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Abstract
Most young adults have had some casual sex experience. However, it is important to understand
the motivations for such behavior. We investigate the motivations for and consequences
of casual sex using a life-course lens. We use the Toledo Adolescent Relationship Study to
examine a diverse sample of young adults with recent casual sexual experiences (N = 239).
We draw on a subset of in-depth relationship narratives (N = 44) to provide a more nuanced
understanding of the motivations for and consequences of casual sex. We find that sexual
pleasure and substance use remain the most common reasons for participating in casual sex.
However, young adults report motives that are associated with the young adult stage in the life
course including too busy for commitment, geographic mobility, and feeling too young to be tied
down. These findings can inform service providers who work with the young adult population.
Keywords
casual sex, life-course theory, young adults, gender
For many individuals, involvement in casual sexual activities begins during adolescence
(Manning, Longmore, and Giordano 2005). Similar to prior studies (e.g., Bailey et al. 2008;
Eisenberg et al. 2009), we use the term casual sex to refer to vaginal intercourse among unmar-
ried individuals that occurs outside of committed intimate relationships. Findings from the
National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health) indicated that among sexually
active teenagers, 38 percent reported a casual sex experience (Manning et al. 2005). Moreover,
involvement in casual sexual activities is even more common as individuals transition from ado-
lescence to young adulthood. Prior findings from the Toledo Adolescent Relationships Study
(TARS) (N = 1,031) suggest that among individuals, ages 18 to 24, 54 percent reported ever hav-
ing casual sex and 39 percent reported having had casual sex during the last two years; moreover,
men, compared with women, reported more casual sex partners (Lyons et al. 2013). Similarly,
Armstrong, England, and Fogarty (2010), examining a sample of undergraduates (N = 12,925),
found that 67 percent of sexually active college seniors had casual sex. Taken together, these
Corresponding Author:
Heidi A. Lyons, Department of Sociology,Anthropology, Social Work, and Criminal Justice, 508 Varner Hall, Oakland
University, Rochester, MI 48309, USA.
Email: lyons2@oakland.edu
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studies suggest that casual sex appears to be relatively common among contemporary young
adults in the United States. We move beyond prior work by examining the motivations and impli-
cations of casual sex among young adults drawing on the TARS data and relying on life-course
theory and a mixed-methods approach.
This research contributes to the literatures on casual sex and young adulthood in at least four
ways. First, few studies have considered motivations for casual sexual activity from a life-course
perspective. The benefit of a life-course approach is that it may provide unique insight into why
young adults participate in casual sexual behavior. Second, many studies were limited to college
samples (e.g., England, Shafer, and Fogarty 2007; Glenn and Marquardt 2001; Grello, Welsh, and
Harper 2006; Paul 2006; Paul and Hayes 2002; Paul, McManus, and Hayes 2000; Regan and
Dreyer 1999); however, it is also important to explore casual sexual involvement across a broader
educational range of young adult respondents. Third, our mixed-method approach allows us to
investigate self-described meanings, which are not possible with standardized surveys. Last, under-
standing the motivations for casual sex can inform health care and service providers who work with
the young adult population. Specifically, understanding why young adults participate in casual sex
behavior can lead to better intervention strategies that encourage healthy sexual decision making.
Background
Life-course Theory
Life-course theory guides the current study’s focus on motivations for casual sexual activity.
Johnson, Crosnoe, and Elder (2011) state that two important themes in life-course theory are (1)
the significance of historical change and (2) continuity in life pathways. Societal changes that
have influenced the life-course stage of early adulthood include increased enrollment in higher
education, more time spent outside the parental home, and delayed marriage and childbearing
(Fussell and Furstenberg 2005). Moreover, these societal changes may be associated with
increased casual sexual activity among young adults. For example, Hamilton and Armstrong
(2009) argued that some female college students did not want serious committed relationships, in
part, because the time commitment of having boyfriends could distract from studying. The young
women in their sample claimed that “hooking up,” which refers to casual sexual interactions that
do not necessarily include vaginal sex (Fielder and Carey 2010), and casual sex were acceptable
alternatives to more serious relationships. Thus, prior research has shown that there has been
societal changes that have created new roles and behaviors associated with the young adult stage
in the life course. We expect that if young adults do not feel that they have the time for more
committed relationships, they may be more motivated to have casual sex as an outlet for sexual
behavior without the time commitment of romantic relationships.
The second important theme of life-course theory is the focus on continuity of pathways; that is,
behaviors and experiences that have occurred during adolescence may influence young adult events
and behaviors (Elder 1985). Raley, Crissey, and Muller (2007), based on the Add Health data,
reported that casual sexual experiences during the teen years were associated with transitioning into
cohabiting unions during young adulthood. Less research has been conducted on casual sexual
behavior beyond the adolescent or young adult periods or how young adult casual sexual relation-
ships have influenced sexual activity and union formation later in the life course. We expect that
prior romantic and sexual experiences will underlie motivations for young adult casual sex.
As young adults anticipate transitioning into roles related to adulthood, such as those associated
with marriage, they may be less likely to participate in casual sex. Shanahan et al. (2005) reported,
using a longitudinal sample (n = 1,010) of early young adults, that family transitions such as mar-
riage or parenthood were significantly associated with feeling like an adult. Further, Arnett (1998)
notes that when young adults were finically independent from their parents, they were more likely
to feel like an adult. We expect that if young adults feel too young to be tied down, a measure of
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subjective identity, they will be more likely to engage in casual sex behavior. Also, as young adults
start to feel more “adult-like,” which may be associated with adult transitions like marriage, they
may be less likely to have casual sex. Thus, the life-course perspective informs our view that young
adulthood is a unique life stage with associated roles and behaviors that will influence the motiva-
tions for casual sex behavior. In addition, motivations for young adults’ casual sex may be influ-
enced by past as well as anticipated future relationships and life-course events.
researchers who study casual sexual activity have not examined fully whether involvement in
more serious romantic relationships and casual sex are related (for an exception, see Hamilton
and Armstrong 2009). The current study moves beyond previous research by examining how
prior romantic relationships can act as a motivator for casual sex as opposed to just an alternative
to committed relationships. For example, some young adults might “take a break” from serious
relationships but still participate in casual sex relationships.
have tended to report more frequent casual sex experiences (Lyons et al. 2013; Grello et al. 2006;
Paul et al. 2000; Petersen and Hyde 2010; Poppen 1995). Further, there are potential gender dif-
ferences in the motivation for participating in casual sex. Regan and Dreyer (1999) reported in a
study of college students that men were more likely to claim status among friends as a reason for
participating in casual sex, and women were more likely to participate in casual sex because of
mutual feelings of attraction and friendship. Using an online survey of undergraduate students,
England et al. (2007) found gender similarities in reports of enjoyment of casual sex experiences.
