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CONTENTS
PREFACE iv
THE SYSTEM: CORNERSTONE CONCEPTS 1

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APPLYING THE SYSTEM: HOOKING UP 4

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PROFILE 5
SUGGESTED TEMPLATE 7
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OTHER PHOTOS 7
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RULES FOR PHOTOS 10

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TINDER BIO 11
HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR PROFILE 12

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SUMMARY NOTES 15
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OPEN 16
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CREATE A GREAT OPENER 17
SUMMARY NOTES FOR A GREAT OPENER 23

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CONVERSATION TECHNIQUES 24
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DEMONSTRATE VALUE THROUGH CONVERSATION 24

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RECOVERY AND NEGATIVITY 30

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CONVERSATION BEST PRACTICES 39
CONVERSATION MISTAKES 40
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SUMMARY NOTES FOR A GREAT CONVERSATION 42

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PLANTING THE SEED: CULTIVATE A DATE 43

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PLANTING THE SEED The Ultimate Seduction Tool 44
HOW TO PLANT THE SEED 46

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SUMMARY NOTES FOR PLANTING THE SEED 52
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DIGITS: ACQUIRING HER NUMBER 53
HOW TO GET HER NUMBER: THE MISSING PIECEMETHOD 54

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TRANSITIONING TO TEXT 58
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SUMMARY NOTES FOR ACQUIRING HER NUMBER 59
DATE TIPS 60
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4 GOALS TO KEEP IN MIND ON YOUR FIRST DATE 63

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THE MEET UP 67
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MID-DATE TIPS AND ADVICE 69
CHECK 73
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ELIMINATE POST-DATE STRESS 74

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SUMMARY NOTES FOR AN AMAZING DATE 77

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FINAL WORDS 79
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PREFACE
I was getting ready for my first date in a month. The date venue was only 10 minutes
away, and I was just about to head out the door, full of excitement for the night ahead,
when I received a text Sorry Marcus, cant make tonight, somethings come up. Lets
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catch up another time. Really sorry!
I was devastated.
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Once again, I was resigned to being alone on a Saturday night browsing Internet
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dating profiles and trying to talk to my few Tinder matches. I had managed the odd
fling and short-term relationship, but these were one-offs. There was absolutely no
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consistency or certainty in my interactions with girls. I spent my time worrying about

meeting new girls and whether they would like me or not. It was exhausting.
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After the initial disappointment of being stood up, something in me clicked. My

passion for personal development, psychology and taking on challenges pushed me
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over the edge, and I made a decision then and there to change my circumstances.
From that point I immersed myself into becoming better at meeting girls and building
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relationships, particularly from online dating sites. I read every pick-up artist and
relationship-building article on the Internet, every social science, influence and
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psychology book I could get my hands on. I befriended those that had already been
successful on Tinder and learned the strategies they were using.
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I began seeing massive improvements. I tried different methods and tricks some
worked, lots didnt. I kept detailed notes on my journey and discovered that the
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process of being successful with girls, particularly on dating apps and online dating,
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followed the same path. There was a certain framework, or system, which allowed
me and many others to have amazing success. I was still being completely myself, but
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developed confidence and a totally different perspective on meeting girls. I went from
only getting one date a month, to having five or six a week that all could have turned
into something more. The confidence I developed spilled over into other areas I
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became more assertive at work, I felt comfortable negotiating a discount on my car

and I began seeing an increase in respect from my peers. Everything I learned is in
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this book it not only improved my dating, it improved my life.

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PREFACE
How can one achieve consistent dating success? In the last three years, I have answered
this question myself, and this book will answer it for you. I will show you exactly how
I, and the best seducers, have effortlessly attracted girls on Tinder. Its simple to
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duplicate. There is a recipe.
If youve downloaded this book, chances are that you dont want to wake up one
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morning a year from now, with more regrets of all the girls that you missed out
on. Feeling underdone and exhausted, like I felt. Whether your desire is to start a
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relationship and family or simply experience a night of intense pleasure and emotion,
this book will give you all the tools you need to make it a reality in the here and now,
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instead of agonizing over more missed opportunities.

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From flirtatious dinner dates that lasted over four hours, to long-lasting and fulfilling
relationships, to Thursday night cook-ups where dessert was served from each
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others bodies. To a girl climaxing on my couch within one hour of our first Tinder
conversation, who then went home, only to show up on my doorstep 15 minutes later
wanting to do it all again because she enjoyed our conversation All this, and many
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more life-long memories, are attributable directly to what Im about to share with
you. Over the last two years Ive compiled, tested and refined countless successful
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strategies all this has been distilled into TINSANITY.
Tinder and girls dont have to be so damned hard. They really dont. Most people,
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my past self included, have spent too much time convincing themselves that dating
is difficult, a resignation to accepting lower-quality girls, or worse, accepting a life
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The truth, at least the truth Ive experienced and will share in this book, is quite
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different. From rapid match filtering to influential psychological tricks weve stolen
from marketing professions, Ill show you how a small group of Tinder experts use a
handful of simple strategies to achieve what most consider out of reach.
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Take a deep breath and let me show you how.

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THE SYSTEM: CORNERSTONE CONCEPTS
There are three fundamental concepts that underpin TINSANITY: The Ultimate Tinder
Seduction System. Understanding these concepts will deepen your understanding
of the TINSANITY System, allowing you to generate the maximum amount of success
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1. You Can Create

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Each Tinder match is a blank canvas. You have the ability to mold and steer the
interaction in whatever way you choose. You can be whoever you want to be.
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Some guys dont realize they have control and just let things happen as they happen
they are passive and reactive. Theyre the type of guys that hope a girl will initiate
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conversation first and then feel rejected when they dont. They chat about anything and
everything, yet the conversation still fizzles out. They partake in Tinder conversations
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for days on end with a girl, only to be confused and disappointed when she doesnt
want to meet up.
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The successful guys, however, realize that they can turn that same blank canvas
into anything they wish. They take action and consciously sculpt conversations into
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successful outcomes, leaving nothing to chance. They implement systems, principles

and routines that give themselves the maximum chance of success. Its what makes
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their Tinder victories appear effortless, efficient and smooth.
Youll see this is exactly what TINSANITY provides you a flexible framework of
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simple and repeatable processes that give you the best chance at consistent success
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2. Construct a Seductive Environment: Emotion

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Youll achieve success on Tinder if youre consistently able to create a seductive

conversational environment.
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An interaction in a seductive environment has different feeling to a normal everyday

conversation. It makes you and your target feel like youre in your own little world an
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escape from the mundane routine of day-to-day life.

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The key to creating a seductive environment is emotion. Emotions drive a persons

thoughts and also alter their physiology. By evoking certain emotions and avoiding
others, youll be able to stimulate your targets interest and attraction in you. These
emotions are summarized in the Seducers Pyramid of Emotion.
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Seduction thrives in Level 1 (surprise, excitement, lust, happiness, trust and
anticipation). Your Tinder target will experience an array of positive feelings that she
will associate with you.
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An occasional dip down into Level 2 (embarrassment, frustration, disappointment,

doubt, worry, anxiety, tension and confusion) will add to the excitement, like some
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sort of emotional rollercoaster. That combination of significant Level 1 emotions

mixed with the occasional Level 2 emotion, will give her a sense of euphoria that she
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will always remember when she thinks of you.

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Level 3 emotions (sadness, fear, mistrust, anger, boredom and hurt) are best avoided
altogether.
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By crafting the right mix of emotions, youll create a seductive conversational

environment. TINSANITY provides routines, processes and systems that foster these
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emotions, maximizing your Tinder success.

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3. Attitude and Perspective

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Because one believes in oneself, one doesnt try to convince others. Because one is content
with oneself, one doesnt need others approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole
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world accepts him or her. LAO TZU, legendary philosopher and poet.
TINSANITY The Ultimate Tinder Seduction System
Every guy goes through three main phases when it comes to girls:
The nice guy who continually gets friend-zoned (thought of as just a friend
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rather than a romantic or sexual interest). Your mom raised you well, so you
open every door, reveal your feelings at the first sign of a connection and
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you to do. If you become intimate, you get hurt (several times probably) and
you develop a new outlook on girls: they all cheat, they all lie and they arent
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good people. So you turn into a douchebag.

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The douchebag who smashes and dashes. With your new outlook you
become disgusted with girls so you become mean or dont pay them
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attention and theyre all over you. All the sluts, anyway. You enjoy your
time being mean, getting what you want, and then realize that these girls are
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horrible people. You develop a profound insight being a douchebag works

because you appear 100% confident in your ways, and girls are in awe of
the stuff you can say without having any regret for it. You recognize theres
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no need to be an ass, you can still be truly yourself. With this newfound
insight and self-belief, you become the confident and contented guy.
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The confident and contented guy with a deep-seated self-assuredness.

