Pleasure's All Mine A History of Perverse Sex
Pleasure's All Mine A History of Perverse Sex
Pleasure's All Mine A History of Perverse Sex
Julie Peakman
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Introduction 7
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Taking it Straight 13
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From onanism to Spending 45
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From Ganymedes to Gays 75
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From Female Friendships to Lipstick Lesbians 109
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From Transvestites to Transsexuals 145
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A Man’s Best Friend: Bestiality 179
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The Ties that Bind: Sadomasochism 209
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Loving the Dead 239
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Too Close for Comfort: Incest 271
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Child Love or Paedophilia? 295
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The Games People Play 329
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on Body Parts: Fellatio, Fetishism,
Infibulations and Fisting 365
References 403
Bibliography 439
Acknowledgements 455
Photo Acknowledgements 457
Index 460
Introduction
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Taking it Straight
Males [and females] do not represent two discrete populations,
heterosexual and homosexual. The world is not to be divided
into sheep and goats. It is a fundamental of taxonomy that
nature rarely deals with discrete categories . . . The living world
is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects.
Alfred Kinsey et al., Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (1948)
evil, and fitted only for propagating the species and gratifying the
sensual appetites of the men.’3 To put it bluntly, women were thought
of as ‘secondary’ and inferior beings – at least in law – and therefore
had less say in their own sex lives, be they wives, mothers, daughters,
prostitutes or slaves. Women were expected to remain virgins until
they married, while men might have sex with as many women as
they wanted. Marriage did not entail faithfulness except on behalf
of the wife. Virgins were prized, and no self-respecting woman would
consent to sex before her wedding day. But not everyone prized
virgins. The first-century geographer and historian Strabo revealed
his dislike: ‘A virgin has no control of her sphincter, lacks erotic tech-
nique, has no natural scent to her skin. She has no gently rousing
talk and lacks the ingenuous look. Novices are even worse, they are
all frigid at the rear, and that is not, at this stage, the place where the
hand should wander.’4
In ancient Greece a man could have anal intercourse with citi-
zen youths if he wanted without losing his reputation. However, a
man must not allow himself to be anally penetrated. Since these
Sex sitting in a lap; painting from the House of the Centenary at Pompeii,
1st century ad.
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Medieval Marriage
Marriage was the key to a good Christian sex life; all sex outside
marriage (adultery or pre-marital sex) was classed as fornication. It
was therefore marriage that was the ‘normalizing’ barometer of sex
in the Middle Ages, rather than heterosexuality. This was ratified
when in 1215 at the Fourth Lateran Council marriage was declared
a sacrament of the Church. However, while the Church warned of
the dangers of pre-marital sex, poets contrarily extolled the virtues
of romantic love. Romance literature, it seems, met the needs and
desires of the reading public and was a repository for Western ideas
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Héloïse wrote to him, ‘You know, beloved, as the whole world knows,
how much I have lost in you, how at one wretched stroke of fortune
that supreme act of flagrant treachery robbed me of my very self
in robbing me of you; and how my sorrow for my loss is nothing
compared with what I feel for the manner in which I lost you.’ The
only way for the lovers to redeem themselves was to revert to chas-
tity and join separate encloistered communities. Héloïse eventually
succeeded to the position of abbess in a nunnery, but her success
was gained as a result of her education rather than from any true
devotion to her vocation.
For the medieval reader, Abélard’s castration would have been
recognized not only as the destruction of his future ability to have
children but also as the eradication of Héloïse’s happiness. By emascu-
lating Abélard, Fulbert had essentially effeminized him, forcing him
to live outside the ‘normal’ life of a ‘proper’ man. All eunuchs were
regarded as lesser men, and Abélard would have been no exception.
This tale is not perhaps the love story it initially seems to be – although
it is often explained as a tale of passion, it can also be seen as a tale
of exploitation of a teacher over his pupil. Abélard abused not only
his position of power of his pupil, but also his position of trust in
Fulbert’s household. After ruining her reputation, Abélard was quite
willing to forswear Héloïse and leave her to her fate in the nunnery.
Literature provides an alterative eye-opening account of love,
fornication and marriage in the Middle Ages. Giovanni Boccaccio’s
fourteenth-century allegorical tales, the Decameron, are replete with
cuckolded men and cunning, lascivious women. One tale tells of a
gullible husband who allows a priest to have sex with his wife; and
another depicts a hermit monk whose spiritual resolve collapses
after spending too long in the close proximity of a beautiful maiden.
The book’s satire of the Church, and its mockery of its priests and
monks in general, conveys Boccaccio’s contempt for the ideas eman-
ating from religious quarters. Furthermore, his portrayal of promiscuous
and adulterous women reflects the contemporary views of women as
highly sexed and continually on the look out for lovers. Similarly, in
England at the end of the century, Geoffrey Chaucer’s Canterbury
Tales epitomized the lusty wench in the gap-toothed Wife of Bath,
with her ‘five churched husbands bringing joy and strife’, and conveyed
the avarice of the Church in the Monk with his fur-lined sleeves,
‘the finest in the land’, and his hood fastened with a pin of ‘good
wrought gold’. The religieux are lampooned as hypocrites, the depic-
tions an assumed shared opinion of the reader. This suggests that not
everyone agreed with the Church’s supposed strict sexual morality.
Indeed, the popularity of such literature illustrates just how far
people identified with the authors’ feelings about religion and sex.
The labouring poor often accepted pre-marital sex despite its
condemnation by the Church. A promise of marriage was often enough
for a woman to give up her virginity. Matilda Catte of Ingoldmells,
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Margaret of
Flanders’s marriage
to Philip i, Duke
of Burgundy.
Miniature from
the manuscript
Chroniques de
France ou de St
Denis, 14th century.
Lincolnshire, was quite happy to have sex with her suitor Ralph Lamb
as they planned to marry in March 1319. But even though the wedding
ceremony took place, a type of fine called ‘leyrwite’ was demanded
of Matilda as an unmarried bondwoman (a sort of slave). Leyrwite
literally meant a ‘fine for lying down’ and was aimed mainly at poor
women. It began in the mid-thirteenth century and became increas-
ingly common towards the end of the century, all but disappearing
after the Black Death of 1348–50. These fines were commonly six-
pence. In manorial courts, only women seem to have been penalized
for succumbing to declarations of love and marriage. For many pleb-
eians though, pre-marital sex was not seen as problematic. Leaders
of the Church complained in the 1540s, ‘among many, it is counted no
sin at all, but rather a pastime, a dalliance, and but a touch of youth:
not rebuked, but winked at: not punished, but laughed at.’19 This
shows how great a disjunction there sometimes was between what
the Church held aloft as an ideal and what was really happening.
While chastity had been the focus of early Christianity and
dominated views about marriage, after the Reformation marriage
was considered a preferable way to spend one’s life. Martin Luther
(1483– 1546), Protestant leader of the Reformation, spearheaded the
campaign against celibacy and advocated marriage as the Christian
ideal. Luther himself had originally followed a monastic life of fasting,
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Enlightened Sex
By the seventeenth century, attitudes about sex, love and marriage
were beginning to change. While marriage was still the recognized
harbour within which a ‘normal’ sexual relationship should take
place (in other words, between a man and a woman), men and women
were now more prone to marry for love than by arrangement. More
specifically, between 1660 and 1800 children were increasingly making
their own choice of marriage partners.21 Marriage, however, was not
always the harmonious union it purported to be. James Gillray’s
prints show us the deterioration from happy married bridal pair to
bickering adulterous couple.
If a couple made the wrong choice, it was virtually impossible
to divorce until 1857, when the Matrimonial Causes Act was intro-
duced. Until this time, only the very rich could afford the Act of
Parliament it took to obtain a divorce and even afterwards divorce was
not cheap. Instead, people took to separating and living apart, living
with another partner if they so chose. An unofficial ‘divorce’ or separ-
ation was sometimes made, though ‘wife sales’ were widely practised
– a man might put a halter on his wife, take her to market and sell her
to the highest bidder, but this did not always mean the wife was
unwilling. Sometimes a couple had already agreed to separate and that
the ‘wife’ would be sold to her new lover, using the transaction as a
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acts they could find through interviews with their patients. They
sorted and classified people into those with ‘normal’ sex lives and
those with ‘abnormal’ ones and incorporated medicine, biology,
sociology, anthropology and criminology into their research.
During this period, perspectives shifted and certain acts con-
sidered deviant or abnormal (in the past distinguished as natural
and unnatural) were no longer seen as sinful or criminal, but were
regarded as illnesses, a revolutionary idea at the time. These ‘con-
ditions’ were now medicalized. Furthermore, people committing
these perceived deviant acts were no longer seen as sinners but as
perverts and labelled as psychopaths, necrophiles, sadists, masochists
and so on. As men and women began to approach sexologists for help,
or were referred to them from a criminal board, the sexologists took
up their cases in an attempt to ‘cure’ those whose sexual preferences
they thought were aberrations. They claimed that sexology was a
‘scientific’ study of human sexuality; however, it was by no means
objective, but rather set in its time and place. To a large extent, these
same categories of ‘perverse’ behaviours continue but now need
unpicking if we are to understand sexual behaviour in the past and
the present.
Krafft-Ebing was a leading figure in creating our concepts of
modern sexuality and its perversities. His influential book Psycho-
pathia Sexualis, first published in Germany in 1886, was aimed not
at the reading public but at fellow physicians and lawyers taking up
cases in court.28 It underwent several new and expanded editions,
seventeen in German between 1886 and 1924, and translations in
several languages.29 As a result, it was ultimately he who was respon-
sible for the creation of modern sexual pathology; as Iwan Bloch
stated, ‘Krafft-Ebing is, and remains, the true founder of modern
sexual pathology.’30 Krafft-Ebing worked in Vienna as a neuropath and
physician at an asylum, then went on to open his own practice where
he took on patients with sexual problems. In a series of remarkable
case notes on his patients, he developed his theories and expanded
understanding of the behaviours considered too perverse for society
to accept. Among his patients were those who had committed seri-
ous crimes – lust murderers, rapists, paedophiles and necrophiles.
Other conditions, such as voyeurism, exhibitionism, urolagnia, copro-
philia, uranism (male homosexuality) and fetishism, he considered
less criminal but nonetheless problematic.
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Ellis’s personal life. Ellis wrote to Olive Schreiner after reading her
book The Story of an African Farm (1883), and although they met
up soon afterwards in 1884 and were taken with each other, he was
impotent and unwilling to marry. Three years later he met Edith Lees,
a stocky bisexual with thick lips and a man’s haircut. They appeared
an unlikely couple but were drawn to each other for their intellectual
similarities. Unusual for the time, Lees and Ellis agreed to maintain
separate households and have no children. Lees was to remain inde-
pendent financially, making her living through lecturing and writing.
However, Lees took up with an old schoolfriend and had a lesbian
affair, hardly surprising since Ellis was unable to provide what she
needed physically in her relationship with him. In his autobiography,
Ellis admitted, ‘I had not been the faintest degree jealous of Claire
[as he called Edith’s lover] but, rightly or wrongly, as I have said, I had
felt that Edith’s love for Claire involved a diminished tenderness for
me.’35 Meanwhile, Ellis accepted the affections of another young
woman. When Lees found out, she was hurt but gradually came to
be understanding. She wrote to Ellis, ‘I’ve arrived at this conclusion
after intense suffering about Amy, but I shall never suffer again. Do
what you will – be what you will and don’t feel you must ever make
me understand.’36 This attitude to free love was part of a rebellion by
a small group of middle-class intellectuals but was usually confined
to sex before marriage between a man and a woman. Havelock and
Edith had taken the concept much further in their open marriage. Ellis
later took up with Margaret Sanger, a robust campaigner in favour of
contraception, who had fled to England to escape arrest in the u.s.
She remained a devoted friend to Ellis after she returned to America
to continue her work, setting up clinics and writing about birth con-
trol. The claim for free love in heterosexual relationships had now
shifted to take in demands for birth control. Ellis eventually found a
sexually fulfilling relationship with his second wife, Françoise Laffite-
Cyon, after Lees died, a relationship in which he was truly happy.
The push for ‘free love’ had begun at the end of the nineteenth
century with campaigners sending out illegal pamphlets informing
people about birth control and abortion. Prosecution was possible in
America under the Anti-Obscenity Act of 1873 (later known as the
Comstock Law) under which it became a crime to mail ‘obscene, lewd,
lascivious, indecent, filthy or vile article, matters, thing, device, or sub-
stance’; including ‘every article or thing designed, adapted, or intended
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Caricature of
Victoria Woodhull
by Thomas Nast,
1872.
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Now my worry is this: I’ve known the girl and her family all
my life. We’ve been in love for 2 or 3 years. But although we’ve
indulged in pretty extensive ‘necking’ or ‘petting’ (there
seems to be no other words!) we haven’t yet had intercourse
(another horrible word!). What I am wondering is whether
if, in view of the situation, I shall broach the subject and
suggest that we shall this weekend, and to that end, whether
I shall buy contraceptives.41
until the pill’s introduction in the 1960s – and it was only with this
release from the perpetual burden of childbirth that women could start
to enjoy an unlicensed freedom in their sex lives. Over the last few
decades, with the lifting of the worry of unwanted pregnancy, peo-
ple have been more inclined to experiment. More sexual behaviours
previously construed as perversion have now become mainstream
and inserted themselves into the overall understanding of hetero-
sexual behaviour.
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A woman masturbates a man (background), from Nicolas Chorier, L’Académie
des dames (1680).
two
J udging from the slang terms for masturbation that are currently
circulating, it is viewed today as a fairly innocuous activity. Phrases
such as ‘jerking the gherkin’, ‘polishing your bayonet’, ‘spanking the
monkey’ and ‘jackin’ the beanstalk’ suggest that the activity should
not be taken too seriously. Female masturbation has since acquired
countless jocular names of its own – ‘beating the bush’, ‘petting the
pussy’, ‘jilling off’ and so on. Nowadays, women are quite happy to
shop in Ann Summers and purchase a wide variety of sex toys offered
in all colours and sizes with names such as ‘The Vibrating Hand-
Maiden’, ‘The Pulsating Rabbit’ and ‘The Pink Love Bullet’ with which
to give themselves pleasure. Indeed, masturbation is celebrated as
both a solitary and mutually enjoyable practice, although this was
not always the case. In the past such practices were considered a
perversion against nature, a heinous sin and a habit that had the
potential to bring about serious physical and mental debilities.
While masturbation was thought to be essentially a male preserve,
women no doubt undertook the activity, but wrote about it less. It
was simply more hidden, and fewer people knew about women’s
secret pleasures. However, the Sanofix vibrating machine would
surely have done for the Edwardian lady what the Pulsating Rabbit
does today.1
The Oxford English Dictionary refers to masturbation as ‘the
stimulation, usually by the hand, of one’s genitals for sexual pleas-
ure; the action or practice of masturbating oneself (or less commonly)
another person’. The earliest English usage of the term ‘masturba-
tion’ is around 1503, taken from Middle French, although there have
been a variety of names given to the activity throughout history. The
medieval authorities spoke of onanism. By the eighteenth century,
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the term ‘to frig’ was used; the verb was taken from the French verb
frotter meaning ‘to rub’, but became synonymous with masturbation.2
The Victorians spoke of ‘spending’; nowadays ‘wanking’ is more
commonly used. Although seemingly a non-disruptive act, it is surpris-
ing what furore masturbation has caused. Many people in various
parts of the world today think it is either harmful or irreligious. Yet we
know that the practice was familiar in the ancient world, as it was
depicted in paintings and drawings. Through the centuries it has gone
from being seen as a health cure to a sin, a medical disorder, a dis-
ease of nations, and back to a suggested healthy alternative to sexual
intercourse. How this happened depended on the most prominent vocal
authority at the time, whether political, religious, medical or legal.
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from onanism to spending
A Rabbit-type vibrator.
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was a suitable response for people performing such activities. But not
everyone agreed. The Scottish legal advocate Sir George Mackenzie,
although he accepted the authority of Carpoz in principle, refused
to abide with his sentencing policy. He declared that sodomy and
bestiality ‘are crimes extraordinary and rarely committed in this
Kingdom’. His judgement was based on the surmise that no one in
Scotland would commit such abominable crimes. Notably, Mackenzie
wrote in English when he was discussing the crime of sodomy and
bestiality, but resorted to Latin when commenting on masturba-
tion, an indication of just how bad he thought masturbation was.
(Knowledgeable professionals such as physicians and legal men
frequently used Latin to write about sexual terms thought too ob-
scene to mention in public.) Despite these promulgations, the death
penalty was never actually used for masturbation in Europe. Flemish
and French lawyers usually accepted banishment as an alternative
penalty. The Protestant reproof was to hamstring the perpetrators
– crippling them by slicing through their hamstrings.11
A ‘Fatal’ Practice
Although the extent of the practice of masturbation is difficult to
estimate, some records survive that give us an idea of how people
thought about it. While few women left behind any mention of
it, or indeed of sex at all, some seventeenth- and eighteenth-century
gentlemen left behind diaries and journals which mention mastur-
bation. A handful of them thought it a fairly normal preoccupa-
tion of youth, but others believed it to be a perverted path to follow.
William Drummond, the son of a Scottish poet, recorded details
of his handiwork between 1657 and 1659.12 After his mother died,
he inherited a huge estate at Hawthorndon in 1649, a small hamlet
a few miles from Edinburgh. By the time he wrote his diary, he was
leading an isolated life alone in the castle but for a handful of ser-
vants. His diary entry for 20 February 1657 admitted to engaging
in debauched behaviour and cavorting with fellow delinquents –
‘dranke till twelfe a cloke in the night at which time we ranted thor-
rowe all the little towens with a great bagge pipe, to the admiration
[astonishment] of all the countrie people’. Not only did he indulge
in competitive drinking and libertine ways, but he lazed about in bed
all day and failed to attend church on Sundays. With time on his
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minutes reveal that they hired local girls to strip naked and pose
for inspection by members of the group. ‘Sylphs’ or prostitutes were
also taken by coach up to Scotland from London to entertain the
men. Meanwhile, in France, the libertine Jean-Jacques Rousseau
caused disruption with the publication of his new novel Emile (1762),
in which he wrote about the ‘most deadly habit to which a young man
can be subject’. The book caused such an affront that it was pub-
licly burned. Some years later he related in his Confessions (1782) that
he had masturbated while fantasizing about his nanny. He con-
fessed, ‘I learned this dangerous supplement which deceives nature
and leads young men of my disposition to many excesses at the
expense of their health, their vigour and sometimes their lives.’ He
claimed he had picked up the habit from a Moorish bandit in Turin.15
Authors of sexual advice manuals, such as Nicolas Venette,
believed masturbation caused asthma, liver problems, fever, gout
and sterility, but was only a habit that affected men. In his Tableau de
l’amour conjugal (1686), which made its first appearance in English
in 1703 as The Mysteries of Conjugal Love Reveal’d, he suggested
that women could not masturbate, revealing,
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from falling into it’, it claimed. Although the consultation may well
have been free, the hapless patient was a few shillings lighter by the
time he left the shop with his useless bottle of medicine.
But it was not just quacks who were condemning masturbation;
respected physicians were coming out in droves to attack the prac-
tice. The English physician Robert James in his Medical Dictionary
(1743–5) deemed it ‘a vice not decent to name, but productive of
the most deplorable and generally incurable disorders’.26 Other
respectable medical texts condemned the act as dangerous, stating
that it could even lead to psychological problems and induce phys-
ical changes. A woman could grow an elongated clitoris as a result
of over-stimulation, turning her into a ‘tribade’ (another name for
a lesbian). She could become hysterical and uncontrollable (a fate,
incidentally, more often applied to rebellious women than the quiet
submissive sort). Deranged imaginings filled the mind of the female
onanist, and encouraged sexual rapaciousness in her. Masturbation
was even blamed for nymphomania in women and satyrism in men.
In 1760, the Critical Review advised that ‘furor uterinus’, or raging
female nymphomania, could result from women masturbating.27
Women were vulnerable because they lacked the wherewithal to
command or reason, which left their imaginations riskily open.28
When women masturbated, therefore, they might go mad. Pictures
of onanists were reproduced in medical texts depicting delirious
women swooning on the verge of insanity and men crippled with
fatigue. But why did this panic occur now,29 and why was it so impor-
tant for medics to take up the baton condemning masturbation?
Over the preceding century, there had been a gradual decline of
belief in magic and witchcraft. By the time of the Enlightenment,
rationality and reason were being promoted as the correct path
to follow. It was generally thought that a more ‘scientific’ approach
to life was needed. This rationality extended to a need for control over
the workings of the body, both publicly and privately. While pre-
viously religion had been responsible for matters of moral control,
science was gaining an increasing voice of authority on the issue –
medicine rather than religion was becoming the arbiter of what
was good and bad sex. In turn, this meant that medics were now
the new overseers of repression and they therefore felt compelled
to write about the topic so as to establish themselves as the new
moral authorities.
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‘A Woman Masturbates’, drawing by Antoine Borel, engraved by François-Roland
Elluin for Jean-Baptiste de Boyer (attrib.), Thérèse philosophe (1785 edition).
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‘Representing the last stage of mental and bodily exhaustion from Onanism or
Self-pollution’, R. J. Brodie, The Secret Companion (1845).
The subject was the topic of hot debate between prominent physicians,
one who asserted that ‘the continual excitement of the genital organs
is liable to give rise to almost all the acute or chronic illness which
can disturb the harmony of our functions.’36 Everything and any-
thing was blamed on masturbation. Onanism might affect the brain,
the spinal column or the mind; create imbeciles; lead to loss of sight
or hearing, paralysis, palpitations, heart lesions or scrofula. With
the establishment of lunatic asylums and incarceration of the
insane, eighteenth-century physicians could observe ‘the sick’ at close
quarters. What became apparent was that insane in-patients mastur-
bated. Yet, rather than believe patients masturbated from boredom,
doctors preferred to believe it was masturbation that caused insan-
ity. The proof was in their hospitals – of 272 mentally ill patients
placed in care in Bicêtre and Saltpêtrière hospitals in Paris, 41 were
men, and of those eighteen were masturbators.37
This concern over masturbation was to last through the reign of
Queen Victoria, although again, the reactions were shifting. Having
seen the attacks come first from religious quarters and then medical
ones, now concerns over masturbation were connected to eugen-
ics, hereditary disease and effects on race.
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from onanism to spending
the sheath, the hand-jive, the penis plate, the locking pockets, the
live wire and the body suit.44 All these devices inflicted pain as a
method of cure. For perpetual offenders, surgical methods were
implemented – in extreme measures, clitorodectomies and castra-
tions were suggested, but these were rare. Cauterization was also
used, the doctor burning the offending organ to cause the patient
pain in order to prevent them touching themselves. Every drug was
tried, from potassium bromide to opium, sulphur, hot pepper and
strychnine. Even leeches were applied to patients’ skin. Thin blan-
kets and cold bathing were less aggressive methods suggested to
help relieve the need to masturbate, since heat was thought to agi-
tate the genitals. But according to Samuel Bayard Woodward, writing
in the Boston Medical and Surgical Journal in 1835, ‘Nothing short
of total abstinence from the practice can save those who have become
the victim of it.’45
Both puberty and bachelorhood were seen as particularly prob-
lematic periods in a young man’s life. In 1854, Sir George Drysdale
in his Elements of Social Science was revolutionary in that he urged
early marriages and the use of contraception as methods against
the ‘injurious habits of self-pollution’, although his detractors crit-
icized him for advocating ‘conjugal onanism’. Meanwhile, William
Acton was busy scaring the male population with The Functions
and Disorders of the Reproductive Organs in Youth, Adult Age, and
Advanced Life (1857), which induced at least as much panic as Onania
had done on its publication in the early 1700s. He reiterated the now
entrenched opinion that the waste of sperm could lead to debilitating
Youth in an anti-
masturbation
corset, after
Johann Christoph
Fleck, Die
Verwirrungen des
Geschlechtstriebes
(1830).
Woman masturbates with a bottle, etching by André Vollot, from the series
Le Voyeur, 1930.
