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conquest by Bedouins
from the region east of
the Dead Sea to conflicts
with the Byzantine authorities.
One layer of the scroll
was decoded with help
of a high resolution 3D
scanner. Special digital
imaging software developed at the University of Kentucky
transformed the scan to allow the scroll
to be unrolled virtually. Once that was
done, researchers were able to read the
text. Because the decoded text from
Leviticus is only one layer of the tightly
wrapped charred scroll, researchers
hope to be able to read other layers.
The Ein Gedi scroll was the oldest
Torah scroll that archaeologists had
uncovered in a synagogue. And it is
the oldest Torah manuscript after the
Dead Sea Scrolls, which date to a few
hundred years earlier. Carbon dating
pegged the scroll to about 500 C.E.
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OPINION20
COVER STORY 24
ABOUT OUR CHILDREN 29
TORAH COMMENTARY 43
CROSSWORD PUZZLE44
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CALENDAR46
OBITUARIES49
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GALLERY 52
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The golden bride
Yiddish theater as it was when it was young
JOANNE PALMER
The score for Di Goldene Kale, a Yiddish operetta that will be presented at
Rutgers Universitys Mason Gross Performing Arts Center. Right, the program
cover for its first run, on Second Avenue.
up her pennies so she could go to the Yiddish theater, and be transformed somewhere else.
Our mission is to bring this world to a
new audience, so they can hear this glorious literature.
Because Mr. Mloteks roots are deep
within Yiddish theater his parents,
Chana and Joseph, were vitally important
to the rediscovery and renewal of Yiddish
culture, particularly its music I happened to know some of the tunes, he said.
Some of them were hits, and many of
them were in my consciousness all my life.
But it wasnt until Michael Ochs, who was
the head of the Loeb Music Library at Harvard then, discovered the manuscript, that
the long chain of work and discovery that
eventually led to the performance began.
Dr. Ochs, born in Germany in 1937, was
lucky since my very early childhood, he
said. My family and I got out a few days
before the invasion of Poland in 1939.
They came to New York, where we spoke
German at home, he said. Yiddish was
considered beneath contempt, and the
people who spoke it even worse.
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five years ago, it was accepted as part of
a series from the University of Michigan,
Music in American Life.
As he followed research leads, Dr. Ochs
met Chana Mlotek; through her he met her
son, Zalmen.
Dr. Ochs figured out that the manuscript
was from a 1929 performance, not from the
1923 premiere. It was part of a huge and
elaborate circuit. This operetta opened
in a 2,000-seat theater in New York, and it
ran for 18 weeks. Then it traveled all over,
to all the usual places Philadelphia, Chicago, Boston, Omaha [!]. And then Buenos
Aires New York troupes would go down
to Argentina in the summer, when it was
winter there. It was performed in Manchester, England, and probably in eastern
Europe as well.
Mr. Mlotek first performed the piece in
New York. It was a concert performance;
at the piano, he provided the only musical accompaniment. Four people in the
audience were from Rutgers, One of them
was the dean of the school of arts, George
Staufer, who is not Jewish but is very interested in Jewish music. The very next day
they contacted the Folksbiene and said
they wanted to put it on, Dr. Ochs said.
Di Goldene Kale was written by Joseph
Rumshinsky, a prolific Jewish composer
written a few others, although her husband, Louis Frieman, generally is assigned
the credit for it. The story seems to have
been that Louis Frieman tried to pitch it
to Rumshinsky, who was impatient at first
although he was bowled over by it soon
enough. But it was hard enough getting
the composer to listen to a young strangers pitch; had he added that the libretto
was by my wife, could he have gotten
Rumshinsky to listen to it? Dr. Ochs said.
I doubt it. But he is delighted to have
uncovered her secret, and now, all these
years later, to attach her name to it. (Louis
Gilrod, a professional lyricist, wrote the
lyrics.)