You no longer require the approval of girls to feel important or validated.
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This assurance exists deep within because you know who you are a great
guy any girl would be privileged to know. You dont feel the need to bend or
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transform to anyones expectations, you feel completely liberated. You give

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3 good girls what they deserve and give girls that disrespect you the boot no
more, no less. You say what you actually believe rather than what will get
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you laid which gets you laid even more although by now that might not
matter to you, because youre attracting first-rate girlfriend material, and
that may just interest you more than easy lays.
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You will experience almost immediate success when you begin implementing the
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routines and lines of TINSANITY, which are founded on confidence and contentment.
The short-term results are great, although the long-term benefits are infinitely
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morepowerful.
At first the lines and routines will give you a glimpse into what it means to be confident
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and content. In time it will seep into your character so you become that person youll
radiate self-assuredness by being truly yourself, and girls will adore you for it.
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APPLYING THE SYSTEM: HOOKING UP
The processes and routines in TINSANITY are generally explained from the perspective
of securing a casual or formal date so you and your Tinder target can go on a
first date, get to know each other, potentially go on subsequent dates and form a
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relationship.
However a long-term relationship might not be what you always desire from Tinder.
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Maybe you just want something short-term, like a one-night hook-up. In case you
were in any doubt, hitting a home run (yes, thats code for sex) can be achieved with
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exactly the same techniques, methods and lines that we cover. The system works
for any form of relationship long-term relationships to casual dating to once-off
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hook-ups because youre creating attraction and building strong rapports based on
emotion, which can then be leveraged in many ways. Youll notice that because youre
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building stronger and unique relationships, your opportunities for hitting home runs
will increase, even though that may not be your chief aim.
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But it should be noted that although there is potential to go on a date with almost
every one of your Tinder matches, the proportion of girls who will be open to sex on
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the first meeting is significantly lower. Fence sitters who dont normally hook up on
the first date can be swayed. Girls may change in and out of the categories through
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different stages of their life (i.e. the seemingly increased propensity to have casual
sex during college). But in any point in time, there will be fewer girls who are freely
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open and comfortable with having sex with a stranger from Tinder on the first meeting,
compared to second or subsequent dates.
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If sex is all you desire, youll be able to fulfill your needs more consistently with
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some patience by going on two or more dates, while keeping with the strategies in
TINSANITY. With each successive date you go on the probability of hitting a home run
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will increase. Generally, its the third or fourth date that will produce what you desire.
However, you should also keep in mind that with each successive date the bond,
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emotions and expectations between you and the girl will also change. This comes
with an inherent responsibility to manage those relationships for the sake of the
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girls you are meeting or to avoid unenviable and messy circumstances.

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PROFILE
Your profile is the most critical factor for success on Tinder. Because your photos are
viewed and judged within seconds, they need to be perfect! Its absolutely ruthless so
you cant afford to get it wrong.
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However, many guys do get this vital piece of the Tinder puzzle wrong. The team of
girls and guys at tinderseduction.com have reviewed and tested hundreds of male
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and female profiles. Weve seen it all the good, the bad and the ugly.
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Appearance Is All There Is: James the Alcoholic

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We once reviewed a profile for a client, James. James was a 28-year-old travelling
economist who was obviously intelligent. He had a great group of friends, was funny
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and was definitely not ugly. He had a great deal of strengths but just couldnt get many
matches, let alone attract the type of girls he wanted girls that were similar to himself.
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After a profile review by the TinderSeduction girls, James read the feedback. The consensus
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was that Jamess profile portrayed him as an interesting guy who loves to party and drink,
probably too much. Some girls said his profile hinted that he was an alcoholic.
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James was in complete disbelief. His Tinder profile conveyed that he was a hard core
partier and potential booze hound. But in reality James was practically a non-drinker
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who rarely partied. He spent his weekends hiking and rock-climbing in the mountains.
The fact that James mentioned some of his interests in his bio didnt account for much.
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The issue was the only photos James possessed were

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Facebook pics where he was at social events, so thats
what he used for his Tinder profile. Girls on Tinder
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to have your profile reviewed and improved

could only go by what they could see which was
by the TinderSeduction girls.
James the hard-partying booze hound. They had no
idea the real James was an outdoorsy economist.
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We made some changes to improve his profile:

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Changed his main photo to a clear picture of just him, rather than the group-
friend shot he previously used.
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Removed all the (alcoholic) social photos except one the one where it looks
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like James was telling an interesting anecdote with everyone listening intently.
Added a new photo from when James was a groomsman at his brothers
wedding and looked very sharp in a suit.
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Advised him to take some action photos where hes participating in his main
passion, outdoor adventure, and added the best one as a supporting photo.
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Shortened his bio significantly, removing the description of his interests (his
photos now did a better job at getting that across).
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After implementing the changes and using his new profile, Jamess matches skyrocketed
and have since led to a number of dates.
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Thats the interesting thing with Tinder after only a few simple changes, crappy profiles
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that dont see many matches miraculously transform into decent profiles and as a
result their matches skyrocket. If youre not getting the results that you need, its likely
that you just need to make a few small changes.
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To work out what changes you should make to get more matches, you first need to
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understand what your profile should achieve. It should:
Be clear, concise and easy to digest make it easy for girls to evaluate.
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Present yourself in the best manner possible using the most flattering
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photos that highlight your strengths.
Demonstrate youre not a threat the world (and especially Tinder) is full of
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weirdos, and girls are on alert.

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Provide an accurate representation of your personality the wrong

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impression will really limit your ability to progress beyond Tinder and onto
successful dates.
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Attract the type of girls that you want to meet maximizing total matches
is great, but maximizing matches with the types of girls you like is much better.
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Create conversation photos are a great way of providing conversation

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There are an infinite number of profile combinations you could use to accomplish
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the above. What determines that best combination comes down to is you your
unique attributes, qualities and desires. Although its impossible to provide specific
recommendations for your profile without a review, you can use the flexible profile
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template below to start off with its been proven successful time and time again for
hundreds of guys.
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SUGGESTED TEMPLATE
The main image the most important.
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A girls impression of you will be formed almost exclusively from your first photo. If
she looks at your other photos, its only because your first photo caught her interest.
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So although you can be a little lazy with other photos, the main profile photo is the
one you must get right.
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This thought can be intimidating that just one issue with your main photo could
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be ruining your chances with thousands of girls. But the opposite is also true as it
represents enormous potential. Just by altering one photograph, your Tinder success
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could skyrocket thats the attitude that you need to have.

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What should your first photo be?

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A picture of just you, with open and confident body language, smiling.
This works because:

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We all respond subconsciously to body language. Its

proven that smiling has a positive effect on peoples
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emotions. Your open body language will be saying, Look

at me, I have nothing to hide, Im safe and Im confident.
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Humans are lazy. If your main photo contains other

guys, it means that girls will need to invest more effort
attempting to work out who you are, which they dont like.
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A clear, simple photo where youre the focus will make

it easier for girls to swipe-right. Its called cognitive ease.
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Simple, isnt it? The best things usually are.

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OTHER PHOTOS
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The supporting photos are where you give an insight into your personality, interests
and talents. As James can attest, its important that you select photos that accurately
represent who you are.
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The supporting photos are also where you attract the type of girls youre looking
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Ideas include:
You in a suit. Shows that you present well and have range. Wedding photos (as
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long as youre not the groom!) are perfect.

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You with your friends. This demonstrates social proof an incredibly powerful
social phenomenon which basically makes your Tinder target think that since
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other people are around you, there must be a reason, so they want to be
around you also. Try and select photos where youre the center of attention,
rather than being right on the edge of the group. Also photos where youre
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around good-looking girls is also beneficial just ensure youre not overly cozy
with them (no ex-girlfriends!).
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You playing a musical instrument. Something like this shows off your unique
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talents and is also a great conversation tool.
You with your pet (puppy if possible). Girls love pets, and its an easy conversation
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point for them. Plus its a great way to add complexity to your profile to show
your sensitive and caring side in a manly kind of way. Girls go crazy over dogs!
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You having fun with family. Girls that are looking for a relationship respond well
to this because it demonstrates you can form strong relationships.
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You subtly showing off your physique. If you have a good physique, show it off
somewhat indirectly. Theres a deep-seated evolutionary reason guys and girls
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like a good body humans are hardwired to be attracted to people who look
healthy. A photo at the beach, water skiing action shot or you in a snug T-shirt
while hiking are all good options. The better your physique, the less clothing
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that should be included.

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You in a unique picture a picture that stands out from the rest of the Tinder
crowd gives girls an easy means of starting a conversation with you. The most
successful unique photo Ive used was me in the kitchen wearing a frilly, pink apron.
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Whats Your Frilly, Pink Apron?

The photo that Ive received the most comments on was one where I was in the
kitchen cooking, wearing only an apron a very, very girly, pink, frilly apron. It created
enormous amounts of attention and conversation. Here are a few examples:
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Why did it attract so much attention?
It was different a guy in a pink frilly apron stands out.