Owen and Fincham (2011) reported that women were more likely to claim negative emotional
reactions to hooking up, but both men and women claimed the hook-up experience to be mostly
positive. Yet, women, more so than men, may be judged harshly by peers if they have many sex
partners (Kreager and Staff 2009). This sexual double standard may limit women’s involvement
in casual sex relationships and may be implicated in gender differences in stated motivations and
perceived consequences of casual sexual involvement.
Current Investigation
In this study, we draw on structured surveys and in-depth qualitative interviews with a large, het-
erogeneous sample of young adults and examine the motivations for and implications of casual
sex during this phase of the life course. In the results section, we provide a descriptive portrait of
casual sex attitudes and behaviors of all young adults in our sample. Next, we outline conventional
motivations for casual sex among a subsample who had a recent casual sex experience. We con-
ceptualize these motivations as conventional because they were reported as important in prior
research. Conventional motivations are as follows: (1) Casual sex is fun and enjoyable, (2) casual
sex occurs because of substance use, (3) there is no emotional commitment with casual sexual
relationships, and (4) casual sex is a way to acquire peers’ approval. Subsequently, we highlight
motivations for casual sex that are associated with the characteristics of early young adulthood.
We rely on prior research, which studies the characteristics of early young adulthood, and examine
how these qualities influence casual sexual behavior during this stage in the life course. Finally,
we investigate both negative and positive implications of casual sex behavior.
Method
Data
TARS. To investigate the outlined research questions, we relied on the third wave of interviews
from the TARS. We collected these data to investigate family, peer, and romantic partners’ influ-
ence on romantic and sexual behaviors of adolescents. The first interview was collected in 2000,
based on a random sample of youths in the 7th, 9th, and 11th grades in Lucas County, Ohio. The
second interview was collected in 2002 and the third interview in 2004. The geographic area of
Lucas County was similar to estimates of race and ethnicity, family income, and education to the
national population; however, national estimates could not be determined with the TARS dataset.
The first interview included a sample of 1,316 youths as well as a parent or guardian interviewed
separately. School records were used for the sampling frame, but school attendance was not
required for inclusion in the sample. Most of the survey interviews occurred in the respondents’
homes using laptop computers to protect privacy. This strategy ensured that questions that may
be more sensitive, such as casual sexual behavior, cannot be overheard by other members of the
household. There was an oversampling of racial minority youth.
We limited the quantitative sample (N = 1,114) to young adult (ages 18–22) respondents (N =
700). All young adults were asked questions about casual sex attitudes and behaviors. Questions
regarding motivations for casual sex were asked of respondents who had at least one casual sex
partner during the past 24 months (N = 239). Respondents without a recent casual sexual
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experience were not asked motivation questions. Thus, our analytic sample for the quantitative
analyses is limited to the 239 respondents who had a recent casual sex experience.
The qualitative data were drawn from respondents who were administered an in-depth face-to-
face interview at the third interview (n = 92). Respondents were selected if they reported engaging
in high-risk sexual behaviors, such as a high number of sexual partners and/or having a casual sex
experience. A comparison group included respondents who scored average on the mentioned risk
factors. These interviews generally occurred at different times than the survey interviews and were
completed from August 2005 to August 2006. The goal of these interviews, in comparison to the
survey data, was to create relationship narratives where respondents would self-describe their
romantic and sexual history and their views of the meaning of these relationships.
In all instances, precautions were taken to ensure confidentiality and the ability of the respon-
dent to speak candidly about their relationships and experiences. The interviewer had over 20
years of experience in conducting interviews of this type and sought out quiet areas within the
home, including the front porch or backyard, as well as her car, in instances in which there was
the possibility that another family member or partner might listen to the interview. Some of the
qualitative interviews took place in public places (family restaurant, library) when it was appar-
ent that no private places were available within the home. The interviewer also was adept at
stopping the interview or speaking in a coded manner, if another family member unexpectedly
entered the area where the interview took place.
The interviews were recorded and transcribed verbatim for analysis. While all of the inter-
views were useful, because of their salience to the overall research questions, we focused particu-
lar attention on the subsample of 44 respondents who discussed casual sexual relationships.
These in-depth interviews were not meant to generalize to the population but allowed us to
highlight the perceived motivations for and implications of casual sex for a sample of young
adults who had engaged in these casual sexual relationships. The subsample contained more men
(N = 30) than women (N = 14). The qualitative sample was similar to the quantitative samples on
key demographic characteristics (see Appendix Table A1). The number of lifetime casual sex
partners was substantially higher for the in-depth interview sample (M = 15.2) than the survey
sample of casual sex experienced (M = 9.5). All of our respondents fit our profile of high risk
because they reported casual sexual activity at the time of interview. Thus, the qualitative
responses are not representative of young adults in Lucas County, but provide in-depth and rare
insight into young adult motivations for casual sex.
The TARS data were appropriate for the research questions for several reasons. First, the data
provided detailed measurement of the motivations for casual sexual behavior, which were not
available in larger national datasets. Second, in-depth qualitative interviews permitted individu-
als to describe in their own words what they saw as motives for and implications of their casual
sexual experiences. Finally, much prior research on casual sex is based on college samples. In
contrast, TARS respondents did not have to attend high school classes to be included in the sur-
vey. Individuals who were not attending high school during the time of the first interview may
have had different educational and casual sex trajectories at later interviews.
The analysis of the quantitative data relied on t-tests to determine gender differences and simi-
larities in the motivations for and implication of casual sex. The first step of the analysis of the
qualitative data was based on a careful reading of the interviews followed by open-coding with
special attention to motivations for and implications of casual sexual experiences. After the ini-
tial reading of the interviews and with the research questions in mind, the researchers constructed
a preliminary code list. Example of codes were “substance use,” “casual sex because too young
to be in a relationship,” “casual sex is less drama,” “doesn’t want a relationship because too much
going on in life right now,” and “tell friends.” Some codes reflected existing measures from the
quantitative survey, but other codes emerged out of reading the narratives. Next, the transcribed
texts and code list were downloaded into the qualitative database ATLAS.ti. The researchers then
coded the data based on the code list. All the researchers coded the same interview and compared
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codes to establish inter-coder reliability and discussed any coding discrepancies. The codes for
motivations and implications were organized and classified so that broader themes emerged and
were assessed. All respondents’ names were changed to ensure confidentiality. We viewed the
qualitative data as providing an alternative, but compatible, method for assessing respondents’
views and as especially useful for clarifying respondents’ own understandings about motivations
for and implications of their casual sexual experiences.
