Making The Connection: A Guide For Parents
Making The Connection: A Guide For Parents
Making The Connection: A Guide For Parents
Bobbi DePorter
President
TABLE OF CONTENTS
From the President.............................................................. 1
What Is Quantum Learning?............................................... 2
Life Skills..............................................................................................................3
The 8 Keys of Excellence (Senior/Junior)............................ 4
Comfort Zones (Senior/Junior)........................................... 5
Living Above the Line (Senior)............................................ 5
OTFD (Senior/Junior)......................................................... 6
Four-Part Apology (Senior/Junior)..................................... 7
Affinity Activity (Senior)...................................................... 8
Active Listening (Senior/Junior).......................................... 8
Academic Skills.................................................................................................9
VAK Strategies (Senior/Junior)......................................... 10
The Excellent Learner (Senior).......................................... 11
Mind Mapping and Notes:TM (Senior/Junior)................ 12
Circuit Learning (Senior)................................................... 13
Memory Techniques (Senior/Junior)................................ 14
Memory Techniques Example (Senior/Junior)................. 15
Creative Thinking (Senior)................................................ 16
SLANT (Senior/Junior)...................................................... 17
Life Skills
In this section youll find some of the highlights of SuperCamp from
our life-skills curriculum including:
our guide for personal excellence the 8 Keys of Excellence
valuable communication skills to help convey needs and
feelings in a positive manner
relationship and problem-solving tools to help resolve conflicts
the value of venturing out of comfort zones
the importance of Living Above the Line
Weve discovered that whats at the heart of each of these [teen] problems is a lack of self-awareness and a desire to be understood, combined with a need for social, thinking, and learning skills. At
SuperCamp weve seen that when teens enter a uniquely positive environment of individual trust and
acceptance, they begin to move beyond these problems. They feel safe to express themselves, explore
who they are, and connect with one another.
from The 7 Biggest Teen Problems and How to Turn Them Into Strengths
Bobbi DePorter
Senior / Junior
atch behavior with values. Demonstrate your positive personal values in all you do
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and say. Be sincere and real.
Failure Leads
to Success
Learn from mistakes. View failures as feedback that provides you with the information
you need to learn, grow, and succeed.
Speak with
Good Purpose
Speak honestly and kindly. Think before you speak. Make sure your intention is
positive and your words are sincere.
This Is It!
Make the most of every moment. Focus your attention on the present moment.
Keep a positive attitude.
Commitment
Make your dreams happen. Take positive action. Follow your vision without wavering.
Ownership
ake responsibility for actions. Be responsible for your thoughts, feelings, words, and
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actions. Own the choices you make and the results that follow.
Flexibility
Be willing to do things differently. Recognize whats not working and be willing to
change what youre doing to achieve your goal.
Balance
Live your best life. Be mindful of self and others while focusing on whats meaningful
and important in your life.
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COMFORT ZONES
Senior / Junior
At SuperCamp students are encouraged and empowered to take the risk of moving out of their comfort zones. We all have
a comfort zone that includes the things we feel comfortable with: activities, people, foods, places, and ways of being. Most
students tend to want to stay in their comfort zone because its easy, familiar, and yes, comfortable. Everything outside may
seem too risky, shaky, or dangerous.
Yet, as with anything too comfortable, our comfort zone can become boring and stagnant and if we stay in there long
enough we run the risk of getting stuck in a rut. Slowly we peek out and finally venture out of our comfort zone, in spite of
our internal voice screaming, Dont go out there stay here where its comfy! Initially that first step makes us feel weird and
shaky, but soon the discomfort subsides and eventually we find that our comfort zone has expanded. By moving out of our
comfort zone we have experienced something new, we have learned, we have grown.
Senior
As a foundation for communication and personal interaction, living above the line highlights and puts into practice one of
the 8 Keys of Excellence Ownership: take responsibility for actions. Students learn there are two ways to live: above the line
and below the line.
Living above the line is about taking responsibility for our actions. Those who live above the line have greater control and
therefore greater success because they take ownership for their current situation. They take ownership of their education,
of their relationships, and of their attitudes, affecting all areas of their lives.
Living below the line is about laying blame, justifying, denying, and quitting.
Communication is important: its the universal relationship fuel. Communication grows relationships
relationships grow success.
from Quantum Success: 8 Key Catalysts to Shift Your Energy Into Dynamic Focus
Bobbi DePorter
OTFD
Senior / Junior
A COMMUNICATION TECHNIQUE
A SuperCamp technique thats effective for resolving relationship problems or giving praise is OTFD. OTFD stands for the
steps in this communication process. The goal behind this tool is to articulate feelings in a positive and direct manner.