Dr. Ochs, a gifted speaker whose very
real delight in Di Goldene Kale is clear
whenever he discuss it, will talk about the
operetta before the performance. And
then the performance, accompanied by a
20-piece orchestra, sung by a full cast led
by the Folksbienes Dani Marcus, and who
range in age from about 25 to about 45,
will begin. And if you dont know Yiddish,
dont worry there will be subtitles.
With any luck and of course with
enough money Di Goldene Kale will
be performed again. But for now, there is
just this one chance to see it, hear it, and
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whose film Summer Vacation was short-listed for an
Oscar nomination.
For Mr. Rand, the superstar of the faculty is Arik
Lahav-Leibovich, a celebrated Israeli film editor best
known for his work on such multi-award-winning films
as The Bands Visit (2007), Lebanon (2009), and
Zero Motivation (2014). There really isnt much else
a young editor can ask for than to learn from one of
the top editors in Israeli cinema, he said. It has been
an awesome experience.
Though he is only entering his sophomore year, Mr.
Rand already has commercial film production and
editing experience on his rsum, thanks mainly to
three years in the amazing film club at the Rae Kushner Yeshiva High School in Livingston. The group produced a range of videos for the school to use for fundraising and other purposes, learning valuable skills
along the way.
This genre has become a liberating mode of communication for Mr. Rand, who has struggled with a
speech impediment all his life.
The reason my concentration is editing is because
it is the volcano inside me and the words I do not have
because of my stutter, he texts on his phone the easiest way for him to convey what he wishes to express
verbally.
He has not allowed this challenge to keep him from
achieving his goals thus far, so when he says that he
aspires to be a head editor of feature films, a listener
is inclined to believe it will happen.
Whether it will happen in America or Israel is a bigger question. I want to do my part to transform Jerusalem into a major international film production location, and I hope to make aliyah after the Israeli film
scene gets bigger, he said.
He has visited Israel many times and would like to
have an Israeli residence to call his own, even if its not
full time. His older sister, Emma, lives in Tel Aviv and
served in the Israel Defense Forces.
Mr. Rands familiarity with the Israeli landscape
is helpful to first-time visitors in the workshop, who
come from countries including Croatia, France, Panama, and China, as well as Canada and the United
States. They look up to people like me to show them
all the fun stuff to do in Jerusalem, he said. Ive taken
them to a lot of the great restaurants I found during
my gap year in Israel at Mechinat Yeud.
The Rand family also includes parents Anne and
Jonathan; Eli, 13; and Devora, 12. They are members
of Congregation Bnai Yeshurun in Teaneck.
Many of the workshop participants are not Jewish,
or Jewish but not religiously observant. Mr. Rand said
that everyone gets along well. We all know how to
deal with including everyone, even on Shabbat.
For his film festival project, he worked with three
other students Lucas Markman of Texas, Niah Anson
of Las Vegas, and Jerusalemite Gil Eliav on a documentary about a local man who turns old windows
into works of art. We did two days of photography
and four days of post-production. We all hit it off right
away, which saved a ton of time.
The Jerusalem Film Workshop has garnered the support and involvement of leading lights in the industry.
Steve Tisch, who won an Oscar for producing Forrest
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People should come because its their
history, said Mr. Liss, who was born and
raised in Paterson and has been active
in the local Jewish community for many
years. Why has he been so passionate
about the historical society? I have tremendous roots in Paterson, he said. It
was natural to get involved.
Jerry Nathans recalled some of the many
treasures the society holds.
In more than 35 years, the society has
amassed many wonderful items, including
Jewish business and professional cards,
telling who was here and what they did,
he said. The Jewish community played
an important part in the development of
the city. Nathan Barnert was twice elected
mayor, and a statue in his honor was
erected in front of City Hall while he was
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administrators, social workers, and guidance counselors, and
putting a freeze on the purchase of new books, equipment, and
supplies, the board diverted much of the savings to the yeshivot.