Measures
The qualitative instrument included questions about sexual relationships outside of dating rela-
tionships. If the respondent indicated that they had casual sex, they were asked to elaborate on
such relationships. Standard follow-up questions included, “Describe your relationship with
casual sex partner?” “Did you want to become closer or become boyfriend/girlfriend with casual
sex partner?” and “Did other people know about your relationship?”
The TARS included several survey items on casual sex, which allowed for systematic com-
parisons by gender. The questions focused on the relationship context, attitudes, motives, and
consequences of casual sex, and referenced respondents’ most recent casual partner during the
last 24 months. Specifically, respondents were asked, “In the last 24 months, how many girls/
guys have you had sex with that you were not really dating or going out with?” If respondents
indicated that they had one or more recent casual sex partner, they were then asked about their
motivations for the most recent casual sex experience.
Attitudes. To measure an overall attitude about casual sex we used responses to the statement: “A
person should only have sex with someone they love.” The responses ranged from 1 = “strongly
disagree” to 5 = “strongly agree.”
Relationship context. The young adults in the sample were asked two specific questions about
their most recent casual sex partner. Casual sex was defined for respondents as “sex with some-
one that you weren’t really dating or going out with.” The first question asked, “When you had
sex for the first time how long did you know this person?” The responses were 1 = “Just met that
day” to 8 = “For a year or more.” The second question to measure the relationship context of the
most recent casual sex partner asked, “How many times did you have sex with casual sex part-
ner?” The responses were (1) “Only that one time,” (2) “Once or twice a year,” (3) “Once every
2–3 months,” (4) “Once a month,” (5) “Once every 2–3 weeks,” (6) “Once a week,” (7) “2–3
times a week,” (8) “Once a day,” and (9) “More than once a day.”
Motivations. Measures assessed the following five types of conventional motives: sexual, sub-
stance use, relationship-based, and peer pressure. There is one life-course-specific motivation in
the quantitative analysis: age and commitments. Respondents were asked, “To what extent do
you agree that the following are reasons why you had sex with casual sex partner?” Responses
ranged from 1 = “strongly disagree” to 5 = “strongly agree,” so higher scores reflected greater
agreement. The following two statements assessed sexual motivations: (1) “I was horny” and (2)
“I thought it would be fun.” We measured substance use with the statement, “We were drinking
or using drugs.” To measure relationship-based motives, we drew on three indicators: (1) “I was
in love” and (2) “I thought it would bring the relationship closer,” with the responses ranging
from 1 = “strongly disagree” to 5 = “strongly agree.” The third indicator asked, “Did you want
casual sex partner to be your girlfriend/boyfriend” with response categories of 0 = “no” and 1 =
“yes.” To measure peer pressure, we used the statement “My friends were all doing it.” To tap
age and commitments as a life-course-specific motive, we relied on the indicator “I’m too young
to be tied down to one person.” Both age and commitments and peer pressure had responses 1 =
“strongly disagree” to 5 = “strongly agree.”
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Table 1. Means for Attitudes and Behaviors among All Young Adults (N = 700).
MI%
Attitudes
A person should only have sex with someone they love 3.33
Too young to be tied down 2.61
Casual sex experiences
Percent who have had casual sex 47%
Percent who have had recent casual sex 36%
Mean number of casual sex partners 1.31
Implications. Measures assessed the following perceived implications of casual sexual activity:
peer acceptance, regret, and closeness with partner. Two questions measured peer acceptance of
the relationship. The first question asked, “Did your friends approve of this relationship,” which
had response categories of 1 = “strongly disapproved” to 5 = “strongly approved.” The second
question asked, “Did you tell your friends about this relationship” and was coded as 1 = “yes”
and 0 = “no.” To measure regret, we used the following question: “How much do you regret hav-
ing sex with casual sex partner?” and responses ranged from 1 = “not at all” to 5 = “very much.”
To determine closeness, we asked, “After you first had sex, did you feel closer to this person or
not,” which was coded 1 = “much less close” and 5 = “much closer.”
Demographic variables. Gender was measured as a dichotomous variable in which 1 = female and
0 = male. Race and ethnicity were measured by how the respondents self-identified. The catego-
ries were white, black, Hispanics, and “other” racial and ethnic groups. Age was a continuous
measure. Education status was measured with the question “How far have you gone in school?”
Responses were categorized as (1) “less than high school,” (2) “currently in high school high,”
(3) “high school graduate but not enrolled in higher education,” and (4) “currently enrolled in
college.” (See Appendix Table A1 for descriptive statistics.)
Results
General Casual Sex Attitudes and Experiences
To provide an overall notion of approval of casual sex, we drew on the young adult sample (N =
700). About 35 percent disagreed with the statement that a person should only have sex with
someone they love with a mean of 3.33 (Table 1). Respondents who did not have a casual sex
relationship (M = 3.65) were significantly more likely to endorse the statement linking sex and
love compared with those who had casual sex (M = 2.88; t = 8.98, p < .001). In terms of casual
sexual behavior, we found that 47 percent of the total sample (Table 1) and 59 percent of sexually
active respondents reported ever having had casual sex. In the total sample, 36 percent had a
recent casual sex partner (Table 1), and of the sexually active sample, 44 percent had a casual sex
partner during the two years prior to the interview.1 The average number of casual sex partners
during the last two years for all young adults, not just the sexually active, is 1.31 (Table 1), and
for those who had casual sex, the average number during the past two years was 2.78, and this
was significantly greater for men (M = 3.51) than women (M = 1.87; t = 3.65, p < .001).
The relationship context of casual sex varied considerably. The majority of respondents (89
percent) knew their most recent casual sex partner. It was rare that the most recent casual sex part-
ner was someone respondents had just met that day (13 percent for men and 10 percent for women).
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Table 2. Means and t-Tests of Attitudes, Relationship Context, Motives, and Implications of Casual Sex
among Young Adults Who Experienced Casual Sex (N = 239).
In Table 2, the mean of 4.66 suggested that, on average, respondents knew their most recent casual
sex partner for a couple of months with the modal group (20 percent) knowing their partner for a
year or more. A large share (65 percent) had sex with an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend at some point.
Men and women were equally likely to report having sex with an ex (results not shown). Furthermore,
over half of respondents with a recent casual sex partner had sex with that partner more than one
time (61 percent). Men and women were equally likely to have had multiple sexual experiences
with their casual sex partners (χ2 = 6.04, df = 8, p = .64; results not shown). Thus, most often casual
sex was not simply a “one-night stand” with someone the individual did not know.