Seventh-day Adventist John Harvey Kellog, Md, now famous for his
breakfast cereal, ran a sanatorium based on holistic treatment of
nutrition, enemas and exercise; his cornflakes were an invention
for a healthy breakfast in keeping with his regime. He connected
masturbation to insanity, believing it to cause personality changes,
insomnia, indecision, confusion, acne, fear, pimples, shifty eyes,
fits and the use of obscenities. Female masturbators suffered all of
these, but had some additional symptoms: underdeveloped breasts,
hysteria, jaundice, rickets, stomach cramps, womb ulcers, hermaph-
roditism and even sterility. His favoured preventative technique
was to place electrodes in the rectums and urethras of his patients
and subject them to mild electric shocks.54
Adding to society’s anxiety, various surveys were undertaken in
the twentieth century that revealed that masturbation was actually
more prevalent than previously thought. Max Exner surveyed 700
college students in 1915 and found that it was a regular activity among
them, although he continued to try and educate the youths in the
error of their ways. Meanwhile, the social worker Dr Katherine Davis
revealed that the reality of the situation as regards women was some-
what different from what doctors and moralists were saying. Employed
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from onanism to spending
asylum, even though he was disgusted by it, calling it, ‘An unclean-
liness, a filthiness forbidden by God, an unmanliness despised by
men’.57 In 1896 a German doctor, Emil Kraepelin, was the first to
prove that masturbation did not cause insanity, as a result of sex
research conducted in lunatic asylums. In 1929 the author Ralcy
Husted Bell declared that masturbation, ‘according to clinical data,
according to the plainest commonsense . . . is no more harmful
than the co-operative act between mates’.58 But it was Kinsey’s
contemporary, the German psychologist Wilhelm Stekel, who took
a solid stance against the detractors of masturbation. He condemned
traditional beliefs about masturbation, opposing the notion that
it induced anxiety and depression or in any way promoted suicide.
Instead, he called for the alleviation of religious and societal pres-
sures, and encouraged the belief that masturbation was good for
personal health and happiness. Although this might have been an
end to the matter, the old theories clung fast. Through the centuries,
none of these opponents of oddball theories on masturbation were
properly heeded.
In 2007, a British national probability survey found that among
people aged between sixteen and 44 years old, 95 per cent of men and
71 per cent of women had masturbated at some point in their lives;
and 73 per cent of the men and 37 per cent of the women reported
masturbating in the four weeks before their interview.59 During the
twenty-first century, there has been a distinct change in approach
to the topic, at least among the medical fraternity and educators. In
2009, a leaflet entitled Pleasure was published on behalf of the
Sheffield National Health Service, aimed at teenagers. It advocated
regular masturbation for teens as an alternative to the risk of sexual
diseases and teenage pregnancies and carried the slogan ‘an orgasm
a day keeps the doctor away’. The authors of the guidance say that
for too long experts have concentrated on the need for ‘safe sex’ and
committed relationships while ignoring the principal reason why many
people have sex (for pleasure). The medical fraternity finally declared
that masturbation is healthy. Despite these assertions, the overhang
of Christian guilt remains. The Internet demonstrates that there
are still religious leaders talking about the ‘disordered tendency’
and how to stop it.
Ideas about masturbation have therefore undergone a radical
change throughout the last 2,000–3,000 years: an activity thought
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Eustache Le Sueur, The Abduction of Ganymede, c. 1650, oil on canvas.
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the bisexual or the homosexual. Instead they saw people who married
or did not, and people who committed deviant sex acts (and they
could be married or not) or did not. Although the term ‘homosex-
ual’ did not exist, there were words with similar or related meanings,
such as ‘catamite’, ‘pederast’ and ‘sodomite’ – a man who committed
the act known as buggery, sodomy, the ‘abominable vice’ or a ‘crime
against nature’. Some of these men might have enjoyed sex with
women and they might even have been married. The most impor-
tant distinction made when assessing men who engaged in sex
together was the difference between who was the active or pene-
trative partner and who was the passive or receiving partner. Those
who took the passive role were viewed with disdain and seen to be
unmanly, while those taking the active role were considered more
manly and therefore were more acceptable. Where the passive part-
ner was a youth, treatment was more lenient. Once a man grew
older, he was expected to take the active role in sex. He should also
marry and have children, even if he continued to desire other men.
This way of thinking prevailed until the nineteenth century, when
the ‘birth of the homosexual’ supposedly came about. Even then,
many homosexuals were married and had children. At a time when
homosexuality was considered so disreputable a vice, it was easier for
a man to take refuge in marriage and continue his activities in secret.
There were, of course, many variants on this way of thinking through-
out different centuries.
expected to marry and have children and perhaps pursue his own
young men. However, there was probably a wider variety of rela-
tionships between men than originally thought, not just those between
elite men and youths.2
In the Iliad, Homer described the close relationship between
Trojan War hero Achilles and his comrade Patroclus. They shared the
life of soldiers, fought side by side in battle and had a strong emo-
tional bond. According to Aeschylus, writing in the fifth century
bc, they also had a sexual relationship, with Achilles assigned the
role of erastēs and Patroclus that of erōmenos. In a surviving frag-
ment of his tragedy Myrmidons, Achilles speaks of a ‘devout union
The world of ancient Rome saw the manly man penetrating any-
thing he could find – other men, women, boys, male prostitutes and
slaves. Male prostitution existed but was banned by Emperor Philip
the Arab in the third century. However, so long as a man did not
succumb to the advances of other men, he could have sex with whom-
soever he chose (with the exception of freeborn men and citizens).
However, he was expected to retain a degree of self-control. Nonethe-
less, some Roman rulers gained a bad reputation because of their
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preference for men well past their youth. It was rumoured that the
emperor Galba, who briefly ruled for a few months in ad 68, eschewed
youths for ‘men, adult and strong’ after his wife died. Suetonius says
of him, ‘In sexual matters, he was more inclined to males, and then
none other than the hard bodied and those past their prime.’6 The
problem for Suetonius was not Galba’s preference for males but for
adult men. His predecessor, Emperor Nero, made an even greater neg-
ative impact because of his debauchery. He not only raped freeborn
youths but also allowed his freedman Doryphorus to penetrate him.
These incidents were problematic on three counts: first, defilement
of freeborn youths; second, having sex with an adult man; and third,
allowing himself to be penetrated.
Sins of Sodom
Christianity brought with it an incendiary hatred of any acts of
desire between men. According to the Bible, there were three types
of sodomy – anal sex between men and women; anal sex between men
and men; and sex between humans and animals – and the Bible was
responsible for making these sexual acts prohibited for Christians.
Before the term ‘homosexuality’ was in use, men having sex with each
other was therefore understood within the concept of sodomy. Such
an act was considered a sin, a perversion of nature’s laws and an act
against God. Leviticus 18:22 states, ‘Thou shalt not lie with mankind
as with womankind: it is abomination.’ Death was suggested as the
suitable punishment (20:13). Despite these instructions and the
potential severe punishment, men were still willing to seek out other
men in pursuit of sexual pleasure.
Religious leaders of cloistered all-male communities saw the
potential for problems where men lived in such close proximity with
each other. One example was the reforming monk Peter Damian,
prior of a monastery, who was later to become a cardinal. In his
Liber Gomorrhianus (Book of Gomorrah, c. 1048), he voiced his con-
cerns about sodomitical activities in the monasteries and noted that
some monks even fondled and kissed young boys. For such indis-
cretions, he suggested a self-inflicted punishment of flagellation.
His followers took their punishment all too willingly, and were so
keen to follow his instructions that they injured themselves in their
self-inflicted mortifications.7 His concerns were not isolated and,
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Medieval monastic
flagellation.
with the rulings of the Third Lateran Council in 1179, the Church
authorities stepped up their attacks on sodomitical behaviour both
among their own leaders and their flock. Clerics who engaged in
‘unnatural’ practices were ostracized to monasteries (where they
might actually practice them all the more), whereas lay people were
excommunicated. Church Father Thomas Aquinas reinforced the
need to take a strict line against sodomy, deeming it the most horren-
dous sin. As a result of the Church’s stance, some of the worst ensuing
persecutions were of sodomites.8 Because of its negative connotations,
sodomy was often used by the leaders of the Church and the State
in accusations against their enemies as a means of political attack.
Both the Cathars and the Knights Templar became targets for the
Catholic Church, and were accused of buggery. In reality, there was
no evidence that either group did anything other than upset the
Pope and the king.
The Cathars had flourished in the twelfth century. After travel-
ling from Bulgaria, they settled in Albi in Languedoc (from where
they gained their alternative name, Albigensians). Known for their
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Jacques de Molay, Grand Master of the Knights Templar, sentenced to the stake.
From the Chroniques de France ou de St Denis, 14th-century manuscript.
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Buggery in Europe
The establishment of the Inquisition in 1233 under the rule of Pope
Gregory ix fuelled public anxieties over sodomites and the situa-
tion took a more aggressive turn. In Europe over the next three
centuries, the persecution of sodomites entailed torture, maiming
and death for any man unfortunate enough to be caught. The cities
of Siena, Bologna, Florence, Venice, Paris, Ghent and Bruges all
brought out new laws to encourage the detection of sodomites, while
the public were encouraged to come forward and expose them. The
accused men came from all classes but were mainly tradesmen of
the middling sort – shoemakers, butchers, carpenters, tailors and
grocers. Apprentices or lower-class servants or labourers were among
them, while aristocrats accounted for about one-third of the total.
As ever, those with money found it easier to evade detection. When
caught, the perpetrators might suffer any range of punishments
from castration, blinding and amputation of limbs to the death
penalty (usually reserved for repeat offenders). Usually they were
burned at the stake. In cases where the accused was an older man,
he was often married with children. It seems that the notion of sin-
gle adult homosexual men was not part of the medieval picture.
In Florence the authorities became increasingly concerned
about a network of sodomites that flourished in their city. They dis-
covered that certain older adult men, who were often married, were
actively pursuing younger men. In 1325, in an attempt to discourage
such behaviour, a statute was introduced that prescribed castration
for men who sodomized boys. Because remuneration was offered
to informers, it provided the opportunity for anyone to extort money
from sodomites unlucky enough to attract attention, and black-
mail flourished. At this stage, it also became noticed that although
some youths were submitting to older men, this was by no means the
most usual kind of encounter. More frequently sodomy was occur-
ring between young men of a similar age, who were engaging in
mutually consensual acts. Subsequently, penalties were put in place
for youths who allowed themselves to be sodomized. Younger offend-
ers were usually lucky enough to escape with fines of anything
between 50 and 100 lire, together with a public flogging. Sometimes
the authorities thought it prescient to make an example of a youth.
Such was the case with the unfortunate fifteen-year-old Giovanni
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Donatello, David,
1430, marble;
the statue was
controversial
due to its unusually
sexualized, perhaps
homoerotic, nature.
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Caravaggio, Amor Vincit Omnia (‘Love Conquers All’, known as Victorious Cupid),
1601–2, oil on canvas.
himself from around the area of the Rialto Bridge, was convicted
and burned at the stake. Before his death, in his statement given in
1354, he also bore witness that he believed he was doing nothing
wrong. Although he was married, he admitted that he had never
felt sexual desire for women.12 This persecution therefore did not go
unchallenged. Some men denied there was anything wrong with
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the activity and were not afraid of speaking out. During the fifteenth
century, persecutions were also taking place in Augsburg, Regens-
burg, Basel, Ghent and Bruges, with increasing numbers of sodomites
placed on trial. In Basel, after being caught attempting to seduce the
youth Johannes Müller, the cleric Johannes Stocker used the defence
that everyone was committing sodomy. He retorted, ‘If everybody
who committed this were burnt at the stake, not even fifty men
would survive in Basel.’13
While this wholesale onslaught was taking place in towns in
Italy and the Low Countries, the rest of Europe seems to have been
comparatively lax in their punishment of sodomites. Medieval
Russia appears to have been quite uninterested in sodomy. Although
it was a treated as a sin under the Orthodox Church, there were no
Home-grown Vice
Unlike other parts of Europe, sodomy in England seems to have been
fairly well tolerated as a vice up to end of the seventeenth century,
so long as the sodomite fulfilled his social functions of marriage
and spawning children. The poet John Wilmot, Earl of Rochester,
was one of the most notorious libertines of the seventeenth century.
He openly declared his love of boys: ‘There’s a sweet, soft page of
mine / Does the trick worth forty wenches.’ However, the authorities
took offence to his play Sodom; or, The Quintessence of Debauchery,
published in 1684, which they censored, mostly because of its overt
references to sodomy. Restrictions were creeping in to prevent sodomy
becoming more widespread. Broadsides decrying sodomites were
becoming popular reading material, and most could be brought
for a few pennies. John Dunton published a poem entitled ‘The
He-Strumpets: A Satyr on the Sodomite-Club’ in 1707, declaring
that men were seeking out sodomites because so many prostitutes
had the clap.
Sodomy was made a crime in common law for the first time in
England in 1533, and remained a capital offence until 1861, with the
last execution taking place in 1835.15 Because private incidents were
increasingly being made public through the courts, buggery was now
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After they had been in Bed a little while, the Prisoner [Duffus]
began to kiss and embrace the Prosecutor [Leader], thrust his
Tongue in his Mouth, called him his dear Friend, and got
on his Back; but the Prosecutor resisting, threw him off 3 or
4 times, telling him if he would not be still, he’d turn him out
of Bed. The prisoner then seizing the Prosecutor by the
Throat almost strangled him, turned him on his Face, and
forcibly entered his Body about an Inch . . .
Leader was able to throw him off, forcing him to withdraw, and
‘prevented the prisoner from making an Emission Seminis in his
Body; but having thus forced the prisoner to withdraw, he (the
prisoner) emitted in his own Hand, clapping it on the tail of the
Prosecutor’s Shirt. Saying, Now you have it!’19 Duffus was found
guilty of sodomy, fined 20 marks and sentenced to a month’s impris-
onment and to stand upon the pillory near Old Gravel Lane – still not
a very heavy fine for what amounts to attempted sodomitical rape.
Young apprentices still seem to have been fair game for those
on the prowl. When Henry Wolf met John Holloway in 1735 on an
errand for his master, a brandy merchant, he took him to several
pubs where he fondled him, and on to Bishop’s Gate Church Yard,
where he bought him a nosegay and a penny custard. Eventually he
approached Bethlem Royal Hospital, which ran along the south side
of the Moorfields. Giving evidence, Holloway announced, ‘Coming
to Bedlam, he perfectly pull’d and haul’d me in to see the Mad-
folks. There he took me into the House of Office, and pull’d down
his own Breeches and mine, and – in his Mouth.’20 Oral sex seems
to have been a common sexual approach. When in 1802 the young
James Reader applied for a job to the Revd George Donnisthorpe,
the vicar offered him liquor and money and said, ‘if he were a Lady
and had ten thousand a year he would bestow it all on him’. There-
upon Donnisthorpe took the boy’s ‘private Member in his hand,
knelt down on one knee and put it into his Mouth’.21 Reader went
on to see Donnisthorpe four more times before warning him off, so,
despite bringing the incident to court, he does not seem to have
been entirely unwilling.
While it would seem that some apprentices were targets for older
men, the youths themselves sometimes received benefits in the
encounter, as sexual enjoyment and/or monetary gain. Others would
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Depiction of sodomy in the monastery, engraving for Histoire de Dom Bougre,
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shout out for help and adults might intervene. Although attempts on
youths were common, some adult men preferred to look for groups
of like-minded men rather than individuals, finding the sociability
and shared enjoyments more convivial.
Sodomitical Subcultures
Subcultures of sodomites emerged throughout Europe during the
eighteenth century, where consensual sexual activities were prac-
tised.22 In France, Police Lieutenant Lenoir estimated that there were
around 20,000 sodomites in Paris in 1725. The type of man engaging
in this activity appears to have been changing. Previously sodomy
had been known as the beau vice, as it seemingly affected mainly
the nobility; now it was becoming a fashion among everyone ‘from
dukes down to footmen’. It was no longer the predilection of a few, but
crossed class barriers, with merchants, artisans and domestic ser-
vants all being caught up in raids and brought to trial. The banks of
the Seine were a favourite pick-up place, with some men putting hand-
kerchiefs on their heads and, as one observer commented, ‘imitating
women, mincing like them . . . They choose each other in these gath-
erings for mutual fondling and to commit infamies.’23 In order to keep
some sort of control over the situation, police kept a list of pederasts
and paid a series of informants – mouches (flies), as they were called
– to entrap sodomites. However, this method seems to have been
ineffective, as by 1780, Lieutenant Lenoir claimed that the number
of sodomites in the city had doubled to around 40,000. According to
him, there were now as many sodomites as there were prostitutes.24
Those caught were sent to the dungeon of the general hospital in
Bicêtre, south of Paris, a place known for its extremely high mortal-
ity rate. Once incarcerated, there was every chance an inmate would
not survive. Although legal battles continued against these men,
some contemporaries voiced their concerns about how shabbily
sodomites were being treated. The forward-thinking French philoso-
pher Nicolas de Condorçet wrote: ‘Sodomy when there is no violence
involved, cannot be part of the criminal law. It does not violate the rights
of anyone.’25 As public attitudes gradually shifted, the violence of
the punishments abated. The hanging of sodomites was no longer
considered appropriate and was partially supplanted with their depor-
tation to the French colonies in the West Indies such as Martinique.
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liquor for her customers. Here, men were caught drinking, carousing
and having sex with each other; their practice was to dress as women
and perform mock marriages, giving ‘birth’ to wooden dolls and
Cheshire cheeses.27 After her conviction, Mother Clap was sentenced
to stand in the pillory in Smithfield, to pay a fine of 20 marks and
suffer two years’ imprisonment, but she was so badly pilloried that
she died of her injuries a couple of days later. Although Mother
Clap’s case was high-profile for London, other subcultures existed in
southern England, such as in Bath and Somerset.28
An unprecedented number of prosecutions for sodomy took place
at the beginning of the nineteenth century as antagonism towards
homosexual subcultures continued unabated.29 After raids on the
White Swan tavern in Vere Street, London in 1810, 27 men were
arrested, two of whom hanged and six pilloried. Once again, the anti-
vice societies were zealous in their persecution of all-male sexual
activity. Perhaps one of the biggest scandals erupted in 1889 after a
police raid on an all-male brothel in Cleveland Street, Fitzrovia. The
place had been discovered after fifteen-year-old Charles Thomas
Swinscow was found with the large sum of fourteen shillings on
him. He admitted that he had been working as a male prostitute at
the Cleveland Street brothel, and was just one of a handful of tele-
graph messenger boys employed as prostitutes by the brothel owner
Charles Hammond. The prosecution was made more difficult when,
to the horror of the police, most of the clients were found to be aris-
tocrats; one was rumoured to be the eldest son of the Prince of
Wales; another was Lord Arthur Somerset, equerry to the prince,
who quietly fled abroad. Somerset paid for the defence of the boys
involved and, as a result, they received light sentences. However,
the police were later accused of covering up the arrests in order to
protect the wealthy clientele.
While the authorities continued to swoop down on brothels,
they also picked off individuals – transvestites made particularly easy
targets. In one of the most notorious cases of the century, Ernest
Boulton and Frederick William Park, known to their friends as
‘Stella and Fanny’, were apprehended on the Strand on 28 April
1870 while on a trip to the theatre. At the time, Boulton was wear-
ing a cherry-coloured evening dress, trimmed with white lace and
a wig styled in a braided chignon, and he was adorned with bracelets;
Park was clad in a plunging, dark-green silk dress, a black lace shawl
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and white kid gloves, his look completed by a blond curling wig. In
this case, the prosecution failed to prove that they had had anal sex,
or that it was a crime in Britain for men to dress in women’s clothes.30
While the Offences Against the Persons Act 1861 had finally abolished
hanging for the crime of buggery, a person could still be subject to
life imprisonment, with penal servitude. The Criminal Law Amend-
ment Act of 1885 further aggravated the situation when it introduced
a prohibition on all male-on-male sexual acts. Now not only sodomy
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was illegal, but ‘any act of gross indecency with another male person’
was deemed a misdemeanour attracting two years’ imprisonment.
For the most part, the authorities had tended to keep quiet
about the topic of male-on-male sex as they were worried about
possible copycat behaviour, but by the turn of the century, homosex-
uality was to become more prominent in the public’s knowledge.
It was ultimately one particular trial – that of the playwright and poet
Oscar Wilde – which led to homosexuality being discussed more
widely. In 1895, Wilde had unwisely brought a case of libel against
the Marquess of Queensberry, father of his lover Sir Alfred Douglas,
after Queensberry had accused Wilde of posing as a sodomite. The
case backfired and Wilde was arrested for gross indecency. As a
result, he was to spend two years in prison serving hard labour. He
was in such poor health by the time he was released that he lived
only another three years. He and ‘Bosie’, as he affectionately called
Douglas, met up and lived together for a while in Naples, but it did not
work out and Bosie returned to England. Bosie was later to repudi-
ate both homosexuality and Wilde, but meanwhile braver men were
working behind the scenes to try and decriminalize homosexuality.
Now the question being asked was: ‘Are these people votaries of vice,
or are they insane?’31
Nude male youths photographed by Wilhelm von Gloeden, from his Taormina
series, c. 1893.
Camping Out
At the beginning of the twentieth century, as men were finding new
ways to entertain themselves, the police were finding new ways to
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After Stonewall, the first Gay Pride march, New York, 1970.
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Symposium scene, two prostitutes. Red-figure cup, c. 5th century.
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Sapphist Beginnings
The earliest well-known lesbian was Sappho, who lived on the island
of Lesbos in ancient Greece and was thought to have been born
around 612 bc. Her poems were highly regarded, according to an
epigram in Anthologia Palatina (9.506) ascribed to Plato: ‘Some say
the Muses are nine: how careless! / Look, there’s Sappho too, from
Lesbos, the tenth.’ Her name came to be associated not only with
her poetry but also with the term ‘Sapphist’, which describes women’s
desire for their own sex; the term ‘lesbian’ derives from inhabitants
of her island, Lesbos. There, she seems to have run a type of girls’
boarding school, where she prepared young women for marriage
and taught them singing and music. Although it is not known for
sure, she may have led a thiasos (θιασος), a group of women who wor-
shipped Aphrodite and celebrated the Muses. Both these were seen as
perfectly acceptable pursuits, and feelings for other women were
not considered exceptional. But whether Sappho was a lesbian at all
is debatable. Certainly, in her writings she speaks of her desire for
certain women and the yearning to fall asleep on the soft bosom of
her female companion. She addresses female lovers, lovers of lovers,
ex-lovers and other women by name – Anactoria, Atthis, Andromeda,
Mnasidika, Eranna (although they may be fictional). But there is noth-
ing more explicit, and since only short fragments of her poems remain,
it is hard to infer anything more definite. Her orientation can only be
guessed at, although it is thought that she had sex with men too; she
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Engraving of
Sappho from Mary
Cowden Clarke,
World-noted
Women (1883).
had a daughter, Cleis, ‘like a golden flower’.2 However, none of the details
about Sappho’s biography are reliable.
Ancient Sparta was another place where women’s desire for each
other supposedly flourished. Women and girls lived apart from
men and boys, and at seven years old boys were taken to live under
the agoge system in communal barracks, where they were disci-
plined and trained for war. They could not leave active service until
they were 30, but they were encouraged to marry. Girls were brought
up together, educated in writing and practised athletics together
naked; close affinities existed between girls and women and some-
times developed into sexual relationships. Plutarch informs us that
Spartan women often had special relationships, unlike others in
Greece, in which older and younger women had erotic feelings for
each other.3 Since men were often at war, women were left to their
own devices, and it seems natural they should turn to each other
for companionship and sex.
Under the Roman Empire, some prostitutes were alleged to have
inclinations for other women. In his Dialogues of the Courtesans,
written in the late second century ad, the satirist Lucian wrote about
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Bronze figure of a running girl, c. 520–500 bc, found at Prizren, Serbia, and
possibly made in or near Sparta, Greece.
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not have a penis but something far more pleasant – she had a penis
substitute. According to Leaina, Megilla looked like a male athlete,
with her head shaven under her wig, and asked to be called under
the male name Megillus. Although Megilla believed herself to be a
man in the body of a woman, she had no trouble satisfying her lovers
sexually. If Lucian’s attitude was common among Romans, it would
seem that they showed little concern about lesbianism, merely curi-
osity. They saw their society and sex as essentially phallic and had
difficulty construing life in any other way.4 By the medieval period,
this laissez-faire attitude would change to some extent. Although
most women’s close relationships would be ignored and the subject
of sex left unmentioned, when cases did come to light, the women
involved were heavily condemned by the authorities.
together, and two years if such sins took place when either woman
was menstruating.6
Although lesbianism was not criminalized under civil law, Church
authorities treated some sexual acts between women as sodomy.