Most disturbing, as Greenberg put it, the Board appears to
favor the interests of private schools over public schools.
That brings us to what burying the dead has to do with raising
reading scores in public schools.
In the Babylonian Talmud tractate Gittin (61a), we are taught:
We provide support for the poor of the non-Jews along with the
poor of Israel, and visit the sick of the non-Jews along with the sick
of Israel, and bury the dead of the non-Jews along with the dead of
Israel, in accord with the Ways of Peace (darchei shalom).
In other words, you might think that Jews need to be concerned
only about other Jews and their needs, but in order to live in peace
with our non-Jewish neighbors, the Talmud says in Gittin, we do
for them what we would do for our own.
There is nothing peaceful about the East Ramapo situation,
however. Meetings of the school board tend to degenerate into
verbal brawls, Greenberg wrote.
The excerpt from Gittin seems to imply, however, that we need
to be concerned with the needs of the non-Jew only if not doing
so could have disastrous consequences.
That indeed was the world in which the early Sages lived. AntiJewish riots often with fatal results were not uncommon, and
the slightest slight could set them off.
By the close of the talmudic period, however, meaning around
the year 600, things had improved somewhat, and halachic rulings reflected that. For example, Jewish physicians were told they
had to heal all who were ill, without distinction, and they could
not charge a fee if their patients were poor.
Jewish communities established norms of behavior that
included visiting anyone who was ill, Jew or non-Jew, and giving
charity to everyone in need. They also established communal philanthropies, and some of those funds went to support the needs
of the general non-Jewish community.
Darchei shalom was no longer the motivator; darchei Torah, the
ways of the Torah, was. In his commentary to BT Bava Kamma
37b, the 13th century French scholar and author Menachem Meiri
explained as much:
The double standard approach implied in the Gittin excerpt
above and elsewhere (including in a passage further down) in the
early stages of talmudic development referred, he said, specifically to the nations that are not constrained by the ways of religion
and morals, which is another way of saying they do not obey the
so-called Seven Noahide Commandments.
However, the Meiri said, whenever they [the non-Jews] do
observe these seven mitzvot, their legal status with respect to us
is the same as our legal status with respect to them, and we must
not favor ourselves in matters of law. And given this is the case, it
goes without saying that this [equality] holds true for the people
constrained by the ways of religion and morals.
Understand what the Meiri is saying: non-Jews may be righteous,
in part, because of their beliefs, not in spite of them.
That was revolutionary.
Rabbi Yaakov Emden (1697-1776) went even further. The Talmud, he noted, said that despite black-letter Torah law that
required that all lost objects had to be returned to their owners, a
Jew could keep an object a non-Jew lost. Emden explained:
The Israelite was not obliged to restore the lost object of the
non-Jew because the non-Jew, too, did not return the Israelites
lost article. But this only applies to those nations that knew no
Creator or Torah, meaning, they had nothing in common with
us. However, it is long known that the present day nations who
believe in the principles of the Torah meaning Christians and
Muslims cannot be regarded as strangers by us.
Clearly, then, in addition to being a Chilul Hashem, a desecration of Gods holy name, what is going on in Ramapo clearly goes
violates everything the Torah and the Judaism that flows from
it stands for.
What makes it worse is that the people doing this proclaim
loudly that they are the only authentic Jews because they practice
Judaism as God intended.
ometimes its difficult to difAnd if you dont get the job, how
ferentiate between personal
are you to know that it really doesnt
rejection and not making the
have to do with your shoes, even if
right connection the right
thats a ridiculous reason not to accept
shidduch, you might say.
someone for a position unless, say,
There definitely is a difference,
youre wearing sneakers to an interview, which would in most cases be
though. Sometimes relationships just
inappropriate. It would be a sign to an
dont work out, although there was no
employer that youre not cut out for
fault by either party. Of course there are
Dena Croog
the job. But more realistically, how do
exceptions, but for the sake of this argument, Im going to go with situations
you know that the company isnt taking you on because youre female or a
wherein a relationship simply doesnt
minority, rather than because youre not the right
work out.
person for the position?