Substance use. Substance use is one of the most heavily investigated motivations for partici-
pating in casual sex (Grello et al. 2006; Paul 2006; White et al. 2009). We found that substance
use was an important motivator in our sample as well. Respondents stated that substance use was
often involved when a casual sexual experience occurred. In the quantitative sample, the mean
level of agreement with drinking or drug use as a motivator (M = 2.67) was the third top-ranked
reason for having casual sex (Table 2). Further, male and female respondents did not differ sig-
nificantly in their level of endorsement of this factor.
The qualitative data are consistent with this pattern of quantitative results. For example, Sara,
a 20-year-old mother, had two casual partners and linked at least one of these experiences to the
effects of alcohol:
I got trashed one night (laughs), so it just kinda’ happened. I didn’t realize it, you know . . . We were
talking . . . but my thinking wasn’t clear, and it just happened, so . . . I mean, now that I look back on
it, I’m just like . . . whoa. I shouldn’t have been drinking that much.
Certainly, not every casual sex experience was related to substance use, but for some, it was
an integral part of their narrative accounts and understandings about how these events unfolded.
Randy, a 20-year-old male with six casual sex partners, a high school degree, and who works as
a roofer, explains that the party scene can have an influential role in casual sex opportunities:
It was more or less, drunken friend with benefits. We went out for like a week, and only knew each
other for like a month. Got a hotel together with a couple of friends, had sex that night, and about a
week later, had sex again and then about two days later, never talked to her again.
Lack of emotional commitment. As expected, a motivation for casual sex relationships was
avoiding emotional entanglements. A number of respondents who participated in the qualitative
interviews emphasized that casual sex partners were almost by definition not meant to involve
the development of strong emotional feelings, which, for some, was an attractive feature of this
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type of relationship. For example, Phil, an 18-year-old high school senior who reported four
casual sex partners during the past two years, focused on the issue of lack of commitment. When
asked if he wanted to become closer to his casual sex partner, he said,
Me and her have an agreement that it doesn’t go any farther than that . . . It’s so cool like I could
actually hook up with her, like she could be my girlfriend, like it probably could come down to that
because we’re so cool about it and like we’re really good friends . . . [but] there is no strings. And
there is like no weirdness between us. Like we could have sex one night and she would come over
the next day and we would just kick it.
Phil also stated that he did not think less of his casual sex partner because she was involved
with him in this more casual way. These qualitative findings were supported by survey results;
respondents frequently disagreed (73 percent) with the idea that they have casual sex because
they are in love, with a mean endorsement score of 1.98 (Table 2).
It is relatively rare to report that casual sex occurred in hopes of developing a future commit-
ted relationship. Only 20 percent of the respondents either agreed or strongly agreed that they had
casual sex because they thought it would bring them closer to their sex partner, and men (M =
2.38) and women (M = 2.40) shared similar levels of disagreement with this item (Table 2). In
line with these results, respondents noted that another appealing characteristic of casual sexual
relationships was that there were fewer problems compared with committed romantic relation-
ships. For example, James, an 18-year-old high school dropout, reported five recent casual sexual
partners. In connection with his longer qualitative interview, James suggested that in some
respects, he preferred these casual liaisons, as they involved fewer worries and demands com-
pared with more serious relationships:
Like you guys get along, like I get along better with this girl than my girlfriend because it’s not like
emotional ties and stuff. Like we can have sex or whatever and then you know afterwards just go
hang out or go, I can leave or she can leave, you know. It’s not like you’re worried about what the
other person is doing all the time or nothing. That’s why I like that kind (of relationship) because I
don’t like all of that worrying about each other, doing anything.
Relying on a sample of university women, Hamilton and Armstrong (2009) reported a similar
motivation. Yet, the current study focused on a more diverse sample of young adults, highlighting
that this motivation is not limited to those pursuing higher education.
The qualitative data in particular provide a more nuanced appreciation of the timing and
sequencing of involvement in casual sex and more serious relationships. Reflecting their accu-
mulation of experiences over time, some respondents indicated that they preferred casual sexual
relationships over committed relationships because past boyfriends or girlfriends hurt them.
Adam, a 20-year-old who worked in an auto body shop, started having casual sex after he broke
up with the only girl with whom he had been intimate. He reported a total of 26 casual partners
and said,
Yeah, well, she was the first girl I was ever with. And for a long time, she was the only girl I was ever
with. And then after we broke up, then I kinda turned into a slut {LAUGH} . . . Just hanging out with
girls, having sex with more than one girl in a week.
Later on in the interview, Adam explained that his ex-girlfriend had an abortion, and he was
very upset that he did not have a say in the outcome of the pregnancy. This influenced his per-
spective on relationships, and his current desire to avoid a serious level of commitment. Thus, the
emotional pain from prior relationships influenced decisions about involvement in casual sex
partnerships.
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Just because I think I was more into partying and not really caring. When I dated those transitional
guys I was still excited about talking to Justin. I mean we were emailing each other back and forth so.
I guess I never really got him out of my mind and these guys were just like oh well. Who cares. If
they’re here, they’re here if they’re not, they’re not.
For Tori, casual sex was a way to fill a potential intimacy gap between two committed rela-
tionships, but she nevertheless described them as much less meaningful relative to her longer-
term relationship with Justin. Similarly, Tim, a 19-year-old with four recent casual sex partners,
explained that he used casual sex relationships as a way to get over a breakup with a girlfriend:
After we broke up, I’d probably say within that week I probably had sex with another girl already . . .
Just sexual. No relationship . . . I wasn’t trying to get into something after being in something for so
long. It was almost two years and there’s no point in sticking yourself in that position again. Talk to
people, get to know people before you jump into anything.
Tim felt that he needed to “get to know people” before getting into a committed relationship;
however, he held much lower standards for casual sexual relationships. Casual sexual relation-
ships can fill the void during these transition periods. Framing the casual sexual encounter in this
way also preserves the individual’s sense of self as someone who is capable of strong attach-
ments. For example, Tori notes that she still found contacts with her longer-term partner mean-
ingful (“I was still excited about talking to Justin”), and Tim stressed that building up a relationship
takes time and effort (“talk to people, get to know people before you jump into anything”).
Too busy for commitment. Some respondents indicated that they were too busy to forge a com-
mitted relationship, noting that at this point in their lives, they were heavily focused on other
life-course events and circumstances. However, this did not preclude involvement in more casual
sexual encounters. Hamilton and Armstrong (2009) reported similar themes using a sample of
female college students, but our results suggest that this rationale is also frequently invoked
within this more diverse sample of young adults. Jason, a junior enrolled in an online high school,
reported two lifetime casual sex partners. When asked what he was looking for in a relationship
currently, he said, “As of right now, a fling flang. I’m not looking for a relationship at all. That’s
the last thing I need right now . . . I got a lot of stuff still going on in my life.” At the time of
interview, Jason indicated that he was busy with his online courses and focusing on getting into
a postsecondary technical training program. Lindsay, a 20-year-old university sophomore who
reported two casual sex partners, explained that timing was the main difference between casual
sexual relationships and committed relationships:
I think a lot of it has to do with where I am in my life. Like when I dated Paul–right before I dated
Terrell—I had just moved like—I had just—because I lived in the dorms my second year, not my first
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year of college. So I was doing everything like a year-like behind almost. So, I was just moving away
from home for the first time. I was on my own. I was not ready for a serious relationship at that time.
