Negotiation
Negotiation
Negotiation
The average person engages in some form of negotiation on a daily basis. From time-management struggles to managing employees, work/life balances issues and even parenthood, opportunities to hone negotiation skills are everywhere. Improving your negotiation skills can mean greater peace of mind, increased harmony among the team, and the chance to advance personal and business relationships toward future success.,
Assessing Your Needs and Wants Before engaging in formal negotiations, it is prudent to first determine your needs and what you want to achieve. Legitimate needs are those issues or items that, when left unaddressed, can cause distress and obstacles that are not easily overcome. Wants are those issues that are sometimes nuisance items with the potential to pose a greater threat in time, but that can be dealt with before the threat can occur. These items can include morale and comfort-level issues for you and your team. Try looking at each of the needs and wants you identify from various angles to truly identify the root cause, implications, and some possible solutions. Document your ideas to have on hand during formal negotiation meetings. This advance work will not only help focus your discussion, but also lend credibility to your argument.
Don't go in aggressively or in an adversarial frame of mind: 1. Use friendly language and gestures. 2. Be prepared to chat about non-relevant subjects before getting down to business. 3. Arrange seating at angles or around the corner of a table rather than directly face-to-face.
Analyze the interest of the parties: This is important to understand the perceptions, the style of negotiation, and the interests and principles of the counterparts, as well as one's own. Plan the negotiation, and determine: What are the expectations from the negotiation? What are the terms of the negotiation? What are the nonnegotiable terms and what can be modified? What is the minimum that an agreement can be reached on? What is the negotiation strategy? What are the most important interests of the other parties? How does one interact with or manage people?
Changing of position: Formulate the proposals in a different way, without changing the final result.
Gathering information: Ask for information from the other party to clarify their position. Making the cake bigger: Offer alternatives that may be agreeable to the other party, without changing the terms. Commitments: Formalize agreements orally and in writing before ending the negotiation.
Negotiate: Be sensitive and quick to adapt to changing situations, but do not lose sight of the objective.
Avoid confrontational positions and try to understand the interests of the other party. Some aspects that could interfere with the negotiation are: personal positions and interests Psychological and emotional aspects of the persons (place, placement of chairs, body language, gestures, etc.) Difficulties in communication (differences in languages, different meanings of the same words, etc.)