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It was self-deprecating although I was wearing an absurd outfit, I was still

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smiling and having fun. It showed that I was easy-going and approachable.
It was female-friendly girls could easily relate and converse about cooking in
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the kitchen.
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The best thing about it was that it was a great date-anchor. Girls would bring up the
picture of me cooking, so the transition to date-talk was incredibly easy.
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Think about what your best unique photo could be and add it to your profile. It should
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be something that stands out, thats female friendly, shows that youre approachable
and can be used as a date-anchor. If you cant think of anything, buy a pink apron. ;)
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RULES FOR PHOTOS

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Smile, for real. When youre taking a photo, make sure youre genuinely smiling. A
fake smile only shows in your mouth; a real smile shows in your eyes. It will make you
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more attractive.
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Wear nice clothes. It doesnt have to be a tuxedo or a brand-name label. Just make
sure your clothes are not visibly creased, have no stains and are well fitting. Girls will
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notice these factors in an instant.
Subtly show off your good physique. Theres a deep-seated evolutionary reason for
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this humans are hardwired to be attracted to people who look healthy. A photo at
the beach, water skiing action shot or you in a snug T-shirt while hiking are all good
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options. The better your physique, the less clothing that should be included.
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Use good quality photos. It can be from a digital camera or an iPhone as long as its
clear. Fuzzy or grainy photos are highly unattractive.
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Use recent photos. Using old photos will shock your Tinder date when you meet her
and ruin your chance for a second date.
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Dont use any pics with closed body language. This includes crossed arms, crossed
legs and hands in pockets. It makes you appear less approachable and unfriendly.
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Dont use webcam photos. The quality of these pictures is usually terrible, and youre
not going to look interesting sitting in your computer chair.
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Dont use selfies. Its best to stay away from selfies as a lot of girls perceive them as
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emasculating. If you cant find anyone to take photos of you, just use the self-timer
function on your phone or camera no one will be able to tell the difference.
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Dont use shirtless selfies. It doesnt give off a good image and makes you look like a
douche. Girls (that are respectable) have shown time and time again that they dislike
these photos the most. It may work for some guys that are shredded, but even then,
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other subtle ways will work better.
Dont use pics where you are overly cozy with girls. Its a slight turn-off for girls if
they see you with someone they think is your ex. If you have a picture with your sister,
this rule still stands because girls on Tinder wont know its your sister.
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Dont use heavily manipulated photos. A little bit of Photoshopping is fine (adjusting
colors) or an Instagram-type filter that will improve aesthetics, but dont overdo it.
Plus, you dont want your date to be shocked that you dont look like your profile pics.
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Dont use multiple photos of the same type. Ensure you have a variety of different
photos and avoid using too many of the same photos. Examples include having too
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many group photos, having too many photos of just you in the same pose/situation
and too many close-ups of your face.
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Dont add photos just to fill all the (6) available. If you only have three or four
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good photos, it is much better to use only those, rather than adding another two or
three bad photos simply to fill the spaces. An extra photo is unlikely to increase your
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matches, whilst having a bad photo will decrease your matches.

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TINDER BIO
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When it comes to matches, your Tinder bio (About Me section) isnt that important. It
isnt even visible with your main image. For a girl to see it she needs to be interested
enough by your main picture and then dig deeper which is done by tapping the
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screen to see more about you. And then even if she does read your bio, its your
photos that will be the major influencer.
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The main instances a girl will read your bio is after you send them an opener or when
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she wants to send you the first message shell do a little background check to find
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something to say. So like including a unique photo to help spark conversation, unique
content in your bio can also have the same effect.
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Bio Mistakes
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From the hundreds of Tinder profile improvement reviews and testing that weve
done, here are the biggest mistakes you need to avoid:
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Dont overshare. A profile is supposed to intrigue and entice girls to find out
more about you. It shouldnt be a complete fact sheet on your life. Mystery is a
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powerful seduction tool, so leave some of your life to the imagination.

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Dont make spelling mistakes. Its an immediate turn-off to a lot of girls.
Dont use clich and overused quotes. Theyre completely overcooked and
wont make you stand out. I recommend not using quotes at all.
Dont obtusely self-promote. Im a funny and interesting guy isnt believable.

Let it show in your profile pictures and your conversation.
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Your bio might not increase your matches; however, it can definitely decrease them
less is more! If youre in doubt whether to add in a piece of information or funny
quote, leave it out! A great bio may help your Tinder results slightly, but a poor bio will
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definitely devastate any chance of success.
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HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR PROFILE

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The quickest and surest way to improve your profile is to have other people review it
and give you feedback. Sometimes we can be oblivious to simple mistakes that really
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limit our performance like James the non-drinker and his alcoholic profile.
Valuable feedback comes from asking the right questions to the right people. The
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right people are your target audience the type of girls that you want to attract. Guys
who have been successful on Tinder can also be a great source of feedback.
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The questions you ask should reveal the following:

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What are your best photos?

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What picture should you use as your main display?
What are your worst photos photos that you should scrap?
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Are there any other additional photos you should add?

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What do they think of your profile description?
What type of person does your profile portray you as?

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These questions and answers will give you many benefits:

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Know which of your photos work and dont work. Sometimes its just one poor
photo that brings your profile down and limits your matches.
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Help you find out if you need to add any more pictures to present a well-
rounded profile.
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Find out what reaction your profile description is getting. You may think your
bio is hilarious, while girls find it offensive, lacking taste and vulgar.
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Learn what personality your profile presents to attract certain girls you need
a certain feel to your profile. For example if you want to attract party girls who
are looking for hook-ups, you need to make sure your profile shows that youre
fun and exciting. But if you want a relationship, youll need to tone it down a
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little.
Five ways you can obtain feedback:

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Split-test your profile. Try different photo combinations and see what
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produces the best results. Do this by selecting one photo combination,
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swipe-right for 100 profiles and then see how many matches you receive
after waiting for a couple of days. Then repeat this with other combinations
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Pros: You will be receiving feedback directly from those that you want
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your Tinder list. Chat a little first to build a rapport, then be open and tell her
you want to improve your profile and ask if she wouldnt mind critiquing it.
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You: [Her Name], you seem like a pretty intuitive and helpful type, am I right?
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profile as theres nothing in it for them. Also some may feel uneasy telling
you the truth so they sugar-coat their feedback which wont be beneficial
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for you. To help with these issues, tell your match that youll critique her
profile honestly as well, so shell be more likely to return the favor.
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Ask others on the Internet to critique your profile. There are a lot of
online communities that will happily oblige in giving you feedback. Reddit is
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Cons: You may not receive any replies to your post, or they may not be
your target demographic. Posting your pictures on an Internet forum for
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thousands of others to see can be intimidating for those that enjoy their
privacy. Although its generally friendly, feedback may not be constructive
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Ask friends and family. The same as asking a Tinder match or others on
the Internet to critique your profile, but ask those whom youre close to
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Pros: Your friends and family know you best so they can offer some
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great insight. Theyll know what photos you look best in and what photo
combination shows your true personality the best. Theyre also more likely
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Use a Tinder review service. There are a number of services that will
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great results without all fuss of doing it yourself.
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Pros: Easier and less work for you. The feedback you receive is often much
better than the other methods because the reviewers are experienced
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at reviewing Tinder profiles and put more time and effort into giving you
constructive feedback. You are certain to get a specified amount of reviews
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from different girls. Using a service is a good alternative if you prefer privacy
and confidentiality and would prefer not to ask friends, family or others on
the Internet.
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at a cost. Some Tinder services cost up to $375 per month, which can be out
of reach for most people.
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SUMMARY NOTES
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Tinder impressions are brutally quick simple mistakes can dramatically

diminish your Tinder matches.
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Your main image is the most important get it right. Use a pic of just you,
smiling and with open body language.
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OPEN
A great opener will set you up for a seductive conversation. By putting in a little
effort at the beginning, youll make the rest of the seduction process much easier.
Alternatively, a bland opener will make it much harder to seduce your target.
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You have the power to sculpt the conversation like an artist, so make sure you create
a masterpiece.
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Most girls wont send a message

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Capture her attention.
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Stir her interest so she feels compelled to chat with you.

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Create the right conversation vibe early on.
To understand why these goals will lead to your success, you need to get a girls
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perspective on Tinder. Pretend that youre Emily, a girl whos matched with 28 guys
(all matches below) and youve received these messages over the last few days. Read
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Did any messages capture your interest? Did any

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CREATE A GREAT OPENER

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Staring at a Tinder profile and trying to come up with a great opener can be hard. Its
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Thats no longer a problem for you now that you have access to Dating App Cheat the
hard creative work and validation testing has already been done. With this resource
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youll have everything you ever need to start interesting and seductive conversations
on Tinder. And after a while youll be able to start creating your own impressive
openers, too.
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To make the most of the Dating App Cheat openers weve given you, its best to
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understand what separates a great opener from a poor one. That way youll be able
to select the best opener for each girl that youve matched with, giving you the best
chance of a successful conversation.
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Opener Action Level Rankings

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1st Level: Hoping for a message or being too scared to send one.
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jump out of the water and into your lunch box. Or holding your
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3rd Level: Sending a message that demands attention and creates emotion.
Sending 3rd Level openers will put you in the upper echelon of Tinder conversations.
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These are the rare conversation starters that make a girl take notice of you and set
you on the path of an easy seduction.
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Level 3 openers require a little more thought and consideration than the others, but
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These are the Level 3 techniques that will make you stand out from the pack:
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Use her name

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Using her name is an easy way to gain her attention. If youre walking down a crowded
street and you hear someone across the street yell Hey! you probably wont turn
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around. But if you hear someone scream your name, youll always turn around. Its
the same on Tinder. The phenomenon has scientific backing; when we hear or read
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our names, it actually makes certain areas of our brains light up to take notice, so take
advantage and use her name.
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Example:
Emily, I hope that your personality is as colorful as your dress sense is.
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Be different
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Never follow the crowd. Go where its empty. As you now know, a lot of guys send the
same boring messages if you say something different, youll stand out.
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Example:
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We could go out on an amazing first date, have great conversation, lots of laughs, enjoy
the absurd amounts of flirting before I say goodbye and charmingly end the night with a
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soft kiss on your cheek. After that wed both get too busy and never see each other again.
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Being open and honest can break down barriers immediately. By openly discussing
the situation youre both in, it absolutely crushes any conversational stuffiness. It only
takes a little confidence to recognize and relay a situation but will make you appear
exceptionally confident.
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Example:
Were both obviously playing hard to get, so how about we agree to put our egos aside in
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the name of lust and skip to the part where we flirt outrageously with each other?
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So do you want me to hit you with a corny Tinder line or can we skip all that weird shit?
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Create emotion.
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Emotion is the foundation for attraction. You can make her feel excited and flattered
by complimenting her on something unique (that no one else has ever complimented
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her on). Make her happy and cheerful by making her laugh with a joke. You can surprise
her by alluding to the fact that she has no friends because she only takes selfies. You
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can make her feel a little insulted by making an honest (and playful) observation about
her dress sense. Or better yet, make her feel a complete array of emotion and shell
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be interested in you immediately.
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Tailor your messages specifically to her profile.