I was really into myself and what I was doing and just kind of seeing how things go, but it just kind
of isn’t the right time, I guess.
Both Jason’s and Lindsay’s accounts accorded well with Arnett’s (2000) depiction of the
emerging adult-life stage as having a strong focus on individual exploration. From Jason’s and
Lindsay’s perspectives, their lives were too busy to be in a committed relationship, but this
appears to involve more than simply juggling a specific amount of “time.” Instead, their narrative
accounts encompass this idea that relationship “space” provides a way to grow and develop as a
person (“I was really into myself and what I was doing”). At the same time, they were not willing
to forgo all sexual relationships and experiences, and thus they chose to engage in casual sex.
Geographic mobility. The young adult-life stage is characterized by geographic mobility due to
enrollment in school and moves for jobs and careers. This mobility also appears to have implica-
tions for the character of romantic and sexual relationships. Kaleb, a 21-year-old man working on
small jobs, reported two casual sex partners and explained that his sexual relationship remained
casual because he knew that his partner was moving away to college. He says, “It was her last year
of high school, and she was about to go to college. So, I mean we could have worked out (being in
a committed relationship) . . . But, it wouldn’t have worked out cause, she was going to college.”
Sara explained that she had casual sex with a close friend’s cousin who lived in a different
state. When asked if she expected to have a committed relationship with her partner after having
sex, she said,
No. I knew it wasn’t . . . It was just gonna be a casual . . . Because he lives in (another state) and I
lived up here. I knew that I was never gonna’ live there, and he was never gonna’ live here. And the
long-distance thing would have never worked.
The geographic distance makes Sara aware that her casual sex partner was unlikely to evolve
into a serious romantic one, but she was nevertheless willing to follow through on feelings of
attraction when they were together in the same location.
In other instances, individuals who participated in the in-depth interview indicated that they
did not want to start romantic relationships in anticipation of moving in the near future. Even a
temporary move prevented people from forming a committed relationship. Violet, a 20-year-old
college student with six casual sex partners, explained why she did not want to have a romantic
relationship:
You know I . . . I wasn’t like . . . I was just being single for a while . . . I studied abroad and I went to
(foreign country) for about six months so I was like no relationships. I’m just going to go and meet a
new guy every night. That’s what I’m doing.
Violet felt that having a committed relationship would hold her back from fully experiencing
the time she had carved out to study abroad.
Too young to be tied down. Many of the motivations described above, such as geographic
mobility or focus on other commitments, are particularly relevant for young adults, even if they
are not the exclusive province of this phase of the life course; however, the belief that one is
“too young to be tied down” references life-course concerns directly. Table 2 suggests that this
motivation is endorsed fairly frequently among those who report casual sex experience, and
male and female respondents in this subgroup do not differ in their levels of agreement with this
motivation for their involvement. Among all young adults, respondents slightly supported the
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view (M = 2.61) that they were too young to be tied down (Table 1) with respondents who ever
had casual sex (M = 2.69) being more likely to agree with the idea that they were too young to be
tied down in the quantitative survey compared with young adults who never had casual sex (M =
2.32; t = 3.91, p < .001). These findings paralleled the responses from the qualitative interviews.
For instance, A.J., a 17-year-old who got his General Education Development certificate (GED)
while in jail, reported three recent casual sex partners and explained: “I can’t be in a serious
relationship at a young age . . . Because there’s too many people to see. You know, too many
things to do.” These narratives revealed that many respondents accepted the general notion that
there was an appropriate age when they should stop having casual sex, but they indicated that
they simply had not reached it yet. Quinton, a 19-year-old with four recent casual sex partners
who just graduated high school, explained how he was in the process of changing but stopped
short of a complete endorsement of involvement in a more settled relationship: “Oh that made
me change about the females because like I was saying, about the relationships . . . I tried to like
work out a relationship and give them months and shit instead of weeks . . . I’m only 19 and I be
feeling like I’m 90 . . ..”
The narratives revealed considerable diversity in these calculations, however, as some indi-
viduals within the sample believed that they had indeed reached an age when they were too old
to have casual sex. For example, Melvin, who was mentioned earlier, explained why he no longer
wanted to engage in casual sexual encounters:
It gets old. It’s played out to me now . . . I tried to have friends with benefits, but I didn’t want to get like
emotionally attached to somebody. Like with some other females, I wasn’t really emotionally attached
. . . Because I wasn’t ready for a girlfriend . . . it was just like I wanted a girlfriend. I wanted to be serious
with a female . . . Because I feel for one, just try. I mean I was what-twenty! I was getting older.
From these respondents’ perspectives, casual sex was viewed as a normal part of the life course.
However, many of the comments did reflect that this was a developmental phase and indicated that
later on they may want to stop having casual sex and start to look for more serious relationships.
The variability in perspectives on timing we observed appears consistent with more general stud-
ies that have documented considerable diversity in the degree to which individuals “feel like an
adult” (Benson and Elder 2011), and with statistics revealed increasing complexity in what consti-
tute normative pathways from adolescence to adulthood. Such discussions about the place of
casual sex similarly revealed that most individuals accepted the idea of eventually settling down
but varied significantly in the timetable they found desirable for this to occur.
Consequences of casual sex. Even though casual sex most often was associated with low attach-
ment, and was viewed as involving lower emotional risk compared with committed relationships,
respondents recognized various consequences of their casual sexual behavior and included refer-
ences to both positive and negative consequences in their narrative accounts. One of the most
commonly reported negative consequences of casual sex was that someone was hurt emotionally.
Another negative consequence was that casual sex can sometimes lead to confrontation if the sex
partner was in a committed relationship with someone else. The positive consequences included
eventually moving into a committed relationship or friendship, enjoying casual sex and wanting
to continue the behavior, and getting approval from peers. It is interesting and potentially impor-
tant to note that these themes stress social rewards and costs, rather than detriments to health, as
is often emphasized in prevention messages.
