Healing from Anxiety
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Laurent Lacherez, NLP therapist (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and author of the best-sellers L'anxiété, comment s'en sortir and L'Art de l'âcher prise, offers you now, Healing from Anxiety, to succeed in your life.
As soon as anxiety appears, you lose your full ability to act in the desired direction and you feed worry at the expense of intent. In order to regain the upper hand on anxiety, I have developed this book to offer you reflections and solutions divided into three main themes:
1. Get out of the vicious circle
Understanding how you are trapped in anxiety and how it works is the first step to getting out of this vicious circle.
2. Counterattacking Anxiety
Learn to better manage your fears. By giving less importance to your anxieties, you will develop more realistic ideas and a philosophy of life that will restore your confidence.
3. From paralysis to action
Taking control of your life will make it easier for you to feel good about yourself and others. You increase your confidence and take action more easily by adapting to situations.
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Healing from Anxiety - Laurent Lacherez
PART ONE
The Vicious Circle Of Anxiety
1
Did you say anxious, me ?
Anxiety manifests itself in different forms, depending on the people and the way they experience it.
According to the Diagnostic Manual for Mental Disorders (DSM-IV), symptoms related to anxiety are recurrent, often irrational concerns in the form of negative thoughts, difficult to concentrate and live in the present moment, agitation and excitement that is difficult to control, headaches, chest, stomach or throat pains, sweating or hot flushes, breathing that cuts itself off, difficult to sleep, a regular state of fatigue, etc.
I stop here, this non-exhaustive list because some of you may already feel their fears back... And yet, what if this is a possible solution ?
People suffering from anxiety tend to reject and flee this unpleasant state by exercising greater and greater control over it and at the same time, exhausting to better keep at bay this stranger who wants so much to harm them.
However every emotion, pleasant or unpleasant, has a reason for being, but which one ?
I will always remember a client who defined the way she experienced her anxiety as fear of fear and did everything in her power to keep her own anxieties away from her.
What a paradox ! To want to control what can't be. Not surprising to be so tired at the end of the day (if not already in the morning when you get up), when you are constantly struggling against yourself because your fears very often represent a part of you that manifests itself against your will in an irrational way. It's trying to make you understand something...
How about you start getting to know this stranger that lives inside your body ? Perhaps by talking and listening to him, you will learn what his intentions are ?
Unless you've been discovering unsatisfied desires and dreams for years now ?
It is by becoming aware of the goals and messages that your fears are trying to reveal to you that you will be able to use them to change your behaviors and achieve the life you want!
On the other hand, if you have everything you need in your life - which may be different from what you want - your anxiety may well be answered elsewhere... in the past.
One of the two things:
Either you have experienced during your childhood and adolescence a series of events which, because of their emotional similarities, end up filling the vase with water until the day when it overflows, your tolerance limit having reached its limit. The flow of your anguish then pours out of all control and for no apparent reason.
Either, as the psychogenealogy reveals, you have inherited the fears of your parents or grandparents who have permeated you.
In both cases, if you wish to resolve your anxiety disorders, I can quickly help you deprogram this imprint and transform your anxieties into strengths. Between living in fear or freely, what do you choose ?
2
Mental Health : The ideas I have for myself
The mind is a real chatterbox. It works, so to speak, continuously and does not stop thinking, creating ideas that scroll through our head. We think about all sorts of things as we drink coffee in the morning, brush our teeth, eat, drive and so on. All these everyday activities, which have become banal and automatic, no longer really require our attention and then offer a great opportunity for the mind to wander.
If you've ever tried spying on him, you've probably noticed how his imagination is fertile, overflowing and sometimes so convincing that he can make us take bladders for lanterns! As a result, a completely invented scenario, based on certain fears and certain elements of our memories, can end up making us believe that something will happen, something bad, something unpleasant. To believe this without a magnifying glass is premature, insofar as the mind plays a trick on you, making you believe that your future will