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shell be curious as to who you are and why youre different than everyone else.
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Naomis profile was full of pics where she was cuddling people:
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This is an example of the perfect Level 3 opener. It uses her Bet t er t han
name, its honest, tailored to her profile, unique and makes
her feel an array of emotion: surprised, happy, flattered and
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SUMMARY NOTES FOR A GREAT OPENER

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Send a message! Its the old clich - you gotta be in it to win it.
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Tailor your message as much as you can to her profile.

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Use her name in the opener. Its an easy way to get her attention.
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Make her emote. Emotion is the foundation for attraction.

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Use emoticons to add extra personality and emotion to the conversation.

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Use the list of openers that weve given you from Dating App Cheat, making sure
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to select the best opener for the girl youre sending it to and something that
you feel represents your personality. But also dont be afraid to try something
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that will make you stand out.
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DEMONSTRATE VALUE THROUGH CONVERSATION
Youve opened the conversation by catching her attention and creating emotion
great, shes now kind of interested and intrigued. The next step is to continue to
demonstrate your value through conversation, creating a sense of euphoria she will
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associate with you, so that she wants to hand her number over and hang out with you,
rather than you having to do the chasing.
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Demonstrating value is all about having a great Tinder conversation one thats
filled with witty back and forth banter, contains topics that promote emotion and
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where fun and flirty exchanges flow freely. This is the content that creates a seductive
environment, setting you up to get her number and a date.
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Tinder Conversation Goals:

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To continue the conversation after your opener

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To build a rapport with your Tinder target
To create interest and attraction so you can progress (get her number)
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CONVERSATION TECHNIQUES
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Tinder seduction. Like a sequence of individual dance moves, when combined together
they create a mesmerizing effect on your Tinder target. The best thing is that once
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Incorporate unexpected comments and responses. If you create unexpected

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twists and turns in the conversation, youll keep her on edge and wanting to see
where it leads. Make her feel that nothing with you is predictable.
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catch her attention and increase her curiosity. Shell wonder who you are, making
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her eager to find out more. It will also give her imagination some room to play and
fantasize about who you could be.
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You can do this by responding to her questions with something other than a direct
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Can you see how the answer to What do you do? could have easily turned into
a boring discussion about occupations and study? Instead, the conversation was
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steered toward an interesting topic date talk. The girl didnt even care that her
question was left unanswered; in fact, she appreciated it. Youll be surprised at how
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quickly girls completely forget about receiving an answer to a question they asked.
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Maintain a degree of ambiguity and mystery. Girls will be interested and intrigued, as
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they cant really pin you down it wont be long until shell be craving to know more
about that mysterious guy (you).
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Use honesty and openness. Raising unmentioned thoughts and dynamics to the
surface is a great way to break down barriers and build a rapport. Complete and
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confronting honesty is often a refreshing change to the niceties and politeness

that girls usually receive. By challenging her with observations and comments that
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others dont voice, youll be seen as unique. Honesty and openness gives you a great
opportunity to create those Level 2 emotions like embarrassment, doubt and worry
these are the emotions that make Level 1 emotions even better.
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Her: (says something that doesnt make sense)
You: You have a cute smile, so if we were speaking in person, Id probably ignore the fact
that last question doesnt make sense.
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This shows that youre authoritative in a way that still compliments her these mixed
messages make you seem more intriguing.
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Jenna (below) posted a Tinder moment of her in bed with text saying Ready for bed.
Goodnight :) She was wearing a pair of glasses that she obviously decided to wear just for
the pic but acted like it was normal, so I picked up on it:
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Play. We all enjoy playing make believe; its something that weve done as kids. Playing
brings out those positive Level 1 emotions that we rarely experience.
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You can do this by role-playing converse playfully as though you already have a
defined relationship. Its perfect for igniting her imagination and creating interesting
discussions.
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Role-plays are usually driven from the opener that you use. The type of role-plays are
only limited to your imagination.
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not necessary to use them for every message you send. Too many of these techniques
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RECOVERY AND NEGATIVITY

Sometimes things just dont go to plan, but thats OK. These are the three main issues
youll come across on Tinder and how to deal with them:
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Issue #1: You send her a message and she doesnt reply.
Diagnosis:
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or receives messages after yours, your message can get lost in her inbox.
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Check her profile to see when she was last active. If she was active before your
message, give her some more time to check her messages and respond. If she was
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last active after you sent your last message, then read on below.
Send a follow-up message. All you need is a message that will take you to the top of
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her inbox. It can be simple or it can be something hilarious and ridiculous. Examples
from Dating App Cheat include:
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Please respond, my fragile heart cant take the suspense any longer.
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Look here you beautiful broad, I taped my phone to my face like four days ago and have
been sitting in my parking lot where the reception is strongest waiting for you to message
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me back ever since. Why are you playing games with my heart?
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Or in this instance, a POWER Message from Dating App Cheat was used to reboot the
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Or use something related to your message:
This girls profile said she has a degree in Applied Mathematics, which explains the statistics/
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Dont follow up your non-replied message with something thats negative, aggressive
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Dont follow up immediately overwhelming her will demonstrate impatience and

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action, otherwise the conversation will deteriorate and youll be perceived as boring,
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submissive and desperate which are all extremely anti-seductive qualities.
If shes being boring and replying with dull messages, you can respond with a slightly
patronizing and sarcastic line like this:
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That was quite the awe-inspiring response. Im completely intrigued, please tell me more.
Or if shes being negative, you can respond with this subtly powerful yet playful
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created Level 2 emotion. What do you think her subsequent response was, positive
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If she continues to be boring and negative, then call her out on it directly treat her
like a father would treat a daughter whos being disrespectful and let her know you
wont stand for it.
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Issue #3: Shes testing you, also known as shit-tests.

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Consciously or unconsciously, shes giving you little tests to see what youre made
of its an easy way that girls filter out the men from the boys. It shows a girl hasnt
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developed an appropriate amount of respect for you but is also a strong indication
that she is interested in you.
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Her: Give me three reasons why I should go on a date with you.
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of value and increase attraction or wipe out any dignity that you have and lose her
desire completely.
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What to do:
Shit-tests arent something that you should try and pass. Its the type of behavior
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youd expect from a bratty little sister, so you need to react accordingly and dismiss it.
Here are three ways you can do so:

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1. Agree and amplify (to absurdity). This is a fun and flirty way to dismiss her comments,
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which means theres less chance of your comments backfiring.
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test: after you use a good opener or mid-conversation line, a lot of girls respond with,
Haha does that line work on all the girls? or Do you use that line on all the girls?
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The test is on the lower end of the shit-spectrum, so the response should reflect this
keep it light and flirty.
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openness and honesty catches her off-guard. By replying to a difficult question with
absolute honesty and openness, it will show that youre not fazed by her attempts to
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corner you into submission.
Her: So how long have you been on Tinder and how many girls have you hooked upwith?
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You: And you?
3. Use The False Takeaway. This method lightly threatens a departure, demonstrating
that youre willing to end the conversation. It is an indirect way of demonstrating value
its saying, I have other options so I dont need to put up with your crap.
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The example below shows a conversation with Kristy. The conversation was going well,
and she showed a lot of interest. All of a sudden her persona changed from interested
to challenging, and she said, Who says were going on a date? Its not a harsh shit-
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test, so the first response (cant argue with fate) was still playful and positive.
Then she steps it up with an all-out shit test: No. Youll have to do better than that. So
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fact, but it doesnt mean you should be thinking this analytically during your conversation
just be yourself, dont jump through her silly hoops to try to please her and youll be
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fine. These shit-test responses are simply here to provide you with specific approaches that
represent that attitude (confident and contented). Think of them as training wheels until
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that attitude is a part of who you are.
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her like most guys would, you tell her exactly how childish and ridiculous shes being.
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There should be no aggression or hostility from your side calling her out should be
communicated in a calm and controlled manner, almost as though you feel bad for
her because of how shes acting. By letting her know that you dont accept her shit,
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This method does have its risks. Shocking someone with reality can be confronting, so
negative reactions are common. This is an all-or-nothing approach, so I recommend
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do you more harm than good.
Dont get emotional the purpose of a shit-test is to get a reaction out of you. So be
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calm and controlled and youll demonstrate that youre a man of value, validating the
interest that she has in you.
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Simply be yourself, stay in tune with your sense of self and youll be able to tell the
difference between a witty comment that she uses to flirt and a shit-test thats trying
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CONVERSATION BEST PRACTICES