I heard someone recently reflect on this idea, in
Yes, such discrimination may be illegal, but how
reference to any type of relationship, saying how
are you to know?
clicking socially with another person is kind of like
I guess a person can make him or herself go crazy
trying on a new pair of shoes. Sometimes the shoes
(and I use that term very loosely) trying to understand
are to a persons liking, and sometimes they dont fit
the why-WHY-WHY???!! when faced with rejection.
the bill. Its no reflection on the shoes themselves, or
One exception, I would say, is religious discrimion any kind of objective sense of beauty. There is no
nation. Whether you are rejected personally for
objective sense of beauty. Its all subjective. One persons trash is another ones treasure. Not to compare
your choice of observance or whether an entire
shoes, or better yet a person, to trash even though
religious demographic is rejected, when it has to
I kind of am making that comparison But my point
do with such prejudice, it hits the core of a person.
is that its all a matter of being the right fit for you.
Thus, I believe, it is entirely personal.
A more popular trend may not be to your own likDue to its timely nature it was marked just last
ing. Likewise, the right fit for you is not always the
Sunday lets take Tisha BAv and the events that are
right fit for everyone.
associated with it. The destruction of both Temples:
The same is true of finding a job. You may be a canpersonal. Religious persecution in the hands of the
didate who doesnt end up getting the position, or
Babylonians: personal. Religious persecution at the
you may be someone not chosen as a candidate at all.
hands of the Romans: personal. The expulsion of
This isnt a reflection of your inner being. It doesnt
Jews from England: personal. The expulsion of Jews
make you a bad person. Its not personal. It simply
from France: personal. The expulsion of Jews from
means that youre not the right fit for the job. Yes, of
Spain: personal. Approval of the Final Solution
course, the rejection may feel like a one-two punch to
and the other events of the Holocaust: personal.
Rejection is difficult, but I think its important to put
the stomach, and yes, of course, its incredibly frustrating when youre on a job hunt that seems to be
things into perspective, especially while we are still
going nowhere. But amid all of that, its important to
remembering Tisha BAv so clearly. In this day and age,
remember throughout not to take it personally.
we are still being rejected as Jews. And while you might
Its not about you, per se. Its about the fit. Unless,
argue that its a rejection of a people, not a personal
that is, theyre rejecting you because of your shoes,
rejection, I would say that the rejection of all Jews is a
which may be fine-looking shoes under any other
personal rejection of each and every one of us as individuals, just as a rejection of one Jew because of his or
standard of dress. That, I would consider personal.
So not taking things personally its so much easier
her religion equates to a rejection of all Jews.
And that, as I see it, is entirely personal.
said than done. Im trying to remember this every time
Still, just because common-day scenarios of rejecI get a rejection response from a literary agent regarding
tion may not be as weighted as anti-Semitism, and
my submissions. They often phrase it like this: while its
may really not be meant to be taken personally like
an interesting premise, nice writing, blah blah blah, its
religious persecution, that doesnt belittle the fact
just not the right fit for us. Thats all well and good, and
that such scenarios do exist. While the idea of being
I know its a tough business out there, but a rejection is
rejected as Jews seems to put other forms of rejection
a rejection no matter how nicely its phrased. And so I
into perspective, it definitely does not negate them.
have to continue with the mantra Ive been preaching
Being rejected is a hard pill to swallow, no matter
right here, to not take it personally. (Selfish side note, if
how you cut it. Its sometimes difficult to internalanyone out there has connections to an agent, feel free
ize the fact that most of the time it isnt about
to send them my way...).
