He
is not advocating collective punishment,
he said; he is in fact advocating nothing
that the liberal attorney Alan Dershowitz
did not suggest years ago.
On Saturday night, he spoke on Zev
Brenners radio program, Talkline.
Asked about the OUs statement, he
said: There is a lot of Kabuki and a lot of
politics going on. I think also there is the
domestic situation that has to be tended
to. Every shul has enhanced security for
several years and that played into their
decision, but it is strange. Both organizations here Rabbi Pruzansky is
referring to the OU and the Rabbinical
Council of America, which represents
Orthodox rabbis have had a lot of situations over the years, with people acting in vile ways that they did not seem fit
to condemn. They have had that issue in
the RCA for years, so it is surprising.
There is tremendous support for
what I wrote when it is properly understood in the RCA.
Still, Rabbi Pruzansky and the board
of his shul have decided that it would be
wise for him to be more aware of possible reactions to his blog posts before
he puts them up.
As many have noticed, I have a penchant for writing, and occasionally writing provocatively, Rabbi Pruzansky
wrote in a statement to his congregants.
I do regret that, in the aftermath of the
horrific massacre in Har Nof, I wrote
in a manner that many deemed harsh,
although that was not my intention.
After acknowledging his awareness that
there is not universal agreement with
his position among members of his shul,
and that his effectiveness in presenting
that position is weakened when he uses
language that many find confrontational rather than illuminating, he told
his readers that he knew that his writing
had suffered over the years because he
had not worked with an editor. All writers need another set of eyes or two in
order to ensure that errors are avoided
and rhetoric that distracts is eschewed,
he wrote.
Therefore, I have agreed (upon recommendation of the shul leadership) to
form a panel of people that I trust will
review my writings not to censor the
ideas, but to make certain, when necessary, that they are conveyed in slightlyless colorful ways.
Then, reverting to a trope that he uses
often, Rabbi Pruzansky wrote, It is clear
that there are members of the media
who do not like me and routinely pick
apart my words and place them in the
I do regret that,
in the aftermath
of the horrific
massacre in Har
Nof, I wrote in
a manner that
many deemed
harsh, although
that was not
my intention.
he wrote. If they were, that would make
the shul responsible for what I wrote or
say outside the framework of the shul,
and that would pose upon me the limitations that come from the shuls tax
exempt status.
That is why it is separate, unofficial,
and, for the most part, my idea.
Both the rabbis and the boards statements touch on security issues. The
boards statement mentions that the
shul is aware of security issues, has discussed them with local and national
experts, and is working with Teanecks
police department, which has enhanced
its patrols to ensure the shuls safety. The
implication is that there is some connection between Rabbi Pruzanskys blog
and the enhanced security measures,
although that connection is not made
explicit. There is no cause for alarm,
the shuls statement asserts.
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long after sundown that the candles have burned down and erev
Shabbat and Friday seem barely
related to each other. But then
Shabbat ends so early that there
is a whole evening, regained.
And as soon as you get used to
a new rhythm, it switches again.
It is glorious to know that sunlight and warmth are coming
back, but there also is something so comforting in spending
long cold nights cuddling inside
that perversely enough, there is
some regret in giving them up.
Or does that just mean that no
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long to keep it and yearn to give
it up?
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Chanukahfor the
right reason
ith sleigh bells ringing from far and near, Chanukah once again is beginning to look a lot
like Christmas and almost no one seems to
think there is anything wrong with that.
Well, there is a lot wrong with that.
Jewish law tops the list. There is a whole class of laws and
regulations usually referred to as chukat hagoyim, or laws
and customs of the nations (meaning every nation but our own).
The Talmud refers to it as darchei
haemori, the way of the Amorites.
(See the Babylonian Talmud tractate Shabbat 67a and b for some
interesting examples.) In brief,
chukat goyim that are idolatrous
in nature, or are based on pagan
superstition rooted in belief, are
Shammai
forbidden.
Engelmayer
Chanukah was always meant as
a home-bound observance; the
only outward sign of its celebration is placing the chanukiah outside the front door or in a
front window.
Chanukah also always was meant as a minor observance.
Christmas, on the other hand, is one of Christianitys two
big holidays, and has profound meaning for Christians.
Judaism has its profound days. Pesach celebrates the birth
of freedom into the world, as well as the miraculous Exodus from Egypt. Shavuot, our birthday as Gods kingdom of
priests, marks the singular moment in human history when
God spoke to an entire people, not just to one lonely person.