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joke about how youre going to have the most romantic Tinder date ever, or
how youre going to sweep her off her feet. These are the types of topics that
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unleash emotion and create a seductive environment. Just be careful not to

get too serious with this ensure you keep the conversation light-hearted and
playful, otherwise it can come across as creepy.
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like youve known each other for years, as if shes just one of your pals. If you
were messaging a stranger youd say, Hi Kate, how was your weekend? but if
you were messaging a close friend youd say something like, Hey there Miss
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Kate, what trouble did you get into this weekend? If you apply the buddy-
perspective, it completely changes the conversation dynamic. Comfort, rapport
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Utilize emotive language. Emotive language is a large reason why girls go

crazy over books like Fifty Shades of Grey. It will prime and influence your Tinder
target to feel those emotions and associate them with you. Dont just say, When
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we go on our date, say, When we go on our amazing date Amazing, whisper,

lust, Tinder crush, absurd amounts of flirting, intimate, sweep you off your feet and
adventure are all examples of emotive language that you can incorporate into
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Date-talk is the perfect subject for flirty Tinder A great way to practice (and have
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conversation. Its easy to talk about with any
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wild and it produces an enormous amount world, which means you can chat
of Level 1 emotions, particularly anticipation to girls from all over the wold. Go
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topic. So dont leave it until after you get her its completely free!
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conversation. This is covered in detail in the
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Practice. Dont only chat to girls that you want to meet up with. Practice on all the
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Tinder girls you can (hint: swipe right on all girls to maximize your matches and practice
opportunities). Try new techniques and new routines and test the limits. Youll start to
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CONVERSATION MISTAKES
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Dont focus on boring information and topics. Avoid topics like the weather,
work and school, which people talk about every single day. Your greatest danger
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the path of the conversation to something more exciting and emotional.
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Dont argue and get defensive. It will also make her defensive and closed off
(Level 3 emotions). You should bend like the branches in the wind. The only
exception to this rule is if you have a playful or flirty disagreement which is
recommended.
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Dont make the mistake of asking lots of questions in an effort to create

conversation. Your conversation shouldnt be an interrogation filled with
interview-style questions and answers. Have you ever noticed how old friends
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speak in statements? Their conversation isnt a series of back and forth
questions, but rather interesting statements that feed off one another. Also,
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generally the person whos asked the most questions is the person with the
upper hand in conversation dynamic let that person be you.
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Dont be negative. Nagging, criticism and complaining are ugly qualities

that will evoke Level 3 emotions in your target, bringing the mood of the
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paradox the less she knows about you, the more shell want to know. Getting
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to know each other isnt a race, so dont force it. Let it happen naturally.
Dont tell her directly that youre a nice or funny guy. It reeks of desperation
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and insecurity. Great guys dont need to tell people theyre nice or funny. It will
reveal itself naturally through the conversation.
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Dont unnecessarily apologize. Apologizing to someone you only recently

started chatting with is the quickest way to turn her off you. If you make a
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mistake or say an unfunny joke, dont run or hide from it own it! Learn from
the experience and dont dwell on it, and shell quickly forget.
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Dont act scared or desperate. Being afraid to say something wrong or feeling
worried that shell leave the conversation shows that you have no other options.
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an I know Im a great guy entering my world will be the best thing that can
ever happen to her attitude (confident and contented).
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good. They receive the same compliments every day. Give them an occasional
and unique compliment and it will keep them wanting more.
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conversations with lots of girls and dont stress if they dont reply straight away.
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Dont be overly persistent. You may think that overwhelming your Tinder
target with attention will convince her of your affection instead it will convince
her of your impatience and insecurity.
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Dont talk too much about yourself. The conversational focus should be on
her everyones favorite topic is themselves. When girls say things like, He
was so interesting or He is so easy to get along with, sometimes its just a
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substitute for, I was the focus of the conversation, and it made me feel good.
Plus, when youre focusing on your Tinder target, youll be less self-conscious,
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which will make you seem more confident.
Dont be afraid to fail to be bold and take risks. If you tiptoe around, youll
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is; try out different methods and approaches. If something fails, learn from it
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After opening the conversation and before getting her number, you need to
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Girls want to be rescued and whisked away to a life of excitement, romance

and purpose. Give them a taste of that life they desire, and they will feel like
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they need to be with you. You will be like an addictive habit of theirs.
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Use the conversation techniques that elicit attraction and interest: use
unexpected comments so you seem unpredictable (interesting), be a little
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and challenge her and play to evoke Level 1 emotions. But dont overdo it.
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PLANTING THE SEED: CULTIVATE A DATE
So would you like to go on a date with me?

Note: Although this chapter focuses on
I cringe every time I see a guy ask a girl formal dates (i.e. dinner or drinks) with
out like that. Its so submissive, so clunky your Tinder target, the same principles
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and boring. If a guy asks a girl out, this is are applicable to any kind of meet up
how it usually goes down: (i.e. a casual hangout or hook-up).
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no indication (low levels of
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then again he chases to hear,
Yes, Ill go on a date with you.
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after all that he can only hope
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that girl turns up for the date. The harder a guy chases, the less attraction she will feel
toward him.
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A high flake rate. The timeframe between asking for a date and going on a date is
small. She might have only said yes to be nice or change her mind, which means shell
end up cancelling (flaking) at the last moment. This frequently happens to some guys,
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and they believe that this sort of flaking is normal and expected on Tinder.
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This is the reactive let-stuff-happen-as-it-happens approach. It works occasionally,

though its not reliable.
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implement a strategy thats proactive and focused. Planting the Seed performs this
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PLANTING THE SEED The Ultimate Seduction Tool

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Planting the seed is where early on in your conversation you subtly (or not so subtly)
plant an idea into their minds about your date experience, hinting at the seductive
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pleasure that awaits them. The seed is fed by the imagination of your Tinder target
and eventually turns into a definite date expectation that excites her.
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Let me give you a real example of how and why this method works: take a moment
and think of a girl that you really liked in high school. I bet you thought about her
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all the time these thoughts filled your mind with excitement and happiness. Do
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you remember that? How you fantasized about being together with vivid scenarios
playing on repeat in your head all the fun you both could have (I imagined playful
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water fights with super-soakers during summer), how your first kiss might happen
(behind the sports shed), or what it would be like snuggle on the couch watching a
movie together (Finding Nemo weird, I know!). Planting the seed of your date will do
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Providing a vague outline of an exciting date experience will trigger this response.
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Planting the Seed Path to a Date:
Provides a clear path Early date talk gives your conversation direction and purpose,
a light at the end of the tunnel. No longer will you bounce from (boring) topic to
(boring) topic, hoping that somehow you randomly hit the jackpot and get a date. You
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and your Tinder target will

both be on the same page,
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conversation leaves that clear
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date talk? What if she says she
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or hang out with you? Thats
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lustful and interesting
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its almost impossible to talk about a date and not arouse feelings of excitement,
happiness, giddiness and anticipation.
Leaving date talk out until the end of the seduction process is incredibly wasteful its
one of the most potent seduction tools available, yet most guys never even realize
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this. Rather than being a short and awkward topic after getting a girls number, date
talk should become a pillar of Tinder conversations the ultimate seduction tool in
your arsenal.
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Maximizes Anticipation This is one of the most important aspects to having a great
first date experience. Have you noticed how youre usually happier when youre going
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out to dinner than on your way home? Or how youre more excited when youre about
to go on vacation than you are coming home? Anticipation in the lead-up to an event
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is an incredibly powerful emotion. Bringing up date talk early in the conversation

means you can squeeze out all the anticipation from this juicy topic, not leaving any
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behind. Although the girls wont specifically remember the pre-date build up, it adds
to the overall atmosphere of the date think of it as the pre-game entertainment
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before the Super Bowl. It sets the tone for the main event.
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Its less work You dont have to chase. By doing a very small amount of work early
on in the seduction process and planting the seed, youll never have to chase. That
seed will grow into anticipation and make her feel excited. After that it will bloom
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into expectation so that going on a date is a certainty. Going on a date is no longer a

question of IF, but WHEN, which means you dont ever have to ASK. The clunky So
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would you like to go on a date with me? is no longer an issue for you.
Its confident Girls love being led its like youre reading them an exciting story
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where theyre the main character. The fact that the date is implied means you never
have to ask (or grovel) for a date, which means you can maintain your confident
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persona. Plus, the confidence levels of a date occurring are higher through every step of
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thats full of hard work, plant the seed early and make her imagination do all the hard
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HOW TO PLANT THE SEED

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So now that you know how great this method is, lets find out how to do it.
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Look for an opportunity to strike while the iron is hot. The best time to plant
the seed is when your conversation is going well and she seems reasonably
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you or after shes asked you a series of personal questions (which demonstrates
interest).
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Raise the idea of your meet up. Remember that you always have the
ability to create and guide the conversation as you wish. Funneling the
conversation toward the topic of your date is no exception, and its incredibly
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2 easy. You simply pick something out of your current conversation or recent
comments and link it to your date. The suggestion for the date should flow
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smoothly from conversation, with an air of acceptance that the first date is
a given between the two of you and incorporating a hint of humor.
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This is a great way to provide that air of acceptance that the date is already
agreed upon, which influences your Tinder target.
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Provide simple imagery of a positive date experience. This will create a

vision in her mind and start to build the anticipation of your date. This step
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3 can be incorporated when you raise the topic (2) or immediately after. Be
descriptive but dont go overboard; you want to give her mind enough room
to fantasize. Dangle the date before her eyes and let her mind do the rest.
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realistic and silly. An example is:
Her: (During mid-conversation) Wow, youre cheeky.
You: Dont get used to it, because were going old-school for our first date
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Her: Haha oh really!?
You: I can tell youre already excited. Its going to be a gloriously wholesome
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affair, mixed with bubbling chemistry, intelligent conversation and absurd
amounts of flirting It will still make your heart flutter when we tell our
grandkids about it ;)
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Her: It sounds so perfect ;). So Mr When is this amazing first date?