So then what things might we take personally? I
you, specifically. Whether youre job hunting, pitching your book, pitching yourself, or shopping, its
guess it depends on the details. If you discover that
important to realize that, very simply, sometimes
the reason your date doesnt click with you is because
the shoe just doesnt fit.
he or she thinks you lack good looks or are too low
on the social status totem pole, then yes, maybe take
Dena Croog is a writer and editor in Teaneck and
that personally. If you find out that someone wants
the founder of Refaenu, a nonprofit organization
nothing to do with you socially because of a disability, then yes, Id take that personally. But on the other
dedicated to mood disorder awareness and support.
hand, how are you to know that these are the reasons
More information about the organization and its
for the rejection (unless you are told as much) and
support groups can be found at www.refaenu.org.
that its not simply a case of not being the right fit in
You also can email dena@refaenu.org with any
terms of personality?
questions or comments.
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Where
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things
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Rabbi Nathan Slifkin
collects animals
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LARRY YUDELSON
At his Biblical Museum of Natural History, Rabbi Nathan Slifkin shows off
live reptiles and stuffed large mammals.
development of life.
the
leopard
his
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re is in a prophetic vision of Daniel:
blotches (chavarburotav)? So too, can
you, in whom
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at night, I saw
the four winds of heaven stirring up the
The word used to describe the leopard
great sea. Four
the
laws of nature.
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NATURAL HISTORY
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leoptimes,
former
In
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and
East,
Middle
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in the
ards were abundant throughout Israel, especially
hilly and mountainous regions:
With me from Lebanon, O bride, come with me from
Lebanon, look from the peak of Amana, from the peak
the
of Senir and Hermon, from the dens of lions, from
mountains of leopards. (Song. 4:8).
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the next decade or so, compared to 43 percent who said they were confident.
The survey was conducted by Steven
M. Cohen, a research professor at the
Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of
Religion in New York, and it was carried
out by SSRS Omnibus, which culled Jewish respondents from the lists it has assembled from nationwide weekly telephone
surveys on a variety of issues. The margin
of error was 6 percent.
By contrast, all seven Jewish federations
that came out with position statements on
the deal Boston, Miami, Detroit, Dallas,
Floridas South Palm Beach, Phoenix, and
Los Angeles oppose it. The federation
umbrella group, the Jewish Federations
of North America, has not taken a formal
position.
Its not uncommon for federations to
take policy positions, but the issues usually are matters of broad consensus within
their communities, such as bills that would
affect the social safety net or increased
U.S. assistance for Israel.
The Conference of Presidents of Major
American Jewish Organizations, an
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Jewish World
So, unfortunate remark not quite sure
why he felt compelled to say it.
Bush pointed out that he has been to
Israel several times, and called the Iran
nuclear agreement a bad deal.
Donald Trumps special counsel,
Michael Cohen, told CNN on Monday
that he does not think that Trump finds
Huckabees words offensive. Trump, who
has been at the center of a media storm
of late with controversial remarks about
Mexican immigrants and U.S. Senator
John McCain (R-Ariz.), has roundly criticized the Iran deal.
I think what [Huckabee is] really trying
to say is were in a bad place, Cohen said.
Im not offended by the words, he
said, acknowledging that he lost family
members in the Holocaust. What I am is
Im concerned. Im truly concerned for the
safety of not just this country but the countries all around the world.
Obama made his remarks on Huckabees
statement at a news conference Monday in
Ethiopia, where he is on a visit.
The particular comments of Mr. Huckabee are, I think, part of just a general pattern that weve seen that is would be
considered ridiculous if it werent so sad,
Obama said.
The president listed a series of recent
rhetorical controversies, including Senator
Tom Cotton (R-Ark), comparing Secretary
of State John Kerry to Pontius Pilate for his
role in reaching the Iran deal and Trump
mocking McCain for his captivity during
the Vietnam War.
Were creating a culture that is not conducive to good policy or good politics,
Obama said.
