DETAILED LESSON PLAN

Name: REGAN J. MABUGAY Date: April 04, 2023

Year and Section: BTLED 3-HE Time: 10:00 AM-12:00
AM

I. OBJECTIVES:
At the end of the discussion, the students shall be able to;
a. Discuss specific principles that can help a husband and wife resolve conflict.
b. Construct a scenario that portrays on how can we prevent and resolve difficulties in
marriage through loving communication.
c. Value the importance of responding to challenges through positive communication.
II.SUBJECT MATTER:
a. Topic: Responding to Challenges through Positive Communication
b. Reference: Marriage and Family Relationship Module
c. Materials: Laptop, Pictures, PPT Prepared and Projector
III.PROCEDURE:
Teacher’s Activity Students’ Activity
1) Opening Prayer
(The teacher will call one student to lead the prayer)

2) Greetings (The students will Pray)

Good morning class!

By the way class, how are you today?

-Good morning sir! Good morning classmates!
Checking of Classroom Setting
Before you take your respective seats, I would ike Well, we're doing great sir
to request everyone to kindly arrange the chairs
properly and please occupy the vacant seats in front.
-Okay sir.
3) Checking of attendance
I have here a one whole sheet of paper. Write your
full name as well as your signature and pass it to
your seatmate after. Because that will serve as your
attendance for today. Understand?
4) Collection of assignments -Yes sir.
Did I give you an assignment last meeting?

All right.
-No sir
5) Review
Let’s have first a recap about our topic last
meeting.

What was our topic last meeting? Kindly share it to -Sir, last meeting we’ve tackled about
the class. Responding Challenges in Marriage
Very good! Who can give the challenges and -Sir, based on the discussion last meeting there
difficulties that most couples encountered? are lots of troubles and difficulties that comes to
a married couples these may include the
followings:
a. Disagreements
b. Selfishness
c. Hurt feelings
d. Bad health
e. Childlessness
Very good! That was an awesome and very detailed f. Aging
response of yours. Its really obvious that you learned g. Family members with disabilities
from our past discussion. h. Trying to find fulfillment when all the children
have moved away from home
i. Death of loved ones
j. Financial problems
k. Wayward children
What are the best things to do when challenges l. Natural disasters
arise? Anybody from the class?
-Sir, I do believe that we have differences on how
to respond in any challenges but I also believed
that responding with patience and love in any
challenges is better that responding with
Precisely! Very well said! I’m literally glad that you frustration or anger.
have no hesitant in sharing your learnings to the
class.

By the way class, do you have any questions and

clarifications with regards to our previous topic?
If none, let’s now proceed. -None sir

6) Motivation
Are you still with me class?

At this moment, I will show you some pictures and

class I want you to observe and internalize what the -Yes sir.
pictures we're all about. Am I clear?
-Yes sir.
(The teacher will show the first picture)

(Students are observing the pictures)

Based on your observations, what is the pictures

we're all about? Anybody from the class? -Sir, based on my observation the pictures
portray some problems, conflict and quarrels.
Very good, that was a great observation.

Let us give him/her Aling Dionisia Clap!

I will show you another sets of pictures. I want you 1,2,3(2x)…very good(3x)
to do the same thing you did a while ago and that is
to observe the pictures.

(The teacher will post the second set of pictures)

(Students are observing the pictures)

Okay class, anyone who can his/her observations on

the second sets of pictures? -Sir, as I observed on that picture, it shows
conversation between two person or should I say
Very good! That was an awesome observation! You a couple, I guess.
guys did a great job! I'm impressed by how
observant your minds are while viewing images.

Let us give your classmates a Fireworks Clap.

(Students will do the Fireworks Clap)
7) Presentation of the topic
Based on the presented images what do you think is
our lesson for today? Yes Christen. -Sir I think our lesson for today is about
Responding to Challenges through Positive
Very good Christen. Communication.

As mentioned by Christen or topic for today is all

about Responding to Challenges through Positive
Communication.

8) Presentation of Objectives

But before anything else let us first internalize our

objectives so that we are guided on what we will be
achieving for today.
At the end of the discussion, the students shall be
(The teacher will show the objectives) able to;
1. Discuss specific principles that can help a
husband and wife resolve conflict.
Joy can you please read the objectives.
2. Construct a scenario that portrays on how
can we prevent and resolve difficulties in
marriage through loving communication.
3. Value the importance of responding to
challenges through positive
communication.
 9) Unlocking of Difficulties
Throughout the discussion we can encounter words Companionship
that might confuse us and let us first define it. Companionship is a term often used in the
context of friendship. It’s a relationship in which
Ms. Airene kindly read the first one. both parties support each other emotionally that
Thank you is incredibly beneficial because it allows both
people to rely on the other for comfort and
positive reinforcement.