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having a great text-conversation with you, hearing something like this will
get her imagination and expectations racing! This is exactly the frame of
mind you want her in.
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happen. Just incorporate the topic into discussion and explore it as playfully
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If a First-Date Hookup is You Goal

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Rather than creating an expectation of a platonic date, add in an extra sliver

of intimacy.
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We can hang out and relax, watch Netflix, have lots of laughs and a little
cuddle on the couch but only if youre a good cuddler ;)
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If the conversation gets side-tracked, bring it back to the date topic.

Some girls arent accustomed to open and direct date-talk, so they dont
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and playful, otherwise it will seem desperate. Youll soon feel her acceptance
of your date begin to grow.
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just not accustomed to such open communication. Dont give up after the
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Thats it! Once youve completed step #5 the date will be well and truly
planted in her mind. Its now an expected event rather than a possible or
even unlikely event which is exactly what you want.
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Quickly lock down date logistics (optional). This can either be performed
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following chapters.
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Ask your Tinder target when she is free (such as watching your favorite baseball teams play
for your date, rather than suggesting a
day/time yourself.
each other), setting up the details for the date can
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be dangerous. Mundane conversations on timing

This is the smoothest and most efficient and schedule clashes or what time you finish work
way to agreeing on a date/time.
or what location is best, are enough to kill any vibe
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Shell answer with something like, Im that youve built. The way to get around this is to
free Wednesday and Thursday nights
be as vague as possible until a few days before the
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this week. Then you select which of

those nights works best for you. date (without sounding like a creeper!). Therefore it
should go something like this:
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Her: It sounds so perfect ;). So Mr When is this amazing

proposed and that works best for her.
first date?
You: Well, when are you free for an amazing first date? [Repeating amazing
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date again crystallizes the idea in her mind that its going to be a great
first date and builds expectation. and expectation is a key ingredient in a
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successful first date].
Her: Thursday or Friday evening after work will be best for me :)

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Monday night to work out the details and to make sure youre not a balding
48-year-old man whos going to take me back to his basement for some fun
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Adding a semi-comedic comment similar to the above makes light of the

stranger-danger fear that is normal with a Tinder first date. A light-hearted
approach should put her a little more at ease it changes her perspective
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from I wonder if he is who he says he is to Does he really think I could be a
48-year-old guy? LOL, which should minimize her defenses a little. You can
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then link this comment into the phone conversation (covered later).
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SUMMARY NOTES FOR PLANTING THE SEED

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The transition to date-talk should be smooth. This means linking her previous
comments or your current conversation theme to the date, wherever possible.
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The date should have an air of acceptance, as if its already an agreed-upon

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It should be framed as an event that shed enjoy, even if wildly outrageous.

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Positive imagery will leave an impression, even if its not realistic.
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DIGITS: ACQUIRING HER NUMBER
Its not a big deal. Really.

Some guys build getting her number into a grand event and treat it as the epitome
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of seduction success, as if its the winners trophy thats given out after a successful
seduction.
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lucky to obtain. This is known as putting it on a pedestal.
Secondly it changes the way he interacts and communicates. A successful

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Tinder seduction is like a conversational dance where both the guy and the
girl enjoy themselves, each playing an important role. But when getting her
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number has been put on a pedestal, by the time he goes for those digits,
he changes from a waltzing dance partner into a beggar, like an employee
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Youll achieve this first through texting, because its a more personal mode of
communication than Tinder messaging.
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Then youll be able to speak to each other over a phone call. Hearing each others
voices and interacting in real-time is a big step up shell no longer think of you as
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just one of her 200 Tinder-matches, but as a real person, because theres more of a
personal investment involved in a voice call.
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As you can see, her number isnt a prize for you that represents the conclusion of
the seduction process. Its just something that helps the two of you progress. And
remember: She wants things to progress as much as you do.
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HOW TO GET HER NUMBER: THE MISSING

PIECE METHOD
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Obtaining her number should be something that flows casually from your conversation;
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Good Tinder Conversation. This comes from a good opener and then
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demonstrating value through your conversation. Easy.
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An Expectation of Meeting. This is the part where you plant the seed that
youre going to go on a date or hang out in the future, which is achieved
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in it just has to be an expectation that your relationship will extend beyond
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Tinder. Once again, easy!

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OK, enough witty banter and flirting over Tinder. Whats your number so we can take this
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something that youre both already expecting to happen.
Instead of thinking, Should I give him my number? shell be focusing on the fact that
its a step toward the first date (that she already wants to go on), so its a non-decision.
It becomes an automatic yes answer for her.
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Here are some example conversations which show the MPM in action:
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to wing it, which I definitely recommend for learning, make sure you include a reason
when you ask for her number its a psychological trick proven to increase the
likelihood of people adhering to your request. (The MPM already incorporates this
into its execution the date is the reason.)
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An example is:
Whats your number so we can take this to text? Tinder is killing my battery.
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Additional tip #2 Dont leave your number for her to contact you.
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general rule you shouldnt rely on girls to get in touch with you. Plus, as outdated as it
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making progress. Always aim to get the number so you can chat in a more personalized
environment, which allows you to build a stronger rapport. If for some reason she
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its a sidestep that you need to improve on.
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you can use a line like this, which is often all it takes to influence her decision the right
way:
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If after that line she says shes still not sure, it means shes interested but just not
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What you need to do is take a step back, go into a normal conversation for a while
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TRANSITIONING TO TEXT
Once you get her number, moving a conversation from Tinder to text can be tough
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its not a sure thing that youll pick up the conversation where you left off. The
conversation tone can change from one that is seductive over Tinder to a boring text
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conversation that fizzles out immediately. Or worse, a girl may not even reply to your
text messages.
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You need to treat the transition to text as if youre starting a conversation and building
a rapport with a new Tinder match, but you can do it at a higher speed. The perfect
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Clearly identify who you are either by stating your name or implying that
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Hey, this is [Your First Name]. Im looking for my Tinder crush with the cute smile
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Note: Its best not to use the something naughty line when your Tinder conversation
hasnt been sexual saying youll send her something naughty is likely to scare her off.
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SUMMARY NOTES FOR ACQUIRING HER NUMBER

Getting her number is no big deal its just part of the process.
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expectation that youll meet up in the future and then link the two when you
obtain her number.
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DATE TIPS
First dates can be hard. Especially a first date with someone you met through Tinder
or online dating. I know, because Ive been on lots of them and have had my fair
share of fizzlers awkward silences, strange conversation topics, lack of chemistry
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and terrible date venues Ive been there.
But over the years Ive also had lots of amazing dates. The kind of experiences that
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about the good old days. The difference between a date that fizzles and a date that
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overflows with chemistry comes down to a few simple things. If you can do these
simple things right, youll be able to create first date memories that last a lifetime
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maybe even start a relationship that will last a lifetime.

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interesting and humorous enough, getting butterflies pondering if YOU are going to
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more, by having a successful Tinder first date experience that will leave your Tinder
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intimacy can cause issues and anxiety if youre not prepared.
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result in a smooth call or in-person meetup. Conversation topics can dry up quickly,
leaving you with long and awkward silences not the most seductive environment.
The best way to avoid that undesirable situation is to have a purpose for your call.
A purpose gives direction and meaning so your phone conversation wont flounder
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around in forced, uncomfortable chit-chat. The best purpose is confirming your date
details.
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Since you dont want to surprise her with a phone call out of the blue, send her a text
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date with you. She is hoping that you are the man of her dreams. Remembering these
facts will keep you confident.
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successful and is used by phone marketers it will automatically put you in a more
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confident and personable state, which will project through the phone.
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you confident that the call will go well and ensures that you are in control of the
conversation. An example would be:
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youre buddies and its just a normal call.]
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Her: Hey! Great, thanks. How are you? [Shes going to be nervous and excited to speak
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that original comment you made over text will make you seem witty and also lighten
the mood.)
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Her: Hahaha yes, but perhaps I have you fooled.
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witty. After this, continue shooting the breeze, enjoy the flirtatious energy and confirm
the details of your date.
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more than exhausting the conversation before you even meet. It also shows that
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youre in control. After confirming the details, wrap it up quickly. Heres a golden line
that you can use to conclude your first conversation:
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You: Im in a bit of a hurry so I have to go plus, we dont want to ruin the pre-date magic,
do we now? (This line gets a giggle every time, I promise!)
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THE DATE
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Tinder dates can be scary. Youre sitting there face-to-face with a stranger that youve
been texting non-stop for the past week, but its not long before you realize that all
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that late-night text chemistry you had counts for nothing in person. And by the time
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that realization hits, its too late to fix. Youre stuck on a bad date, full of long, awkward
silences, with no escape route in sight.
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4 GOALS TO KEEP IN MIND ON YOUR FIRST DATE

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Make her feel comfortable and then uncomfortable Naturally,

meeting a stranger can be daunting for a female at the best of times.
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But meeting a guy she met from a weird app called Tinder is even more
daunting. Plus shes extra-nervous because shes attracted to this guy shes
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meeting (thats you). When you think about it from her perspective, you can
see that there are a lot of reasons for her to be nervous and even wary. You
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uncomfortable part by the end, youll find out why this works. :)
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Get to know each other A persons text-personality is often waaay

different than their in-person or real life personality. She might have only
been texting you whatever her friends have told her to say. And youve had
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the convenience of taking five minutes between texts to come up with a