In 18 months, Im turning over the
keys I want to make sure Im turning
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GABE FRIEDMAN
DEBRA KAMIN
Dvar Torah
Va-etchanan: Unfinished business
a-etchanan is my favorite parashah in the Torah. The inclusion of both the Shema and
the Ten Commandments in
the same portion provides the basic text
material for any study of the essentials of
Judaism.
For me, though, I remain stuck on the
first paragraph. Moses pleads with God
to allow him to enter the promised land,
and his entreaty is denied. Enough! Never
speak to Me again of this matter! God
replies. By relaying this personal discussion with God to the people in the most
public of ways, a major address before the
whole people assembled, and preserved
forever in the very text of the Torah, Moses
has clearly not dropped the issue. And how
could he have? Moses has devoted his life,
at the cost of so much personal happiness,
to the service of his people and his God,
to bring the people to the promised land.
Now, at the end of the journey, he asks only
to cross over the river so that he may briefly
enjoy the fruit of his labors before he dies.
Why does God refuse to grant his wish?
The commentaries have addressed this
question through the generations.
The standard understanding is that
Moses is not permitted to complete the
many times in the last several weeks to discuss the parameters of [the Iran deal]. We
are in constant consultants with our Israeli
counterparts about this.
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Indian president,
prime minister to make
historic visits to Israel
Indias president, Pranab Mukherjee,
and its prime minister, Narendra Modi,
will visit Israel this year, in an illustration of the growing ties between the two
countries.
Mukherjee plans to begin his Middle
East trip on Oct. 9. According to Indian
media reports, his first stop will be Jordan, followed by the Palestinian Authority. Next, he will arrive in Israel.
Since its founding, India has had close
relations with the Arab world. But recent
years have seen a gradual rapprochement between Jerusalem and New Delhi,
manifested by increased security cooperation. In February, Israeli Defense Minister
Moshe Yaalon visited India, where the two
countries finalized a major defense deal
worth more than $1.5 billion.
Modi also met with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu last year on the
sidelines of the United Nations General
Assembly. Reports have indicated that
Modi is considering a shift in his countrys
pro-Palestinian stance at the U.N.
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1 Feh, pick one boyfriend!
8 Impose a plague on
12 What tensions in the Middle East will
ideally do
27 Landed via El Al
31 Its written from right-to-left, like each
Across entry in this puzzle
Down
1 Give me children, or ___ I die: Rachel
2 Nearly bubkes
3 Red Sea formation
4 Peeper, to Emma Lazarus
5 Souvenir, as from a Birthright trip
6 Harden, Job-style
7 Presidents Medal and others
8 JDate exchange, for short
9 Compete in the Jerusalem Marathon
10 Post-Pesach digestion aids
11 Jewish campus group
12 Churchill who supported the Zionist
movement
58 In biblical days
59 Sound of klutzes colliding
61 Lower Galilee boarding school
64 Sanitary state, as at the Ichilov Hospital
66 Gradually drives meshuga
68 Pharaonic symbol
69 Where rabbinical robes hang
73 Brandeis bigwigs
75 Walker known for anti-Semitism
77 Emulate a concerned Jewish mother
78 Part of William S. Paleys CBS, briefly
79 The Talmud considers it an example
of the weak who cast terror on the
strong
80 Jezreel Valley kibbutz
81 Old-style Oy vey!
82 Take in, as light
83 Drink thats Hebrew for be exalted
84 Goliaths was big
85 Body part equivalent to itself, biblically
87 Sandy Koufax stat
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O-negative blood donors
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Israel holds its annual
Summer Erev Shabbat
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Homemade treats served
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Sunday
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Film in Wayne: The
Chabad Center of Passaic
County screens Above
and Beyond, produced
by Nancy Spielberg,
7 p.m. In 1948, a group
of Jewish-American
pilots smuggled planes
out of the U.S., trained
behind the Iron Curtain
in Czechoslovakia, and
flew for Israel in its
War of Independence.