Sukkot celebrates both Gods sheltering presence over us,
and the natural world He created. (Seriously, can someone
tell me of a greater miracle than the survival of the Jewish
people against all odds? If that is not Gods sheltering presence, there is no such thing.) Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur are semi-solemn days of inner reflection.
There is little about Chanukah, however, that is profound
in any way. Yet more Jews will celebrate it than any other
Jewish observance.
They will do sowe all will do sofor the wrong reasons.
Chanukah, as I have noted in the past, is probably the
most myth-begotten festival of the Jewish year, starting with
the cruse of oil, and ending with the war being an all-out
battle against Hellenism. That it exists at all testifies to the
Shammai Engelmayer is rabbi of Temple Israel Community
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minor festivals popularity with the people, rather
than any religious significance.
Chanukah is not mentioned anywhere in the Tanach,
yet both 1 and 2 Maccabees, which deal directly with
the events and personalities of Chanukah, were available for inclusion. The full biblical canon was still being
debated 200 years after the events of Chanukah, but
there is no record of anyone even raising the issue of
whether to include either or both books. On the other
hand, there were debates over the Book of Esther and
the Song of Songs.
The Mishnah the product of the sages of the first
and second centuries C.E. says virtually nothing
about Chanukah. The Babylonian Gmara that follows it
(200 to 600 C.E.) has more to say about Chanukah, but
little of what it says goes beyond establishing its rituals.
Chanukah does not celebrate the miracle of a cruse
of oil that burned for seven days longer than it should
have. If such an extraordinary event happened, it
would have had a prominent place in the contemporary
account of the revolt found in 1 Maccabees. The book
knows nothing of such a miracle. Josephus, in Antiquities 12.7.6-7 316-325, knows it only as the Festival of
Lights, but admits he does not know why it was called
that. Later rabbinic sources, needing to justify the celebration, suggested different versions of a miracle;
the cruse of oil was just the most popular.
Then there were the supposed heroes, the Hasmoneans. They re-established the kingdom and sat on its
throne, but they had no right to either.
One of them, John Hyrcanus, violated a basic principle of Jewish law by forcing an entire population of
Idumeans to convert to Judaism.
His son, the King-Priest Alexander Jannaeus (his
Greek names speaks volumes about how anti-Hellenistic this revolt was not), showed such disdain for the
people that a civil war resulted. During it, he ordered
the crucifixion of 800 of the early class of sages, and
then had their families slaughtered in front of them as
they died slowly on their crosses.
Later, a battle over succession led one Hasmonean
prince to open the gates of Jerusalem secretly to Pompey, putting Judea in Roman hands.
Yet Chanukah today does have a purpose, and even a
need for a public presence.
Chanukah represents the birth of freedom of religion,
the right of people to worship as they choose. That is
something desperately worth celebrating in our world.
Buddhists and Muslims are battling it out in Southern Thailand. Buddhists and Christians are at war in
Uganda. Wahabi and Sufi Muslims are killing each other
in Somalia, while Sunni and Shiite are doing the same
throughout the Middle East. Hindus, Muslims, and
Sikhs break out in their own battles in India. A tense
peace between Christians and Muslims requires peacekeepers to maintain.
Churches, mosques, and synagogues are subjected to
attacks all over the world.
Freedom of religion is under attack in America by the
radical Christian right, who would turn this into a Christian nation in law as well as in fact. In some ways, the
rigidly religious Jewish right in Israel seeks to control
religious life there.
Chanukah does not come close to Pesach, Shavuot,
or Sukkot in meaning or significance, and does not
deserve to be treated as if it does.
Chanukah does deserve to be celebrated, however,
not for what it is not the Festival of Light but for
what it truly is: The Festival of Right.
May the light of the chanukiah spread from our
homes, to our streets, to our nation, to our world.
Now that would be a great miracle indeed.
Opinion
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All the major surveys sponsored by the 19 large city Jewish federations since at least the 1960s have been based on
probability samples. Until now.
I write as a sociologist and long-time student of American Jewry, deeply troubled by the newly released Jewish
Federation of Northern New Jersey survey, because it was
based on a sample that is not representative of the areas
Jewish population.
All the study findings represent the attitudes, behaviors
and demographics of only the people who completed the
questionnaire. This self-selected sample does not represent
data about the entire Jewish population in North Jersey.