People feel more comfortable when they dont have to guess what another is feeling or thinking OTFD facilitates clear and
visible communication. By practicing this technique regularly you and your son or daughter can build a safe environment
to resolve differences, and maintain a strong relationship.
O
T
F
D
Observe
Think
Feel
Desire
Something you observed with your senses that anyone else can observe.
Example: I noticed you came home 20 minutes after your curfew last night.
A thought or opinion about what you observed.
Example: My thought is that you dont respect the rules we agreed on about a curfew.
A feeling you had about what you observed.
Example: I feel disappointed because you didnt uphold your side of our agreement.
What you want (your desire).
Example: My desire is for you to be responsible enough to get yourself home on time.
If you are going to be late, I would like to have an agreement that you will call
before your curfew.
honesty
directness
from The 8 Keys of Excellence: Principles to Live By
Bobbi DePorter
FOUR-PART APOLOGY
Senior / Junior
AN APOLOGY TECHNIQUE
When an apology is necessary, we suggest the Four-Part Apology. This technique allows the person to look beyond the actual
incident to consequences of behavior. By defining those consequences and choosing a different behavior, both individuals
remain thoughtful and supportive rather than angry or defensive. If you and your child practice this tool with each other,
apologies will be easier and more meaningful.
1. Acknowledge
Example: I acknowledge that I changed our plans about babysitting without checking in with you,
and I only told you at the last minute.
2. Apologize
Example: I apologize for not respecting you and for not checking in with you before changing
my plans. I know it was hard for you to give up the plans you made with your friends
because I needed you to babysit.
3. Make It Right
4. Recommit
AFFINITY ACTIVITY
Senior
ENHANCING RELATIONSHIPS
One of the communication tools we use at SuperCamp to build or enhance relationships is called the Affinity Activity.
All ages benefit from sharing an aspect of themselves and learning more about the thoughts and feelings of others. To
enhance communication with your child, we recommend trying this exercise. Heres how it works:
Ask each question once and respond to the reply with thank you. Each person has an opportunity to ask the series of
questions three times. From this base of experience further conversation can occur.
Step 1:
Step 2:
Step 3:
ACTIVE LISTENING
Senior / Junior
One communication tool taught at SuperCamp has nothing to do with talking, yet it is a key to building and enhancing
relationships. Active listening will improve any relationship by building mutual understanding and trust. Use these listening
skills to improve communication with your child.
A good listener ...
sits facing the person with an open, available posture
maintains good eye contact
gives encouragement (nods, u-huhs, etc.)
reflects feelings and content
shows empathy
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Academic Skills
In this section youll find highlights of some of the academic skills curriculum at SuperCamp.
Your child has learned many valuable academic strategies. He or she will be able to apply these skills including memory,
reading, writing, and note-taking techniques to any subject. Your child, in fact, learned how to learn!
The following pages offer summaries of some of
the strategies we cover. Its only a starting point, a
way to introduce you to what we do and familiarize you with the terms we use. We suggest you ask
your child to show you his or her SuperCamp
playbook and teach you some of the strategies
and activities. Its a great way to share your childs
accomplishments and experiences and learn more
about our program.
Remember: T
he degree to which we enter our students world is the degree of
influence we have in their lives.
from Quantum Teaching: Orchestrating Student Success
VAK STRATEGIES
Senior / Junior
Senior
Before learning new information, what would happen if we first learned how to prepare our environment, our mind and
body, and our brain for maximum results? Excellent learners understand that taking a small amount of time to prepare
before learning saves time and allows focused attention to be placed on the new content they wish to learn.
There are five simple strategies that excellent learners take advantage of to get the results they desire in any learning situation.
By applying these simple strategies at both school and home, any learner can accelerate their results and view learning as not
just an event but rather as a continuous process.
1. PREPARE my space
5. CELEBRATE my progress
2. FOCUS my mind
I focus my mind by taking deep cleansing breaths and getting
straight to work.
Example: Sit up straight. Close your eyes. Take a deep
cleansing breath. Slowly open your eyes.
3. QUANTUMIZE my learning
I quantumize my learning when I match the strategy to my
learning situation.
Example: Select the study or learning strategy that will
produce the desired result.
4. REVIEW my knowledge
I review my knowledge when I consistently review my content.
I also reflect on the strategies I used and their effectiveness in
getting me the outcome I desire.
Example: Chunk material into related parts and review using
multiple strategies repeatedly.
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Senior / Junior
Mind Mapping
A brain-friendly way to take notes, Mind Mapping employs
a two-dimensional structure and uses colors, symbols, and
pictures to help students make mental associations that
facilitate learning.
Notes:TM
A method for maximizing class time and reducing study time, Notes:TM is a
whole-brain approach to note-taking that sparks creativity.
is recorded.
M=M
aking notes where students thoughts, feelings, and questions
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are recorded.