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person is like starting your relationship from scratch, so you need to take
the time and effort to get to know each other in real life. Dont expect this
to happen automatically because you get on so well over the phone or text.
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avoiding mistakes that many people make and including some advice you
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Enjoy yourselves Dating should be fun! Enjoy the process of getting to

know someone and experiencing different social situations and emotions.
If you have that attitude, its almost impossible to have a bad first date. A
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What would you both be most comfortable doing? You both love the beach?
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shes worried about how her makeup will look if you go swimming. She might
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be a little hesitant about a bikini viewing on the first date. Plus theres the sun,
the wind and the sand to worry about. Dont make things harder for yourself
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Whats easiest? If you know a great bar but it will take her an hour to drive there
after work, choose something closer. Also consider how hard it is for you to get to
the date you dont want to show up 20 minutes late because you had to travel
through peak hour traffic to get there. Perhaps a Saturday morning brunch will
be easiest because neither of you will be concerned with mid-week busyness.
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How can you get to know each other best? Its easier to converse in a quieter
indoor environment. But perhaps your date will be more comfortable (and
therefore more herself) being a little active and fooling around playing a round
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The First Date Template

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What to do: Go to a bar or restaurant after work, for drinks and a small meal.
I recommend a small wine or tapas bar. This option allows you to chat easily with
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each other and, together with a few drinks, gentle background music and dim light, it
provides an incredibly seductive environment.
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this to your advantage. Instead of ordering two separate meals, Ive found it best to
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share three or so appetizer/tapas items off the menu. Sharing food off the same plate
increases the intimacy of the date and connects the two of you just make sure to
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use your manners! You can both graze the smaller meals over a longer period, which
also helps to alleviate any date tension. Also a few appetizers is generally cheaper
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When: After work on a Wednesday, Thursday or Friday. The logic for this is that
generally most people are busy early on in the week, and by the end of the week
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they cant wait to escape work, go out and relax. It also gives your date something to
look forward to, which builds anticipation at the start of the week. Then, if the date
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goes really well, you have an opportunity to hang out again a few days later on the
weekend for your second date.
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DATE DAY!
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Although the date is set and youre both excited, you still need to do a few extra things
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of the date you dont want to come in cold. Five days of no contact is likely to make
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the girl uncertain as to whether its still going ahead and is enough for a girl to cancel
on the day because she was unsure. But dont overdo it with texting! Although you
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blow your chances if your text convos go bad, so stay in a maintenance phase.
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Pre-date warming up texts, but kept to a minimum. Its also an example of how girls are
continuously stressing about whether the date will go ahead
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Its generally best to make sure the meeting details are fairly specific, as it decreases
the uncertainty and stress from the girls perspective. Here is an example of being
specific, and as you can see, even the most confident girls appreciate a guy who leads:
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THE MEET UP
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The initial greeting on the first date can sometimes be difficult and awkward. People
often look much different in person than they do in their profile pics, and youre both
generally a little nervous, so even finding each other in a busy bar or restaurant can
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be difficult. However, it is possible to avoid first date awkwardness heres a routine
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Text her an hour or so before the date and let her know that youll be at the
1 bar/restaurant 10 minutes early and will get your table organized.
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Once youre at your table, give your date a quick call just to let her know that
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youre there. This has two big benefits: firstly, it will alleviate her pre-date
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which makes the transition from Tinder to real life much smoother. The call
should be quick and go something like this:
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Her: (picks up the phone) Hey!

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You: Hey [Her Name], where are you?
Her: Just on my way. Im running a little late, sorry. (Girls almost always run
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let you know that shes there. Answer and tell her youre on your way over.
Dont hang up the phone and keep talking to her as you walk out toward her.
As you get toward the front, you should be able to recognize her easily, as
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she will be holding a phone to her ear (and hopefully looks the same as her
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each other, hang up the phone and continue walking toward her. The little
phone-walk-recognition trick makes the meeting process A LOT easier, trust
me! By this time youve had two conversations over the phone in the last 15
minutes, so youre already warmed up to each other, which ensures the
date starts off smoothly.
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Say a nice hello and give her a hug and or a kiss on the cheek, but dont
get too handsy! Give her a unique compliment about her outfit (girls can
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try to plant a lip-kiss as soon as you meet her otherwise you might scare her off.
Welcome her with a kiss on the cheek. If she doesnt hug you, playfully say, Hey,
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wheres my hug?! and then hug her. Getting a hug and kiss on the cheek is an
important step you want to develop comfort with physical intimacy early. Plus,
physical contact will release oxytocin, a hormone that makes you both feel good and
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improves your bond. It will go a long way to setting the tone for you to achieve a
successful intimate encounter.
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The most important tip: Focus on her.

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her to like you. If you can make her feel emotion, feel like shes interesting, feel like
shes comfortable sharing personal stories with you, then shell enjoy the date and
like you.
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DONT BE BORING!
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that make her feel good. So talk to her about
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memories and get her on a nostalgia high. Keep sexual metaphor there, I promise!).
everyday, mundane conversations topics like work,
school and weather to an absolute minimum.
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general. Then when you both start to feel more comfortable, take things up a notch
and ask more revealing questions. Getting stuck in that first layer of conversation
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is why girls will say, He was OK, but there wasnt any chemistry. Its because the
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found that generally, people who used online dating didnt present themselves as
interesting people, all because they stayed in their conversational comfort (boring)
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zone. By trying to be nice, they ruined any chance of creating an attraction.
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of course) that youll only talk about interesting topics.
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What were you like in high school? Then say, Wait lets guess what each
other was like in high school. Ill go first. Then proceed to guess if she was a nerd,
or a bit of a bully, sporty, hung out with the cool group, a little shy, etc.
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Do you have any brothers or sisters? Where do you fit oldest, youngest?
Just like the high school question, play a little guessing game and say things
like, Well, you seem fairly independent, even like you could be a little wild at times
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I definitely think youre the youngest child!
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would you spend your life? Explore this it will give great insights into her
personality: whether shes motivated, if she has any big future plans, whether
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First impressions are a really interesting topic, dont you agree? So lets tell
each other our first impressions. You might be surprised what I thought
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about you Just be completely honest but still nice. You can tell her that she
has a really bubbly energy to her that you didnt pick up through text. Or that
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shes a little taller than you were expecting. Or that she gives a good hello-hug.
This topic is a great opportunity to break down barriers and build chemistry,
but you need to be confident and completely honest otherwise it will work
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Whats one of your favorite childhood memories? Take time to really explore
this memory of hers and take an interest in it, inquiring into all the emotions
that she felt during that memory. Let her feel those emotions again.
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or uneasy about answering that, say, OK, Ill go first. Then select a few really
unique things about her that you find attractive, a mix of physical and mental.
An example would be, Well, from a mental aspect, from what I can tell youre quite
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a deep thinker, and to me thats a really attractive quality. Physically, those cute
dimples of yours have definitely caught my attention but Ive already told you that
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on Tinder. The more unique the qualities you tell her, the more flattered shell
be. Then sit back and hear the compliments she gives you to which all you
need to say is, Thank you.
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The key is to find topics that are slightly uncomfortable (in a good way) and unique
to talk about. Prod carefully and feel for her conversational boundaries, then explore
those boundaries from all areas. Remember, to receive you need to give so be
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prepared to reveal a little about yourself in the conversation.
Exploring her uncharted areas will make her feel in the moment with you and have
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want to hear your problems on a first date. Keep it positive.
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dominance and potential as a sexual partner. Body language plays a huge role in how
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Smile Its obvious, smiling is contagious and makes each other feel better. Your date
will see that youre smiling and will be more likely to smile as well, making her feel better.
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or legs and lean slightly toward your date. Open body language basically shows that
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At the start of the date shes likely to show signs of closed body language her arms
and legs may be crossed or hands clasped closed. Dont let this worry you! This is
relatively normal, as she is meeting a stranger and may be slightly wary and nervous
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being on a date with someone she likes. Slowly but surely youll see her body language
open up, which is a sure sign that you are making a good impression.
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include touching your arm in conversation, caressing something like her glass or
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earring, preening herself and flicking or playing with her hair. They are great signs to
see, but as long as you see her at least slightly leaning in toward you (and not away!),
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you know youre doing well.
Heres another secret tip: A lot of girls are nervous in the first 5 or 10 minutes of the
date, which isnt ideal. If you notice this, tell her, You seem pretty comfortable and
confident for a first date Im impressed, with a warming smile on your face. We
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humans are incredibly suggestible, and the fact that she thinks you see her as being
comfortable will make her feel more comfortable.
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Maintain a good amount of eye contact Looking into each others eyes increases
attraction and intimacy. You can help this along by talking about the colors of each
others eyes and asking her what color yours are. This will get her looking into your
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eyes and help fast-track the intimacy process. But dont overdo the eye contact and
stare into her eyes all night; otherwise shell think youre a massive creep!
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Take care of the check It makes you feel good. Maybe its some type of primordial
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pride to being the provider, maybe its a control thing or maybe its just nice to give. If
only because it makes you feel good, you should pay. But there are also many other
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reasons why you should:
If you dont make a big deal about it, taking care of the check will also make you
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look confident and in control, which will be attractive to your date.
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filled date night dont let something as insignificant as a few dollars ruin that.
In 10 years you wont remember those dollars coming out of your bank account,
but you will remember those warm feelings of having the perfect date night.
Some girls will suggest that they contribute to the cost of the night (even if its only
a polite gesture and dont really want to pay, they are usually the best type of girls).
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Handle this by politely saying, Thanks, thats nice. But Ill look after it. If she continues
to persist, have a smile on your face and say, Look, Ill take care of tonight, and you
can look after our second date. She will be absolutely flattered and impressed that
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of a second date. This takes away all of the post-date stress by knowing that you have
a second date planned, or at least in mind.
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It should be done in a light and playful manner. After she tells a joke, you can say
something like, Haha youre reasonably funny I hope youre this funny on our second
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date. It will be enough to plant the seed in her mind of your second date.
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Or if during conversation youre talking about something you both love doing, you
could use that as an excuse for a second date, like watching your favorite baseball
team or band the following weekend.
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*Note: This should only be done very late in the date and only if youre almost certain
that shes very interested in you, otherwise youll look too clingy.
Get an immediate post-date text. Picture this: The date is done and youve both
gone home. That night you dont receive a text from her, and you dont send one to
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her, either. The next morning both of you are happy with last nights date, but theres
still some confusion (and stress) over whether you should text first or wait a few
days. Then you start getting worried, thinking that maybe she didnt even like you Its
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totally unnecessary.
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When shes about to get in her car or a cab, say to her, with a half-cheeky smile, Make
sure you text me when you get home safe, I dont want to be up all night worried
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that post-date ice. And if youre not careful, that post-date ice can build very quickly,
making things difficult for you.
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sarcastic and playful like, Ive been up allll night worried sick did you get home safe?;)
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And thats it, the date template that is almost certain to leave your date completely
giddy with lust. If you havent been on many first dates, follow this template and you
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will do fine. Once you start to have a little experience, change things around to suit
you, your personality and your date this is just one of a million ways to have an
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below and let me know what has and hasnt worked for you.
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EXPERT TIP:
Goodbyes dont have to be hard (or awkward)
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Its confusing and sometimes scary to know what you should do when it comes to saying
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goodbye on a first date. A million thoughts can race through your head. Do I kiss her on the
lips? Or will I scare her off? Hug her? Shake her hand? Or is that not intimate enough? I think
you know what Im talking about!
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So heres a 100% certain way to end your date in style. Without the worry. Without
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When your date is finishing up and its time to say your goodbyes, follow this
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Wrap up your conversation.