Among the major segments of the community improperly represented are the unaffiliated, young adults, college
students, singles, elderly, poor, intermarried, recent emigrants, cultural Jews and the vulnerable. That is, segments
to which the Jewish community often seeks to service in
outreach programs. The fact that some respondents to the
survey are included in the above-mentioned groups is irrelevant, as they are a biased sample of those groups. The
new study does not provide reliable data to help with planning to meet the needs of any groups.
The federation incorrectly contrasted marketing and
demographic surveys. While the emphasis of studies can
vary, this is a false dichotomy in the case of federation studies. All federation surveys for decades have collected both
marketing and demographic data. The primary difference
between the new survey and all the other major federation-sponsored surveys is methodological. The Northern
New Jersey federation intentionally decided to sponsor a
survey with a self-selected sample, knowing that respondents would not be representative of the areas Jewish population, to save money.
Everyone wants the federation to save money. However, this shortsighted decision is a case of penny wise and
pound cheap. The biased data now available are likely to
be used by some Jewish organizations to make improper
decisions, which will be vastly costlier to those organizations and the wider Jewish community in the long run then
the relatively small amount it would have cost to do the
survey using a reliable sample.
Federation professionals reported at one of the public
presentations that the survey cost the federation $160,000$200,000, while a survey with a representative sample
would have cost about twice that amount. An additional
$200,000 would have been money well spent to enable
communal leaders to make decisions based on accurate
data. The federations mission is to service the Jewish community. In this case it has provided a great disservice, by
allocating an expenditure without thinking through the
implications of underfunded research.
None of the researchers who have directed previously
conducted large Jewish federation major surveys would
have agreed to direct a survey with a self-selected sample.
I hope that Jewish leaders who will consider using the
new survey results to help their planning and decisionmaking will view the new study results most critically, and
reconsider their use of the new data.
Jim Schwartz
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A time
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Remembering Rabbi David Feldman
JOANNE PALMER
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funeral.
There are many things to say
about Rabbi Feldman, who died
last Friday at 85, but that statistic is a good place to start.
David Michael Feldman was
a pastoral rabbi, a scholar, a
medical ethicist, a serious and
authentic Jew, a formal and generous and devoted family man,
and the rabbi emeritus of the
Jewish Center of Teaneck.
And he was beloved.
David Feldman was born in
Los Angeles in 1929, the seventh of nine children, the son of
a rabbi. The Great Depression
started the year of his birth,
and the family felt it. He said
that his mother always managed to feed them when they
were hungry, she would put
more water in the soup, Stanley Bramnick, rabbi emeritus of
Congregation Bnai Israel in Fair
Lawn and a longtime friend of
Rabbi Feldmans, said.
After high school, David Feldman headed east; he earned
his undergraduate degree at
Yeshiva University he was
his classs valedictorian and
then was ordained at the Jewish
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hobbled by the ever-hardening
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He would
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mud as Einstein was to physics,
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difficult issues, Jacqueline Kates, a former mayor of
Teaneck and longtime Jewish Center member, said. I
called my mother, my sister, my best friend, and my
rabbi. Rabbi Feldman.
Rabbi Feldman was so formal that he did not seem
as if he would be on that list, she said, but he was so
warm and so kind that he was entirely approachable
nonetheless, she said.
Her father-in-law died just two days before Passover
one year, she recalled, and in the confusion of grief
and shiva and arrangements, I hadnt even thought
about changing my dishes, much less preparing for
a seder, Ms. Kates said. But the Feldmans invited her
family two parents, two children, and her bereaved
mother-in-law effortlessly making room for them,
including them with warmth and tenderness, and I
remember my mother-in-law smiling. I hadnt thought
shed ever smile again.
Ms. Kates remembers the tragedy that gripped
Teaneck and almost tore it apart in 1990, when a
police officer, Gary Spath, shot and killed an African
American teenager, Philip Pannell. Rabbi Feldman was
sympathetic to Mr. Pannells family, and reached out to
them. He also reached out to Gary Spaths family, she
said. It was a terrible time in Teanecks history. Our
community was so very divided. Everyone thought
that either the kid was bad and he had a gun and the
cops are all good, or that this was a kid who was running away and was shot in the back and all cops are
terrible and there is no justice for black people. They
didnt think it was possible that this was a guy who
worked with black youth and had to make a terrible
decision.
That the world isnt black or white.