CIRCUIT LEARNING
Senior
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
First
Use Notes:TM during
class for new learning.
First
Use Notes:TM during
class for new learning.
First
Use Notes:TM during
class for new learning.
First
Use Notes:TM during
class for new learning.
Next
At home or during free
period, begin your Mind
Map (MM) of this topic.
Next
Review Mondays notes
and then review todays
new learning. Add to
your MM.
Next
Review Mondays and
Tuesdays notes. Review
todays new learning. Add
to your MM.
Next
Continue reviewing notes
and add to your MM.
Sunday
Monday
Friday
First
Use Notes:TM during
class for new learning.
Saturday
Review your MM from
Monday to Friday to jog
your memory.
Dress Rehearsal
Simulate test
R
ecreate MM from
memory
Check your knowledge!
Hot Tip: T
he playing of Mozart coordinates breathing, cardiovascular rhythms, and brainwave rhythm ...
it acts on the unconscious, stimulating receptivity and perception.
from Quantum Teaching: Orchestrating Student Success
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MEMORY TECHNIQUES
Senior / Junior
During SuperCamps memory course, students learn new skills to improve retention and information recall. All our memory
techniques utilize visual, auditory, and kinesthetic associations to promote stronger recall. Here are some of the methods we
teach students:
Storying (Senior/Junior)
Involves making up a story. Information is associated with characters and other elements of the story that are memorized in
sequence, linking one item to the next.
8. octopus (8 tentacles)
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MEMORY TECHNIQUES
Senior / Junior
EXAMPLE
Here is an example of the storying memory technique. As you will see, the story has been created by linking facts with wild
and crazy sights, sounds, and actions.
What do you think you can learn from this story?
This story is an easy way to memorize the first fourteen states to ratify the U.S. Constitution, in the order in which they ratified it:
Delaware, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Georgia, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Maryland, South Carolina, New Hampshire, Virginia,
New York, North Carolina, Rhode Island, Vermont.
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CREATIVE THINKING
Senior
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SLANT
Senior / Junior
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L
A
N
T
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QUANTUM WRITING
Senior
Diverge
Converge
Emerge
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QUANTUM WRITING
Junior
POWER WRITING
The Junior Forum Quantum Writing course POWER Writing gives students a clear framework for organizing their
approach to a writing assignment.
P
O
W
E
R
Pre-Write
Organize
Write
Edit
Revise
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QUANTUM READING
Senior / Junior
Your child has learned the following five steps to become a Quantum Reader:
1. Prepare
Attitudes, beliefs, commitment
(ABCs), and physical space.
3. SuperScan
Quickly expose your eyes and brain to
every page. Move fast!
4. Read
Use the power of your eyes. Let your
hands guide the way down the page.
5. Review
Mind Map and tell back.
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Junior
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SUPERCAMP BELIEFS
Many of the beliefs that we teach and practice at SuperCamp are worth sharing with SuperCamp families. We strongly believe that:
Respect and caring for ourselves and for others is vitally important.
Every person is gifted and capable of learning.
There are no failures, only learning experiences through which we gain greater self-understanding.
Positive support, a nurturing environment, and good communication are essential for learning and for life.
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SuperCamp Resources
SuperCamp is committed to lifelong learning and the ongoing success of your child. Our student and parent support is an
extension of SuperCamp where alumni can interact and reinforce their newly acquired learning and life skills and parents get
tools to support their childs growth.
SUPERCAMP RESOURCES
This exclusive section of our website provides all the resources you and your student will need to stay connected after camp.
Photos & Videos
Your child can share their SuperCamp experience with your family, pointing out their friends in the pictures, telling you the
stories behind the videos, and explaining what they learned from the different activities. This digital documentation will be
available for six months after camp.
SuperCamp Social Networking
SuperCamp is committed to helping parents keep their children motivated and inspired when they come home and return
to school. Please join us on our Facebook page, www.facebook.com/supercamp, and follow us on Twitter: @supercamp
and Instagram: @qlsupercamp. One SuperCamp graduate said, Staying in touch with teammates and having a network of
people who experienced your summer is so important in finding your groove back at home.
SuperCamp Graduate Coaching Program
Your grad can further leverage the SuperCamp experience with our SuperCamp professional coach. With direct application
to your childs home/school/personal environment, our coach will mentor your child on how best to apply SuperCamp skills
in relationships, academics, and home life. This is a paid service. Go to www.supercamp.com/parent and click on the
Grad Coaching link.
Expert Resources
When you go to SuperCamp Resources, www.supercamp.com/parent, youll find tips, articles, and videos on topics ranging
from academic success to bullying to improving your childs self-esteem. You and your child will receive a special username
and password via email to unlock this information. Bookmark this page for later reference.
