L2 Intersubjectivity
L2 Intersubjectivity
L2 Intersubjectivity
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INTERSUBJECTIVITY
SOCIAL VS INTERHUMAN
- SOCIAL refers to the life of a group bound together by common experiences and reactions.
o Men feel themselves to be carried by the collectivity, which lifts them out of loneliness and fear of the
world and lostness. – Martin Buber
- INTERHUMAN refers to the life between and among persons; it refers to the interpersonal, that is, a life of
dialogue.
DIALOGUE
- Refers to the world of experience and sensation where there are objects
- The beings do not actually meet. Instead, the “I” confronts and qualifies an idea, or conceptualization, of the
being in its presence and treats that being as an object.
- An individual treats other things, people, etc., as objects to be used and experienced.
- It is in fact a relationship with oneself; it is not a dialogues, but a monologue.
- Refers to the world of encounters and relationships where there are persons.
- A concrete encounter without any qualification or objectification of one another
- A dialogue
OBSTACLES TO DIALOGUE CONTRASTED WITH
Seeming Being
Speechifying Personal making present
imposition Unfolding
1. SEEMING
- It is a way of approaching the other governed by the image one desires to impress on the other.
- It involves deliberately playing up or hiding aspects of yourself to appear more desirable or impressive.
o The origin of all conflict between me and my fellowmen is that I do not say what I mean and I don’t do
what I say. – Martin Buber
BEING
- It proceeds not from an image, but from what one real is.
- It is the acceptance of the other in the way that it is also an acceptance of the self as it is.
o Acceptance is the road to all change. – Bryant Mcgill
o Happiness can exist only in acceptance. – George Orwell
2. SPEECHIFYING
- Refers to one’s talking past another.
- It is hearing without listening to what one says.
o Naririnig ka nga… hindi ka naman pinakikinggan.
3. IMPOSITION
- Holding one’s own opinion, values, attitudes and oneself without regard for those of another.
- Telling the other how he or she should act, behave and respond to things.
UNFOLDING
- Involves seeing the other as a unique, singular individual capable of freely actualizing himself/herself.
“Love does not cling to the I in such a way as to have the Thou only for its “content,” its object; but love is between I and
Thou.” – Martin Buber