But Rabbi Feldman knew that, she said, and he
reached out to a family about whom most people
never would have thought, much less cared. To this
day, the Spaths send him a card twice a year, she said.
They will never forget his kindness, when their world
was completely ripped apart.
Rabbi Feldmans younger son, Rabbi Jonathan Feldman, told another story of his fathers kindness at his
funeral. I remember election day in 1980, he said.
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As the sun set last Yom Kippur, Dr. Lawrence David Zigelman stood next to his
ailing 94-year-old father, Rabbi Abraham
Zigelman, and recited every word of the
closing Neilah prayer aloud with him in
the back of the sanctuary at the Young
Israel of Fort Lee.
When the synagogues rabbi, Neil Winkler, asked his best friend why he had
done this, Dr. Zigelman responded, I
dont know how many more Neilahs I
will have with my father, Rabbi Winkler
recalled.
It was, in fact, the final Neilah that
either man would recite.
The Zigelman family is reeling from
the deaths of father and son just 12 days
apart the 66-year-old pediatrician on
November 7 and the retired pulpit rabbi
on November 19. They now lie side by
side in Jerusalems Har Hamenuchot
cemetery.
Though Rabbi Zigelman the spiritual leader of North Bergens Temple
Beth Abraham for 55 years was in
failing health, Dr. Zigelman showed no
signs of illness until he experienced
chest pain on the very night that he and
his wife, Shaindy (Sherry), were to have
dinner with Rabbi Winkler and his wife,
Andrea, before the Winklers move to
Israel on November 18.
David was already writing his fathers
eulogy the night he died. It was on his
desk and they quoted from it at his
fathers funeral, said Rabbi Winkler,
who spoke at Dr. Zigelmans funeral
and Rabbi Zigelmans burial. He had
been close with Dr. Zigelman since high
school. Each was best man at the others
wedding, and it was Dr. Zigelman who
persuaded Rabbi Winkler to apply for
the job of rabbi at the Fort Lee synagogue in 1978.
Shaindy Zigelman spoke with the
My son lost
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friends his
father and his
grandfather
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much as the United States had opened its golden door to the
Jewish people, Lazarus was well aware of the anti-Semitism that
existed in American society, and the plight of the Jewish people
elsewhere throughout the world.
In that context, her poem The Feast of Lights conveys to
us a different, more militant meaning of Chanukah than we are
accustomed to:
Kindle the taper like the steadfast star
Ablaze on evenings forehead oer the earth,
And add each night a lustre till afar
An eightfold splendor shine above thy hearth.
Clash, Israel, the cymbals, touch the lyre,
Blow the brass trumpet and the harsh-tongued horn;
Chant psalms of victory till the heart takes fire,
The Maccabean spirit leap new-born.
Remember how from wintry dawn till night,
Such songs were sung in Zion, when again
On the high altar flamed the sacred light,
And, purified from every Syrian stain,
The foam-white walls with golden shields were hung,
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Stood, midst their conqueror-tribe, five chieftains sprung
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the Knesset passed in June, Israel commemorated the Jewish refugees from Arab
lands and Iran.
Remembrance ceremonies were held,
special classes were conducted in schools,
and Israeli diplomats raised the issue with
their peers. (In tandem, the Mizrahi Jewish
advocacy organization JIMENA held special events in North America and around
the world.)
Commenting on the Knesset bill after it
was passed, MK Shimon Ohayon noted that
we have finally corrected a historic injustice and placed the issue of Jews who were
expelled or pushed out of the Arab world in
the last century on the national and international agenda.
Elaborating, he added, In Israel, the
history of the Jews who originally came
from the Middle East or North Africa, who
make up around half of the population, was
ignored for too long. This is a vital part of
our fight against those internally and externally who delegitimize our presence here
and claim we are somehow foreign to the
region.
Hes right. The theme of indigeneity
that those deemed to be native to a particular territory have supreme rights over
it has been a core element of the Palestinian and Arab campaign to portray Israel
as a colonial interloper, and an alien presence in a Muslim-Arab region. But Jews
lived in the Islamic world for thousands
of years, just as they did in the land that is
now Israel.
In that sense, there is a political goal
behind the commemoration day, and its
nothing to apologize for. Almost 70 years
after Jews were stripped of their citizenship and property by avowedly anti-Semitic
regimes, their fate remains largely hidden
from the gaze of historians and journalists.