These were acts which involved penetration, with dildo-like devices
or homemade strap-on penis substitutes. Hincmar, Archbishop of
Reims (d. 882), warned about women who used such ‘instruments
of diabolical operations’ to excite desire. Burchard, Bishop of Worms,
recommended three years’ penance for women who had used artifi-
cial penises.7 How far these crimes and punishments filtered down
into lay people’s awareness is hard to detect, but the public would
have been aware of certain behaviour when scandals emerged. One
such scandal in Speyer, Germany in 1477 involved Katherina Hertzel-
dorfer, who was arrested after various women reported that she
had had sex with them ‘like a man’. Hertzeldorfer admitted that she
‘made an instrument with a red piece of leather, at the front filled
with cotton, and a wooden stick stuck into it, and made a hole
through the wooden stick, put a string through, and tied it round’.8
She informed the prosecution that she had first penetrated her
lover with one finger, then with two, then after trying a third, she
entered them with the dildo strapped to her. In such cases where a
penis substitute had been used for penetration, the Church author-
ities took a harsh line – they applied capital punishment, just as
they did to men who were found guilty of sodomy. Hertzeldorfer was
sentenced to be drowned. When similar crimes took place in Treviso,
Italy, female sodomites were stripped naked, then staked out for a day
and a night. Criminal prosecutions, however, were still rare and when
Church authorities did come across sexual incidents between women,
they often preferred to deal with the case themselves within the
confines of the Church. This was the situation in the case of two
lesbian nuns, Benedetta Carlini and Bartolomea Crivelli; their affair
was uncovered in 1619 but after a lengthy investigation by the all-male
church authorities, the nuns were simply separated and sent to live
in different convents.9
By the time the authorities of Basel had uncovered the activities
of Elisabeth Hertner in 1647, the witchcraft craze had hit Europe and
accusations of sodomy were associated with sorcery. Indeed, witches
were accused of all sorts of debauchery as well as making pacts with
the devil. Part of the pre-trial method of inquiry was to torture the
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Etching showing dildo making, from Nicolas Chorier, L’Académie des dames
(1680).
A nun masturbates a young woman, from Chorier, L’Académie des dames (1680).
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Hans Baldung
Grien, The Three
Witches, 1514.
pointed out, ‘At the bottom of the woman’s belly is a little bank called
a mountain of pleasure near the well-spring . . .’.15 The bigger the
clitoris, it was thought, the lewder the woman, and the more inclined
to tribadism. Sharpe knew of some women in which ‘sometimes it
grows so long that it stands forth at the slit like a Yard [penis], and will
swell and stand stiff if it be provoked, and some lewd women have
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From James Parsons, A Mechanical and Critical Enquiry into the Nature of
Hermaphrodites (1741).
Enlightened Tribades
Female friendships existed between intelligent women, but were
sometimes more intimate than at first glance. During the early eight-
eenth century in the court of Queen Anne, gossip flourished about
the intimate relationship the queen had formed with some of her
ladies-in-waiting. She was accused of running a court full of tribades,
headed by her long-standing lady-in-waiting Sarah Churchill, the
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Joshua Horner,
Anne Lister
(1791–1840).
hours. Finally, unable to contain herself, she shouted out, ‘you foul
whores, we can see you . . . didn’t you foul long enough?’ and went
off to raise a hue and cry. Such a crowd developed that a constable
had to rescue Schreuder, who was found cowering naked under her
bed, along with four other women who were also in the house. At the
trial, the neighbours gave evidence that they had seen the women
‘lain with their lower bodies nude and had kissed and caressed
one another, like a man is used to do to a women’. They had also con-
ducted oral sex – one ‘had licked the womanliness of the other with
her tongue’.24 Although Schreuder and Smit had been involved in
prostitution, sex with women was their preferred enjoyment. In other
Charlotte Mew
(1869–1927).
wracked her family so badly that two of her siblings had to be placed
in asylums. As a result, Charlotte and her sister vowed they would
never marry or have children to prevent passing on the insanity.
Worse was to come when her sister Anne died, and Mew became
severely depressed. Unable to overcome her grief, she eventually com-
mitted suicide by drinking a bottle of Lysol, a household disinfectant.
The antagonisms and threats New Women had to face were in
addition to their problems of trying to eke out a living on the small
incomes they could make. Their vilification was common; a typical
example was a Punch cartoon in which a journalist described the
New Women as Amazonians destroying marriages and families. In
reality, many New Women were simply moving towards a fuller
understanding of heterosexual relations and personal freedom,
although obviously lesbians were attracted to the movement as much
as any other woman.
Meanwhile, in nineteenth-century America, lesbianism was
taking a different form and African American women were finding
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Aubrey Beardsley, Lysistrata Haranguing the Athenian Women, 1896.
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Romaine Brooks
photographed in
1908.
wives and sisters back into the domestic space of home and children.
As one women’s magazine, Women’s Life, put it in their January issue
for 1920, ‘Miss Fluffy femininity carried off all the prizes’.37 However,
generally among working-class culture, there was an easier accept-
ance of lesbian couples. British newspaper reports in the News of
the World and the People exposed various wedding stories of two
women marrying, one taking the role as the groom, the other the
bride. The couples seem to have been accepted by their families and
gained respect as tricksters, with practising lesbians seen to be ‘getting
away with it’.38
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Marlene Dietrich,
famous for her
androgyny, c. 1930.
the main character of Stephen cut ‘a ridiculous figure’. She had been
sexually assaulted by a man when she was nine years old, but her
humiliations continued in her adult life when people in the streets
who saw her as ‘different’, spat and snarled at her and called her names.
‘Feelings go hang. But it’s a terrible physical strain to be struggling
against the whole world every waking minute.’ Hardly surprisingly,
she developed various psychosomatic illnesses, such as tensions,
depression, inability to concentrate and feelings of hopelessness.
Small wonder, too, that so many people suffered mental breakdowns
when they were under the care of medics who had little understand-
ing of the true nature of lesbianism. As late as the 1960s, men with
psychology degrees and editors of health magazines were still mak-
ing such comments as ‘Countless Lesbians end their days in lunatic
asylums, as the practice of their perversions gets too much for them
to bear.’45 However, while some lesbians felt isolated during the
twentieth century, others began to find their own ways to support each
other and express their feelings.
Sexual Sororities
Certain institutions were thought to harbour ‘unnatural’ vices among
women – girls’ boarding schools, medieval nunneries, women’s pris-
ons and female branches of the armed services were all seen as places
where female sexual desire ran rampant. Krafft-Ebing believed that
although lesbianism was not as common as male homosexuality, it
similarly flourished in penal institutions, which he referred to as
‘hotbeds of lesbian love’. Lesbian inmates recognized each other
through their dress and exchanged glances. Jealousies and passions
often broke out as a result of these ‘forbidden friendships’ and some
female inmates would think nothing of beating up a woman who
so much as looked at her lover. In her examination of reform schools
published in the Journal of American Psychology in 1913, Margaret
Otis brought racial interactions into the equation and lent a broader
understanding of lesbian relationships. Her essay ‘A Perversion Not
Commonly Noted’ was based on her observations of relationships
between women in reformatories and it was radical in its sympathy
for lesbian relationships: ‘sometimes the love [of one young woman
for another] is very real and seems almost ennobling’.46 The process
of interaction occurred when one of the white girls received a note
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s&M lesbians, postcard, c. 1920s.
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and a lock of hair from a coloured girl (for so she called her) on arrival
at the reformatory. If the white girl was interested, she would make
the appropriate responses and an affair would begin. Mostly these
girls were working-class, and rarely would they interact with coloured
girls once they were no longer incarcerated. However, she noted that
these girls found it difficult to reveal themselves as lesbians in the
outside world.
The public belief in the flourishing of same-sex inclinations in
all-female institutions was reinforced when exposés of lesbian affairs
hit the news. Bernard Hollander, who had studied under Krafft-
Ebing, revealed in 1922: ‘I have known a fashionable girls’ school in
London to be closed in consequence of the discovery and criminal
habits of the head-mistress who for years had seduced one girl after
another.’ In her autobiography, one history graduate, Ester Hodge,
explained her affair with other women in her school in the 1920s. Her
junior Latin mistress chased after her, ‘I soon responded ardently, going
frequently to her flat’. Her mother suspected the relationship and tried
to break it up.47
Both world wars gave women a new dimension to freedom allow-
ing them to travel away from home, often for the first time. Far from
the prying eyes of family and neighbours, they were provided with
a chance to indulge in sexual relationships – both hetero- and homo-
sexual. The auxiliary services provided women with the opportunity
to meet other women. Jean Mormont recalled meeting up with les-
bians in her wartime work in the auxiliary service during the 1940s:
‘I never knew what a lesbian was, and I met some girls in there and
it used to puzzle me . . . they used to lay on the bed there cuddling
one another . . .’ . Other women were more savvy and grabbed the
opportunity to be together as often as possible. Two nurses in Hastings
Hospital, Monica Still and Marya McLean, made secret trips to each
other’s rooms; they had to creep about in dark cold corridors to
avoid the matron. They made vows to each other in church by way of
commitment to each other, but they eventually split up after a friend
of Marya told her to choose between them. Several decades later, Marya
spotted Monica, by then a well-known dog breeder, on television
in an advert for Pedigree Chum. The couple met up again and lived
together until Marya’s death.48
Meanwhile, the u.s. Women’s Army Corps caused a stir when a
handful of women were brought up on charges and placed under
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barracks arrest. The Washington Post for 29 July 1955 reported that
around 100 female members of the wac were under investigation
for moral misconduct. One of them had attempted suicide after a
series of solicitations by fellow wacs and had left a note indicating
what had happened.
Despite continued bad press, lesbians were creating their own
strategies for dealing with their lives. Magazines came out in their
support, such as the Ladder, published 1956–72, a u.s. magazine
designed to help the ‘variant’. By the twenty-first century, lesbianism
was no longer vilified in the press, but used as a form of titillation. It
was also seen as a form of free publicity for music industry celebrities
and film stars. When Madonna and Britney Spears French-kissed at
the MTv Video Awards in 2003, faux lipstick lesbianism made front-
page news. Public attitudes had evidently changed enough for them
to think that a display of female eroticism might enhance their careers.
Other celebrities followed suit. Sandra Bullock and Scarlett Johansson
similarly made headlines when they French-kissed at the MTv Movie
Awards in 2010. It was a tiny bit edgy, rebellious, and just the way to
frighten parents of adolescent daughters by setting a trend among
teenage girls.
This type of pretend lesbianism for the sake of fashion irritated
some of the stalwarts. Beth Ditto, lead singer of the band The Gossip,
attacked popstar Katy Perry for ‘playing gay’ in order to turn men
on, declaring her lyrics ‘I Kissed a Girl’ to be ‘offensive to gay culture’.
Others were more frank about their real relationships; comedienne
and actress Ellen DeGeneres came out in 1997 on the Oprah Winfrey
Show, and stars such as Lindsay Lohan helped change attitudes
towards lesbianism. Even so, uptight conservatives continue to hold
on to their homophobic views; in 2012, heterosexual mothers attacked
family mall jc Penney when it hired DeGeneres to head an advertis-
ing campaign. Despite the vitriol, the firm held to its decision and
the mothers had to drop their protest. DeGeneres declared, ‘haters
are my motivators’.49
Certainly there has been a shift in attitudes over the centuries,
as seen from the differences in the acceptance of Sappho in ancient
Greece and the antagonism towards the author Radclyffe Hall in
the twentieth century. While in the past lesbians may have been seen
as perverted, there seems to have been only minor interest in them.
As women have gained a more equal stake in political and economic
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life, they have become more visible – hence so have lesbians. The
focus on them has become sharper from the twentieth century
onwards, as women have become more prominent in the public
sphere and any sexual difference is more obvious (and possibly, to
some, more threatening).
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Hercules dressed in a pink gown, serving Omphale. Bartholomeus Spranger,
Hercules and Omphale, 1585.
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From Transvestites to
Transsexuals
For the simple man in the street, there are only two sexes. A person is either
male or female, Adam or Eve . . . The more sophisticated realize that every
Adam contains elements of Eve and every Eve harbors traces of Adam,
physically as well as psychologically.
Dr Harry Benjamin, The Transsexual Phenomenon (1966)
Cross-dressers in Religion
Some cross-dressers created a greater stir because they had cross-
dressed for the purposes of entering religious orders, as in two cases
that emerged during the medieval period. In his account of the
rebellion at the monastery of Poitiers in ad 590, Gregory of Tours
recorded that a man had entered a convent and lived there unde-
tected for some years, dressed as a nun. The truth was only revealed
when a fellow nun by the name of Clotild accused her abbess of
sharing a bed with him. A meeting was hastily called, attended by
the nuns and a handful of senior male clergy. Gregory reported:
During the meeting, the man in question told the onlookers, who
included six startled bishops and various interested strangers, that
he was impotent. It was thought that he had forsaken the outside
world, put on the habit of a nun and taken refuge in the nunnery.
The passionate revolt of the nuns at Poitiers began some years
after the death of the founder of the convent, St Radegund. Although
she had chosen Agnes as her successor, when Agnes died in 589, a
rebellion broke out when a women named Leubovera was chosen to
succeed her to the title of abbess. This appointment was particu-
lar irksome to Clotild, who believed that she herself should have
been elected, since she was the daughter of King Charibert i. Relying
on her close connection to royalty, she persuaded 40 of her fellow
nuns to take an oath that they would help her to remove the hated
Leubovera as abbess and appoint herself to the position in her stead.
Despite Clotild’s assertions that the abbess Leubovera had kept a
castrated man as a eunuch for her own sexual pleasures, the man was
found innocent of all charges. His physician came forward in his
defence, explaining how the circumstances had arisen.
saw through her disguise, with the result that she was seduced,
coerced or raped by him. Her downfall came when she suddenly went
into labour while out on a religious procession. Having witnessed their
pope give birth, shocked and outraged, the crowd stoned her to
death – or then again, she may have died of natural causes. Such
were the mutations of the story.
Pope Joan allegedly reigned in the ninth century, although there
is no mention of her in the Vatican lists of popes; nor are there any
unaccountable gaps into which Joan might fit. The story was so
popular that other writers added to it; her tale was used by Protestants
as a means of challenging the validity of the Papacy. As late as 1675,
a book appeared in English entitled A Present for a Papist; or, The
Life and Death of Pope Joan, Plainly Proving Out of the Printed
Copies, and Manuscripts of Popish Writers and Others, That a Woman
called joan, Was Really pope of rome, and Was There Deliver’d of a
Bastard Son in the Open Street as She Went in Solemn Procession. But
writers such as the sixteenth-century magistrate Florimond de
Raemond also reclaimed Joan as defender of the faith in the Catholic
Counter-Reformation.9 It has popularly been argued that the ques-
tion of her sexual identity would have been uncovered when she
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was made Pope after the use of the sede stercoraria, the throne with
a hole in the seat, was introduced; according to rumour, this facili-
tated the inspection of the testicles of the elected Pope in order to
establish his manhood. It has also been argued that the chair was
introduced after the papacy of Joan, in order to prevent the likelihood
of a similar mistake being made again. Although this toilet-like chair
was used in the consecration of Pope Pascal ii in 1099, the idea that
it was used to check the sex of the Pope is probably a myth. It has alter-
natively been suggested that the chair was either a birthing stool
for the aristocracy or used to check for castration. In any case, most
historians agree that the story of Pope Joan is fictional.
These tales reveal remarkably different reasons as to why men
and women might disguise themselves as a person of the cloth and
enter a religious house. In the first case, it would seem that the man
either dressed as a nun as a means of coping with ostracization in the
outside world, or to enable himself to live with the abbess as her
lover undetected. An impotent man (if he spoke the truth) was no
good to a godly wife who needed to produce children. However, he
might have been a welcome distraction for an encloistered abbess.
In the story, Pope Joan’s determination to strive for recognition in a
man’s world drove her to attain her position. It was the fear of such
female fortitude and usurpation that kept the tale leaping along
with such vigour. With such efforts, a woman might enter into any
area of a man’s world undetected.
Joan of Arc was another woman who cross-dressed because of
her religious conviction – this time to do battle as a soldier, although
unlike Pope Joan, she never denied her true sexual identity. None-
theless, her cross-dressing would result in her death. She first came
to the attention of the authorities as a thirteen-year-old girl, after
she had informed them that she had heard voices calling her to
battle. Until then she had lived the life of a normal young peasant
girl with her parents in Domrémy. Initially she was considered
with suspicion, but her mind was set on a higher authority than
the local priest. She followed the instructions of her voices and in
May 1428, travelled to Chinon to meet with Charles vii. Joan revealed
to him the story of the voices instructing her to lead the king’s army
in battle. After listening to Joan and considering her story with
some incredulity, he agreed to support her and gave her an army
to lead.
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The religious laws she had transgressed were clearly spelled out –
she had broken the laws of God in dressing as a man and had broken
the hierarchical laws of nature that allotted her an inferior place.
Furthermore, she had acted immodestly and avariciously: her male
dress was deemed short and tight, with ‘garments open on both
sides’ (yet this was presumably seen as suitable clothing for men),
and she was profligate in her wearing of ornaments, decorations
and furs. She was burned at the stake as a witch and a heretic in 1431.
Both Joans serve as examples of how women used the dress of man
to further their own agendas. However, other employment oppor-
tunities in which men and women could cross-dress were considered
less threatening to the authorities.
The fact that adolescent boys played the female roles in Eliza-
bethan plays further confused the illusion on stage, with audiences
complicit in the knowledge that they were watching boys acting as
women dressed as men. The situation changed after the Restoration
in 1660, when women were allowed on stage. Actresses began to
incorporate the strategy of cross-dressing in their repertoire, with
women such as Peg Woffington made famous for their ‘breeches’
roles. These roles provided the opportunity for actresses to cast off
their own long dresses and don men’s tights and a sculptured tunic
in order to show off their shapely figures to appreciative audiences.
Women also cross-dressed in order to join the army or the navy.
Although not encouraged to do so (and a woman could be dismissed
from the forces if discovered), this was not condemned to the same
extent as more sexually overt types of transvestism. An example of
the cordial fellow feeling operating towards such women can be
seen in a report given in a Norwich newspaper. Upon arriving in
town at the beginning of May 1741, one young girl brought herself a
frock coat, shoes, stockings and breeches and entered herself at the
barracks as a drummer boy in Colonel Bland’s regiment. Giving her
name as George, she served in the army until she was exposed by an
old acquaintance. As a result, she was dismissed from her position,
but her fellow officers had grown so fond of her that they advanced
her some money ‘for her honest and good’. 11 Other eighteenth-
century female soldiers, such as Hannah Snell, fought alongside
male comrades. Some, such as Anne Bonny and Mary Read, became
‘seamen’ in order to explore the world. Bonny and Read were accept-
ed by their shipmates as men, sharing the same work and the same
pay, and even did a stint as pirates. Such women who had disguised
themselves for purposes of work and adventure were feted in jolly
pamphlets about their exploits dodging musket fire or aboard rolling
ships on the high seas.12 However, when a lover of the same sex was
involved, the cross-dressing was more problematic.
One celebrated case that was treated severely came to light in the
seventeenth century after a physician examined a soldier in the army
of Prince Frederic Henry of Nassau. Discovering that she had a
‘clitoris the size of a child’s penis and thickness of half a little finger
and with that had carnal conversation with several women’, she was
reprimanded and her case investigated. The woman in question was
Hendrikje Verschuur, who had fought in the battle of Breda in 1637.
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Female cross-
dressers in
Shakespeare: an
engraving of
Rosalind in As
You Like It, 1870s.
She was in love with another woman, Trijntje Barends, and ‘they
had been so besotted with one another that they would have liked
to marry if it had been possible’.13 Verschuur was whipped and exiled
for 25 years.
Strikingly, from extant cases it appears that although women
dressed as men in order to live with another woman, men rarely took
on a female persona in order to live with another man (although
they may have sometimes dressed up as women in private while
having a sexual relationship with another man). On the other hand,
some part-time male transvestites were married to members of the
opposite sex and considered themselves heterosexual or ‘straight’.
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now obvious to anyone who saw him that he was a cross-dresser; this
punishment aimed at singling him out, humiliating him and making
him publicly ‘different’.15
Enforced cross-dressing was used as a method of displaying the
displeasure of the community with those who transgressed sexual
boundaries – and not necessarily always those to do with gender.
Sometimes an individual may simply have committed fornication,
or some other sexual infraction. Around the seventeenth and eight-
eenth centuries, if a man had allowed himself to become cuckolded
or was the victim of a shrewish wife, he would be dressed in women’s
clothes and paraded on an ass in a ‘skimmington ride’, which was
intended to embarrass him into stepping up to address the issue. In
1790, one weaver who had allowed his wife to dominate him became
the subject of such an exhibition. Other men from the village, fear-
ing that their own wives might similarly rebel, gathered together
to take action. They
publicly embarrass the victim. The targets were often men who
married much younger women, or had been adulterous. Women,
too, might be subject to such humiliation, particularly if they were
husband-beaters or regarded as being too masterful.
Male cross-dressing also occurred during times of political resist-
ance. During the Rebecca Riots of 1839–43 in Wales, enraged farmers
and agricultural workers joined forces to oppose the setting up of turn-
pikes. The Turnpike Trust collected road taxes supposedly as a means
to maintain the highways, but the money was often diverted to other
uses. The rioters were adamantly against the charges, seeing them
as an additional financial burden on the poor. While blockading the
toll gates, the men donned women’s clothes as a signal to outsiders
that they wanted to avoid violence in their protest. It is thought
that they took the name Merched Beca, Daughters of Rebecca, from
the Bible, most likely after a passage where Rebecca talks of the
need to ‘possess the gates of those who hate them’ (Genesis 24:60).
When an exchange was about to take place, the leader would call to
his followers, shouting for Rebecca and ‘her daughters’ to come
forth. Rumour was that the clothes worn by the men were borrowed
from an old woman in the village who was the only woman big
enough to have clothes they could fit into. Although the Rebeccas
Dan Leno
dressed for his
‘You know Mrs
Kelly? . . .’ act.
targeted the toll gates, this was part of a broader attack against
impositions on the poor, which included the despised system of
the Poor Law. This kind of cross-dressing was acceptable in the
community since it muted potentially violent clashes.
During the nineteenth century, male and female impersonating
became a popular form of entertainment in Victorian musical halls.
The term ‘drag’ was in common usage in the nineteenth century, to
mean men dressing in women’s clothes. Eric Partridge, in his Diction-
ary of Slang and Unconventional English, believes the term is related
to criminal slang of around 1850, ‘to go on the drag’ or ‘to flash the
drag’, which meant to wear women’s clothes for immoral purposes.
In other words, its slang meaning of men wearing women’s clothes
pre-dates its usage as theatrical slang by some twenty years, and
perhaps has its root in a common practice of male prostitutes.17 In
drag shows, comedians often took on the persona of a female gossip,
such as in Dan Leno’s monologue ‘You know Mrs Kelly? . . .’. Although
female drag artists were less common, Matilda Alice Powles made
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her name as Vesta Tilley, acting out various male characters. In 1870,
at the age of six, she was on the stage dressed as Pocket Sims Reeves,
a parody of a famous opera singer. A great success in the music halls,
she reached the height of her popularity in her fifties when she ran
a recruitment drive during the First World War dressed as ‘Tommy
in the Trench’ and ‘Jack Tar Home from Sea’. Actors also made their
mark in pantomimes, where they wore women’s clothes for comedic
effect as pantomime dames. This survives right up until the present
day in roles such as Widow Twanky in Aladdin.
Outside the theatre, wearing drag was still a dangerous occupa-
tion during the early decades of the twentieth century, so men took
to various underground clubs where they could dress up at drag
balls. At one club in Holland Park Avenue in 1932, police consta-
bles dressed up in drag in an attempt to infiltrate and arrest
Vesta Tilley
as a foppish
young man.
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homosexuals. Numerous arrests were made and the men were hauled
up in court in drag and full make-up with numbered placards round
their necks.18 However, by the Second World War, camping it up
became a way to lift the morale of men in the armed forces. The
Entertainments National Service Association (ensa, popularly
known as ‘Every Night Something Awful’) was founded in 1939 to
entertain the troops. In order to avoid having homosexuals in a
mainstream fighting unit, anyone who was considered ‘queer’ was
seconded into the entertainment section – although plenty of non-
drag actresses and actors also worked at entertaining them, including
Joyce Grenfell, George Formby and Paul Scofield.