Getting too attached. Even though casual sexual relationships were often forged with the idea
of avoiding emotional entanglements, a number of male and female respondents reported getting
emotionally hurt. For instance, Justin, a 17-year-old with three casual sex partners, explained
that he felt used by his reoccurring casual sex partner. When asked what he did not like about his
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casual sex relationship Justin said: “I don’t know. I mean, a relationship, you should care about
each other or something. You should talk to each other. Stuff like that. That’s (sex) all she was
worried about.” Emily, a 21-year-old with three casual sex partners, defined her relationship with
Dylan as “a friend with benefits” but nevertheless found herself becoming emotionally invested
in the relationship:
[Dylan was a] friend with benefits that I actually hung out with, talked to, went places with out in
public, dinners, you know what I’m saying—but yet he had a girlfriend. But I started finding myself
having feelings for him, because of some of the things he would do for me . . . He showed me he
cared, in so many words. So . . . um . . . maybe about a month and a half ago, he stopped calling me
just out of nowhere. Ain’t heard from Dylan. Haven’t seen Dylan, I’m calling him and he’s hanging
up on me . . . Why? Dude, we’ve hung out for this long . . . I’m your friend. You can tell me anything
you want. I know about your girlfriend. I know about your son. What’s going on now? (He had
become involved with a new partner and moved in with her). Why would he want to go that route
instead of stay with me? Where did I go wrong?
Thus, for relationships that extended over a period of time, it is intuitive to expect that feelings of
affection or interdependence might develop. However, as Emily’s quote suggests, there may be neg-
ative consequences for the individual when there is an apparent mismatch in the evolution of such
feelings. Ben, an 18-year-old with nine casual sex partners and quoted below, described difficulties
that he experienced when his partner was the one who became emotionally invested in what had
started out as a causal relationship. He and his partner Melissa “hooked up” at a party and eventually
had sex. Early in the relationship, he told her that as he was headed off to college, he wanted to be
free to socialize during this phase of his life. Yet, he soon realized that perhaps because he was
Melissa’s first sexual partner, she was unable to sustain the casual parameters that he envisioned:
It ended up being way more of a psychological issue than what she thought it was going to be . . . She
just got really attached. Um, yeah, just super attached . . . Her friends had told me that like after the
fact that it was like a huge deal to her and like I know that I was . . . I felt like I was kind of thrown
into the situation that I didn’t realize how huge of deal it was and it scared me . . . It just felt like a lot
of pressure. It felt like she expected us to get married some day or something like that . . .
Drama with the other boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes casual sex occurred when one of the partners
was in a committed relationship with someone else. Among young adults who had a recent casual
sex partner, 56 percent had sex with someone while being involved in another relationship (rates that
are higher than reported by the young adult sample [22 percent] as a whole). When this happens,
there was a chance that there would be confrontation with the casual sex partner’s other committed
partner. Janis, an 18-year-old woman with three casual sex partners explained that her casual sex
partner’s girlfriend did not like her and was very angry because Janis slept with her boyfriend: “. . .
And she don’t like me, she rolls her eyes and stuff at me, but you can’t be mad at me, be mad at your
boyfriend.” Janis goes on to say that the casual sex partner and her boyfriend, Jonathan, got into a
physical fight. Thus, casual sex does not always preclude complications such as jealousy and conflict
particularly when the casual sex activity is a result of cheating in a committed relationship.
Casual sex is NOT always about regret. As expected, respondents who had casual sex were not
likely to report that love was a condition for sex. Only 22 percent of the sample who reported
a recent casual sex partner either agreed or strongly agreed with the idea that sex should only
occur with someone they love, levels of endorsement that were lower than for the sample as a
whole (47 percent). For example, Randy mentioned earlier described his definition of a casual
sex relationship:
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If you’re gonna be friends with benefits, then it’s basically like “when I want to have sex and when you
want to have sex, we’re gonna have sex.” And then “if you want to have sex with somebody else, then
you have sex with somebody else.” And just not get mad at each other because it’s guaranteed . . . well
not necessarily guaranteed, but it’s sex when you want it at the push of a button, or a phone call. Like
hey, what’s up? Want to come over? Okay.
Although women (M = 2.49) more often than men (M = 1.87) reported having regrets (Table
2), it is important to highlight that 48 percent of our sample did not have any regret of their last
casual sex relationship with 55 percent of male and 37 percent of female respondents stating they
did not regret their last casual sex experience (results not shown). Carla was a freshman at a com-
munity college who reported four recent casual sex partners. When asked how she came to the
decision to have casual sex, she said:
It was Easter, and I was drunk, and he walked over from a friend’s. We went over to our friend
Amanda’s house. He wasn’t drunk though that’s the thing. I was drunk. He wasn’t. I mean we stayed
the night at my friend Amanda’s house and one thing led to another . . . I was down with it.
Even when looking back at a casual sexual relationship, and a possible role of alcohol, Carla
did not express that she felt remorse about her experience. In fact, she explicitly stated that she
wanted to have that casual sexual relationship.
Casual sex can lead to committed relationships. As stated above, most casual sexual experiences
were not formed with the idea of developing a romantic relationship. However, 28 percent of men
and 34 percent of women who reported a recent casual sex experience indicated that they wanted
to become boyfriend/girlfriend after having sex (Table 2). Thus, casual sex was sometimes a step
in the direction of a romantic relationship. Twenty-four percent of individuals who had recent
casual sex stated that they were somewhat closer or much closer after the first time they had sex
with their most recent casual sex partner (result not shown) with men (M = 2.38) and women
(M = 2.40) reporting similar consequences (Table 2). For example, Tim, explained how he slept
with his girlfriend the first day they met: “The first time we had met and had sex the first day we
met, the next time we got together, we became boyfriend and girlfriend and that was monogamy
right there.” It is not typical, but committed relationships sometimes started as casual sex rela-
tionships. These results are similar to those of Epstein et al. (2009) who found in a qualitative
sample of college men (N = 19) that casual sex can sometimes lead to committed relationships.
Nevertheless, additional analyses indicated that it was rare to start a romantic relationship with
sex; only 3 percent of the total young adult sample (N = 700) had sex with their current or most
recent boyfriend/girlfriend on the first day they met (results not shown).
Another possibility is that casual sex can lead to friendships. Kelly, a 20-year-old with one
casual sex partner, stated that her only casual sex partner became one of her close friends. She
explained, “We’re friends, we talk everyday so it’s like, I mean it’s not like, there’s no attachment
whatsoever . . . we kind of became friends after the fact because we were more acquaintance
before.” For Kelly, casual sex was not an experience that she later regretted. She felt that the
relationship brought her closer, although not in the traditional romantic sense.
Approval from peers. Although peers provide a normative climate that may endorse casual sex,
significantly more men (M = 2.58) than women (M = 1.87) stated that a motive for their own
involvement was that their friends had casual sex (Table 2). This is consistent with other research
that highlights vestiges of the double standard regarding sexual norms (Kreager and Staff 2009).