In part, thats because these refugees didnt
stay refugees for very long. The majority
were absorbed in Israel, still others went
to Europe and the Americas, all of them
got on with their lives. But the injustice
remains fundamentally unaddressed.
Theres another reason, though, why
I think the commemoration day is so
important and it relates directly to the
torrid period in which we are living. In
recalling what happened to the Mizrahi
Jews, we are compelled to focus on the
religious and ethnic persecution that continues to disfigure the Middle East today.
Kurds are repressed by Syrians, Iranians
and Turks; Yazidis and Christians are
ethnically cleansed and massacred by
Islamist barbarians in Iraq; Sunni and Shiite terrorists target each others mosques;
Bahais are incarcerated in Iran. Its a
depressing list that could go on and on.
But the point is this. What Israel has
shown for all of the imperfections it
shares with other democracies is that a
multicultural and multifaith society is possible in the Middle East. And that is the message that should ring loud and clear from all
these commemorative events, whether we
are mourning the Holocaust or the expulsion of the Mizrahi Jews.
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Jerusalems Arab
schools learn
ideological geography
The Chairman of the Jerusalem Teachers Association has said that the educational message in Arab schools in Jerusalem is that all of Israel is occupied and
must be returned to the Palestinians.
In our schools, we teach what our
religion and conscience dictate: That
Jerusalem is Arab and that Palestine
from north to south, from the [ Jordan] River to the [Mediterranean] Sea
is Islamic Palestinian Arab, and will
remain so in spite of the damned occupier, Issa Salman said on Palestinian
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Nothing.
Other major groups opposing or
expressing reservations about the proposed law include the Reform and Conservative movements, the National Council of Jewish Women, and the Jewish
Council for Public Affairs, the umbrella
body for Jewish public policy groups.
The Zionist Organization of America is
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have taken a stand in favor of the nationstate bill.
Non-Jewish citizens live and are welcome in Israel, but the Israeli state, its
institutions, laws, flag, and anthem
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Dear Rabbi
Your Talmudic Advice Column
Dear Rabbi,
After the recent attack in Jerusalem, where
terrorists killed four men in a synagogue, I
saw posts on my Facebook newsfeed blaming the policies of President Obama for the
terrible incident. That disturbs me because
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violence in another country.
Baffled by the Blamers
Dear Baffled,
Hmm. I stubbed my toe the other night
while I was walking in a dark room and
I exclaimed, Oh Jesus even though Im
a good Jew and Jesus had nothing to do
with my mishap.
Seriously, lets be clear. First of all
Obama is the president of the United
States, not the prime minister of Israel.
His job is to take care of Americans, not
protect Israelis from terrorists. And second, he is in no way responsible for causing attacks anywhere in the world. Those
who heap blame on Obama for the ills of
our globe do that because they dont like
him to begin with. They think they can
besmirch him by arbitrarily piling fault
upon him. It is bad rhetoric and nothing
more.
Benjamin Netanyahu is the prime minister of Israel and is much more the right
person to charge for bad policies that
lead to terrorist attacks in his country.
But in reality, terrorism is not at all a
result of flawed strategies of our leaders
or of our governments. It is evil activity
planned and carried out by those of our
enemies who want to harm us and disrupt our lives. So if you must, blame our
enemies, not our leaders.
But if you insist on blaming our own
leaders, then you might argue that the
ultimate questions about the death of
those four innocent people in synagogue
remains primarily a theological issue that
you ought to direct to the leader of leaders God. For those of us who believe
that God cares about our everyday lives,
it is fair to ask how a just God allows terrorists to kill saintly Jews who devoted
their lives to Torah and, on top of it,
while they were engaged in prayer in the
synagogue.
Hence I agree with you that it makes
no sense for people on Facebook or anywhere else to blame Obama for terrorist
murders in Jerusalem. My advice for you
is as follows. On Facebook, if you dont
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9-10:30 a.m. Music, crafts,
and snack. 585 Russell
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Friday
DECEMBER 5
Shabbat in River
Edge: Temple Avodat
Shalom offers camp/
rock Shabbat. Tot
Shabbat at 5:30 p.m.,
camp-style service at
6, dinner, and a song
session. 385 Howland
Ave. Reservations,
(201) 489-2463.
Shabbat in Emerson:
Congregation Bnai Israel
hosts its casual Billy
Joel Shabbat service,
with traditional prayers
set to the melodies of
Billy Joel songs, as part
of the shuls monthly
special Shabbat services,
7:30 p.m. 53 Palisade
Ave. (201) 265-2272 or
www.bisrael.com.