By the 1960s and ’70s, professional female impersonators became
popular in theatre, radio, television and film as British audiences
took camp men to their hearts. Kenneth Williams and Charles Hawtrey
in the bbc radio programme Round the Horne and in the Carry On
films had huge family audiences. Drag became increasingly outland-
ish, with men dressing in female accoutrements with massive false
breasts, fluffy, long-haired bouffant wigs, huge false eyelashes, full-
length Lurex gowns and six-inch golden-heeled sandals. Danny La
Rue, one of the first well-known drag artists to make drag main-
stream in Britain, was a regular performer at the London Palladium
throughout the 1960s. Popular and respectable enough to be invit-
ed to perform in front of the Queen, he was even awarded an obe.
In 1982, he was the first man to take over the role of Dolly Levi in
the musical Hello Dolly! Noël Coward called him ‘The most profes-
sional, the most witty . . . and the most utterly charming man in
the business.’
By the 1980s, places that had been marginalized and underground
in the 1970s, such as the Union Pub on Canal Street in Manchester
and the Royal Vauxhall Tavern in London, were being attended by
straights as well as gays.19 A new wave of drag artists topped the bills
at local clubs and pubs. Usually the entertainment consisted of drag
queens miming to gay anthems such as Gloria Gaynor’s ‘I Will Survive’
or ‘I Am What I Am’ from La Cage aux Folles, the musical by Harvey
Fierstein. Based on a French play of 1973 by Jean Poiret, a produc-
tion of this show won numerous awards in 1983, bringing camp to
Broadway. In the 1980s, drag artists such as Paul O’Grady and Julian
Clary both toured clubs and pubs before they obtained television fame;
O’Grady played his alter ego Lily Savage for eight years at the Royal
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Vauxhall Tavern, and Clary toured the clubs with his stage show
The Joan Collins Fan Club, together with his pet Fanny the Wonder
Dog, before he found fame camping it up on television. In the 1990s
the comedian Eddie Izzard started doing stand-up routines wearing
a skirt, calling himself ‘a straight transvestite or a male lesbian’.20
Yet although entertainment made cross-dressing more acceptable,
at the beginning of the twentieth century it had been categorized as
a medical problem.
Transvestite, c. 1896.
helped her son by engaging a dressmaker for him and arranged clothes
swaps between him and his female cousin. His mother wrote to
him, ‘Gretchen is very happy about getting one of your silk dresses
. . . and wants to know if you have any use for some crocheted lace
and a night jacket.’22 Others were not so lucky and experienced
rejection by friends and family.
Most of the patients denied that cross-dressing caused sexual
excitement or titillation in any way. One male cross-dresser said,
‘Putting on women’s underclothing in no way calls up sexual stimu-
lation but rather gratifies me insofar as the feeling in my soul is given
external expression.’ When dressed in female attire, he acquired a
feeling of peace and clarity of mind. However, this was not the case
with all of Hirschfeld’s patients. One patient admitted he became
‘terribly excited’. At least five patients in his study had had homo-
sexual fantasies or had experimented with sex with men. ‘Mr F’ told
how at the age of 21 he had succumbed to anal intercourse with an
Arab while on holiday. However, most denied homosexual feeling;
one even asserted ‘There is no sign of any homosexuality present. I
deeply despise Urnings and effeminate men.’23
The one woman included in Hirschfeld’s study expressed how
she felt ‘light, well and able to work’ when she donned a man’s cap,
tie, underwear and boots, while women’s clothing cramped her style
and made her feel ‘unfree’. Dressing as a man provided her with
more opportunities to work with better pay. By the time she was 30,
she had already worked as a locksmith, a miner, a butler, a barber,
a house painter and in other ‘male’ jobs. She had even worked on
a whaling ship in Arendel where ‘everything would have been great
if the lice had not tormented us so’.24 Disguised as a man, she had
managed to travel all over the world. Now married with children, she
regretted giving up her previous independence and admitted she
felt fettered. Sexually she appeared to be bisexual, but Hirschfeld
thought her sex urge less strong than her urge to dress as a man.
From Hirschfeld’s investigations, as well as other sexologists’ stud-
ies, it would seem that female transvestism was less well understood
or investigated than male transvestism. This was probably because
it was less obvious, and women were more cautious about exposing
themselves. From the sexologists’ point of view, transvestites were
most generally seen either as sexually perverted in their psychology,
or somehow corrupted in their physiology.
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Transsexuality
Although incomplete sex reassignment surgery had begun in the
1920s, it was rare in the first few decades of the twentieth century.
People of both sexes struggled to come to terms with the fact that
they felt as if they had been born in a body of the wrong gender.
One male transvestite interviewed by Magnus Hirschfeld appears
to have wanted a sex change, but there was as yet no such opportu-
nity. He referred to a ‘sexual metamorphosis’ and said, ‘I wish my penis
would have changed into a vagina.’26 The interviewee was an articu-
late physician who could appreciate his symptoms only too well; ‘I
feel as if I have been robbed of my own skin and am put into a woman’s
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skin.’ His feeling of being a woman from head to toe persisted and
he felt as though he possessed female genitalia – ‘the penis feels as
though it was a clitoris’.27
Other individuals had similar problems and suffered as a result
of negative comments made by passers-by in the streets. One young
woman born in 1885, Miss Katharina T., appears to have been a pos-
sible case for transsexual surgery before the operation was available,
but managed to realign her identity through cross-dressing. After
the death of her mother, she had been brought up by her aunt and,
from the age of six onwards, indulged in mutual masturbation with
other girls. She showed no interest in boys in adolescence and by the
time she was 22 she noticed her voice becoming deeper. Soon she was
teased about her appearance. When she went out in women’s cloth-
ing, people thought she was a male transvestite and made unpleasant
comments. On cutting her hair and taking up wearing a man’s clothes,
the public humiliation stopped and she felt ‘completely a man’. Others,
however, wanted a complete physical sex change.
In an effort to help such individuals, Hirschfeld went on to devel-
op his ideas on transsexuality, and collaborated with Dr Harry Benjamin
(1885–1986), a pioneer working in endocrinology. The two men had
first met in Berlin before Benjamin moved to New York in 1915 to set
up practice. Benjamin was one of the first doctors brave enough to
shift the topic of transsexuality to firmer ground and began seeing
patients with sexual dysmorphia. In the preface to The Transsexual
Phenomenon (1966), he described himself as ‘neither surgeon nor
psychiatrist’ but rather as a student of sexological problems, and also
as a ‘long-time practitioner in sexology’. He began treating patients
with oestrogen, and Alfred Kinsey and other doctors started to refer
their patients to him. Patients read about his work and asked their
own doctors to refer them to him. In 1968, Benjamin placed an advert
in Esquire magazine and was inundated with letters from transves-
tites and transsexuals asking for help. Realizing the need for it, he
founded the Benjamin Gender Identity Foundation in 1972 to help
people with sex and gender conflicts. This was one of the first insti-
tutes of its kind to examine the possibilities of psychologically and
surgically assisting those in identity crisis.
Many of the authors of the letters written to Dr Benjamin in
1968 and 1969 related their life stories of how their transsexuality and
transvestism had left them with severe mental health problems.
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Beset by guilt and the feeling of being abnormal, people were driven
into states of desperation and chronic depression. One man from
Iowa admitted, ‘I cannot stand having two people in the same body
much longer.’28 Another desperate man from Virginia confessed,
‘I am physically male but need to be cured of that desperately. I feel
I am slipping over the edge of something, and I am not sure I can
handle the future as a man.’ In general practice, doctors were still
unaware of how to best help a patient in this situation. The author of
the letter added: ‘My doctor is willing to prescribe hormones for
me, but he is not sufficiently familiar with this type of problem to do
so without further information.’29
Physiological differences caused just as many problems for the
sufferer as psychological ones. One example can be seen in the case
of one 56-year-old male who wrote to Benjamin informing him
that he had developed breasts at an early age and had period-like
symptoms. He wrote: ‘I have a tube protruding from the rectum from
which the bleeding would come from each month.’ After tests at
Miami Research, doctors pronounced that the tube was in fact a
vagina, and declared that his testicles were ‘completely dead’. At
first the doctors thought him to be ‘dual sex’, then pronounced him
a female. He was in pain from the small of his back to his head. He
was prescribed oestrogen, which eased his pain a little, but was
suffering from severe depression. Doctors later classified him as a
pseudo-hermaphrodite, but essentially he remained a mystery to
them and they wrote him off. He turned to Benjamin as a last resort
and Benjamin agreed to see him.30
Some patients had already started the transformation of gender
reassignments to become female. One man told Benjamin that
he had already had his Adam’s apple reduced and then had breast
implants. Oestrogen treatment had assisted his progress, but he
now wanted details of the best surgeon to complete the process.
Although the procedure of surgical reassignment was available, the
cost to many was prohibitive. One 27-year-old explained that Dr
Barbosa of Tijuana was prepared to operate but wanted $4,000 –
he himself earned only the equivalent of about $5 a month.31
Women also wrote in requesting reassignment. One eighteen-
year-old Canadian, ‘JA’, had been tested and declared to be 100 per
cent female but had always felt she was male. She offered to come
in for any sort of experimental surgery Benjamin could offer. ‘I would
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rather die in the operation than live like a half a person the rest of
my life.’32 As with many others in her position, Benjamin was her
only lifeline. Benjamin always wrote back sympathetically offering
sound advice, usually with a referral to someone who could treat
them. After receiving his reply, ‘JA’ replied, ‘You don’t know how
much it means to me to find understanding from a doctor.’33 She
started therapy at the Clark Institute in Toronto, the first female
transsexual they had seen.
A man of great quality, Benjamin attracted the respect of his
patients with his caring attitude. Many of them kept in touch with
him for the rest of their lives. They often wrote later about how he
was one of the first non-judgemental people they had come across.
At this stage, few doctors knew how to treat their transgender
patients and ignorance still pervaded most of the medical frater-
nity. Although Benjamin’s priority was assisting patients, he was
making conscious efforts to ensure doctors were becoming more
educated in gender identity issues. He advised ‘JA’ to get her doc-
tors to read Transsexuals and Sex Reassignment (1969) by Richard
Green and John Money, two other doctors working in this area. One
understanding wife even wrote in for her husband, who wanted reas-
signment. Through Benjamin, the husband found treatment and
by 1975 could report that he was ‘well on my way to the solution of
my lifelong problem’.34
The first widely known case of a patient who had complete sex
reassignment was Christine Jorgensen (1926–1989). Born George
William, brought up in the Bronx, he was a frail little boy and afraid
of fights, but nonetheless as an adult did a stint in the army. After
taking female hormones, he saved enough to go to Sweden, where
such surgery was more advanced. While on a stopover in Denmark,
he was lucky enough to meet up with Dr Christian Hamburger, an
endocrinologist who specialized in hormonal therapy and who
agreed to help him. Jorgensen first had his testicles cut off, then had
his penis removed the following year. By this time he had heard about
Dr Benjamin’s pioneering work, so travelled to New York to have
vaginoplasty – a constructed vagina. The success of Jorgensen’s sex
change was to some extent a result of the additional hormone ther-
apy that had become accessible.
Jorgensen’s sex change hit the news in 1952 when the New York
Daily News ran an article with the headline ‘Ex gi Becomes Blonde
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a “crime” in the case of the male but not in the case of a female – who
is allowed to ape masculinity to her heart’s content.’40 Under the
Municipal Code of Los Angeles section no. 52, ‘any person desiring
to wear any mask or personal disguise, whether complete or partial,
upon any public street, sidewalk or park, shall file a written applica-
tion with the Board’. The board then had to be satisfied that the
person was of good moral character. The fact that women could dress
in slacks with impunity while men could not wear skirts or dresses
maddened Ferguson, who took up the topic in various lectures.
Gender Bending
Kinsey’s survey of the 1940s and ’50s complicated the hitherto
straightforward historical dichotomy of the sexes between male
and female. He introduced his ‘Heterosexual–Homosexual Rating
Scale’ which ran from one to six, assessing ‘femaleness’ or ‘male-
ness’ within any one person. Some people were more ‘masculine’,
at one end of the spectrum; others were more ‘feminine’ at the other;
and there were many varieties in the middle. However, these bodily
and mental varieties were further extended with the introduction of
hormone therapy and sexual reassignment surgery. Those who felt
they had been ‘born in a body of the wrong sex’ could now have sex
reassignment surgery, a development that has progressed exponen-
tially since its introduction. Now transwomen (male to female) can
have newly constructed vaginas and transmen (female to male) can
have newly constructed penises. The process has developed to make
the change less painful and its appearance more realistic, and it is
offered on a much broader scale.
Out of 5,000 people who had gender reassignment surgery in
Britain by 2004, only 450 were women becoming men.41 The country
where the most operations took place was Thailand, followed by
Iran, where gender reassignment surgery is accepted as a ‘treatment’
for homosexuality. Financial barriers preclude the poorest people
from the operation in some countries, such as America, although
other countries are changing their attitudes on this issue and allow
the operation on their national health service. In Britain, sex changes
on the nhs, which cost around £10,000, became a right in 1999 after
the Court of Appeal recognized that those who believed they were
born into the wrong body were suffering from a legitimate illness.42
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Woman with a dog: Franz von Bayros, ‘Tantalus’, from his Tales at the Dressing
Table, 1908.
six
therewith; neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down
thereto’, although few cases were ever brought before the ecclesi-
astical courts.
Today, in our secular times, can sex with animals be considered
out of bounds? Even outside the context of religion and sin, it is still
considered taboo. Is this because of outdated prudish concepts of
immorality that still linger, or a more deep-seated feeling of abhor-
rence towards such acts? Attention is now shifting from the idea of
human–animal sex as a problem towards the abuse of the animals
themselves. The long history of sex between humans and animals
suggests a deep-rooted connection between them – encompassing
hunger (food), work, entertainment, pleasure and even love – and
this bond is sometimes complicated by the emotions they evoke in
us. In the time of ancient Greece, however, animals were closely
connected to life and reproduction, and tales of sexual connection
with them were part of everyday life.
Zoological Tales
In mythology and legend, people were often described as being
enamoured with animals: the god Zeus turned into a swan in order
to seduce Leda, and she produced four eggs which hatched as her
children, Castor, Pollux, Helen and Clytemnestra. This was one of
Zeus’s more delicate affairs. In another, he disguised himself as a
white bull in order to impregnate Europa. Most of these narratives
involve a symbolically hyper-potent male animal mating with a
human female: Philyra was raped by Kronos manifest as a horse, and
bore the centaur Chiron; Poseidon, as a horse, mated with Demeter
in Arcadia, and she bore him the horse Arion. The satyr Pan attacked
the shepherd Daphnis and had frontal intercourse with a nanny
goat. Occasionally, women were the instigators of bestiality: after
Poseidon had cast a spell on Pasiphaë, the wife of King Minos, she
fell in love with a snow-white bull. In order to enable sex to take
place, she requested a wooden hollow cow to be built that she
could place herself inside. She then positioned herself in such a
way that her vagina was presented to the amorous attack of the bull
without fear of any damage to her body. The fruit of this embrace
was the Minotaur, half-bull, half-man, which was later to be slain by
Theseus.2 The ancient Romans were treated to a gruesome show
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Pan copulating with a goat, ancient Roman marble statue found at Herculaneum,
now in the ‘Secret Room’ at the Naples Archaeological Museum.
Satyr presents gifts to Venus, engraving by Maarten de Vos the Elder, c. 1580s.
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his wife but said he did so because she was having an affair with the
apothecary. In this case, events behind the scene provide other
reasons for accusations of sodomy with animals. It may have been
a ruse of Le Fèvre’s wife, intended to get rid of a troublesome spouse.
While it easy to see how such cases might be fabricated, the author-
ities did not see likewise. La Rue was hanged in the square of
Montpensier and his body was burned along with that of the horse.10
Sometimes it was the animal itself that gave the game away, as
in the case of a sixteen-year-old girl, Claudine de Culam. She was
brought to trial at Rougnon in France in 1601 alongside her white
spotted dog. Despite her mother’s protestations of her daughter’s
innocence, the girl was ordered to strip naked. As the dog was brought
into the chamber, it jumped on her, ‘knowing her carnally’, and it was
obvious to all who were watching that it knew what to do. Both the
girl and the dog were strangled and then burned; their ashes were
thrown to the wind so that no trace would be left of them.11 Cases
of women having sex with dogs were also found in London. In 1677,
a married woman from Cripplegate thought to be aged between
30 and 40 was sentenced to death for her crime. According to the
summary of her case brought before the Old Bailey:
With not the fear of God before her eyes, nor regarding the
order of Nature, on the 23rd of June last, to the disgrace of all
womankind, did commit Buggery with a certain Mungril Dog,
and wickedly, divellishly, and against nature had venereal and
Carnal copulation with him.12
Through several holes in the wall between her house and next
door, her neighbours had been able to see her in acts of ‘uncleanli-
ness’. The dog was brought before the prisoner and ‘owned her by
wagging his tail, and making motions as it were to kiss her, which
’twas sworn she did do when she made that horrid use of him.’ She
was sentenced to death. No mention is made of what happened to
the dog.
Although now it may seem unusual for people to commit bestial
acts with their animals, it seems even worse that the perpetrator
should die for it. Yet in the past, the act was not seen as a simple sex-
ual transgression of society’s rules, but a complete abrogation of the
laws of God. It transcended normality and left a stain on society
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An Abominable Sin
There was a certain reluctance by judges to convict for bestiality,
perhaps because of the capital punishments for guilty perpetrators.
This may also explain the unwillingness of lay people to report such
crimes when they came across them, despite their aversion to the
behaviour. Generally, legal authorities preferred to keep quiet
about the subject. This became evident in the 1670s, when the
Scottish legal advocate George MacKenzie demanded that cases of
bestiality must be tried at night, and instructed that no written
records should be kept of the trials. If found guilty, the perpetrator
was quietly drowned at dawn in order to keep the crime hidden.
People were gradually moving to cities where acts of besti-
ality were more difficult to disguise. According to the London court
records at least, bestiality was confined to domestic households
with smaller animals, while cases in the countryside tended to involve
large animals. It was not necessarily the case that there were fewer
large animals kept in the city, as horses were seen everywhere, being
an essential means of transport. But a sexual act with a large animal
would be easy to spot by people living and working in close prox-
imity to each other, and therefore potential perpetrators were less
willing to take the risk. When men were exposed in the act of com-
mitting a bestial act, the witnesses could be male or female – at
least in the countryside – but when women were caught, it was most
often by their female neighbours, in towns and cities. This may have
been because, as seen in the cases mentioned above, men were more
likely to choose larger animals while women stuck to smaller, often
canine partners. As a result, men were more likely to be caught in barns
and sheds (as their targets were larger bovine or equine creatures kept
outside) and women caught in their own rooms with their pets.
One case involved a woman whose activities were observed
through chinks in a partition floor by her fellow tenant in a town-
house. Mary Price, alias Hartington, from the parish of ‘Eling’ (Ealing),
was brought before the Old Bailey in London on 26 April 1704 and
indicted for the ‘Horrible and abominable Sin of Sodomy’ com-
mitted with her dog. The nosy neighbour lived in a room upstairs
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from the accused, and it was reported that ‘she saw her sitting in a
Chair, by the Fire-side, looking backward, and took the Dog to her,
which she said, acted with her as to a Bitch.’13 The accused stated in
her defence that she did nothing of the sort and it was mere malice on
the part of the other tenant. Other neighbours gave evidence that
there had been quarrels between the two women and the accused
was acquitted.
It was mostly men who were caught in opportunistic incidents.
In Geneva in 1678 an eighteen-year-old farmhand named Jean-Marc
Tournier was brought to trial after being seen buggering a cow by a
neighbour. The authorities took the time and trouble to interview
countless residents of the village in Burgundy where the act had taken
place. They all thought it suspicious that he herded the cows alone
when it was usually a two-person job, but Jean-Marc gave the defence
that he liked to be alone ‘to think’. A wall of silence fell around the
villagers after the boy’s brothers threatened everyone in the village.
Those brought forward as witnesses to the act said that the boy in
the dock had the wrong colour of hair and hat. Although the court
felt Jean-Marc was guilty, the case collapsed from lack of evidence.14
Another fortunate fellow was a man from Shoreditch brought
before the Old Bailey on 17 June 1677. He had been seen ‘amongst the
Bricke-kilns [to] drive a white Mare to a small Heap of Bricks, which
he had laid together, and there use most unnatural and brutish
Endeavours several times, and after that to another Bay Mare’. He
confessed he lately came out of Kent to seek for work, and within
three or four days after his coming up was ‘apprehended in this
beastly Action’.15 He too was found not guilty.
In Britain, the crime of ‘buggery’ was generally applied to cases
of bestiality, as seen in the case in 1776 against Christopher Saunders,
a cook on a ship who ‘feloniously and wickedly against the order of
nature did carnally know the said beast called a cow, and with the
said beast called a cow did feloniously and wickedly and against
the order of nature commit and perpetrate the detestable and
abominable crime, not to be named among Christians, called
Buggery’. One of the witnesses, Abraham Denning, was working in
the cowshed on 10 March. In his evidence, he said:
I heard the cow move; I looked through to see what was the
matter, it was in another barn adjoining; it was a boarded
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barn and there were chinks; I saw the prisoner at the bar
stroking the cow and patting her; I never knew the prisoner
before; this was about six o’clock in the morning; it was light
and I could see him stroking and patting her; then he went
to the other end of the barn and fetched a tub to put behind
the cow, it stood up edgeways; then he got up on the top of
the side of the tub; I saw him unbutton his breeches and
his trowsers; I saw him make motions as if he had a mind to
do; I did not see any part of his body, but he made motions
towards the cow.16
According to the witness, Saunders was with the cow for about ten
minutes. Another witness, John Tumey, told the court:
I knew nothing of this affair till the last witness came and
called me; I went down; he said there was a man in the barn;
I asked him what he was doing, he said come along, do not
stand, and we went there immediately; the prisoner was
standing close to the cow hustling his breeches up, he did
not get them up till we got to the door; Denning laid hold of
his collar on one side and I on the other; the prisoner asked
me what we were doing.
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‘Youth with
the lower body
of a canine’,
from Ulisse
Aldrovandi,
Monstrorum
historia (1642).
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William Hogarth, Cunicularii; or, The Wise Men of Godliman in Consultation, 1726:
Mary Toft gives birth to numerous rabbits.
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descended from the ape, with an unknown ‘missing link’ between men
and animals. These ‘links’ were leapt on as evidence of the possibility
of man-beasts or hybrids, so when travellers found astonishing
children in the wild they were taken as examples of this missing link
in the stage of evolution. Journeying through the kingdom of Oude
in the 1840s, William Henry Sleeman, an officer of the East India
Company, described the wolf-child cases he had heard about. After
being raised by wolves, these children were then rescued and returned
to the human world, by which time they were incapable of behaving
like humans. They refused to wear clothes, lapped water like dogs,
growled like wolves and walked on all fours.
A general interest in man-beast stories developed. Wild children
were a feature of popular books such as Thomas Henry Huxley’s
Man’s Place in Nature (1863) and Rudyard Kipling’s The Jungle Book
(1894). A strong sexual element emerged, incorporating eroticiza-
tion of the animalistic, and attached itself to stories in which the
crossing of boundaries was feared, but nonetheless explored. While
the stories focused on a central erotic character, the subtext was sex
and horror. Books such as Bram Stoker’s Dracula (man into bat,
1897) and Robert Louis Stephenson’s Strange Case of Dr Jekyll and
Mr Hyde (man into beast, 1886) became best-sellers. Werewolf tales,
which had been around for centuries in Scandinavian folklore, re-
emerged in novels such as Guy Endore’s The Werewolf of Paris (1933).
In literature, the oft-used theme of humans falling in love with
beasts could be seen in such stories as Honoré de Balzac’s A Passion
in the Desert (about a love affair between a soldier and a female
panther, 1830) and David Garnett’s Lady into Fox (1922), and fairy tales
including Beauty and the Beast and The Frog Prince.