Although a small percentage of respondents reported that peer pressure was a motive for casual
sex, some reported acceptance by their friends after casual sex. Table 2 illustrated that men
(M = 3.00) and women (M = 2.78) reported similar levels of approval from friends regarding
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their causal relationship. For instance, Kaleb, a 21-year-old with two recent casual sex partners,
explained that he was accorded higher status with peers due to his greater experience with casual
sex partners. When asked about how his peer group influenced his participation in casual sexual
relationships, he said, “I was the best of them all. (Laughter) . . . Then, after that it was somebody
else. It was a competition.” It is interesting to note that aspects of the normative climate or one’s
emphasis on these dynamics can change, however, as Kaleb described felt that he had gotten
“past” this competitive aspect since he had become involved with a serious girlfriend.
The qualitative data revealed that peers have an influence beyond the initial decision to have
sex as friends also emerged as a potential influence on the type of casual sex partner individuals
chose. Carla, a community college student with four recent casual sex partners, explained that her
friends supported her having casual sex but only with certain types of men:
Um, with Tom, all my friends can’t stand him. They think that he was in it for sex just because he had
the whole line of the future and they all think it’s bullshit. Ian, everyone’s friends with Ian so there’s
none there. They understand where I’m coming from with the whole, the whole thing with him . . . I
talk to my friends about everything.
Carla’s friends did not judge her for having casual sex, but there was the implication that she
should have been more selective in her choices of casual sex partners.
Kaleb’s and Carla’s experiences illustrate that motivations for and consequences of casual sex
may affect each other through a continuous feedback process. Although respondents appeared
reluctant to cite peer influence as a specific motive, prior analyses of the TARS data indicate that
friends’ attitudes were a significant predictor of number of sexual partners (Lyons et al. 2011),
and respondents who participated in the qualitative interviews did not uniformly suggest that
peers sanction them negatively for engaging in casual sex. This acceptance, along with other
motivations described above, could free up the individual to engage in further casual sex behav-
ior. Consistent with this, it is important to note that the majority of young adults with a recent
casual sex partner (74 percent) told their friends about their relationship (Table 2), although some
indicated within their narratives that not talking or bragging about these experiences was a sign
of their maturity. Thus, several respondents stated that they talked to their peers about their casual
sexual experiences when they were younger, but not anymore. For instance, James, who dropped
out of high school and had five recent casual sex partners, stated,
I mean, yeah, when you were younger, I guess but now it really doesn’t matter. I mean like I don’t
even need to tell anybody else what I’m doing as far as that goes, you know . . . Because I mean like
I guess when I was younger, it was like I was all excited about it, like I wanted to brag to my friends
about it and so forth.
Thus, peer support appears as one source of motivation for engaging in casual sex, but the
consequences for approval and need to share specific details with friends may be age specific. It
is also important to underscore that the analyses of in-depth interviews focused heavily on young
adults who reported casual sex experience. Thus, individuals without casual sexual experience
(who socialized with friends who hold more conservative beliefs) would likely espouse motiva-
tions for refraining from such involvements and perceive more social censure and a broader
range of consequences stemming from this pattern of behavior.
Discussion
The current analyses are consistent with prior studies in documenting that casual sexual experi-
ences are relatively common occurrences during early young adulthood (Bogle 2008; Fielder and
Carey 2010; Lyons et al. 2013). One of the major limitations of prior research, however, is the
focus on negative precursors and consequences. This problem-focused lens has emphasized the
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role of alcohol as a precipitant (Bogle 2008), and exposure to sexual risk (Poppen 1995) and feel-
ings of regret (Eshbaugh and Gute 2008) as important consequences. Although these are critical
to an understanding of casual sexual encounters, the qualitative and quantitative data we ana-
lyzed also reflect a high level of acceptance of these behaviors. In addition, motivations and
consequences were not always cast in a negative light.
This study corroborated results of prior research in that substance use (Grello et al. 2006),
sexual desire (Regan and Dreyer 1999), and a desire to avoid emotional attachment (Hamilton
and Armstrong 2009) were frequently endorsed as precipitants or sources of motivation for
involvement in casual sexual relationships. However, the results also highlighted multiple ways
in which the nature of the early young adulthood phase, itself, influenced receptivity to these less
serious relationships. Respondents who participated in the qualitative interviews often framed
these experiences as transitional, referencing geographic mobility, relationship transitions, as
well as their current focus on academic or career concerns. Respondents highlighted more sub-
jective considerations that appeared similarly life-course specific. For example, some empha-
sized that less serious relationships were consistent with their need for identity exploration, and
others specifically noted that they were still “too young to be tied down.”
The narrative accounts nevertheless reflect diversity in the place of casual sex during this
stage of life, as some of the older respondents claimed that they believed that they were getting
too old for casual sex. Further, these descriptions included frequent mention of previous serious
relationships, or a desire to forge a more committed relationship in the future, suggesting that
more intimate, long-term relationships were still considered desired goals over the long haul.
Indeed, the data revealed that a majority of the individuals who reported casual involvement had
been involved in one or more traditional dating relationships as well, underscoring that these
were not necessarily mutually exclusive sets of relationship experiences.
While these data complicate the traditional portrait of casual sex by including attention to
positive features identified by these respondents, clearly these short-term relationships may also
be associated with negative consequences for some of the individuals involved. For example,
about half of the respondents noted some level of regret regarding their most recent casual sexual
encounter. However, an important consideration is that many of the specific negative conse-
quences mentioned did not relate to health concerns (e.g., sexually transmitted infections), but
instead reflected relationship and social issues. Specific consequences mentioned within the con-
text of the relationship history narratives included becoming emotionally attached and experienc-
ing confrontations with committed partners. Although a number of prior studies have suggested
distinctly gendered motivations and consequences for casual sex, the current analyses revealed
only a few significant gender differences. For example, both men and women reported relatively
high agreement with items focused on physical pleasure and the role of substance use. However,
men were more likely to endorse the view that they participated in casual sex because it was fun
and were also more likely to agree with the idea that they were too young to be tied down.
Further, while peer considerations were not frequently mentioned as motivations by either gen-
der, men more often than women stated that they had casual sex because their friends were doing
it (see also Garcia and Reiber 2008). However, the qualitative data provide a more complex
window on these social dynamics, as women in the sample who had engaged in casual sexual
encounters indicated that they often discussed these experiences with friends and did not find that
friends disapproved of their behaviors (see Paul 2006). In addition, while much theorizing has
emphasized women’s stronger relationship focus relative to their male counterparts (Gilligan
1982), results revealed no gender differences in the two relationship-focused motivations (being
in love and wanting to be closer). Male and female respondents infrequently endorsed these
motivations suggesting that both men and women understood the sexual script that casual sex
was meant to have less emotional attachment. In analyses focused on perceived consequences,
few gender differences were identified; however, men less often than women reported regret.