Shabbat in Closter:
Temple Beth El offers
Ruach Shabbat services
led by Rabbi David S.
Widzer and Cantor Rica
Timman, 7:30 p.m. 221
Schraalenburgh Road.
(201) 768-5112.
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DECEMBER 6
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Past Commander Stan
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in September 2015,
10:15 a.m. 87 Overlook
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ext. 12.
Shabbat in Woodcliff
Lake: Temple Emanuel
of the Pascack Valley
offers Shabbat Tikvah,
a service of inspiration
and renewal, 8 p.m.
87 Overlook Drive.
(201) 391-0801 or www.
tepv.org.
Sunday
DECEMBER 7
Holiday boutique in
Franklin Lakes: The
sisterhood of Barnert
Temple holds a boutique
with more than 40
booths and an onsite
cafe, 9 a.m.-3 p.m.
Mastercard and Visa
accepted. 747 Route 208
South. (201) 848-1027 or
vfarhi@barnerttemple.
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Bazaar in Teaneck:
Temple Emeth holds
its annual bazaar,
with a food court,
9:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m.
1666 Windsor Road.
(201) 833-1322 or www.
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Chanukah in Jersey
City: Congregation
Bnai Jacob continues
its Lox n Learning
series with a Chanukah
party featuring singer/
accordionist Ben Laden.
Games, prizes, latkes,
10 a.m. $5 donation
requested. 176 West Side
Ave. (201) 435-5725 or
bnaijacobjc.org.
Preschool program in
Woodcliff Lake: Temple
Emanuel of the Pascack
Valley holds Club Katan
for children who will
begin kindergarten
Eric Goldman
Movie talk in Teaneck:
Eric Goldman, film critic
for the Jewish Standard,
discusses Horror Flicks
and the Supernational
In the Movies Whats
Jewish About That?
for parents and teens.
Hosted by the Bergen
County High School of
Jewish Studies as part
of Jewish Federation
of Northern New
Jerseys One Book, One
Community program, at
Maayanot Yeshiva High
School for Girls, 11:45 a.m.
Co-sponsored by Temple
Beth Or, Temple Israel &
JCC, Temple Emanuel of
the Pascack Valley, the
Glen Rock Jewish Center,
Temple Emeth, JCC of
Paramus/Congregation
Beth Tikvah, and the
JCC of Fort Lee/
Congregation Gesher
Shalom. 1650 Palisade
Ave. (201) 488-0834 or
www.bchsjs.org.
Childrens program in
Paramus: The Jewish
Community Center of
Paramus/Congregation
Beth Tikvah continues
its Sunday Specials
series with a Chanukah
workshop for 4- to
7-year-olds, 9:30 a.m.
Monthly activities include
songs, crafts, bouncy
castle, science, and
cooking. Nut-free snacks.
East 304 Midland Ave.
(201) 262-7733 or
edudirector@jccparamus.
org.
Childrens theater
in Tenafly: Pushcart
Rabbi Ephraim
Kanarfogel
Monday
DECEMBER 8
Nursery school open
house in Wyckoff: The
Andrew Friedland Early
Childhood Learning
Center at Temple Beth
Rishon holds an open
house for parents and
Tuesday
DECEMBER 9
Pre-Chanukah
celebration in
Washington Twp:
Pascack Valley/Northern
Valley Hadassah meets
to celebrate Chanukah at
the Bergen County YJCC.
Songs performed by
Cantor Sarah Silverberg
of Temple Beth Or.
Refreshments, 7:30 p.m.;
program at 8. Grab bag
bring a wrapped gift
worth $10; get a gift. 605
Pascack Road. Susan,
(201) 573-8351.
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Wednesday
DECEMBER 10
Sunday
Thursday
DECEMBER 11
Challah making
in Montebello: The
sisterhood of the
Montebello Jewish
Center hosts a class to
prepare for Shabbat,
including learning how to
make and braid a challah,
7:30 p.m. 34 Montebello
Road, Montebello, N.Y.
(845) 357-2430.
Observing mitzvot:
The Jewish Learning
Experience continues
a three-part series,
Trying to Find Meaning
in Mitzvah Observance,
led by Rabbi Mark
Staum, at Congregation
Beth Aaron in Teaneck,
8:15 p.m. Also Dec. 18.