Similarly, love between humans and animals were taken up in
film. The gigantic gorilla King Kong (1933) with his love for a human
heroine kick-started a cinematic fascination with hairy beasts in
romantic lead roles. Many years later, the French film Max, Mon Amour
(1986, dir. Nagisa Oshima) took this idea one step further in a remark-
ably non-judgmental cinematic exploration of love and sex between
a woman (played by Charlotte Rampling) and a chimpanzee. More
explicit was the prolonged horse-mating sequence in Walerian
Borowczyk’s film La Bête (The Beast, 1975). America had its own bizarre
comedy take on bestiality with Woody Allen’s Everything You Always
Wanted to Know About Sex* (*But Were Afraid to Ask) (1972), in which
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(1908), Freud suggested that such people were timid and were unable
to find suitable sexual partners. Krafft-Ebing considered bestiality to
be connected to a low moral standing and a strong sexual drive. He
distinguished between zoophilia and zooerasty: the first was a kind
of fetish connected to a love of animals which might or might not
manifest itself in a sexual way, but involved a need to caress and
fondle animals that might act as an erotic stimulus; the second was
a pathological condition, a sexual perversion which manifested itself
in an insurmountable urge for sex with animals. However, acts of
bestiality might occur which involved direct contact with animal
genitals but with no pathological content when a great sexual desire
existed but no suitable partner was available. There have also been
cases of mixoscopic zoophilia – sexual pleasure experienced while
watching copulating animals.
Gerda Wegener (1886–1940), girl with swan, from Les Délassements d’Eros,
c. 1925.
Penis-headed ducks accost a young woman, Martin van Maële, La Grande danse
macabre des vifs (The Great Danse Macabre of the Quick Prick, 1907–8).
light after chickens had been dying one after another. The culprit
was eventually apprehended red-handed. When asked by the judge
why he had committed such an act, the culprit replied that his geni-
tals were so small that normal coitus was impossible. On examination,
this was indeed found to be the case – but he was found to be men-
tally sound. The second case was that of a sixteen-year-old shoemaker’s
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apprentice who was caught with his penis in a goose. He was found
to have had a cerebral disease. Krafft-Ebing, in line with his thoughts
on other perversions, believed that the boy’s mental deficiency led
him to commit the acts.
Reasons to be Fearful
Although bestiality might be tried out opportunistically or as a
result of mental incapacity, people also experimented out of simple
curiosity. Havelock Ellis provided a case of one pretty, well-educated
country girl from Missouri who, on examination, was found to have
a profuse offensive discharge emanating from her genitals. When
questioned, the patient confessed that she had been playing with
the genitals of a large dog, which had become so excited that she
thought she might try ‘slight coitus’. On close inspection of her vagina,
she was found to be bleeding from three large tears. The animal had
hung on so tightly with his forelegs that she had been unable to
get him off – the dog’s penis had become so swollen that the dog
could not extract itself.34 If a dog is separated from its partner before
ejaculating, it can cause pain and serious damage. A dog’s penis has
a bone, the baculum, as well as a small bulb at the base, which swells
up to five times its normal size once inside the vagina. The bitch’s
muscles tighten and ‘lock on’, which means that two dogs become
stuck together. In this case, the young woman from Missouri suffered
considerable physical harm.
Alcohol continued to feature in twentieth-century bestiality cases.
In 1944, one 33-year-old cement worker from northern Sweden con-
fessed to police that he had stumbled into a stable and attempted to
put his penis into a cow, but fell off the stool he was standing on,
unable to complete the act, before groping his way home to bed.
He later retracted his confession and the court acquitted him. Jens
Rydström, the historian who uncovered the case, believes that the
period from 1880 onwards in Sweden was a time when views were
changing on bestiality. People who committed bestial acts (tidelag)
were no longer seen as ‘sinners’ but as ‘perverts’. Police tended to
regulate the sexual behaviour of the poor more frequently, and
bestialists brought before the courts were most often from the lower
classes, mostly farm-hands. Swedish authorities eventually abol-
ished the law on bestiality as they thought it outdated and considered
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involved, and the act results in the death of the creature, it can be
considered cruelty, and legal penalties can thus be levied. The ques-
tions around bestiality should therefore surely be ethical rather than
moral. In cases where the animal is consenting, does it really matter?
The difficulty is in trying to prove consent.
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Gladiatorial games.
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It’s all right to use force – force of that sort goes down well with
The girls: what in fact they love to yield
They’d often rather have stolen. Rough seduction
Delights them, the audacity of near-rape
Is a compliment . . .7
Christian Idea of the Torture Wheel, woodcut From Tortures and Torments of the
by Nicolas le Rouge, 1529. Christian Martyrs (1903).
In October 1763, Sade was imprisoned for abusing a woman who had
been supplied to him by Madame Brissault. The woman was Jeanne
Testard, a fan maker by trade, who sold sex as a sideline. During the
encounter, not content to have conventional sex, Sade threatened
her with pistols and sodomitical rape but, worse still in the eyes of
the law, masturbated over a crucifix while spouting a stream of blas-
phemy. Although he was released after fifteen days, his arrest marked
the beginning of his brushes with the law. Another incident was to
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Frontispiece and title page from the Marquis de Sade, Justine (1791).
put him behind bars for much longer. In April 1768 Rose Keller, the
36-year-old widow of a pastry baker, approached Sade in the street
for alms. Instead of giving her a handful of change, he took her back
to his chateau at Arcueil, stripped her naked, whipped her until
she bled and poured hot wax on her. He then locked her up, but she
eventually escaped and later brought a prosecution against him –
she dropped the case after being given a vast sum as a pay-off. Five
years later in June 1772, Sade once again encountered the law when
he was accused of ‘poisoning’ a group of prostitutes by adding can-
tharides (‘Spanish fly’, which was alleged to act as an aphrodisiac as
a result of its irritation of the genito-urinary tract, but was also toxic)
to their drink.
Despite being ostracized by his peers for his flagrant behaviour,
Sade had managed to find a woman of good status to marry: the daugh-
ter of President de Montreuil, a magistrate at the Court of Aids. The
situation may have settled down, but once again Sade antagonized
those closest to him. Having fallen in love with his wife’s younger
sister, he enraged the rest of the family by eloping with her, and with
these actions sealed his fate. His disgusted in-laws used their influ-
ential contacts to force the couple to return home and had their
son-in-law thrown in prison for a variety of minor offences. After
further indiscretions, Sade was detained under a lettre de cachet that
stated that he should be kept in jail indefinitely at the king’s pleas-
ure. His in-laws never forgave him and would manage to keep him
incarcerated on and off for the rest of his life. He was first kept in the
Château de Vincennes for seven years, then removed to the Bastille
for a further five, released only after its storming in 1789 during the
French Revolution. In all, he spent around thirteen years in prison,
passing through frustration, despair and psychosis. As a result of his
attacks on the Church and the state, he made countless enemies in
powerful positions. He made no secret of his hatred of these institu-
tions, along with those who ran them – priests, bishops, judges and
army generals were all vilified in his books. Indeed, his hatred of his
own class and his portrayal of them was at least part of the reason for
his persecution.11
Despite the force of his writings and his vivid descriptions of
sexual sadism, Sade himself did not necessarily indulge in all the
perversions he wrote about. Philosophers, psychologists, psychia-
trists and sociologists, as well as historians, have all tried to pinpoint
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Illustrations of sexual torture from the Marquis de Sade, Juliette (1797).
t h e t i e s t h at b i n d
in any way she thinks fit for all errors, carelessness or crime of lèse-
majesté on his part.’13 Part of the contract included her promise to
wear furs as often as possible in order to indulge his obsession. On
their trip to Italy, he again began to fantasize about being subjected
to betrayal and insisted she have an affair. This time, unable to find
a suitable aristocrat (pretended or not), they ended up with a third-
rate actor, Salvini, who was only too willing to have an affair with Pistor.
Salvini, knowing nothing about the type of relationship she had with
Sacher-Masoch, could only congratulate himself on finding such a rich
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to stay with the boy till he got help, and Davis went towards the boy.
On returning with help, Davis was nowhere to be seen. The clothes
of the boy had been buttoned up, but the boy was dead.
The post-mortem found that the boy’s skull was fractured and
his throat had been cut from ear to ear. The rectum was gaping and
patulous; three gloved fingers could be inserted without difficulty.
There was a tear about one-third of an inch long in the mucous mem-
brane of the posterior wall of the rectum, indicating recent violence;
the other conditions indicated long-term passive pederasty. Davis
absconded before the police had a chance to apprehend him. He
pawned his tools and a stolen bicycle and went by boat to Rochester,
New York. He was eventually caught and the case came to trial in
Toronto in January 1922, where he was found guilty.
Despite the conviction, when Canadian William Renwick Riddell,
a lawyer, judge and historian wrote about the case, he called it A
Case of Supposed Sadism. Whether the term ‘supposed’ was insert-
ed because he was unsure about the sadism involved is unclear. But it
seems that the term ‘sadism’ was used as an alternative word for sex-
ual abuse before rape and paedophilia became separate emotive
issues. Here, sadism is directly connected to lust-murder. Sadism at
this time was therefore connected to rape and murder rather than
seen as a stand-alone sexual pleasure. Riddell believed that ‘Sexual
inclinations towards children are especially apt to be associated with
sadistic acts and in a comparatively large proportion of cases children
are the victims of lust murder.’32
Certainly Davis’s background suggested possibilities for the
making of an unstable character. His father was unsociable and died
when Davis was only six years old, leaving his mother free to marry
again. For four years thereafter, he was separated from his mother
and lived with his grandfather, but later joined her and his stepfather
in Chicago. After his mother died when he was eighteen, disturbing
his development still further, he took up an itinerant life. He contract-
ed syphilis at twenty after intercourse with a prostitute. He married
seven years later but his wife left him after another seven years. In
statements to the prison surgeon, he denied sexual perversion of
any kind. He said he had been initiated into homosexual practices
when he was under ten by an adult man. Although he had normal
sexual relations with women, he did not enjoy their company and
preferred young boys. He was a chronic alcoholic and his mental age
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was classed as eleven years and ten months. He alternated his story
as he saw fit. On conviction he said, ‘Under the eyes of god, your
Lordship, to the best of my knowledge, I am innocent’, yet admitted
that he had murdered the boy to the prison warden. He said he had
no knowledge of what made him do it as he had no ill towards the
boy, but nonetheless expressed no remorse. Riddell stated ‘that cere-
bral syphilis will produce a state of mental disorder leading to sexual
offence against children is as well recognized as the similar effects of
chronic alcoholism’. In other words, Riddell thought Davis’s mental
reduction to be a ‘general paralysis of the insane’, a disorder caused by
syphilis and a common argument of sexologists. The prisoner was con-
victed of murder but died in prison on the day set for his execution.
As a non-consensual act, sadism becomes an act of violence,
which, as Eulenburg pointed out, does not necessarily have a sexual
context. Eulenburg saw the fullest extent of sadomasochism realized
in lust-murder and necrophilia, which he places under the category
of ‘violent unlawful non-consensual sexual intercourse’, but recog-
nizes that ‘not every lust-murder arises from purely sadistic motives’
(as perhaps in the Davis case).33 In most countries the law covers a
non-consensual act as violence against another person in one form
or another (grievous or actual or bodily harm with or without intent,
common assault, attempted murder and so on), murder being the
ultimate violent act. However, as indicated, not all murders are sadis-
tic. Types of non-sadistic murder can range from torture used in order
to extract confessions to mass genocide – the point being that for
sadism to occur, the perpetrator must derive some sexual pleasure
from the activity. There are equally many reasons given why certain
people might enjoy sadomasochism: not only mental derangement
or incapacity, or even having been molested as a child, as was the
case with Davis.
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The wives of men of rank when they die are not given at once
to be embalmed, nor such women as are very beautiful or
of greater regard than others, but on the third or fourth day
after their death (and not before) they are delivered to the
embalmers. They do so about this matter in order that the
embalmers may not abuse their women, for they say that
one of them was taken once doing so to the corpse of a woman
lately dead, and his fellow-craftsman gave information.2
The Egyptian god Anubis prepares a body for mummification, c. 1280 bc.
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J.H.W. Tischbein, Death of Penthesilea, 1828.
early age. Was this the reason that necrophilia was rare – that death
was simply not taboo enough?
A Medieval Necrophile
Continual wars meant that many men observed mass slaughter at first
hand. For some soldiers, the aftermath of war meant a search for
peace and tranquillity, but the constant and bloody hand-to-hand
combat and the sight of scene after scene of body-strewn battlefields
left others obsessed with death. As a result, for some, the connection
between euphoria and brutality became embedded, leading to what
we would now diagnose as psychiatric disorders. This was the prob-
lem of nobleman Gilles de Rais (1404–1440), one of history’s most
infamous necrophiles. As with many cases of sexual atrocities, his
predilection involved more than one vice, taking in paedophilia
as well as necrophilia. Known for fighting bravely alongside Joan
of Arc during the Hundred Years War, he debauched, tortured and
murdered around 800 children; many of their bodies were never
recovered. The tale is remarkable in that he left a personal testimony
to the crimes, now preserved in the Nantes archives.
After a long series of battles, Charles vii of France decided to
disband his armies and a period of calm ensued. Nobles such as de
Rais, who had experienced the excitement of leading bloody battles,
were told to either enjoy court life or retire to their estates. After mass
slaughter and the thrill of battle, a quiet life was perhaps not what
de Rais had in mind. At first, he retired to his castle in Tiffauges and
set about spending his family fortune, holding debauched parties
and surrounding himself with sycophants. Property was sold off
piecemeal to pay for his extravagant lifestyle, and he eventually
turned to alchemy in an attempt to turn his finances around. It was
rumoured that his first murder of a child occurred when he slit a
boy’s throat, cut out his heart and eyes, and used his blood for the
purpose of an agreement with the Devil. However, in reality, it would
seem that his abuse and slaughter of children had little to do with
the black arts; instead, these acts were crimes undertaken purely
for his own sexual gratification.
The first murders began at Champtocé, where he was living at
the time of his grandfather’s death. There he managed to murder 40
children without attracting too much notice. His status as a wealthy
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When the said children were dead he kissed them and those
who had the most handsome limbs and heads he held up
to admire them, and had their bodies cruelly cut open and took
delight at the sight of their inner organs; and very often when
the said children were dying he sat on their stomachs and
took pleasure in seeing them die.6
It was only under the threat of torture that de Rais finally confessed.
When asked why he had committed such atrocities, he admitted
he did them ‘in accordance with his own imagination . . . solely
for his pleasure and carnal delight’. His sentence was to be excom-
municated and burned to death but in the event his body was only
symbolically passed through the flames and his intact body was
given back to his family for a Catholic burial in the churchyard of
the Carmelites.
De Rais’ case served as a perfect medieval example of sexual per-
version in its connection to moral and spiritual corruption. His
crimes were acted out as a result of diabolical desire, an inversion
of moral consciousness, rather than simply a negation of the law,
and were seen as a form of radical evil.7 Why de Rais committed
such atrocities is more difficult to understand. It was suggested at
his trial that Gilles de Rais had started his crimes as early as 1426
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William Hogarth, The Four Stages of Cruelty, plate iv, ‘The Reward of
Cruelty’, 1751.
they murdered their tenants, but later moved on to luring men and
women from the street, getting them drunk and smothering them.
When the case came to light, it was evident that the bodies had been
sold on to a surgeon for dissection.
The person who had been receiving the bodies was the famous
Edinburgh anatomist Dr Robert Knox, a graduate of Edinburgh Uni-
versity. It was said that after being presented with one female corpse
he thought it too lovely to dissect and kept it in a tub of whisky for
three months before dissection.10 The body was that of Mary Paterson,
a teenage prostitute who had been lured to her death in Burke’s
brother’s house. Scores of students scrambled to Knox’s dissecting
rooms to view the pickled woman. The fact that she was both beauti-
ful and naked no doubt helped swell the numbers signing up for Knox’s
classes. Once Burke and Hare came to trial, Dr Knox was implicated
by connection and his activities were exposed. The Royal College of
Surgeons immediately demanded his resignation, resulting in the loss
of his teaching job as well as his lucrative lecture tours. Gossip festered
around him for years to come, and he would never again find a posi-
tion as a surgeon.
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Hare and Laird were let off for turning King’s Evidence and giving
witness against Burke and McDougal. Burke was hanged, watched
by enormous crowds. Perhaps in a case of poetic justice, his body was
later taken for dissection. The two wives of the men escaped with-
out charge, but only narrowly missed being attacked by an angry
mob. As soon as the case came to court, gossip about the Burke and
Hare murders spread through word of mouth, broadsheets and
pamphlets. The story fed into public concerns about grave robbers
and body-snatching, with the lurid details laid out for all to see. The
case reinforced what people had suspected: that doctors were un-
scrupulous lechers delving into areas that should not be seen. The
case helped influence the introduction of the Anatomy Act of 1832,
which expanded the legal supply of cadavers for medical schools.
Meanwhile, scientific experiments and demonstrations of new
findings continued to instruct interested audiences at public lec-
tures. Fresh, exciting displays were on offer in 1791, when scientist
Luigi Galvani used electricity to charge life into otherwise seem-
ingly dead body parts. In packed lecture rooms, he brought frogs’
legs ‘back to life’ using the trick of electrocution to make the legs
dance. Men and women watched, entranced by the fact that bodies
could be made to move even though they were dead. Galvani’s ideas
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Feminizing Fatality
The feminizing (and sexualizing) of death was apparent in images,
news reports and pamphlets where the female body was closely
linked to lust and death. An example can be seen as early as 1517 in
the image Death and the Maiden by Hans Baldung Grien. By the
Dr Knox was
implicated in
the Burke and
Hare murders,
portrait c. 1830.
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Wax anatomical
model by
Clemente Susini
(1754–1814), in La
Specola, Florence.
John Everett Millais, Ophelia, 1851–2, featuring the artists’ model Lizzie Siddal.
of some of his poems in the coffin with her body, only to regret it
some years later. In 1870 her coffin, buried in Highgate Cemetery, was
exhumed at Rossetti’s request so that he could retrieve the poems.
The romanticized dead featuring the adored female lover was also
encapsulated by Robert Browning in his poem ‘Porphyria’s Lover’
of 1842. Here, he portrays a man who has strangled the woman he loves
because he cannot possess her except in death.
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He then started to press out her entrails, replaced the body in the grave
and went back to his barracks. Bertrand also admitted to having dug
up male cadavers, but with those he restricted himself to masturba-
tion. With females he would have full coitus.
Bertrand told his doctor, Marchal de Calvis, that he would not
have risked digging up corpses merely to have sex with them, but that
his overwhelming desire and pleasure was to mutilate and destroy
them. Although Bertrand described himself as a Lothario, alleging to
have had many women whom he had satisfied sexually (according
to him, many even wanted to marry him), his doctor believed this to
be a delusion. It may also have been a pretence made up to protect
himself from his own lack of confidence – self-aggrandizing is often
undertaken by those least likely to achieve the heights they say they
have. He was finally caught and sentenced to a year in prison.
Cases of unrequited passion and continual rejection led some men
to copulate with the female dead. Under his pseudonym Stendhal
(1783–1842), Marie-Henri Beyle described in his thinly disguised auto-
biography how he was drawn to a cemetery and dug up a decomposing
body of a girl of twelve or thirteen, removed her entrails and muti-
lated her genitalia. But his original passion had been an incestuous
love of his mother. He confessed, ‘I wanted to cover my mother in
kisses even when she had no clothes on. She loved me passionately
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and hugged me often. I returned her kisses with such a fire that she
often was obliged to run away. I hated my father when he used to come
and interrupt our kisses. I always wanted to give them on her bosom.’18
Stendhal seems to have had a confused sexuality (whether fantasy or
reality) combining necrophilia with incest, but such cases seem to
be rare. However, necrophiles sometimes developed unusually strong
feelings – of either love or aversion – for their parents.
By the turn of the nineteenth century, sexologists were interview-
ing and assessing patients who were confessed necrophiles, trying
to understand their behaviour. Krafft-Ebing interviewed countless
perverted patients, but admitted to being stumped when it came to
necrophiles. He left few words on the subject in his book Psychopathia
Sexualis but summed up his feelings on the matter: ‘This horrible
kind of sexual indulgence is so monstrous that the presumption of
a psychopathic state is, under all circumstances, justified.’ While
showing compassion for many of his cases, he could not muster sym-
pathy for the necrophile. In order to be able to have sexual congress
with corpses, he believed people had to be mentally unstable; that a
perverse sensuality was necessary to overcome the natural repugnance
that ordinary men have for corpses.
On assessing Victor Ardisson, a French grave robber and necro-
phile, Krafft-Ebing blamed mental incapacity for his crimes, describing
him as a ‘moron void of any moral sense’. Ardisson had earned the
nickname ‘the Vampire of Muy’ because of his predilection for suck-
ing on his victims’ body parts. His case came to light when he was
arrested in 1901 for robbing graves and mutilating corpses; his job as
a gravedigger provided him with the perfect opportunity to indulge
his passion. While some necrophiles appear not to care what the
corpses look like, Ardisson’s desire was only for beautiful young
women. William Stekel reported that Ardisson admitted that he drank
his own semen after masturbation, ‘because it would be too bad to
have it go to waste’.19 As with other necrophiles, Ardisson was social-
ly inadequate with women and all his marriage proposals had been
rejected. In compensation, he masturbated as he watched women
urinate. He admitted that his inadequacies led him to pay for one
beggar woman to have sex with him. While he had problems with
women, he continued to fellate men for money. He claimed to have
copulated with his mother after her death but Stekel believed this to
be mere fantasy (this fantasy bears a striking resemblance to Stendhal’s
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The incestuous couple: Nero and his mother Agrippina as she crowns him with
a laurel leaf; c. 54–59.
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allowed, and Greek tragedies were full of the problems it might cause.
In Athens in the fifth century bc, Sophocles’ play Oedipus Rex warned
audiences about such domestic drama, with the hero Oedipus known
as the exemplar of familial incest. Having killed his father (unaware
of who he really was) in a brawl at a crossroads, he unwittingly mar-
ries his mother, Jocasta. After a plague of infertility sweeps the city
of Thebes, Oedipus consults the Oracle at Delphi and asks what he
should do. The messenger of the oracle tells him he must avenge
the murder of Laius – which, of course, he himself had committed.
On discovering that Laius is his father, and that his wife is actually
his mother, Oedipus bewails, ‘Incestuous sin! Breeding where I was
bred! Father, brother, and son; bride, wife, and mother confounded
in one monstrous matrimony! All human filthiness in one crime
compounded!’2 Jocasta hangs herself, while Oedipus pokes the pin
of her brooch into his eyes and is left to wander blindly through-
out the country. In this Greek tragedy, it is the very closeness of the
blood ties that is the problem, quite the opposite of the understand-
ing of the ancient Egyptians.
While ancient Roman society also considered incest as forbid-
den, Rome’s history is littered with incestous families. According
to Cicero, the Roman politician Publius Clodius prostituted himself
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too close for comfort
Incest Laws
From the beginnings of Christianity, the main discussions around
incest tended to be focused on consanguinity (how close a person was
related to another in blood) or affinity (ties by marriage) rather than
child abuse by a family member as they tend to be today. Laws and
customs were mainly concentrated on marriage and stretched way
beyond the nuclear family. In the West, the incest taboo related to
most of the extended family and anyone related by blood or marriage
to the sixth or even the eighth degree (second and third cousins – each
degree accounting for one generation from a common ancestor).6 A
person could not marry their in-laws or even the in-laws of their
in-laws, nor their godparents or godchildren.
Church authorities were, however, divided on the matter of per-
missable relationships. St Ambrose (339–397) claimed that divine
law forbade the marriage between brothers’ children ‘joined in the
fourth degree’, while St Augustine suggested it was not divine law
but imperial law which made such unions illegal. Meanwhile, the
Code of Justinian allowed marriage between first cousins (conso-
brini), but the Greek Church in 692 at the Second Trullan Synod
condemned such marriages. According to Theodore Balsamon, a
twelfth-century Greek Orthodox Patriarch of Antioch, even those
of second cousins (sobrini) should not be allowed. Pope Gregory iii
(732–41) forbade marriage to the seventh degree of consanguinity,
whereas the Roman Penitential of Halitgar (c. 830) stipulated that
a man’s stepmother and his uncle’s wife were out of bounds. Debate
continued into the second millenium. In 1215, the Lateran council
decided that the law was too harsh and reduced the degree of con-
sanguinity from seven to four. Yet around 1440, Jacob’s Well, a treatise
on the ‘cleansing of man’s conscience’, advised: ‘Contract of matri-
mony in kynrede in-to be fyfte degree is forfendyd’,7 disallowing
marriage up to (but not excluding) the fifth degree. If the Church
authorities seemed to contradict themselves, it must have been
even more confusing for the layperson.