Discussion following
the film. Refreshments.
194 Ratzer Road.
(973) 694-6274 or
Jewishwayne.com.
Wednesday
Saturday
AUG. 12
AUG. 1
Singles mixer in
Teaneck: Singles gather
sisterhood of Temple
Beth Sholom in Fair Lawn
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$20 slot money plus a
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ID. 40-25 Fair Lawn
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Lunch/games in Fort
Lee: Englewood &
Cliffs Chapter of ORT
America holds its annual
summer card party/deli
luncheon at the Colony
Spa, 11:30 a.m. Games
include cards, mah jongg,
Scrabble, dominoes, and
RummiKub. Homemade
desserts. 1530 Palisade
Ave. (201) 346-9165.
Singles
to celebrate Parshat
Nachamu at a dinner
party at Gotham Burger,
9:30 p.m. Pay at the
register for food. 1383
Queen Anne Road. (201)
530-7400.
Sunday
AUG. 2
Singles dance and
dinner in Clifton: North
Jersey Jewish Singles
40s-60s celebrates
Tu BAv at the Clifton
Jewish Center with a
matchmaking event,
6 p.m. Buffet dinner,
desserts and ice cream
bar, socializing, ice
breakers, live singer/
pianist, and dancing.
18 Delaware St. Karen,
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PJ Library in Rockland
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N.Y., co-host Bim Bam
Shabbat, a free Friday
morning program with
Shabbat-related songs,
stories, and Jewish
activities for toddlers
and preschoolers, at
Ramah Day Camp,
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Eighteen local teens participating in the
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in Tenafly recently traveled to Boston.
There they took part in a special social
service project, Cradles to Crayons, to
help financially challenged families get
a head start preparing their children for
the school year.
Before leaving for Boston, the teens
collected sneakers, childrens clothes,
crib sheets, and toiletries, including
shampoo, soap, combs, toothpaste,
and toothbrushes, to bring with them.
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Rabbi William Hamilton of Brooklines Kehillath Israel is credited with helping rejuvenate the 98-year-old synagogue.
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tomorrow and the next day, and that is not a matter that you
would consider during your administration.
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n 1 Open Hearts Open Homes, a Bergen County YJCC program that welcomes
Israeli teens affected by violence and terror into the community for respite,
home hospitality, and a teen travel experience, completed its first threeweek session on July 19. Teens, host families, and staff gathered at the YJCC
before the teens returned home to Israel. A second group of Israeli teens
arrived on July 26. The program is in its 14th summer. COURTESY YJCC
n 2 Participants are shown at a gym activity at the Fair Lawn Jewish Day Camp,
which is now in its seventh year and serves more than 350 campers. COURTESY FLJDC
n 3 Ambassador Bradley Gordon, a former CIA political analyst who is
now AIPACs director of policy and government, spoke about the recent
Iran nuclear deal before an overflow crowd of more than 600 people at
Temple Emanu-El of Closter last week. The event was co-sponsored by the
Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey and AIPAC. COURTESY JFNNJ
n 4 The Lt. James I. Platt JWV Post 651 of Fair Lawn installed officers
earlier this month. From left, appointee Jack Wall, Commander Mel Kaplan,
New Jersey Department Commander Larry Rosenthal, Vice Commander
George Pollack Jr., and Vice Commander Jules Corn Sr. COURTESY JWV
n 5 Dr. Ben Chouake, left, with Senator Patty Murray (D-Wash.), and
Rabbi Steven Weil at last weeks NORPAC meeting with the senator
at Rabbi Steven and Yael Weils Teaneck home. The deal with Iran was
the meetings topic. NORPAC held a similar meeting in Riverdale, N.Y.,
featuring Representative Krysten Sinema (D-Ariz). COURTESY NORPAC
n 6 Children at the Leah Sokoloff Nursery School summer program
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off the sanctions list?
Hey @TheIranDeal, how do you assess
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