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These findings are similar to the Paul and Hayes (2002) qualitative findings on the broader
behavior of hooking up in that women compared to men were more likely to have regret and
shame after a hook up experience. However, it is notable that a substantial share of women who
reported casual sex did not indicate that they regret casual sexual experiences. It is also possible
that men underreported and women overreported such feelings. Future research may benefit from
considering more subtle measures of the positive and negative consequences associated with
casual sex, including feelings of regret.
It is significant to note that in our sample men compared with women report more casual sex
partners. It is possible that the larger group of men was having casual sex with a smaller group of
women with frequent involvement. Another reason that there may be a difference by gender is
that men may overestimate and women underestimate their number of casual sex partners.
Nevertheless, the gender difference in the number of casual sex partners was consistent with
prior studies on casual sex behavior (e.g., Eisenberg et al. 2009; Grello et al. 2006; Manning,
Giordano, and Longmore 2006; Paul et al. 2000). A meta-analysis (Petersen and Hyde 2010) of
national datasets showed that there was a medium effect size (d = .38) for the gender difference
in number of casual sex partners. Future research should include couple level analysis to deter-
mine if there is a true gender difference in casual sex partners or if the gender difference is a
result of reporting bias.
It is important to highlight that most casual sex relationships do not occur with strangers, and
most young adults indicate that they had sex more than one time with their casual partner. The
quantitative findings highlight that both men and women understand the sexual scripts of no
commitment regarding casual sexual relationships; however, the qualitative and quantitative data
both reveal that casual sex relationships are different than “one-night stands” and can involve
relationship churning that can include sex with an ex (Halpern-Meekin et al. 2013). Although
young adults in casual sex relationships are not likely to be sexually exclusive, nor is sexual
exclusivity expected as it would be in more conventional intimate relationships, these are rela-
tionships nonetheless, which may have longer-term implications including evolving into a
romantic relationship. Thus, it is important that future research that studies motivations for and
implications of young adult sexual relationships conceptualizes one-night stands from casual sex.
This study had a few limitations but represents an important first step. The TARS contains
specific questions on casual sex, including items on motivations and consequences, and the qual-
itative data provide further context for interpreting results of quantitative analyses. Nevertheless,
the sample is regional and includes over-samples of nonwhite youth. Thus, these data cannot be
used to calculate national estimates, or to generalize beyond the region encompassed by this
sample. Further, the qualitative data are based on a nonrepresentative subsample. We hope the
themes presented here might be developed into items used in larger scale social surveys. Another
limitation of the current analysis is that we did not focus on the ways in which socioeconomic
status, race/ethnicity, or other key characteristics (e.g., family background) may have influenced
these attitudes and behaviors. An important next step is to consider how adolescent experiences
influence and shape casual sexual experiences in early adulthood. Further, the current study
focuses on heterosexual casual sex and thus additional research is needed using samples of young
adults with same-sex casual sexual experiences. In addition, these findings were based on indi-
viduals’ self-reports of their casual sexual relationships, which may not be consistent with the
views of their casual sexual partners. Certainly, couple data would provide important additional
insights. In addition, we asked respondents about their motivations for engaging in a casual sex
relationship after the behavior occurred. It is possible that respondents changed their understand-
ing of their motivations based on whether they regretted the experience. Future research should
include longitudinal data to determine if motivations change before and after casual sexual
behavior. Finally, the data were collected in 2004, suggesting the need to continue data collection
efforts, and in particular to move beyond college samples to incorporate a range of distinctive life
trajectories as influences on the nature and meanings of casual sex.
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Future research on casual sex should also explore in more detail the role that identities play in
decision making about these behaviors. Casual sex was relatively common or normative for this
age group, and young adults reflected this by stating that they were too young to be tied down.
Additional research is needed on how other subjective appraisals (e.g., “whether the individual
feels like an adult,” see Benson and Elder 2011) influence individuals’ patterns of romantic and
sexual behaviors. The qualitative results suggested that individuals often used negative experi-
ences with past romantic partners as a motive for participating in casual sex behavior, suggesting
the importance of considering cognitive and emotional processes that trace back to earlier rela-
tionship dynamics. Also, more research is needed to determine whether young adults have less
casual sex as they age because they gain the identity of adulthood or is it a result of transitioning
into adult roles such as marriage. Finally, future research should investigate the motivations of
young adults who choose not to participate in casual sexual behavior. The relationship landscape
of young adulthood is increasingly complex and requires attention to the full spectrum of rela-
tionship experiences.
Appendix
Table A1. Demographic Characteristics of In-depth Interview and Survey Samples.
Funding
This research was supported by grants from The Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health
and Human Development (HD044206) and the Department of Health and Human Services (5APRPA006009)
and by the Center for Family and Demographic Research, Bowling Green State University, which has core
funding from The Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health and Human Development
(R24HD050959-01).
Note
1. Our sample had similar casual sex estimates compared to other samples. In their sample of college
students, Armstrong et al. (2010) reported 67 percent of sexually active college seniors had casual sex.
In our sample, of sexually active 21-year-olds, 67 percent had casual sex.
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Author Biographies
Heidi A. Lyons is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Sociology, Anthropology, Social Work, and
Criminal Justice at Oakland University in Rochester, Michigan. Her research focuses on fertility behaviors
of adolescents and young adults with a specific emphasis on casual sexual behavior and non-marital
fertility.
Wendy D. Manning is a Professor in the Department of Sociology at Bowling Green State University. She
is the Co-Director of the National Center for Family and Marriage Research and Director of the Center for
Family Demographic Research. She is a family demographer with a research emphasis on family structure,
union formation and stability and relationships among adolescents as well as adults. She has served as the
President of the Association of Population Centers, Vice-President of the Population Association of
America, and the Chair of the American Sociological Association Population Section.
Monica A. Longmore is a Professor in the Department of Sociology at Bowling Green State University.
Her research interests focus on the social psychological processes, including the nature and consequences
of dimensions of the self-concept, and in particular the impact of self-conceptions on adolescent and young
adults’ dating and sexual behavior. Dr. Longmore is a co-investigator on the Toledo Adolescent Relationships
Study, a longitudinal study examining the nature and meaning of adolescent and young adult relationship
experiences.
Peggy C. Giordano is a Professor in the Department of Sociology at Bowling Green State University. Her
research focuses on adolescent and young adult relationship processes, with a particular emphasis on the
dynamics within friendships and romantic relationships. Current projects include a study of life course
specific sources of conflict within young adult romantic relationships, and an analysis of desistance from
intimate partner violence during this stage of the life course.