The word ‘incest’ was introduced into Middle English around
1225 as a term to describe the sin of familial incest, but was not
widely used.8 Although incest was not a civil crime, it was regulated
by the Church. The ecclesiastical courts placed incest in the same
category as adultery and fornication (all sex outside marriage was
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Kissing Cousins
The Church authorities had referred back to Leviticus in decision-
making about incest and cousin marriages. To clarify the situation,
the Fourth Lateran Council of 1215 defined incest as sexual inter-
course between relatives of the fourth degree, which included
cousins.10 This also allowed the Church authorities to introduce a
fee-based dispensation for marriages taking place between first,
second or third cousins.11 In other words, an individual was allowed
to marry a first, second or third cousin but had to pay off the Church
for the freedom to do so.
In 1540, a statute of Parliament did little to change the situation.
It decreed, ‘all persons be lawful that be not prohibited by God’s
laws to marry; and that no reservation or prohibition, God’s Laws
except, shall trouble to impeach any marriage without the Levitical
degrees’.12 The list of prohibitions on incestuous marriages in
Leviticus was therefore still the ruling on such matters. First cousins
were still not specifically mentioned on the list of prohibited rela-
tionships, nor were they mentioned at the Council of Trent in 1563
when a list of forbidden marriages was drawn up. The degrees of
consanguinity and affinity in reference to cousins therefore con-
tinued to remain cloudy and were not stated explicitly in canon law
– that of 1606 simply referred back to the ecclesiastical table of 1563.
Adding to the confusion, canon law and civil law counted the degrees
of consanguinity differently, so cousins-german (or first cousins)
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Limbless child, illustration from the British Medical Journal, 8 June 1889.
details of the sin, which were then hawked all over the country. The
moral of the story, and similar ones in the same vein, shows a con-
junction where medicine met religion – the deformity did not happen
by chance but was taken as a sign of ‘God’s will’ against incest.
Warnings were no less frightening by the eighteenth century, but
for different reasons. Gentlemen’s magazines were providing incest
as means of sexual titillation for their readers, but within these
stories there was an implicit suggestion that cousins should be
guarded against. The Rambler for Saturday 2 November 1751, carried
a piece entitled ‘The History of Misella debauched by her relation’,
a title intended to pique every reader’s interest. The article came in
the form of a letter allegedly from a girl who had been ravished by
her cousin. In it, she relates how he took advantage of the familial
ties to complete her ruin, backing her into submission while act-
ing as her benefactor.17 Intended as a cliffhanger, in the following
week’s journal, she related her decline in ‘Misella’s description of
the life of a prostitute’.18 Her cousin continued to visit her and was
bent on her complete defilement; ‘but I now saw with horror that
he was contriving to perpetuate his gratification, and was desirous
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Incestuous ‘Marriages’
While cousin marriages were becoming less threatening (at least
in Victorian England), marriages between in-laws and step-relations
remained a problem for the authorities. In recently settled America,
Samuel and Rebekah Newton of Marlborough had their marriage
broken up when the courts discovered she was the widow of his
uncle, Isaac Newton. Although they had two children together, they
were prohibited from cohabiting any longer.20 Yet in the United
States, in Massachusetts and Plymouth, there were no incest laws,
which meant that magistrates were left to deal with incestuous
marriages as they saw fit. In this case, ultra-puritanical New Haven
enacted the incest laws verbatim from the Old Testament. These
lapsed when the state joined with Connecticut, which had no incest
law until 1673, when laws were introduced for father–daughter and
mother–son relationships. Courts dealt with other incest according
to its perceived seriousness.
Among the lower ranks, the reason for marriage was often based
on basic economic and domestic needs. Plebeian widows looked for
financial security, while plebeian widowers needed a housekeeper
and someone to look after their children. In the rural British county
of Somerset between 1730 and 1835, most incestuous births resulted
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Eugène Delacroix,
The Bride of
Abydos, 1857.
couple shocked polite society by living together for the next five years.
Lord Byron similarly attracted scandal when his wife spread rumours
about his affair with his half-sister Augusta Leigh. In his original
idea for his epic poem The Bride of Abydos (1813) he celebrated a
love affair between a brother and sister, but lessened the impact
when he changed their relationship to one of cousins for publication.24
Incest came to be seen as a serious sexual perversion, which led
to the corruption of society and the downfall of queens. Henry viii
notoriously blamed his incestuous marriage with his brother’s widow
for his lack of an heir to the throne. Close familial incest was associ-
ated with witchcraft in some countries, and sexual depravity in others.
With the coming of Cromwell, new puritanical measures were intro-
duced in 1650 for ‘supressing the detestable sins of incest, adultery
and fornication’.25 A short-lived English statute was introduced in 1650
which declared incest to be a felony, but this did not live past the
Restoration in 1660. Surprisingly, in Britain incest was not made
illegal until 1908.
Discussion around the problem with marrying a close in-law con-
tinued unabated throughout much of the early nineteenth century.
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In England, only with the Marriage Act of 1835 were the laws about
the degrees of kinship in marriage firmed up. Marrying one’s sister-
in-law became legal only with the Deceased Wife’s Sister’s Marriage
Act of 1907, although this had been a hard and long battle waged in
Parliament on a yearly basis. It took another fourteen years before
the Deceased Brother’s Widow’s Marriage Act 1921 was passed.
Meanwhile, as a result of the rise of the new middle classes, a new
target for pornography emerged and incest in the family became a
main theme.
A New Pornography
The use of incest as a subject in pornography had already taken off
in France. In the Histoire de Dom Bougre, portier de Chartreux (1741),
attributed to Jean-Charles Gervaise de Latouche, by the fourth
page the narrator is anxious to commit incest with his sister Suzon:
‘I kissed her and she slapped me on the cheek; I forced her to the
ground and she writhed like a snake. I held her tightly in my arms,
kissing her breasts through her bodice.’26 The Marquis de Sade
took the subject much further, devoting a whole novella to incest.
Although his novella Eugénie de Franval (1800) is less well known
than most of his other works, it provides an intriguing account of
an incestuous relationship, the manipulation of a young daughter
Eugénie by her father, Monsieur de Franval. As soon as she was born,
he ‘conceived the most detestable designs on her’. In an early case of
grooming, he first separates her from her mother, then from all
other guidance except his own. Franval admits, ‘I love my daughter,
I love her passionately, she is my mistress, my wife, my sister, my
confidante, my friend, my sole god on earth – she is in short all the
titles which can win the homage of a heart.’27 She in turn loves him as
no other, refusing to be with any other man.
The English were proving to be more reticent than the French in
their depictions of incest in pornography. At the beginning of the
eighteenth century, incest was merely mentioned rather than being
explored in any depth. A New Description of Merryland (1741) pointed
out the drawbacks of maternal incest, since ‘to enter again in that Part
they were born in, is looked on as an infamous Crime, and severely
punishable by Law; yet some have been hardy enough to do it.’28
Initially, the English took to inserting incest into translations of
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A brother watches as his sister fornicates with a priest. Anonymous engraving
from Histoire de Dom Bougre (1741).
An illustration typical of 19th- and early 20th-century pornography: a father
figure molests a young girl. Martin van Maële, La Grande danse macabre (1907).
too close for comfort
Tainted Families
Incest in the Victorian and Edwardian periods was becoming a new
focus for consideration. While pornographers were experimenting
with the fantasies about the Victorian libertine, nineteenth-century
philanthropic investigators such as Henry Mayhew, Charles Booth
and William Acton were busy exploring London’s labouring poor
and uncovering the harsh realities of life.32 They noticed that incest
was connected to poverty, and saw overcrowding as the underlying
cause; mothers, fathers and children were all forced into small living
areas. In the towns, hovels were so overcrowded that there was no other
place to sleep than to huddle together in one bed. It was also a con-
venient way to keep warm in a chilly, uninsulated home. Where few
had the fuel to keep their fires lit all night, the warmth of each other’s
bodies was a comfort. Similarly, in rural hovels, the whole family
might sleep in one bed: the daughter slept against the wall in order to
safeguard her chastity in case of intruders, then the mother, followed
by the father with the son on the outside. With so many people in
the same bed, the real danger was suffocating one’s child, not its
sexual molestation.
Andrew Mearns, secretary of the London Congregational Union,
assisted by W. C. Preston, undertook his own inquiry into the con-
ditions of the abject poor in The Bitter Cry of Outcast London (1883).
Initially published anonymously as a penny pamphlet, it reported:
because of unrequited love for her son; ‘She pestered him with
kisses and caresses and tried one night to force him to engage in
coitus, which he refused.’37
Ellis believed that any incestuous desire tended to be found in
children and died out naturally as a person grew up, ‘when stronger
stimuli from outside are applied’. He claimed ‘for children there is
only love for an object of affection, not incestuous desire’.38 Taking
a psychoanalytical approach, Sigmund Freud examined childhood
complexes more deeply in a series of essays in 1905, adding to them
in later editions his theory that children’s desires for the parent of
the opposite sex was normal. These desires needed to be redirected
to people outside the family if a child was to grow up to become a
healthy adult. He blamed a combination of the biological urge of
sex and the mother’s nurturing of the human infant as the reason for
the emergence of an incest taboo. Opposing Krafft-Ebing’s early
ideas, he argued: ‘It is the fate of all of us perhaps, to direct our first
sexual impulse towards our mothers and our first hatred and our
first murderous wish against our father.’39 As an example, he developed
his now famous theory of the Oedipus complex, according to which
a boy, via his suppressed unconscious, desires to sexually possess
his mother and kill his father. His colleague Carl Jung took this idea
further, establishing the concept of the Electra complex, by which
a girl desires her father and directs her anger towards her mother.
The successful resolution was supposed to take place when the child
finally identified with the same-sex parent. In his Totem and Taboo
(1913), Freud published four essays, one of them tackling the subject
under the title ‘The Savage’s Dread of Incest’. Here, he examined the
complex social organization of Australian Aborigines, which had been
put in place in order to prevent incest, and allied this totem system
to the Western nuclear family. The system was applied to prevent sex-
ual relations not only between relatives but also those who were not
blood relatives but were members of the same family. To some extent,
the psychoanalytical theory pandered to the Edwardians, who were
eager to distance humans from other animals and see themselves
as culturally and intellectually significant.
Anthropologists saw incest and its taboo in terms of the relation-
ships between individual human nature (through evolutionary biology)
and society. At least one asserted, ‘The taboo on incest within the
immediate family is one of the few known cultural universals.’40 The
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Anthony van Dyck, George Villiers, Second Duke of Buckingham, and His
Brother Lord Francis Villiers, 1635.
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A Child’s Place
From antiquity up to the eighteenth century, unwanted babies
were routinely thrown off cliffs or exposed to the elements. With no
reliable contraception, plenty of children were born; plenty died
from accidents and diseases. The wanted Greek child was, however,
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he went swimming and get between his legs and lick and nibble him’.
Suetonius also condemned the emperor for letting unweaned babies
‘suck at him’, calling him ‘a filthy old man!’4
By the medieval period, there was little reticence about men-
tioning sexual matters in front of children. Louis xiii’s father played
with his son’s genitals until the child was three years old and made
jokes about them. Sex came early for young royals: at the age of
fourteen, Louis was married off, placed into bed with his wife and
expected to perform.5 As the next monarch, he would have been
closely protected throughout his childhood. Girls were even more
closely guarded. Just as in ancient Greece and Rome, their virginity
was vital if they were to find a marriage partner. Nobles had a distinct
moral code; the male head of the household had a duty to look after
the women in the family and preserve their chastity. Yet children
were dressed as mini-adults, further complicating judgement on
their sexual maturity. Children of higher birth might be sent away to
live with other noble families as a form of education and patronage.
This practice was presumed to be safe, as it was a matter of honour
for those fostering the noble children of their peers to ensure that they
were protected and treated as members of the family.
Labouring adults concentrated on getting their children to
work as soon as possible. Children took up menial tasks, and then
gradually took on more responsibility as they became more able.
In rural families, children would help their fathers or mothers either
in the fields or the home. Later, around puberty, they might go into
an apprenticeship or domestic service. This was when children
were usually at their most vulnerable, as the court records show,
with assaults made on domestic servants and apprentices. Not only
did they leave the family household, but they also had to deal with
being newly aware of their sexuality and sexual attractiveness.
However, parents and municipal courts did their best to pro-
tect children from molestation. In 1339, when one man assaulted a
fourteen-year-old girl, he was forced to pay £40 to the chamberlain
in recompense, to keep for the girl until she was married or came of
age. Similarly, when Robert Trenender, a brazier from Byrstow, and
his wife Issabell complained that Philip Rychard had deflowered
their daughter, the case was taken to arbitrations and Rychard was
told to give the child Agnes either a pipe (a large storage container)
and a half of woad or £20 in compensation. Adolescents themselves
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Age of Consent
The legality of sex hinged on the age of consent. If a child was con-
sidered under the age of consent, an adult could be prosecuted for
having sex with them. Above a certain age, an individual was no longer
considered a child and therefore could consent to sex. Yet the age
at which a child was responsible for its actions was something of
a conundrum to the medieval layperson. In law, a child was only
considered capable of deception at the age of seven. Their legal res-
ponsibility came into play only between the ages of twelve and
seventeen; this varied depending on the issue at hand. In 1118, Henry
i ordered that the earliest age at which a child could bring legal
action or sit on a jury was fifteen. From the Church’s point of view, if
a couple having sex were unmarried, they were committing fornica-
tion, which was illicit at any age. The age of consent therefore depended
on the permissible age for marriage.
During the medieval period in England, the marriageable age
was twelve for a girl and fourteen for a boy, although they were often
betrothed before then. Noble families were particularly keen to unite
their fortunes as soon as possible. Occasionally the children were
still young, even prepubescent, when they were married, although
close relatives frequently refused to allow consummation to take place
until the girl was older. How far the law was implemented and suc-
cessful was another matter. Lady Margaret Beaufort, the mother of
Henry vii, was particularly keen to protect her granddaughter from
an early marriage because she herself had gone through one in 1450
when she was only six years old. This marriage was later dissolved,
since she had not been of age. As soon as she was twelve, however, she
was forced into another marriage and widowed a year later, only to
find herself seven months pregnant. This was by no means unusual.
The idea of young love was common, as seen in the theatre audi-
ence’s understanding of Shakepeare’s Romeo and Juliet – Juliet was
only thirteen when she fell in love with Romeo and her father was
already trying to find a husband for her.
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Head. Most nights he would carry up the boxes left over from his
night’s sales after shutting up his stall and go up to the room he had
in the house in the same yard. On the night in question, around
dusk, after shutting up the stall as usual, Levi asked Taylor to help
him get the boxes inside. He then proceeded to assault him. The
boy told the court, ‘he unbutton’d my breeches and threw me down
on the bed on my face, he unbutton’d his breeches and put his c – k
into my backside.’17 This carried on for about quarter of an hour.
Taylor admitted he had been too ashamed to say anything about
the incident, although he told one of his friends, who in turn told his
father, and the father told Benjamin’s father. Levi was sentenced to
death for sodomy. Although when caught the perpetrators were
dealt with harshly, often there was difficulty in making the accusa-
tions stick.
the child victims who were responsible for bringing the case to the
notice of the courts. Even so, many of the cases brought before the
courts were dismissed because of lack of evidence and witnesses.
If the child had developed venereal disease since the attack, it was
more likely that this would be taken as evidence that an attack had
taken place, especially if the perpetrator was known to be ‘poxed’.
One such case of 1680 was that of William Harding, tried for ‘rav-
ishing’ Sarah Southy, a girl of about seven or eight years of age. He
had enticed her down into a dark cellar with the promise of some
apples. The court recorder verified that he then ‘accomplished his
detestable Villainy, not only giving the Child the foul Disease where-
with himself was infested, but likewise by forcibly penetrating her
Body, so abused her secret parts’.18 She was left in a distressed con-
dition, but was afraid to complain to her mother in case she was
beaten by her.
The fear of a parent’s reaction might make a child unwilling to
reveal an incident of rape. It explains why in some cases the child
might have felt it was easier to let the matter go. Those who did go
through the unsettling procedure of informing their parents then had
to give witness in front of many hostile adults in court – judges were
unwilling to send a man to his death on the word of a child unless
there was a cast-iron case. Sarah Southy finally told her mother, who
procured a couple of surgeons to examine her daughter. Both physicians
found that she had been forced into intercourse. Witnesses at court
denounced the perpetrator as a ‘debauched fellow’ who ‘was wont to
Act carnally with his own mother, threatening when she refused to
permit his incestuous desires, to Fire the house about her Ears’. When
he was examined, he was found to have ‘several Simptoms of the
Venereal Distemper’, which allowed the jury to find him guilty of rape.
The fact that he had passed on venereal disease to his young victim
acted as evidence in proving his guilt.
In other cases, perpetrators simply disappeared, which seems to
show that the attitude of the law towards child rape was rather lax.
On Saturday 6 January 1722, the Weekly Journal or Saturday’s Post
reported that an ‘old gentleman’ accused of raping and thereby
murdering a three-year old-child had disappeared. In another case
of rape, reported in Tunbridge Wells on 5 August 1727, the Weekly
Journal or British Gazetteer pronounced that Lord Lateran, ‘who
had for many Years been highly honour’d and distinguish’d by the
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Quality, and others who use the Wells’, was caught in an attempt to
rape a child of seven; rather than facing trial he had also absconded.19
It seems that the authorities were more cautious about immediately
apprehending a man of any standing or taking him into custody for
fear it might go against them and that they would gain a powerful
enemy. However, when the perpetrator was convicted, the law came
down heavily upon them. Unsurprisingly, lower-class men were
more easily caught, and more of them suffered the death penalty.
Others managed to escape execution or got off with a whipping.
On Friday 10 April 1730, George Roufon was tried at Hicks Hall for
raping a child of nine and sentenced to be ‘Whipt twice from Islington
Turn-pike to the Church. And to be kept on Hard Labour at Clerken-
well Bridewell for one Year.’20 Some prisoners were sentenced to the
pillory at Palace Yard, Westminster, like Henry Herbert, who in 1731
had attempted to rape an eight-year-old girl.21 This at least gave the
public a chance to express their opinion. When James Allen stood in
the pillory at Charing Cross in 1737 for attempted rape of a six-year-
old, the crowd pelted him viciously.22
Despite the existence of capital punishment for rape of under-
age girls, few cases were ever brought to justice during the eighteenth
century. Believing a child’s word against that of a grown, and often
respectable, man, was hard for most judges. More importantly, there
was a ‘normalization’ of heterosexual rape – a prevalent public (and
male) belief that it was a fact of life for a man to desire sex with a young
girl.23 As we have seen, in Victorian and Edwardian pornography,
images of incestuous sex with children were common. Youngsters were
portrayed as responsible for sexually enticing their elders. A cult of
defloration flourished in which having sex with a virgin was viewed
as something desirable, a result of a shared understanding between
libertine men. Various men’s clubs paid procurers to bring virgins for
their members to deflower; cracking a hymen was a glorification of
a man’s sexual prowess. Rumours also floated around that sex with a
virgin would cure a man of the pox. As a result, diseased men flocked
to brothel-keepers – who themselves were often women – who could
supply them with young virgins. Men had no need to rape to find
young victims; they merely needed a few pence in their pockets and
an eye for a starving child.
The age of the girl in rape cases made a marked difference to the
attitudes of the judges. A fifteen-year-old girl would have been classed
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‘Presto Agitato’
from Martin van
Maële, La Grande
danse macabre
(1907).
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This pederast not only preyed on youths, but also sold his effemin-
ate body. Tardieu published his studies of child abuse cases as
Etude medico-legale sur les attentats aux moeurs (Forensic Study
on Offences against Morals) in 1857, thereby bringing the problem
to the attention of the medical and legal world. Even so, most doc-
tors seem to have been extremely reluctant to admit to signs of abuse.
Since then forensic science has developed considerably, with various
methods of ‘testing’ abuse, but it was years before it was possible
to properly protect children from it.
So how are we to apply the shifting notions of childhood to paedo-
philia? There is plenty of evidence to suggest that parents cared greatly
for their children and were anxious about their children’s welfare –
and they had need to be.33 People perpetrated sexual rapes and assaults
on young children because they were attracted to children, not simply
because there were no suitable or willing adults about, and such
attacks were taken extremely seriously. People, including those of
the law, recognized that children were seen as easy targets, more
vulnerable than adults, and in need of protection. Men regarded as
pillars of society, such as Lord Melbourne, Queen Victoria’s first
prime minister, enjoyed sexually abusing children. He not only beat
his wife and mistresses but also took an unhealthy interest in whip-
ping children.34 His interest was patently sexual: he cut out pictures
of children being beaten from a collection of French erotica called
Les Dames gallantes and sent them to his mistress, Lady Elizabeth
Brandon. In return, she sent him pictures of children being flogged
for ‘reasons of discipline’.
Concerns around paedophilia have led to questions about why
a person would seek out children for sex. A flurry of scientific studies
has emerged over the last 30 years or so in an attempt to understand
the reasons for paedophilia.35 One recent line of thought suggests
that a paedophile’s prior cognition about children as potential sex-
ual partners plays a role in their searching out children for sexual
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had sex with her, he adored her and wrote poems to her, but she
never took as much interest in him. He waited and waited (as was his
way – Dowson was a known procrastinator), but when she reached
the age of eighteen she found another suitor and married him instead.
Although Adelaide was always Dowson’s one true love, she was not
the only subject of Dowson’s devotion; he also adored and wrote
poems about other young girls.
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Philip Wilson Steer, The Black Hat, a picture of Rose Pettigrew, c. 1900.
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Lewis Carroll’s
photograph of
Alice Liddell.
Cover of Kenneth
Grahame, The
Golden Age (1895).
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one sexual disorder also had others; one married woman with two
children was a female invert (lesbian) and before marrying had had
sex with a dog. She was also a sadist: after adopting a girl from a
children’s home, she inflicted over 300 wounds on the girl’s breasts,
labia and clitoris and half starved her. According to Ellis, the woman
was curiously ‘pruriently prudish’, which he deemed was ‘often the
case with sadists’. The woman was sent to a hospital for the insane
and afterwards served two years in prison.45
Sexologists gave little consideration as to why it was mainly men
and not women who were thought to be so prone to paedophilia, but
took it as given. The general thrust of the understanding of the sex-
ologists was linked to the ideology of the time; women were thought
to be more passive, less sexual and less aggressive than men and
therefore less likely to commit such crimes. They did, however, give
much thought to the type of man who might become a paedophile.
Krafft-Ebing categorized two different types of sex offenders
against children: men who use children as a substitute for an adult
partner; and paedophiles who have a disorder. When Freud investi-
gated child abuse, he took a different path. He believed that for every
case of hysteria there was a case of childhood incestual abuse behind
it. He later replaced this with his Oedipus theory in which he classed
reports by women of abuse as subconscious fantasies. In other words,
he believed that women reporting childhood rape were suffering
from delusions as a result of a fixation with their fathers. In certain
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lose, and that most children are already aware of their own socio-
biologically inherited sexuality. William O’Donohue argues that we
need to understand the types of harm sexual acts can do to children;
that children do not have the capacity to consent by virtue of being
children; and that adults have a duty not to harm but to protect
children.49 It has also been suggested that some professionals’
reactions to paedophilia, with their interventionist approach with
children, are more harmful to children than the abuse. Fear is in-
grained in children and any subsequent medical investigations of
their body can be more intrusive and traumatic than the act itself,
adding further stress to the child and leading to anxieties as an adult.