The Quorum of the Twelve Apostles

Mr. Llacer kindly read the second one. A quorum is group individuals who are given
Thank you priesthood authority and responsibility to do
God’s work.
Throughout the discussion we will using this term
and I hope that based on the given definition you
already understand those term.

i. Activity

Before we proceed to our new topic, let us have

first an activity. I will group you into 2 groups, the
first and second column would be the group 1 and
the third and last column would be the group 2. Each
group kindly choose a leader to pick a paper that
includes the directions of the activity. You may use a
½ crosswise yellow pad paper to answer the activity

Direction:

1. Construct a scenario that portrays on how can we

prevent difficulties in marriage through loving
communication.
2. Construct a scenario that portrays on how can we
resolve difficulties in marriage through loving
communication.
I will give you 5 minutes to do your task. Am I clear
class? -Yes sir
You may start now.

ii. Analysis

Are you done?

We will now proceed to group presentation. Yes sir.
Group 1 will be the first to present.

Very good! A round of applause for group 1 for that

very good idea. -Group answer may vary
Now let’s give the floor for group 2.
Excellent! Another round of applause for group 2!
-Group answer may vary
How did you find the activity? Is it that easy or
difficult? -It's just moderate sir, not easy and not difficult
either.
iii. Abstraction
At this moment let us now proceed with our formal
discussion.

Mr. Comendador can you please read the statement

and share to the class your insights about what you “Occasionally we hear something like, ‘Why, we
have read. have been married for fifty years, and we have
never had a difference of opinion.’ If that is
literally the case, then one of the partners is
overly dominated by the other or, as someone
said, is a stranger to the truth. Any intelligent
couple will have differences of opinion. Our
challenge is to be sure that we know how to
resolve them. That is part of the process of
making a good marriage better”
-by Elder Joe J. Christensen of the Seventy

Thank You Mr. Comendador for reading and

sharing your idea to the class! (Student’s answer may vary)

Ms. Airene can you please read?

Husbands and wives should look for the

admirable qualities in one another. Point out that
when husbands and wives look for the admirable
qualities in one another, they are better able to
prevent difficulties. They are also able to work
Class let me ask you two questions. In what ways together to resolve difficulties that arise.
have you seen the value of looking for the admirable
qualities in others? How can looking for the
admirable qualities in one another help husbands and
wives strengthen their marriage? (Student's answer may vary)
Yes Ms. Fabella!
Thank you for that clear and concise idea of yours.

Mr. Ramos kindly read

Remind participants that although each person is
unique, we are all children of God. Invite a
participant to read the following statement from
“The Family: A Proclamation to the World” “All
human beings—male and female—are created in
the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or
daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each
has a divine nature and destiny.”
How can remembering this truth help husbands and
wives in their efforts to understand one another?
Anybody from the class? Yes Joy. -It explained that as husbands and wives seek to
see all that is beautiful and divine in one another,
they find more joy in one another’s
companionship and are better able to help each
other fulfill their divine potential.
Very good!

Ms. Nueva can you please read the statement by “The kind of respect that regards one’s
Elder Gordon B. Hinckley in the Quorum of the companion as the most precious friend on earth.”
Twelve Apostles.

Do you have an idea on what you have read? “Companionship in marriage is prone to become
commonplace and even dull. I know of no more
certain way to keep it on a lofty and inspiring
plane than for a man occasionally to reflect upon
the fact that the helpmeet who stands at his side
is a daughter of God, engaged with [God] in the
great creative process of bringing to pass His
eternal purposes. I know of no more effective
way for a woman to keep ever radiant the love
for her husband than for her to look for and
emphasize the godly qualities that are a part of
every son of our Father and that can be evoked
when there is respect and admiration and
encouragement.
Here’s the question what is the importance of
responding to challenges through positive -Positive communication helps prevent and
communication. resolve difficulties. Explain that in addition to
Yes Ms. Cabarles. recognizing the admirable qualities in each other,
husbands and wives should strive to
Very good! communicate well with each other.
Communication is essential in building love and
unity and in resolving difficulties that may arise.