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MUSIC TO STUDY BY
Music has a powerful effect on the learning environment, influencing pace, mood, and energy level. Research substantiates
the use of baroque and other classical music to stimulate and maintain optimal learning.
Quantum Learning Music: To enhance focus, memory, and retention
Research shows that relaxation induced by specific music played softly in the background keeps the mind alert and focused
it relaxes muscles, lowers blood pressure, and slows down brain waves. The selections from Bach, Handel, Pachelbel, Vivaldi,
and others included on these two CDs were carefully chosen to induce this optimum state.
POSTERS
Affirmation Posters
This set of eight inspiring and supportive posters can be used selectively depending on the present needs of your child or
your family. Hang them in the study area or the family room.
Everyone Has the Resources to Be Successful
Everything I Do Deserves My Best Effort
I Believe in Myself
I Respect Individual Differences
Every Challenge Offers A Gift
I Am Responsible For What I Create
I Am Unique and Valuable
That Was Then, This Is WOW
8 Keys of Excellence
These posters are cut in the shape of keys (11 x 5) and each has one of the 8 Keys of Excellence used at SuperCamp to
provide a basic framework for personal effectiveness and for living life successfully. When followed by a family, these shared
principles create a sense of alignment and mutual respect and support.
Integrity Commitment
Failure Leads to Success
Ownership
Speak with Good Purpose
Flexibility
This Is It! Balance
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SUPERCAMP PROGRAMS
A CYCLE OF LEARNING AND GROWTH
Maintaining confidence and motivation, and learning and practicing academic and life skills is an ongoing pursuit in a
students educational lifetimeand beyond. At SuperCamp we believe that every new positive perception about oneself and
every new academic or life skill acquired and practiced increases a students confidence, competence, and motivation.
Each of the six SuperCamp summer programs builds on the content of the previous program and includes valuable new
skills designed specifically for the relevant age group and learning level. They create a cycle of learning and growth, and
returning students add to their knowledge, deepen their understanding of learning and life skills, and strengthen their
foundation of excellence.
Junior Forum (ages 11 to 13): Early adolescence is a pivotal time when children are beginning to develop higher order
thinking skills, establish healthy social interactions, and define a sense of self and personal values. Junior Forum focuses on
establishing positive character traits, cultivating a mature sense of self, and building effective learning skills.
Junior Forum Leadership Track (ages 12 to 13): Former Junior Forum participants go deeper into the curriculum and add
leadership skills to the mix. Students are given opportunities to mentor other students by modeling essential elements of the
curriculum, and receive focused coaching, opportunities to practice leadership, and feedback on their progress.
Senior Forum (ages 14 to 18): Teenage adolescence is a critical time of self-development in the face of many external
influences. Components of Senior Forum include positive communication, effective listening, self-reflection, habit formation,
self-expression, relationships, goal setting, team building, and collaboration.
Senior Forum Leadership Track (ages 15 to 18): Former Senior Forum participants go deeper into the curriculum
and gain leadership skills through mentoring other students in the core elements of the curriculum. Focused coaching,
opportunities to practice leadership, and feedback on their progress guide them in their leadership growth.
Leadership Forum (ages 15 to 19): Teenage adolescents often find themselves in positions of leadership with little or no
exposure to the basics of leading others. Student leaders are set up for success in Leadership Forum, where they gain valuable
tools for communicating, collaborating, and thinking creatively and critically, all essential for leading others.
Quantum U (ages 18 to 20): College students need a level of independence that is not addressed in high school. Time
management, balancing work and school, making healthy social choices, and managing finances are just a few of the important
aspects of college life addressed at Quantum U.
Many students return to SuperCamp year after year. In fact, many of our staff members (team leaders and facilitators) were
originally SuperCamp participants, and continue to come back for many summers in their leadership roles.
For more information about SuperCamp programs and how they can help your child excel, call (800) 228-5327 or visit
www.SuperCamp.com.
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The 8 Keys of Excellence are my life. Every Key flows into the
other to support me every day in living the fullest life possible.
My Failure Leads to Success: When I fail, I look for the learning
and remain Committed to the goal. When the first attempt
doesnt work, I become Flexible. I change direction and move
forward. Giving up is not an option I am too Committed. My
actions and behaviors are mine to Own. When they are on
target I feel proud and when I miss the mark I acknowledge
that and try something different. I Speak with Good Purpose.
I think about the words I say and how they will be heard,
understood, and interpreted. Is my communication open,
honest, direct, and clear? I remember, as I am going through
my day, that my attitude affects my results. This Is It, after all
Ill never have this time again am I making the best use of
my time, energy, and efforts? The Keys have become my values
and my behaviors demonstrate them. When I follow the 8 Keys
of Excellence I have Integrity, Balance, and joy.
from The 8 Keys of Excellence: Principles to Live By
Bobbi DePorter