Historically, there has been an innocence ascribed to children
in most Western societies where prevention of any form of sexual
behaviour for young people is the norm. Yet Kinsey gave detailed
and extensive physiological examples of arousal and even orgasm in
infants and prepubescent children. However, the data relating to this
issue was decidedly suspect, as it was taken from a self-admitted
paedophile who had been operating over many years. He gave data of
his sex episodes with children to Kinsey’s researchers, but they
questioned much of the statistical information. Also, some of the
researchers questioned the morality of including data provided by
a paedophile.50
In 1974, paedophiles set up their own organization, the Paedophile
Information Exchange (or Pie) in Britain, ostensibly to campaign
for their rights, as they claimed they were misunderstood. In 1978,
they brought out a pamphlet containing questions and answers,
which provided an insight into how they viewed themselves and
their activities. They asserted that ‘those involved represent no
special threat to society but on the contrary are often a force for
social good.’ Since many people disagreed, they should have per-
haps added an explanation of their reasoning. The authors use the
words ‘sexual love’ to describe the sexual relationships of paedo-
philes with young people, a description claimed by other paedophiles
elsewhere. In answer to the question ‘would most paedophiles like
to be normal?’, they argue that sexuality is natural, harmless and an
integrated part of their personality and they would not want to change,
even if it were possible. Nor do they approve of the use of drugs as
‘treatment’, as it ‘is not desirable to destroy a paedophile’s love for
children’. The authors assert that the child is often ‘a willing partner’
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he killed. He had been known to the police for years before he was
finally arrested in 1996. The police had even searched his house and
heard the screams of two of his victims but did nothing, choosing to
believe the noise came from children playing outside. They later
discovered that he had been let out of prison in 1991 after serving
only three and a half years of a thirteen-year sentence for multiple
rape. Because of the catalogue of ‘mistakes’, the public believed that
there had been a major cover-up and that police were involved in
the paedophile ring. The prison authorities even briefly allowed
Dutroux to escape from prison. He was then nearly released on
human rights grounds as it had taken the police so long to bring a case
against him. He was finally jailed for life in 2004.53 His accomplices,
Martin and Lelièvre, were also jailed for 30 and 25 years respectively,
but no further paedophiles have been exposed in the network. It
was such cases of murder, abduction and violent child abuse that
moulded public perception of paedophiles and shook the legal sys-
tems in Europe and the u.s. into bringing out new laws.
By the 1990s, concern about child abuse was at a historic high
when 45 million viewers tuned their televisions to watch a docu-
mentary about the subject, Scared Silent, which aired on 4 September
1992 in the u.s.54 By 1997, steps were taken by the police to monitor
the movements of convicted sex offenders but the information was
kept from the public and shared only between the police, probation
officers and the local Member of Parliament. Under the British Sex
Offenders Act of 1997, convicted paedophiles were obliged to reg-
ister their names and addresses at their local police stations within
fourteen days of their release. Increasing public reaction against
paedophiles led to campaigns for more openness about their where-
abouts. In the u.s., community notification laws were enacted
throughout the country in the 1990s following the murder of seven-
year-old Megan Kanka; popularly known as Megan’s Law, public
disclosure of the identity of convicted sex offenders was allowed to
the local community in which the paedophile lived. A similar pub-
lic campaign to introduce ‘Sarah’s Law’ was launched in Britain after
the murder of eight-year-old Sarah Payne in 2000. Because of the
prominence and violent public reaction to horrific child murder cases,
all paedophiles have now come to be considered as sex abusers who
might potentially go on to murder children. Treatments have been
applied to paedophiles in attempts to alter their sexual interests.
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Jules Scalbert (1851–1928), The Bathers.
eleven
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Playing games, from the Marquis de Sade, More games, from Sade, Juliette (1797).
Juliette (1797).
Exhibitionism
Exhibitionism has taken various forms throughout the ages. According
to Herodotus, the Egyptians who travelled to Bubastis to celebrate
the festival of Artemis exposed themselves to those they passed by.
They came on barges in great numbers and on the way the men
would play flutes and the women sing, clap and clatter castanets.
As they passed by a town on the riverbank, they would bring their
barge close into the shore and the women would ‘shout abuse at
the women of the place, or start dancing, or hitch up their skirts’.1
These activities were an expected part of the procession. However,
there were a variety of reasons and opportunities for showing off,
and not all fitted neatly into patterns.
People have also exposed themselves as a form of insult. One
woman called Mara from sixteenth-century Dubrovnik had gone
to the house of Fiorio Petrovich and condemned him as a sodomite,
calling him a ‘horned goat’ while gesticulating with lewd gestures.
Afterwards, according to Petrovich, ‘to spite me, she lifted her clothes,
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A female dancer exposes herself to a satyr. Martin van Maële, La Grande danse
macabre (1907).
himself’; he pleaded guilty and was jailed for twelve months. However,
when 31-year-old John Daniels was found guilty of the same offence
nine months later on 23 October, he only received only one month
in jail; there is nothing in the records to indicate why there was a
disparity in sentencing. Some years later, on 2 July 1849, 62-year-old
William Joiner was confined for four months for indecent exposure.
Without more in-depth knowledge of the incidents, it is impossible
to understand why some were treated more seriously than others,
but other mitigating circumstances may have been involved. Then
again, sentencing was, and is, notoriously inconsistent from one
court to another.
In any case, given the low sentences passed, the activity was evi-
dently not regarded as being too threatening. Even when the case of
exposure took place in public places, it was often difficult to obtain
a conviction. When, on 5 January 1857, Felix Hue exposed himself
to Elizabeth Williams, it was on a public highway. Nonetheless, he
was found not guilty, so presumably there were no witnesses. Even
when there were witnesses, it seems to have still been problematic
to ensure a conviction. On 27 February 1860, 31-year-old Giuseppe
Pugno was accused of exposing himself to Margaret Stafford in the
presence of William Henry Crocker. The incident had taken place
in a railway carriage used for conveying passengers along the South
Eastern Railway. Crocker’s defence argued that the carriage was not
in a public place and suggested the carriage ‘might then be lying
under some shed, or undergoing some repair in the carriage-house’.
The indictment was squashed on a technicality as ‘although it alleged
the exposure to be in the presence of another person, it did not allege
that it was within the view of that person; who, though present,
might have been blind or sleeping’.7
‘Streaking’ or ‘mooning’ became new terms for old activities.
‘Mooning’ as a popular term originated in the u.s. only around 1968
and was specifically used to apply to the act of publicly displaying
the bare buttocks. It was usually done for fun rather than erotic
arousal. Although the term ‘to streak’ had been used since medieval
times to mean ‘to rush or run around’, it only came to imply naked-
ness from around 1973 onwards; this occurred after a mass nude
run by 533 people took place at the University of Maryland. It seems
to have been a particularly popular pastime at sports grounds – at
cricket, rugby, football, tennis, snooker, golf and even the Olympic
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While the ages and excuses of the perpetrators varied, this case was
fairly typical of reported incidents. Many of those caught exposing
themselves claimed to have been urinating, others that they had
forgotten to do up their trousers. Also known as ‘lewdly exposing’,
and later ‘flashing’, exhibitionism was just one of the fixations that
men and women experienced – sometimes compulsively, according
to sexologists.
Various sexologists, including Iwan Bloch, Sigmund Freud and
George Merzbach, interviewed and assessed exhibitionists and
concluded that their behaviour was a weakened form of sadism.9
In other words, the exhibitionist was forcing himself or herself on
to unwilling victims who had no option but to watch. Only when the
exhibitionist’s own behaviour became a problem to himself was it
classed as a psychological disorder.
Certain physical ailments such as epilepsy were connected to
exhibitionism and sexologists believed that its onset usually took
place while a patient was still young (mid-teens or early twenties).
They noticed that the exhibitionist frequently felt decidedly uncom-
fortable with his actions, but was compelled to go through with
them. This was attributed to a feeling of guilt on the part of the
perpetrator. An example can be seen in a case reported by Albert
von Schrenck-Notzing involving a loving husband and father who,
unable to stop himself, exposed himself to women in the street and
suffered terrible guilt thereafter.
Guilt was associated with an emotional feeling that was expressed
by a person when they had committed a moral offence for which
they bore responsibility. The appearance of this emotion came as
a result of a shift from public shame to private guilt.10 Prior to this,
in the medieval period in rural areas, people had been shamed into
conformity, which prevented them from acting in a way that might
be considered as out of the ordinary. In these incidents, there was
not necessarily any guilt involved on the part of the perpetrator,
only shame, and then only after he was found out. As rural commu-
nities broke down and people moved to urban centres, there was less
supervision of public morals from the local neighbourhood. The
Lutheran Reformation also shifted attitudes towards sin, encourag-
ing the development of a more internalized world of personal guilt.
An inner, closer God who made a person responsible for his or her
own sins replaced an omnipotent, retributive God. These sins were
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One man was caught at a bus station in the act of rubbing his penis
on a woman’s bottom. He repented deeply, but admitted that it was
the woman’s noticeable posterior that made it irresistible. Although
he admitted to becoming ‘confused’, he was apprehended and sent
to an asylum. But prejudices against women reigned in the 1950s
and ’60s, with men blaming women for not taking enough care of
themselves and wearing provocative clothing. One author, in a book
on sexual deviation published in 1964, suggested that such sexual
advances, ‘though distasteful to many women, are not always repelled’
– all men, it would seem, are likely to have felt the urge.16 He even
blamed women who walked alone over heaths and commons for
seeking out exhibitionists, grumbling, ‘the woman who complains
that this experience often happens to her may generally be justly
accused of seeking it out’.17
Other erroneous statements were made about exhibitionism,
too. One writer discussing sexual perversion and the law claimed,
‘True exhibitionism never involves any actual sexual connection
such as rape.’18 More recently this has proved not to be the case at all.
In a series of studies undertaken by psychologists and behavioural
scientists, it has been found that extreme sex crimes such as rape have
often been preceded by the lesser crime of indecent exposure. In
1998, Freund and Seto undertook a study based on a sample of
127 rapists. Twenty-two per cent admitted voyeurism, with the same
number admitting exhibitionism. Whether this shows an escalation
from exhibitionism to rape, or that exhibitionism is just another
sign of sexual deviance, is unclear. However, a further study under-
taken by Rabinowitz-Greenberg and his colleagues provided a clearer
picture when they assessed 221 exhibitionists between 1983 and 1996.
They compared recidivists and non-recidivists in order to examine
the probability of escalation in the offence chain, and to clarify the
differences between hands-on and hands-off sexual offenders. The
results indicated that indecent exposure was often a recurring crime,
with the same offenders brought before the court again and again.
Of the 41 sexual recidivists, fourteen went on to commit more severe
hands-on sexual crimes (sexual assault). In a follow-up on the same
offenders (thirteen were ‘lost’) in 2006, the investigators found that
‘It is apparent that approximately 39 percent of our sample went on
to commit other offenses, with approximately 31 percent committing
a sexual or violent offense’, which points to escalating patterns of
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beings, then it’s not rational.’22 On his return to his home town of
Eastleigh, he asked the police if it was legal to walk the streets naked,
but they were unable to give him a definite answer. He was to test the
theory out for himself.
He set out on his quest to walk the length of Britain wearing
only hiking boots and a rucksack. On his first venture, he kept off
main roads and slept in fields and barns, and attracted little atten-
tion. However, on his second attempt, which was undertaken with
his then girlfriend Melanie Roberts in 2005, media attention on
him had increased significantly, and so had the interest of his fol-
lowers and the police. At every stop he was arrested, imprisoned,
fined, told to put his clothes back on and released. Bemused officers
would turf him out of the station on the sly by the back door. On
release, he would undress and carry on with his trek. Frequently
police took him to the border of the next jurisdiction so they would
not have to deal with him. He was usually taken into custody for
Breach of the Peace, for ‘conduct which does, or could, cause the
public to be placed in a state of fear, alarm or annoyance’. Yet the
police found it difficult to rustle up witnesses willing to testify that
Gough’s nakedness had that effect on them.
Scottish sheriffs twice found in Gough’s favour and declared
that no crime had taken place – either appearing naked in public,
or in court (he had decided to defend himself so he could not be
refused permission to enter court naked). Eventually, after further
arrests, he refused to put his clothes on at all, so was not let out of
prison. Because he refused to wear clothes in prison, he was not
allowed to move freely about but was only let out of his cell for 30
minutes a day in order to undertake daily chores – post letters,
empty his rubbish and have a shower. While such a stance for one’s
principals can be admired, the law does not take a similar view and
continues to see naked bodies as potentially threatening to society.
In March 2012, Gough was still in Her Majesty’s Prison in Perth,
Scotland, serving 657 days for Breach of the Peace and contempt
of court. This was his seventeenth conviction in ten years and effec-
tively he had been in custody for six years. He says he will only be
released when he is allowed to walk home naked.
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Voyeurism
Sexologists described voyeurism as the opposite of exhibitionism:
watching people in the desire to glimpse their sexual organs or to see
them having sex. Voyeurs often benefit from watching people who
are unaware that they are being watched, the very secrecy providing
an added frisson. In ancient Roman friezes and paintings, depictions
of men and women having sex often included someone watching,
standing behind a door or peering through a window; in paintings
from Campania, someone else, usually a servant, is nearly always
around in the pictures depicting couples having sex. The Roman poet
Martial appreciated voyeurism when he advised one woman, ‘Always
with doors wide open and unguarded, Lesbia, you receive your lovers;
you do not hide your vices. The beholder gives you more pleasure than
the lover.’23
Peering through keyholes and gaps in walls seems to have be a
pastime with a long history, if eighteenth-century bestiality and
lesbianism trial reports are anything to go by. Many an upright citi-
zen gave witness to the debauched behaviour of their neighbours
after secretly peering through holes in their walls into adjacent
homes. Richer families shared their homes with a bevy of servants
who might sweep in at any time without a moment’s notice. Domestic
servants were particularly well versed as witnesses at trials because
of their close proximity to the rest of the household. Servants sleep-
ing in overhead garrets were often party to the sexual activities of
the inner sanctum of the boudoir of their mistresses. No doubt this
created a sense of danger; the possibility of being caught in a clan-
destine relationship merely heightened the excitement.
Watching sex was also used as a method of instruction for young
people, who were encouraged to witness couples having intercourse.
John Cleland was worldly enough to have known about the regime
of brothels when he wrote Memoirs of a Woman of Pleasure (1748).
He shows how the fictional heroine Fanny Hill began her sexual
experience as a voyeur, watching through a hole in the wall while a
couple had sex in the next-door room at the brothel where she was
living. John Cannon (1684–1743) showed that this was not only a
fiction. At sixteen, he drilled holes in a privy wall so he could mastur-
bate while viewing the genitals of a maidservant living in the house
next door. Similarly, a bunch of eighteenth-century libertines from
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A man in the background watches a woman as a couple have sex through a glory
hole. Illustration by Paul Gavarni in The Places of Pleasure, c. 1840.
Norwich planned their voyeuristic activities after they had drilled holes
in their guests’ bedrooms in order to watch them. They also peered
through keyholes to watch the sexual activities of others.24
During the twentieth century, voyeurs were sent to psychiatrists
for assessment and treatment,25 but most doctors seemed to consider
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The Devil
copulates with
sleeping women
while other devils
watch, by Achille
Devéria, c. 1835.
were part of the scene. The phenomenon has spread all over the West
and several websites have sprung up to organize meetings between
strangers to have sex in public places.
Strangely, non-consensual voyeurism did not become a crimi-
nal offence in the uk until 1 May 2004, and in Canada not until 2005.
These laws also cover the offence of secret filming. In the u.s., the Video
Voyeurism Prevention Act of 2004 amended the federal criminal
code to provide that whoever knowingly videotapes, photographs,
films, records by any means or broadcasts an image of a private area
of an individual, without that individual’s consent, shall be fined
or imprisoned for not more than one year, or both. Increasingly the
laws have had to be amended and updated to take into account new
ways of becoming voyeuristic. Meanwhile, exhibitionists and voyeurs
were to introduce new games to their sex play.
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‘Surely Varina, you have but a very mean opinion of the joys that
accompany a true honourable unlimited love?’30
By the twentieth century, the psychiatrist Albert Moll was out-
lining his patients’ cases of coprophilia; one youth hid in closets in
order to catch young girls defecating, this desire having been with
him since childhood. Another patient of Moll’s described his desire
in more detail, ‘No-one can imagine what demonical joy I am pos-
sessed with at the thought of a beautiful naked boy whose abdomen
is filled as the result of long abstinence from stool. To observe defe-
cation would still further increase this pathological enjoyment.’ He
had the idea that he would feed the boy potable and coarse spread,
which delayed defecation, and would thereby derive greater excite-
ment when at last he watched it emerging from the boy’s anus.
The association between faeces fixation and olfactory enjoy-
ment was first noticed by Wilhelm Fliess (1858–1928), a specialist in
otolaryngology, or enT (ear, nose and throat), who associated many
disorders to the nose. Fliess had developed a theory connecting reflex
nasal neuroses to various pathological disorders, an idea which
influenced Freud. In Freud’s view, smell was most closely linked
with faeces and with the ‘anal phase’ of psychological development.
A few decades later, in the 1950s, Caprio applied the same theory
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felt compelled to follow her and would become greatly excited and
ejaculate. He was oblivious to the taste; his fascination, according
to Ellis, was based around erotic symbolism. For Ellis, the act took
place when ‘the lover’s attention is diverted from the central focus
of sexual attraction to some object or process which is on the periph-
ery of that focus, or is even outside it altogether’. In other works it
diverts the person away from its true course of ‘sexual conjuga-
tion’.38 This is revealing in that it shows that this was a time when
heterosexual vaginal penetrative sex was seen as the only normal
type of ‘real’ sex – even for the more enlightened sexologist. Anything
other than this was classified merely as a ‘diversion’. Yet drinking
urine was not always necessarily connected to any sexual predilection.
The practice of amardi, or ingesting one’s own urine, has been a form
of therapy for centuries, well known to Yogis. German doctor Johann
Heinrich Zedler listed the many properties of urine: for example,
‘inflammation can be helped by gargling with urine to which a bit
of saffron had been added.’ In the case of Ellis’s patient, though,
drinking women’s urine seems to have been undertaken as a sexual
obsession rather than for any health reason.
Although most of the cases of both coprophilia and urolagnia
involved male subjects, some women indulged in a passion for fae-
ces and urine. One of Albert Moll’s cases was an extremely intelligent
lesbian ‘with various masculine tastes’ and a feminine build. Although
she had lived exclusively with one woman, finding her sexual satis-
faction through cunnilingus, later her tastes developed to include
coprophilia and urolagnia, as well as being bitten and whipped.39
Coprophilia and urolagnia also occurred in paraphilic infantil-
ism, otherwise known as baby role-play or ‘adult baby syndrome’, and
still continues today. This involves the participant dressing up and
acting like a baby, usually donning giant nappies and sucking on
large dummies. Lacy bonnets or romper suits are sometimes worn.
The role-player may defecate or urinate into outsized nappies, there-
by incorporating ‘shits and showers’ into fetish baby play. Adult babies
crawl about on the floor and sometimes large cribs are involved to
cater for their fantasies, which may also involve an adult or ‘parent’
role, played by another willing partner, who may bathe, dress, feed,
scold or nurture the ‘baby’. Paraphilic infantilism has been seen as
reflecting the participant’s underlying need to surrender adult respon-
sibilities and be cared for for a short period of time, and are often
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recognized that the punishment itself might have the opposite effect
to the one he intended and elicit erotic feelings. Other religious
leaders, such as St Francis of Sales, displayed equal fervour for the
whip. In 1604, he wrote to advise his friend Madame de Chantal, a
member of the French aristocracy,
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O ur genitalia are usually the first areas that come to mind when
we think about having sex. The clitoris, labia and penis are all
erogenous zones considered prominent sites of sexual stimulation.
Yet at times in the past, in the Western world, touching these areas
in certain ways was taboo. The ancient Greeks, for example, thought
that fellatio and cunnilingus were unspeakable crimes, particularly
when the object of desire – the clitoris or vagina – was attached to
a menstruating woman. Similarly, in ancient Rome oral sex was
seen as distasteful. Sextus Cloelius, the scribe and secretary to the
Roman politician Clodius Pulcher, was criticized for performing
cunnilingus on menstruating women; and Quintus Apronius, chief
henchman to the corrupt magistrate of Sicily, Gaius Verres, was
accused of having bad breath – in those days, a sure sign of a fellator
or cunnilictor.
A gender distinction existed in relation to oral sex: it was con-
sidered much worse for a man to provide fellatio or cunnilingus than
for a woman to provide the same service. Men should not go down
on other men or women, as it would undermine their status. Yet both
fellatio and cunnilingus, despite being considered vile, commonly
took place. In Pompeii, good fellators were congratulated: ‘Myrtis,
you suck well’, complimented one graffiti writer on the walls in the
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A man performs
cunnilingus on a
woman. Roman
fresco from the
Suburban Baths
in Pompeii,
1st century ad.
those who had committed fellatio. Yet little about actual oral sex is
mentioned in history, although there are a few references in English
sodomy and pornography trials in the seventeenth and eighteenth
centuries. At a time when few people washed regularly and hygiene
was at a low, oral sex was probably not an exciting prospect. A few
jocular references were made to it in bawdy ballads, but these were
usually about the bad smell.
By the nineteenth century, the verb ‘gamahuche’ was used for
oral sex, possibly from the Greek gamo, ‘to fuck’, and the French
hucher, ‘to call’ (‘fuck call’, although just like the English colloqui-
alism ‘blow job’, it does not mean what it says). ‘Gamahuching’ had
become rife in both French and British pornography and although
pornography cannot be taken as actual proof of the practice, it does
mean that there was an understanding that these events were taking
place. According to the pornographic The Lascivious Hypocrite (c.
1891), boys in boarding schools reported ‘plenty of details concerning
mutual friggings, and pointed out pretty boys who could be found
in each other’s beds, and had been detected in gamahuching and every
kind of excess’.2 Likewise, in The Quintessence of Birch Discipline
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A woman fellates
a man, Roman
oil lamp found
at Pompeii,
1st century ad.
A man fellates a woman in a group sex scene by Achilles Devéria for Alfred
de Musset, Gamiani, c. 1848.
on body parts
indulgence in a normal way.’5 How far his feelings about oral sex
were indicative of those of other Victorian and Edwardian men is hard
to judge, but from the extant sources it is clear that there continued
to be a wide variation of opinion. Certainly for sexologists it was
not seen as befitting behaviour for an upstanding gentleman. Rather,
it was seen to be the practice of men of low morality or those who
were mentally unbalanced or already sexually satiated. Ellis linked
cunnilingus to the activities of foreigners (those from Zanzibar, or
the Slavs from the Balkans) and lesbians. He did, however, concede
that ‘cunnilingus and fellatio as practised by either sex, are liable
to occur among healthy or morbid persons, either in heterosexual
or homosexual relationships’.6 Nonetheless, he warned that these
oral activities became perversions if they were practised to the
exclusion of ‘normal sexual relationships’. Little had changed by the
mid-twentieth century, when one psychiatrist stated of one of his
patients, ‘The wish to degrade women is evidenced in his wanting
to have women perform fellatio which he links up with his incestu-
ous relationship to his mother and sisters.’ It made him feel as
though he was ‘the man and the master’.7 Krafft-Ebing would no
doubt have been surprised at the extent of current-day practice of
oral sex, which is now seen as part of a natural, healthy sex life.
Fetishism
Any obsession with certain parts of the body – such as fat, hair, hands,
feet, neck and so on – was labelled as fetishism by sexologists. These
fetishisms could lead to licking, stroking, sucking, infibulating or
otherwise inserting into or ejaculating on to the focus of lust. Many
fetishists felt a complete lack of the control over their impulses,
and many sought help from psychologists and psychiatrists.
It was the French psychologist Alfred Binet who first identified
sexual fetishism in ‘Le Fétichisme dans l’amour’ (Revue Philoso-
phique, 1887) and saw it as a predominant or exclusive interest in
inanimate objects or a particular body part, a type of deviation in
which ‘the person’s libido becomes attached to something that
constitutes a symbol of the love-object’. He remarked, ‘in the life
of every fetishist, there can be assumed to have been some event
which determined the association of lustful feeling with the single
impression.’ He believed that fetishism was normal, declaring,
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Can this fascination with a part of the body of his loved one be
called fetishism, or is it merely adoration? Was Guinevere’s hair a
fetish object? In the end, Lancelot was not fascinated with anybody
else’s hair, only Guinevere’s – and the hair only became a love object
when he discovered it was Guinevere’s. From his position as a
knight, he could only love her from a distance, so her hair became
a sexual substitute for the whole of her body (although, of course,
the lovers would break this code of honour). Since the relationship
of Lancelot to Guinevere is the one of a subject to his queen, a
position of subservience should be taken up by him; a knight must
revere his lady. Courtly codes dictated behavioural rules; men were
subject to obeying the seemingly capricious whims of ladies in
order to win their love, and knights were continually given dangerous
quests in order to prove their dedication. Adoration of Guinevere’s
hair could be safely undertaken from a noble knight’s position
without the idea of ‘fetishism’.
Yet similar obsessions with hair were detected in the late 1890s,
when sexologists established a long list of similar sexual focuses
on particular body parts. One of the first people to be recorded as
having a problem with hair fetishism was a patient of Krafft-Ebing’s.
