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Effective Communication: Ways To Improve Communication

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The key takeaways are that effective communication involves listening, interpreting, and responding. It also requires identifying communication styles and problematic situations as well as practicing communication skills.

The steps for effective communication are to identify problematic behaviors, communicate emotions, and state what is wanted in the future.

The WISH formula stands for When, I feel, So I would like, How. It provides a structure for communicating needs and wants effectively.

Effective

Communication
Ways to Improve Communication
What is Effective Communication?
• Effective Communication is achieved when the receiver assigns the same meaning
to the message received as was intended by the sender, and gives a response to it.
• It involves:

1. Listening
2. Interpreting
3. Responding
Improving Communication
• In order to communicate effectively, you must do the following:

1. Identify your communication style


2. Identify problematic situations
3. Practice changing/developing your communication skills
Steps for Effective Communication
• In order to increase effective communication, resolve conflicts, help you focus on the issue at hand, and begin a
process of compromise, the following steps must be considered:
• Step 1: Identify the behavior(s) you find problematic: Try to be specific and always concentrate on observable
behaviors. It is important to avoid labels, emotionally loaded words, or other blaming statements that would make the
person become defensive and closed to communication.
• Step 2: Communicate emotions: Carefully examine the emotions you are feeling in reaction to the behavior and let
the other person know how you are feeling. Be sure to name specific emotions, instead of making broad statements.
Taking responsibility for your own emotions helps avoid the other person becoming defensive and shutting down
communication.
• Step 3: What you want in the future: Tell the other person what you would like him/her to do in the future, in a
similar situation. Be specific and realistic in your request. This way you are indicating to the other person that you’re
taking some responsibility in the problem and initiating a potential solution. Finally, ask the other person what do they
think about the suggestion.
The WISH Formula
• W – When
• I – I find/feel __________
• S – So I would like it if .
• H – How ________________________
GO DO IT!
• In order to apply the WISH formula, and to practice the
important skill of effective communication, you need to

GO DO IT!
GO
• Goals must be clearly defined. You need to know exactly what you want
out of a particular conversation. Know in advance what your fall back
position will be when you attempt to compromise.
• Organize a specific meeting time and place to communicate. Do not rely
on a chance meeting. It will never happen, or if it does, it might be rushed
and you will not come off as well as you had hoped. Organize the
structure of your conversation as well.
DO
• Decrease the complexity of the problem. Even if there are multiple issues
to be discussed, stick to the one at hand. Keep the problem simple and the
issues as clear as possible. Do not deviate.
• Own your part of the problem. Conflict usually takes two people. Take
responsibility for your part of the problem, if appropriate. Rather than
blaming the other person, simply state how the other person’s actions
make you feel. Do not talk about who was right or wrong. Simply state
how the event lead to an unpleasant feeling.
IT
• Increase direct communication. Do not beat around the bush. Get to the
point and do not make the other person guess, assume, or otherwise
wonder what it is you are driving at. Also, be aware of what your body is
communicating and match your body language with the words you are
saying.
• Tell the other person how much you appreciate him/her working with you
to arrive at a compromise. Reinforcing compromise and positive behavior
helps to insure that it is repeated.

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