950 Queen Anne Road.
(201) 966-4498 or www.
jle.org.
Friday
DECEMBER 12
Shabbat in South
Orange: Author
Dr. Jay Michaelson
discusses Evolving
Dharma: Meditation
and Enlightenment in
the Jewish Context at
Temple Sharey TefiloIsraels end-of-year
Shabbat Scholar and
Supper program, 6 p.m.
432 Scotland Road.
Tracy, (973) 763-4116 or
www.tsti.org.
Shabbat in Closter:
Temple Beth El offers a
special musical service
featuring English
horn player Keisuke
Ikuma of the New York
Philharmonic, 7:30 p.m.
221 Schraalenburgh
Road. (201) 768-5112 or
www.tbenv.org.
DECEMBER 11
Chanukah in NYC:
DECEMBER 7
DECEMBER 10
Thursday
Saturday
DECEMBER 13
Shabbat in Ridgewood:
Temple Israel & JCC
participates in Gun
Violence Prevention
Shabbat, during services,
9 a.m. 475 Grove St.
(201) 444-9320.
Shabbat in Teaneck:
Temple Emeth offers
Chanukah Family Fun
for 3- to 7-year-olds with
parents/grandparents,
led by Marla Levine
with music by Cantor
Ellen Tilem, 9:30 a.m.
1666 Windsor Road.
(201) 833-8466.
Film in Teaneck:
Temple Emeths adult
education program,
BYachad, and a new
committee, Viewpoints,
host a screening of The
Secrets, 3 p.m., followed
by discussion and
Havdalah. 1666 Windsor
Road. (201) 833-1322.
Singles
Sunday
DECEMBER 7
Square dance: To
celebrate Chanukah,
the North Jersey Jewish
Singles Meetup Group,
45-60+, at the Clifton
Jewish Center hosts
a square dance with
professional caller Dan
Tapper, noon. Brunch
served. $20. 18 Delaware
St. (973) 772-3131 or
www.meetup.com (use
group name).
Sunday
DECEMBER 14
Senior singles meet in
West Nyack: Singles
65+ meets for a social
bagel and lox brunch
at the JCC Rockland,
11 a.m. 450 West Nyack
Road. $8. Gene Arkin,
(845) 356-5525.
Shirah to perform
Chanukah concert
The Shirah Community Chorus on the
Palisades, led by founding director and
conductor Matthew Lazar and associate
conductor Marsha Bryan Edelman, will
perform its 21st annual Chanukah concert
on Sunday, December 14, at 1:30 p.m., at
the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly.
The program will feature celebratory
songs from the Jewish choral tradition in
Hebrew, English, Yiddish, and Ladino. The
concert is free through the generosity of
the Weinflash family. A dessert reception
will follow. To reserve tickets, call (201)
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teamed up with six local retailers in a fundraising effort, Shop For Good, through
December 11. Stores will donate a portion
of each sale when their customers mention JFSNJ.
Participating stores are Red Velvet Luxe
in Ridgewood, Tapestrie in Englewood
and Summit, the Image Gallery in Wayne,
the Toy Box in Franklin Lakes and Ramsey,
Sal Lauretta for Men in Midland Park, and
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Abe Baron
Samuel Bloom
Jerome Glanzberg
Jerome A. Glanzberg of
Franklin Lakes, formerly
of Teaneck, died on
November 28.
Born in Brooklyn, he
was a U.S. Army veteran
of the Korean War and an
executive in the trucking
industry.
He is survived by his
wife, Evelyn, ne Nelson,
children, Bruce (Robin),
Gary (Sherry), and Nancy
Steinfeld (the late Ned);
a brother, George (Gail),
and seven grandchildren.
Contributions can be
sent to the Arbor Day
Foundation. Arrangements were by Gutterman and Musicant
Jewish Funeral Directors,
Hackensack.
Eugene Kneloff
Corrine Leslie
Irwin Pachter
Benjamin Sterman
Anne Sugarman
Anne S. Sugarman, ne
Maliney, 75, formerly
of Washington, D.C.,
and Emerson, died on
November 27.
Born in London, she
came to the U.S. in 1960
and was a teacher at the
Berdan Institute in Totowa.
Predeceased by a
brother, Mark, she is
survived by daughters, Lisa
Bernstein (Adam), Dara
Oberer (Ernie), and Laurie
Lupien, and grandchildren,
Alice Trost
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