Allow me to present the principles that can help a

husband and wife resolve conflict. Principles that can help a husband and wife
resolve conflict.
Yes Ms. Angelica kindly read.
 Listen to each other
 Discuss challenges openly and calmly.
 Communicate in loving, positive ways.
Yes, you at the back, Ms. Joy Please read the first
principle.
LISTEN TO EACH OTHER
“Husbands and wives, learn to listen, and listen
to learn from one another…Taking time to talk is
essential to keep lines of communication intact. If
marriage is a prime relationship in life, it
deserves prime time! Yet less important
appointments are often given priority, leaving
Thank you Joy! But I have a question for you. only leftover moments for listening to precious
Here’s the question for that statement. What benefits partners”
can come to a husband and wife when they listen (Answers may include those listed below.)
carefully and lovingly to each other? They learn more about each other’s true feelings
and motivations.
They seek to understand before making
judgments or offering advice.
Each person is more likely to feel valued and
loved. Each person is less likely to be defensive
and more likely to communicate openly.
What can get in the way of couples really listening to
each other? Yes Mr. Ramos do you have an idea?
-Sir I believe that these may include busy
schedules, failure to take time to listen, and lack
What can marriage partners do to become better of interest in each other’s responsibilities.
listeners? Yes Mr. Llacer? You have something to
share? Sir I believe the best things to do to become a
good listener in a marriage partner are;
 Take time to talk together.
 Listen to understand.
Ms. Pelicano, can you please read the second
 Avoid getting angry or offended.
principle. And you can share your idea if you have.
DISCUSS CHALLENGES OPENLY AND
CALMLY
“We seldom get into trouble when we speak
softly. It is only when we raise our voices that the
sparks fly and tiny molehills become great
Thank You Ms. Pelicano for reading! And I also
mountains of contention… The voice of heaven
have a question for you.
is a still small voice; likewise, the voice of
domestic peace is a quiet voice” President David
O. McKay said, “Let husband or wife never
speak in loud tones to each other, ‘Unless the
Why is it important that spouses talk openly to each
house is on fire.’’
other about the challenges they face in their
marriage?
-Point out that discussions about challenges
Very well said Ms. Pelicano! should be conducted in a respectful way, without
loud arguments or contention.
Please read the last principle.
(The teacher will call a student)

COMMUNICATE IN LOVING, POSITIVE

WAYS.
“Ceaseless pinpricking,’ as President Spencer W.
Kimball called it, can deflate almost any
marriage…Generally each of us is painfully
aware of our weaknesses, and we don’t need
frequent reminders. Few people have ever
changed for the better as a result of constant
criticism or nagging. If we are not careful, some
What can result from constant complaints or of what we offer as constructive criticism is
criticism? Yes Ms. Cabarles. actually destructive”
Thank You Ms. Cabarles that was a very good idea. -One form of criticizing is the practice of
What experiences have you had that show the value comparing a person’s weaknesses to the strengths
of complimenting and encouraging others rather than of others.
constantly criticizing them? In what ways can
positive expressions strengthen marriages? -One woman explained that her husband often
compliments her on her talents as a wife and
homemaker, not only when they are at home but
Yes Ms. Christen. This questions quite fits you. also when they are with friends. He never
mentions her weaknesses. Instead, he chooses to
Thank You! Ms. Christen that was a brilliant focus on her strengths. She said that his
answer. comments give her hope and motivation to
improve.
Class, did you learn something from our discussion
today?
Let see if you really learned today.

Again class, what is the importance of responding to

challenges through positive communication.

Very good! - Positive communication helps prevent and

resolve difficulties. Communication is essential
I hope that the discussion provides you a clear in building love and unity and in resolving
understanding with those factors to consider when difficulties that may arise.
choosing the fabrics.

Do you have any questions/clarifications regarding

with our topic this afternoon?

You really learned something from the discussion. -None sir.

And with that I'd like to say that your active
participation in the discussions is greatly
appreciated.

iv. Application

Class, now that we're done with the discussion,

we will have now an activity.
I would like to request everyone to please get a
1/2 sheet of yellow pad paper. The activity is called
“THE FIVE-MINUTES PAPER. This activity let
you reflect on your learning about the topic and build
writing skills plus how much could you explain in
five minutes.

I will give you 5 minutes in answering your activity.

Do I make myself clear class?

At exactly 3:50 finish or not finish I will collect your

papers.
You may start now! -Yes sir.

I'm overwhelmed class that you really did a great job (The student will answer eagerly)
today. Thank You!
v. Evaluation
Direction: Fill the blank the missing word that
correspond in every statement.
1._____helps prevent and resolve difficulties.
2._____is essential in building love and unity and
in resolving difficulties that may arise.
3. Remind participants that although each person
is unique, we are all_____.
4. Any _____ couple will have differences of
opinion.
5. A _____ is group individuals who are given
priesthood authority and responsibility to do
God’s work.

Answers:
1. Positive communication
2. Communication
3. Children of God
4. Intelligent
vi. Assignment 5. Quorum

vii. Reflection/Remarks
Prepared by:
REGAN J. MABUGAY
BTLED-Home Economics Student