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you wear your shoes so tight that you often raise your dress to
show your feet to those knaves.’17
By the eighteenth century, shoe fetishism had taken hold and
many men and women admired other’s perfect feet. Restif de la
Bretonne (1734–1806) admitted to an admiration of girls’ shoes,
and in his first literary success, Le Pied de Fanchette, the narrator is
attracted to a girl he sees in the street sporting charming shoes.
Bretonne traced his fetishism (although he did not call it such)
back to when he was four and found himself admiring the feet of a
young girl where he lived. He preferred his girls neat and clean and
and went on to graduate from high school. When he was about 21,
he married a seventeen-year-old girl who bore him two children. His
eccentricities began to show when he started to make her do house-
work naked except for high heels while he took photographs of her.
He began stalking women, and soon graduated to murder, hiding
the bodies in his garage – he bludgeoned four women between 1968
and 1969 while dressed in women’s clothing. In order to try out the
shoes he collected, he kept the left foot of one of his victims.25 Even
after he was in prison, he continued to collect shoes, writing to
shoe companies to ask for pairs. He died from liver cancer in prison
on 28 March 2006. This sort of murderous extreme is, however,
relatively rare and fetishism is usually an innocuous activity.
The fetish object has often been associated with a particular
time and place. Hence gas masks became a fetish object for those who
had experienced unusual or unexpected sexual experiences during
or just after the Second World War. In the case of fetishism of fur,
leather, rubber, plastic, rubber, Pvc, latex and so on, fetishists revel
in wearing the specific material. Clothing made out of these mate-
rials has become particularly popular in s&M sex play. Such play might
combine multiple fetishisms, such as the wearing of masks made
of leather, shoes of suede and silk underwear.
‘Chubby-chasing’ became a hobby for those obsessed with fat.
Whether this has to do with the after-effects of post-Second World
War rationing or with the current preoccupation with diet has yet to
be ascertained. In certain poorer countries, fatness is connected to
wealth but in the West it is thinness that is usually admired. Some
fetishism for particular body parts is more problematic and can be
dangerous. Neck obsessions, for example, have led to choking or
strangling. Known as hypoxyphilia, strangulation for sexual pleasure
has been classed as a paraphilia in a sub-category of sexual maso-
chism in psychiatrists’ diagnostic manuals. Consenting controlled
strangulation was introduced into s&M role-play as it induces a semi-
hallucinogenic state called hypoxia. Combined with orgasm, it provides
a rush akin to a cocaine high, so pleasurable that it is highly addictive.
Also known as asphyxiophilia, or sexual asphyxia, this potentially
lethal sexual practice refers to sexual arousal that is produced while
reducing the oxygen supply to the brain. These activities have fre-
quently been known to lead to fatalities and can be traced back at
least as far as the eighteenth century.
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the Venus de Milo and being discovered while attempting coitus with
it. But at least one sex researcher denied that it ever existed, except
in pornographic fantasy.30
The passion for statues was replaced with more pliant models.
Full-bosomed life-size latex or rubber dolls were produced to provide
passive sex for lonely men. The dolls had open spaces for penetra-
tion to take place in either the ‘mouth’ or ‘vagina’ orifices. Perhaps
one of the most ingenious rubber dolls is described in the porn-
ography La Femme endormie (1899), which purports to be the story
of Paul Molaus, a wealthy man of about 40 from Bois-Colombes.
Inspired by the story of Pygmalion, and having become disillusioned
with his mistresses (and with women generally, one assumes), he asks
a designer to make the perfect lover. The creator himself describes
her perfection:
Since then all sorts of variations of sex dolls have been produced,
from cheap plastic inflatable ones (which barely resemble dolls, let
alone humans) to life-size ones made out of silicone, which appear
amazingly human. They can be brought online from specialized
companies. These ‘real life’ dolls have human hair and are covered
in a material that feels like human skin to the touch.
The relationship between people and rubber dolls was made all
the more poignant in the film Lars and the Real Girl (2007). The lead
male character, the lonely, girlfriendless Lars, invests in a lifelike doll,
takes her everywhere and treats her as a real girlfriend. For the sake
of Lars, everyone in the community treats her as his real girlfriend,
tolerating his taking her for nights out drinking, going bowling with
her and voting her on to various committees. He eventually discards
her when he finds a real girlfriend.
More recently a new kind of sexuality has made the news with
people who call themselves ‘objectum sexuals’ (os), or ‘people who
have loving relationships with objects’. The British television docu-
mentary Married to the Eiffel Tower, directed by Agnieszka Piotrowska
(2008), claimed that there are only about 40 such people in the world,
but this may be because they keep quiet about their inclinations as
a result or from fear of persecution. Three women who classified
themselves as os were interviewed about their sexual orientation in
this documentary, each of them telling how they had fallen in love
with objects. Erika LaBrie became a world-champion archer after
she fell in love with her archery bow, which she called Lance. She
says she was ‘attracted to him because of his looks’. Her close rela-
tionship with her bow allowed her to become a champion archer but
her expertise in archery began to fail when her attraction for her bow
diminished. She then fell in love with the Eiffel Tower and went
through a marriage ceremony with it in 2007, which was performed
on the tower itself in front of a group of her friends. She took the
married name of Erika La Tour Eiffel. Before this she had a three-
year relationship with the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco. She
then fell in love with the Berlin Wall. When challenged about her
behaviour on The Tyra Banks Show, she asserted: ‘I am not broken.’33
Objectum sexuals say they have been derided and treated as
if they were mad. In the documentary, all of the women were por-
trayed as profoundly distressed and shown to have suffered some
sort of rejection or familial dysfunction in their childhood. Erika was
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The poet Anacreon is depicted with his genitals infibulated. Marble statue,
Monte Calvo, Italy, 2nd century ad.
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A ‘Prince Albert’
piercing.
permanent. Men can also extend the girth of their penis with fat
taken from other parts of the body transplanted into its sides –
however, since the penis head cannot be fattened this way, the
results sometimes look a little odd. Silicone injections can also be
used to enhance the size of the penis and can cause amazingly fast
results, increasing the penis girth by up to five times. For this reason,
the procedure has been used in the pornographic film industry,
despite the dangers of damage and desensitization. Surgeons have
on occasion suggested penile implants, which involve inserting a rod
or a pipe in cases where a man may have had difficulty in obtaining
erection. A pump is attached to the groin and the penis is pumped
up when he wants an erection. For women there are all sorts of
methods available to enhance their sexual organs – breast-enlarging
serums such as ‘Lady’s Secret’, vaginal tightening and oestrogen
creams have become money-spinners worldwide.
Surgery for breast augmentation or reduction is now common-
place, with hundreds of thousands of women worldwide undergoing
cosmetic breast procedures. Operations for making the labia look
smaller and ‘tidier’ are now increasingly fashionable. But have obses-
sions developed beyond the interest of the psychoanalyst or sexual
psychologist? Is it a case of mass body dysmorphia, or are we all
merely taking advantage of new opportunities offered to us? People
who have experienced Body Integrity Identity Disorder (biid), a
severe type of body dysmorphia in which people desire an ampu-
tation, have requested the removal of limbs – and in some cases
doctors have complied with their wishes. But is this ethically accept-
able? New fixations and methods of sex develop with new types of
surgery. Apotemnophilia, a paraphilia in which the subject is aroused
by their being or imagining themselves as an amputee, is related to
biid: amputation has now become part of the erotic ensemble, with
stumps of arms and legs being used for penetration (acrotomophilia
refers to an erotic interest in amputees).
John Money and his colleagues examined apotemnophilia in
the Journal of Sex Research in 1977, summarizing as follows:
Fisting
One of the earliest mentions of fisting comes in Aristophanes’
Peace, where he uses sporting metaphors for rough sex. In this
surreal comedy of 421 bc, the hungry vine grower Trygaeus shares
his fantasies of sex with Lady Festival, whom he has just met:
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Epilogue: A Limit to
Tolerance?
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references
Introduction
1 See section on ‘Problems with the Current Diagnostic Criteria’, in
Sexual Deviance: Theory, Assessment and Treatment, ed. D. Richard
Laws and William T. O’Donohue (New York, 1997), p. 4.
1 Taking it Straight
1 The current sociological argument is that heterosexuality is a
learned behaviour, not a natural occurrence. A hetero–homosexual
binary exists, but this framework also categorizes types of
heterosexual behaviour in a hierarchical way. As Ingraham argues,
‘Thinking straight is understanding heterosexuality as naturally
occurring and not as an extensively social arrangement or means
for distributing power and wealth.’ For a more in-depth sociological
understanding of the development of heterosexuality, see Chrys
Ingraham, Thinking Straight: The Power, the Promise and the
Paradox of Heterosexuality (London, 2005).
2 Pseudo-Demosthenes, ‘Oration’, Against Nerea, 59.122.
3 Wilhelm Adolf Bekker, Charicles; or, Illustrations of the Private Life
of the Greeks (London, 1866), p. 463. Although this is not entirely
true as some Roman women have been found to exercise a good
deal of financial independence in practice; see for example Suzanne
Dixon, Reading Women (London, 2003).
4 Suetonius, Tiberius, 43–44; David Mountfield, Greek and Roman
Erotica (Fribourg, 1982), pp. 43.
5 King Priam had many children born of consorts, according to
Homer’s Iliad, but by the classical period, having a concubine
and a wife under the same roof was ruled out; see Susan Lape,
‘Heterosexuality’, in A Cultural History of Sexuality, vol. i: In the
Classical World, ed. Mark Golden and Peter Toohey (London, 2011),
p. 18.
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36 Diana Southami, Wild Girls: Paris, Sappho and Art: The Lives
of Natalie Barney and Romaine Brookes (London, 2004).
37 Women’s Life, 10 January 1920.
38 Alison Oram, Her Husband Was a Woman: Women’s
Gender-crossing in Modern British Popular Culture (London, 2007).
39 Hansard Parliamentary Debates, House of Commons, 5th series,
cxlv, 1804–5.
40 Nigel Nicholson, Portrait of a Marriage (London, 1974), pp. 106–7.
41 Lesbian Herstory Educations Foundation pamphlet from The
Archives, ‘Radclyffe Hall’s 1934 Letter about The Well of Loneliness’
(New York, 1994), p. 2.
42 Sunday Express (19 August 1928), p. 10.
43 Frank Caprio, Variations in Sexual Behaviour (London, 1957),
pp. 160–61; Frank Caprio, Female Homosexuality: A Psychodynamic
Study of Lesbianism (New York, 1954), p. viii. Others were in a
greement; according to Dr William G. Niederland, many lesbians
suffered from a masculinity complex that could lead to serious
difficulties if left unchecked. He suggested psychoanalysis as
the answer.
44 Caprio, Variations, p. 177.
45 Eric Oakley, Sex and Sadism Throughout the Ages (London, 1965),
p. 43.
46 Margaret Otis, ‘A Perversion Not Commonly Noted’, Journal of
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M y thanks must go to all the scholars who have worked in all the
separate areas of the history of sexuality – from bestiality to sado-
masochism. Without them, I would have been unable to build on my
original research here and make a broader picture of sexual perversion in
the West. I have tried to mention all who have had an impact on this
book in the References, but there are many more who have influenced
my work in the history of sexuality over the years, particularly all the
contributors to the Cultural History of Sexuality project.
My thanks go to the librarians at the Harry Ransom Center, Texas;
to those at the Kinsey Institute, Indiana, for their assistance; and to those
at Sussex University Library, for their help on the Mass Observation
Surveys. As usual, the librarians in the British Library have continued to
be invaluable, particularly on the eighteenth-, nineteenth- and twentieth-
century primary sources.
I thank the members of the H-Histsex@H-Net forum who assisted in
many a query, and the continued support from friends and colleagues at
Birkbeck, University of London. Among other friends and colleagues
who helped were barrister Rosie Burns and Rictor Norton. Thanks also
to Professor Mark Golden, Professor Helen King and Dr Anna Katharina
Schaffner for reading parts of the book on the classical work and the
sexologists respectively.
Without a great team at Reaktion Books, especially Aimee Selby, my
editor, this book would not have been as good. My thanks go to them
and to Michael Leaman for spotting a good title when he sees one and
for letting me keep so many images in the book.
Most of the images come from my own collection of books, postcards
and photographs and are my personal choice. While I enjoyed undertaking
the picture research, I know I gave Harry Gilonis some trouble and less
fun trying to obtain some of the more hard-to-find alternatives I requested.
I thank him very much for all his hard work and assistance in attempts to
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retrieve the images I wanted. I also thank the Wellcome Library for the use
of their images.
Most of all, as usual, my ultimate gratitude must go to my friend and
partner Jad Adams, who cooked me many dinners, travelled with me on
various research trips and helped me with the exploration on home turf.
To him, I owe most happiness in life.
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The author and publishers wish to express their thanks to the below
sources of illustrative material and/or permission to reproduce it. (Some
locations uncredited in the captions for reasons of brevity are also given
below.)
1797): pp. 220, 330, 352, 359, 369; from The ‘De Ss. Martyrum cruciatibus’
of the Rev. Father [Antonio] Gallonio . . . (London, Paris: printed for the
subscribers, 1903): p. 215 (right); from Achille Devéria, Diabolico Foutro
Manie (Paris, 1835): p. 347; from John B. Ellis, Free Love and its Votaries
(New York, n.d.): p. 38; Galleria Borghese, Rome: p. 87; Gemäldegalerie,
Berlin: p. 86; from Conrad Gesner, Historiae Animalium (Zürich, 1551–8):
p. 193 (right); from Kenneth Grahame, The Golden Age (London, 1895):
p. 314; from Le Grand Kalendrier et Compost des Bergiers . . . (Troyes, 1529):
p. 215 (left); Herbert Art Gallery and Museum, Coventry: p. 349; from
Magnus Hirschfeld, Sexualpathologie (Bonn, 1921): p. 167; Hunterian
Museum, London: p. 251; from The Illustrated London News, 21 July 1877:
p. 157; from Invocation a l’amour Chant philosophique (London, c. 1825):
p. 54; Josef Mensing Gallery, Hamm-Rhynern: p. 328; The Josephinium,
Vienna: p. 258; Richard Von Krafft-Ebing Collection: p. 166; Kunst-
historisches Museum, Vienna: pp. 144, 272 (foot); Kunstmuseum, Basel:
p. 257; from Jean-Charles Gervaise de Latouche (attrib.), Dom Bougre oú
Le Portier de Chartreux (Frankfurt, 1741): p. 92; ‘Choisy Le Conin’ (Franz
von Bayros), Erzahlungen am Toilettentische (privately published, 1908):
p. 178; Library of Congress, Washington, dc: p. 304; Library of the Royal
College of Physicians, Edinburgh: p. 251; from the London Illustrated
News (1843): p. 161; reproduced by courtesy of the Master and Fellows of
Trinity College, Cambridge: p. 362 left); from John Laws Milton, On the
Pathology and Treatment of Spermatorrhoea (London, 1887): p. 64; from
Albert Moll, Handbuch der Sexualwissenschaften (Leipzig, 1921): p. 67;
Musée du Louvre, Paris: pp. 74, 119 (left), 213, 281, 366; Musée d’Orsay,
Paris: p. 185; Museo Nazionale Archeologico, Tarquinia: p. 108; from
Alfred de Musset, Gamiani, ou deux nuits d’excès (Brussels, 1833): pp. 65,
370 (foot); Naples Archaeological Museum, Italy: pp. 16, 17, 182, 367, 368;
National Archaeological Museum, Madrid: p. 210; National Museum
Stockholm: p. 119 (right); New York Historical Society: p. 159; ny Carlsberg
Glyptotek, Copenhagen: p. 390; Palazzo Farnese, Rome: p. 272 (top);
from James Parsons, A Mechanical and Critical Enquiry into the Nature of
Hermaphrodites (London, 1741): p. 120; private collections: pp. 181 (foot),
241, 295, 311; Rijsmuseum, Amsterdam: p. 273; Shibden Hall, Yorks: p. 124;
La Specula, Florence: p. 259; Staatliche Antikensammlungen, Munich: pp.
78, 212, 242; Staatliches Museen, Berlin: p. 23; State Pushkin Museum, St.
Petersburg: p. 18; Tate, London: pp. 260, 312; from Léo Taxil, Les Prostitutes
Contemporarie (Paris, 1884): p. 133; from S.A.D. Tissot, L’Onanisme; ou
dissertation physique sur les maladies produites par la masturbation (Paris,
1836): p. 61; from S.A.D. Tissot, L’Onanismo ovvero Dissertazioni sopra le
malattie cagionate dalle Polluzioni voluntarie (Venice, 1785): p. 60; from
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Heidelberg Cod. Pal. germ. 848 (Codex Manesse): p. 147; from Antonio
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Hall, Radclyffe 137, 138–9, the Skimmington 160 impotence 17–18, 22, 37,
142 Cunicularii . . . 196 61, 71, 121, 149, 150, 152,
The Well of Loneliness The Four Stages of 318, 358, 368
137, 138–9, 173 Cruelty 250 incest 7, 10–11, 33, 262–3,
Hall, Thomas 158–60 Hogg, Thomas 190 270–93
Hamill, Katharine Forrest Holloway, John 91 infibulations 388–93
312 Homer 78–9 infertility 57, 273
Hammond, Charles 95 homosexuality (general) see also fertility
Harding, William 305 11–12, 165, 16, 175, 227, insanity 21, 54, 56, 58,
Hare, William 251–5 290, 350, 394–5, 402 60–62, 66, 70, 72, 128,
see also Burke, William homosexuality (male) 7, 134, 224, 372
Haworth, John 192 12, 33–4, 36, 75–107, Institute for Sex Research
Hawtrey, Charles 164 109, 131, 134, 139, 164, 165
Hello Dolly (play) 164 168, 234–5, 268, 290, intercrural sex 16, 77, 79,
Héloïse d’Argenteuil 26–8 350, 375, 384, 394–6 101, 246
Herbert, Henry 306 see also anal inter- International Statistical
herbs 18, 209 course; sodomy Classification of
Herculaneum 10, 182 homosexuality (female) Diseases and Related
hereditary disease 62, 339, 137–8 Health Problems (icd)
372, 375, 379, 399 see also lesbianism 10–11, 268–9, 325
see also tainted families homunculi 55–6 Internet 402
hermaphroditism, her- Hopkins, Elizabeth 300 inversion
maphrodites 110, hormones 170–72, 176, female see lesbianism
118–22, 171 392 male see homosexuali-
Hermes 47 hospitals 62, 380 ty
Herodotus 182–3, 239, Hot Lunch 350 Isherwood, Christopher
242, 330 Howe, Joseph 68 103
Herridge, George 333 Hudson, Rock 103 Izzard, Eddie 165
Hertner, Elisabeth 114–17 Hue, Felix 334
Hertzeldorfer, Katherina Hunt, Arabella 121 James, Robert, Medical
114, 388 Hunt, Morton 205 Dictionary 58
He-Strumpets . . ., The Hunter, John 71 James, William 98–9
(poem, John Dunton) Hunter, William 249 Jepson, Edgar 310
88–9 Hustler (magazine) 384, Johnson, William 307
hetairai 211, 296 394 Joiner, William 334
see also prostitutes Huxley, Thomas Henry, Jorgenson, Christine
heterosexuality 7, 13–43, Man’s Place in Nature 172–3
76, 102 197 Jung, Carl 288
Hickey, William 31–2 hybrids 192–9
Hiller, Kurt 165 Hygienic Methods of Kaprovitsh, Ivan 230
Hindley, Myra 320 Family Limitations Karolewski, Susan 291
Hippocrates, On Diseases (Sanger and Haire) 38 Keller, Rosa 219
of Women, 19, 48 hypersexual disorder 12 Kellogg, John Harvey 70
Hirschfeld, Magnus hysteria 70, 319–20 Kertbeny, Karl Maria 33,
165–70, 229, 380 75
Sexualpathologie 167 idiocy 286, 335 Kierman, James G. 33
Histoire de Dom Bougre, see also insanity kinaidoi 79
portier de Chartreux illegitimacy 41 Kinsey, Alfred C. 13,
(erotica, attrib. J.-C. G imagination 58, 60, 122, 39–40, 71–2, 170, 175,
de Latouche) 282, 283 150, 196, 247, 248 204–5, 321
Hoare, William 303 immorality 25, 35, 38, 162, Kinsey Scale 40
Hogarth, William 249–50 180, 315 Kirk, Edward 68–9
Hudibras Encounters Morgan, Lewis Henry 287 Knights Templar 81–3
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Knowlton, Charles, The Levi, Michael 303 marriage 15, 29, 110, 121,
Fruits of Philosophy 38 Lévi-Strauss, Claude 289 126, 128, 135, 138, 146,
Knox, Dr Robert 251–5 libertines 31–2, 51–3, 88, 204, 224, 263, 265, 295,
Kottak, Conrad P., 289 286, 306, 332, 344, 358 297, 299–300, 348, 361,
Kotzwara, Frantisek 383 Liddell, Alice 310, 313 387
Kraepelin, Emile 72 Liébault, Jean 54 incestuous 271–82, 287,
Krafft-Ebing, Richard von Lister, Anne 123–4 289–90, 292
8, 33–5, 69, 101, 109, London Committee for medieval period 25–30
139, 141, 199, 200–02, the Suppression of the Enlightenment 30–32
225–6, 263, 287–8, Traffic in British Girls . Marriage Act of 1835 282
317–19, 335, 339, 351, . . 315 Marriage Act of 1949 290
362, 368–75, 384 London Monster 230–31 Married Love (Marie
Psychopathia Sexualis London Society for Stopes) 38
109, 263, 335 Prevention of Cruelty Marsham, Abigail 123
Kronfeld, Arthur 165 to Children (nsPcc) 314 Marten, John 56
kynodesme 390 Los Angeles, Municipal Martial 183, 344
Code of 175 martyrdom, martyrs 22,
La Rue, Danny 164 Lot 272, 273, 274 214, 215, 222, 224
La Tour Eiffel, Erika Love and Pain (Havelock masochism 24, 34, 209,
387–8 Ellis) 226–7 216, 221–9, 234–7,
labia 319, 342, 365, 392 love sickness 20–21 372–3, 375, 393
Ladder (magazine) 142 Lucian 111–13, 183 Mass Observation 40, 455
‘Lady’s Dressing Room, lunatic asylum 62, 72, Masters and Johnson
The’ (Jonathan Swift) 139, 339 (William H. Masters
348 lust-murders 34, 233–4, and Virginia E.
Ladyboys 176 261 Johnson) 42
Laffite-Cyon, Françoise see also rape masturbation 25, 33,
37 Luther, Martin 29–30 45–73, 94, 101, 118, 170,
Lamb, Ralph 29 Lycomedes 145 184, 205, 262–3, 372–3,
Lancelot 374 Lysistrata Haranguing 378, 398
Lars and the Real Girl the Athenian Women Matrimonial Causes Act
(film, dir. Craig (Aubrey Beardsley) 127, 30
Gillespie) 387 129 Maudsley, Henry 66
Lascivious Hypocrite, The Max, Mon Amour (film,
(erotica) 367 Mackenzie, Sir George 51, dir. Nagisa Oshima)
Lasègue, Charles 335 188 197
Lateran Council 25–6, 81, madness see insanity Mearns, Andrew, Bitter
275 Mäele, Martin van, La Cry of Outcast London
Le Sueur, Eustache, The Grande danse macabre (pamphlet) 286
Abduction of Ganymede des vifs (The Great Mechanical and Critical
74 Danse Macabre of the Enquiry into the Nature
Leader, Nicholas 90 Quick Prick) 201, 203, of Hermaphrodites, A
Lees, Edith 37 284, 307, 331 (James Parsons) 119,
Leeuwenhoek, Anton van Mahew, Henry 286 120, 120
55 Mailly, Jean de 150 Megilla 112–13
Leno, Dan 162 Malthusian League 38 Meibom, Johann
Lenoir, Police Lieutenant Manningham, Sir Richard Heinrich 358
93 196 Meiwes, Armin 399
lesbianism, lesbians 7, 9, Marie Antoinette, Queen melancholia (and
33, 37, 58, 98, 105, of France 109 depression) 17, 19–20,
109–43, 165, 176, 268, Mark Matthews, The 54, 60, 138–9, 171, 229,
285, 319, 344, 355, 371, Horseman (book) 179, 372
375, 388, 395, 397, 402 204 Melbourne, Lord 309
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