Gently touch her left arm with your hand, just as you would if you were shaking
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hands with a close friend.

Then, with a warm and slightly mischievous smile on your face, look into her eyes
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and say these (magic) words to her: Now dont get too excited Im just going to
kiss you on the cheek.
Then smile again and proceed to give her a kiss on the cheek, but let it linger for just
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half a second longer than normal.

Its the perfect first date goodbye. Intimate yet respectable. Confident but not forceful.
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If she wasnt ready for any lip action with you, shell be relieved (and impressed) that you
confidently went for the cheek-kiss. And if she did want a taste of your lips, shell be even
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more eager next time you meet.

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It doesnt seem like a goodbye will be important after all, its only like 1% of the date,
right? But when you think about it, its the last thing she will experience before she goes
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home. Its like when you watch an awesome movie but its ending is a little bit crap. You
pretty much only remember the movie for the bad ending. You dont want your first date
goodbye to be that bad ending.
And heres something cool: When Ive known a girl for a while and I ask her what she
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remembers from our first date, shell always smile and tell me, I remember our goodbye and
how you kissed me on the cheek.
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Its the Number 1 thing I get complimented on and now you will, too!
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SUMMARY NOTES FOR AN AMAZING DATE

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Pre-Date Build Up:

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When texting (on Tinder or via text), casually bring up the topic of your firstdate.
Still via text, quickly lock down a day for your date by asking, When are youfree?
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Call her a few days before the date firm up date details, flirt a little then wrap
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Ensure youve reserved your date venue, if possible.

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Send a couple more warm-up texts on the day of the date, firming and specifying
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The Date:
Arrive at your date venue around 10 minutes early, then give her a call to let her
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know youre there and tell her to give you a call when she arrives.
She will call you when she arrives; stay on the phone and walk out the front. You
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Show her to your table.
Focus your attention on her during the date and dont try to show off, in an
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Be aware of body language, both yours (stay open) and hers (try to get hers to
open up). Maintain good eye contact.
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Start off with light conversation, then slowly unpeel the conversational onion
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memories, passions, etc.
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Once comfortable, incorporate a few conversation topics that push the

boundaries a little if performed correctly, this is where chemistry and a
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connection is created.
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If the signs are there, plant the idea for your second date in her mind.
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Take care of the check.

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After using your secret first date goodbye, tell her to make sure she texts you
when she gets home safe, eliminating post-date stress.
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FINAL WORDS
What you do next is what really counts.
Many a false step was made by standing still. FORTUNE COOKIE

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Ive missed more than 9000 shots in my career. Ive lost almost 300 games. 26 times, Ive
been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. Ive failed over and over and over
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again in my life. And that is why I succeed. MICHAEL JORDAN

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Heres what I recommend you do to really create momentum:
Message every single one of your Tinder matches right now, including
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all conversations that have gone stale. Use the openers from Dating App
Cheat and all the strategies that youve learned. You have no excuses. Then
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use the TINSANITY System with each conversation until you get the girls
number (probable) or until she says no. Remember to embrace failure its
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how you learn. See all of your current matches through to the end.
Have your profile reviewed and receive constructive feedback. Make

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How to Improve Your Tinder Profile for a reminder of what you need to do.
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(Optional) Once youve received your feedback and improvement

recommendations, delete your Tinder profile and start from scratch.
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This will refresh your Tinder account, allowing you to use your new and
improved profile to match with girls you missed the first time around. To
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3 do this, go to Tinder settings then select delete profile. Your Facebook

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account wont be affected. Note that deleting your Tinder profile will delete
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all of your matches and conversation history, so if you decide to do this,

ensure that you follow Step 1 first see all of your current matches through
to the end before deleting them.
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So are you going to learn all these cool strategies, have all these proven lines at your
disposal and do nothing? Or are you going to jump on Tinder, utilize the motivation
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and knowledge youve gained from TINSANITY, have a heap of fun and start seducing?
You know deep down this is going to work for you. This is going to be the change that
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takes you to the next level. So take action be bold, take risks and, most importantly,
have fun!
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I could finish by wishing you good luck on your Tinder adventures, but Im not going
to because I know that youre going to crush it ;)
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Thank You!
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Ive spent over two months writing TINSANITY trying to make it the best it can be for
you, so if you have an extra second, I would love to hear what you think about it! The
best way is to leave a comment at www.TinderSeduction.com/tinsanity.
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*Most people who have read TINSANITY and shared it with others did so by directing them to
the link above.
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Thanks for your support I really cant describe how much I appreciate it!
Happy Tindering :)
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marcus@tinderseduction.com
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THE SYSTEM: CORNERSTONE CONCEPTS 1

APPLYING THE SYSTEM: HOOKING UP 4

RULES FOR PHOTOS 10

HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR PROFILE 12

CREATE A GREAT OPENER 17

SUMMARY NOTES FOR A GREAT OPENER 23

DEMONSTRATE VALUE THROUGH CONVERSATION 24

RECOVERY AND NEGATIVITY 30

CONVERSATION BEST PRACTICES 39

SUMMARY NOTES FOR A GREAT CONVERSATION 42

PLANTING THE SEED: CULTIVATE A DATE 43

PLANTING THE SEED The Ultimate Seduction Tool 44

HOW TO PLANT THE SEED 46

SUMMARY NOTES FOR PLANTING THE SEED 52

DIGITS: ACQUIRING HER NUMBER 53

HOW TO GET HER NUMBER: THE MISSING PIECEMETHOD 54

SUMMARY NOTES FOR ACQUIRING HER NUMBER 59

4 GOALS TO KEEP IN MIND ON YOUR FIRST DATE 63

MID-DATE TIPS AND ADVICE 69

ELIMINATE POST-DATE STRESS 74

SUMMARY NOTES FOR AN AMAZING DATE 77

consistency or certainty in my interactions with girls. I spent my time worrying about

After the initial disappointment of being stood up, something in me clicked. My

became more assertive at work, I felt comfortable negotiating a discount on my car

this book it not only improved my dating, it improved my life.

instead of agonizing over more missed opportunities.

strategies all this has been distilled into TINSANITY.

Take a deep breath and let me show you how.

1. You Can Create

successful outcomes, leaving nothing to chance. They implement systems, principles

their Tinder victories appear effortless, efficient and smooth.

2. Construct a Seductive Environment: Emotion

Youll achieve success on Tinder if youre consistently able to create a seductive

An interaction in a seductive environment has different feeling to a normal everyday

escape from the mundane routine of day-to-day life.

The key to creating a seductive environment is emotion. Emotions drive a persons

An occasional dip down into Level 2 (embarrassment, frustration, disappointment,

sort of emotional rollercoaster. That combination of significant Level 1 emotions

will always remember when she thinks of you.

By crafting the right mix of emotions, youll create a seductive conversational

emotions, maximizing your Tinder success.

3. Attitude and Perspective

good people. So you turn into a douchebag.

horrible people. You develop a profound insight being a douchebag works

The confident and contented guy with a deep-seated self-assuredness.

transform to anyones expectations, you feel completely liberated. You give

girls you are meeting or to avoid unenviable and messy circumstances.

Appearance Is All There Is: James the Alcoholic

The issue was the only photos James possessed were

to have your profile reviewed and improved

We made some changes to improve his profile:

understand what your profile should achieve. It should: