Issues and Challenges Experienced by Solo Parent1
Issues and Challenges Experienced by Solo Parent1
Issues and Challenges Experienced by Solo Parent1
An Undergraduate Thesis
Presented to
In Partial Fulfillment
CORPUZ, ERIKA
TABERNA, JEMALYN
2021
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
First and foremost, praises and thanks to Almighty God, for his guidance and as he
completion of this research could not have been possible without the participation and
assistance of our groupmates. Their contributions are highly appreciated and gratefully
acknowledge. We also acknowledge the participation of our chosen respondents for this
study, without them we will not be able to gather data and finish this study.
We would like to express our deep and sincere gratitude to our research supervisor,
Ma’am Madeilyn B. Estacio, Ph.D. for giving us the opportunity to conduct research and
providing her invaluable guidance all throughout this research. Her sincerity, vision and
motivation have deeply inspired us to continue this study. She taught us the right
“No one who achieves success does so without acknowledging the help of others. The
wise and confident acknowledge this help with gratitude. – Alfred Whitehead "
DEDICATION
This work is a fruitful of countless sacrifices, through the researches’ effort this
work is heartily and proudly dedicated to the person who serves as our inspiration. From
our parents and guardians, to our classmates and other people who extend their help in
the midst of problem while doing this study. Thank you for your prayers and sacrifices.
This study is dedicated also to all Solo parents we know that being a solo parent
is twice the work, twice the stress and twice the tears but also twice the hugs, twice the
love and twice the pride that at the end of the day you stay strong to became a father or
To the faculty of College of Arts and Sciences. Above all, to our Almighty God
workers.
ABSTRACT
Single parents mean father or mother the one who is living alone with their
case of divorce/separation generally, the mother is given custody of the children. Life is
hard for most single parent families in Philippines. A single parent need not be the
natural mother or father of the child as some individuals choose to become the single
parent by adopting the child. In this paper we determine the challenges faced by single-
parent. Life as a single parent is often associated with great demands and many
parent in our community. Such situation does not only affect the couples; it also affects
their children. The primary aims to determine the challenges faced by solo parents and
to provide for a social work intervention program or project addressing the issues and
needs of the Solo parents in the community. The results of this study identify potential
for social change, increased awareness about the challenges experienced by solo
Title Page
Approval Sheet
Acknowledgement
Dedication
Abstract
Table of Contents
List of Table
List of Figures
List of Illustrations
INTRODUCTION
Research Questions/Hypotheses
Theoretical Background
Theoretical Framework
Literature Review
METHODS
Research Design
Instruments
Data Analysis
Ethical Considerations
RESULTS
DISCUSSION
Conclusion
Recommendation
REFERENCES
APPENDICES
INTRODUCTION
be the source of child poverty, high rate of unemployment, school failure, and
phenomenon that has always been in existence and is old as mankind. According to
Dowd Nancy in (1997) a single parent is a parent not living with spouse or parent, who
has most of day-today responsibilities in raising the child or children. Parents are the
most fundamental part in a family, they have the biggest role and responsibility, they
million children living with a single mother in the United States, and about 3.27 million
children living with a single father. The number of children living with a single mother is
down from its peak in 2012. In addition, there are almost 2.86 million single parent
families in the United Kingdom as of 2020, compared with over 3 million five years
earlier in 2015. Between 1996 and 2012 the number of single parent families in the UK
increased by almost 600 thousand, with that number falling to the amount seen in the
Philippines has about 15 million solo parents, 95% more than 14 million of whom are
women. As mentioned by Carleneth San Valentin, World Vision’s health and Nutrition
Manager; This could take a toll on their physical, mental and emotional well-being,
especially on women in poor communities. The disruption and even the loss of jobs and
livelihood is glaringly felt by women and this brought a heightened loss of resources to
meet their basic needs. The multiple burden of women is even more evident as the
families caused by divorce or separation has produced increasingly more children who
are being raised in one-parent families and more likely in single-mother families. The
number of marriage annulment cases in the Philippines has risen by 40 percent in the
last decade with at least 22 cases filed every day, according to a report by the Catholic
bishops' news agency. Citing data from the Office of the Solicitor General (OSG), CBCP
News said the number of annulment cases had risen from 4,520 in 2001 to 8,282 in
2010. "The data from the OSG showed that 82 percent of those who filed these cases
had children and out of that number, 59 percent had at least one or two children, 22
percent had three to four children and one percent had five to six children."
society continues to grow and change through time. Based on the 2000 survey of the
National Census and Statistics Office, there are at least three million single parents in
the Philippines or 4 percent of the country’s total 76.5 million populations. The growing
numbers of solo-parent families are now so prominent in society that they become
important subculture and need to be accepted as a legitimate and valid unit of society
(Simbulan; 2008). It is also stated on the 2000 Census of Population and Housing by
the National Statistics Office the City of Santiago have a total of 902 Separated or
divorces to their partner or spouse. The age ranges to 20-80 and over.
When the subject of single parenthood is being discussed, it would almost certainly
involve women since women are usually considered the primary care givers. Knowing
the hardship, they experience raising their child/children alone they also encounter
The study aims to determine the challenges faced by solo parents and to provide for a
social work intervention program or project addressing the issues and needs of the Solo
Research Question
1.1. Age
1.2. Gender
Every research study has significance to the people and to the society. This study
Solo Parents. More specifically, the findings are expected to contribute knowledge to
the existing literature about the challenges faced single-parent. This contribution will
add knowledge on dealing with this challenges in relation also to their parenting styles.
To be a solo parent is hard work involving anxiety and stress. Hence, the demand of
taking care of their present needs and planning and establishing their future. According
to the data the Philippines in the year 2000, solo parents constituted 2.9 or nearly 3
million if the country’s population. It cannot be denied that this phenomenon may have
dire implications and consequences. Because the ration of single mother is higher than
the single father this threatens to become a socio-economic menace. This study is
use the knowledge and understanding of a chosen field outside of the classroom and to
Solo parent. This may help them to address the unsolved issues and challenges they
Future Researchers. The outcome of the study is beneficial to the neither present
researchers or the future researchers. This study may be one of the basis that a new
Theoretical Background
Trends in Solo parent families in Philippines have been increasing over the past
decades. This study attempts to understand the participants’ realities from their point of
view on how family structure impacts solo parents lives as well as their child/children’s
lives. When looking at outcomes of being a solo parent, it is important to consider some
of the factors that play a part in the families, such as economic resources, parental
The middle-class nuclear family, mother in the home, has traditionally served as the
ideal standard of American family life. Deviations from this family form have produced
outcries of concern that the family is decaying (Brandwein, Brown, & Fox, 1974; Glasser
& Navarre, 1965). Although we empathize with this concern, the emotionality of the
topic has clouded perceptions of some of the critical issues central to an understanding
of factors affecting the socialization of children. The assumption reconsidered in this
paper is that the nuclear family is the ideal way to rear and socialize children. A basic
tenet in much of the literature is that variations in the nuclear family will produce
Although some deviations may emerge from variant family forms, the basic question, it
seems to us, is whether children from variant family forms show greater or lesser signs
assume that undesirable behavior can result from socialization in any family form.
However, one should question whether a given form is more likely to produce ineffective
adults than another. Regardless of the reason for the evolution of greater numbers of
variant family life forms, the fact is that there is no one standard family pattern. The
report of the White House Conference on Children (1970) delineated eight prevalent
variations of the American family including (a) the traditional nuclear family, (b) the
dyadic nuclear family, (c) the single parent family, (d) the three-generation family, (e)
old-age couples, (f) the institutional family, (g) the foster family, and (h) kin networks.
structures which equally affect children, e.g., the communal family, unmarried parent
and child family, and unmarried couple and child family. The common stance has been
to use a deficit model when describing variant family forms. For instance, Goldstein,
Freud, and Solnit (1973) argued from a deficit model perspective that the discontinuity
stable role model. However, such a position may be an overstatement in its assumption
common. The most prevalent deviation from the traditional mother at home nuclear
family form is the divorced family. Another derivative is the father or mother absent
While the structure of this particular form may look identical to that of the nuclear model,
interaction patterns may be quite different. The last family type viewed was the family
with an employed mother. The amount of concern raised by various groups about the
effects of employment of the mother on her children and the number of studies of this
phenomenon are evidence that this form is considered a variant. Unfortunately, there
has been little systematic research comparing children from various family forms on the
control group. In addition, it is cohort specific; there are few cross-cohort comparisons.
Alternate family forms have been viewed as major contributing factors to delinquency.
Of 18 studies cited by Herzog and Sudia (1970) 7 upheld the relationship between
delinquency and single parent households, 4 found contrary results, while 7 were
inconclusive. These researchers noted several problems with these studies. Foremost
was the generally recognized fact that delinquent children from lower socioeconomic
and ethnic neighborhoods were more likely to be picked up, officially charged and
sentenced. Other effects of divorce should be noted. The economic level of the two
separate family units almost always drops, as income formerly spent on maintenance of
one household must now be spread over two. Economic discrimination against women
compounds the problem. Children are still more likely to remain with their mothers than
their fathers, putting the economic burden on the parent least likely to adequately
support them. Parental Absence Lynn (1974), in summarizing his literature review on
the absent father, says there is a negative relationship between father absence and the
The conclusions we have drawn are less clear. Herzog and Sudia's (1970) extensive
review of the father absence research indicated that several forms of father absence
addressed. In particular, was the absence temporary or permanent, and at what age in
the child's life did the separation occur? The complexity of the study of this problem has
led several reviewers to call for further qualifications in summarizing the available
research. Rosenfield and Rosenstein (1973) added the precipitating cause, duration of
absence, frequency of absence, amounts and kinds of contact, and emphasized that the
timing of the separation and the quality of the relationship which remains for the child
are important mediating factors. How the father is separated from the family and the
attitudes the family members have held for the father before separation are relevant to
the child's development. Knox (1970) found that death of the father resulted in
through divorce or separation may temporarily stimulate hostility and anger in the child
(NBC Special, Note 2). Before a divorce there tends to be more friction and
interpersonal conflict than is experienced prior to father absence due to death (Nye,
1957). This increases the likelihood of idealization of the dead father and hostility
toward the divorced father. Idealism of the dead parent may stimulate unrealistic
Theoretical Framework
framework, data that might initially seem unimportant or unrelated may be identified,
explained, or related to other data in meaningful ways (Maxwell, 2012). At the same
time, theory helps define the phenomenon being studied. It illuminates the data set and
helps focus attention on specific events or activities relevant for the research. When
researchers do not use theory to inform their research, they risk the possibility of failing
to raise and examine theoretically grounded questions and may generate findings of a
narrow or limited value. For this same reason, researchers must be cautious when
using theory, as while it may illuminate certain areas, other aspects may be overlooked
(Agar, 1980). Researchers may miss opportunities to establish new and creative ways
The economic level of the two separate family units may drops, as
Adoption by Single parent income formerly spent on maintenance of one household must
now be spread over two..
Death of a partner
Over the past 20 years single-parent households have become even more common
than the “nuclear family” which consists of a mother, father and children. More
commonly, is the presence of a variety of single parent households; that are headed by
mothers, fathers, and even grandparents who raise their grandchildren. Within this
literature review, there will be further discussion on single parent households and the
issues and challenges they experienced in in any aspects of their lives, as well as
examinations of single parent households and race, the societies perception of the
significance of parental involvement and their parental styles, and additional factors that
According to the study problem faced by single mother it stated that the single mothers
tend to suffer from a feeling of rootlessness and lack of identity after divorce/
widowhood. This is especially true of women whose identity was formerly associated
with that of their husbands. In many women, feelings of guilt, shame, resentment, anger
and anxiety about future are so dominant, that they bring out personality changes. Data
following death of spouse, emotional problems faced by single mothers and strategies
that daily parental stressors can be exacerbated by other factors such as occupation,
social networks and support, finances, and other resources and these stressors are
2009, Gibson-Davis 2008; Respler-Herman et al 2011). One conclusion from this body
of research is that single parents feel “more stress” on a daily life basis and that some of
this added stress is due to what is referred to as “task overload”. “Task overload” leads
to and encompasses having less personal time, less leisure time, less sleep and poorer
health and personal care of themselves (BronteTinkew et al 2009; Castillo 2010; Coles
2009; Coltart and Henwood 2012; Olson and Banyard 1993; Respler-Herman et al
Financial Challenges
Acting as the sole provider of their child without a partner will generate a range
of economic challenges. As a single parent, they need to plan to handle all financial
conditions. It is also necessary to live within a reasonable plan and save money to cope
health on 15 single parents was discussed in this research. According to The study
about Impact of Financial Hardship on single parents it is stated being alone wih the
financial responsibility the parent who took the primary custodial responsibility for the
child(ren) was construed to be the parent with the primary financial burden; a scenario
which was described by one participant as big trouble. Not having enough financial
resources to support their children and needing to rely on other people were described
and constructed their position as one where there was a persistent battle with finances;
with the need to fight for everything. Participants described a range of feelings in
response to the constant worry about providing for a child a single person, including
feeling miserable and stressed. These feelings and stressors did not dissipate with time,
Participants viewed money worries as being a central part of everyday life, and was a
repeated stressor which could not be avoided. The stress and the worry about food was
constructed as being constant and life-consuming, and was therefore something that
regularly occupied their thoughts. It was this sense of rumination about being unable to
provide necessities that lead to feelings of sickness, with some single parents
and depression. Often at the centre of this worry were concerns about providing food,
Single fathers may spend less time with their children than do single mothers because
children spend more time away from the home visiting their mothers than their fathers.
Parenting research has shown to have specific stress and gender role associations
which influence the lives of parents and children alike (Castillo 2010; Chesley 2011;
Coles 2002, 2009; Coltart and Henwood 2012; Doucet 2004; Johansson and Klinth
2008; Hofner 2009; Miller 2011; Nelson 2006; Respler-Herman et all 2011; Riina and
Feinberg 2012; Schindler and Coley 2006) and this more general body of research
leads into how gender roles are carried out in single parent households. Bronte-Tinkew
et al. (2010) found that there were differences in how parents conducted their parental
roles and responsibilities in single parent households in relation to the parent’s gender.
Single mothers and single fathers did daily tasks, play and household labor in different
manners, which will be explored below with relation to each (Bronte-Tinkew et al. 2010).
Work Challenges
The importance of employment to single parents becomes evident when the link
between poverty and unemployment is considered. It's hard enough to raise a family.
meet, it is even more complicated. They need no more obstacles they need more
opportunities. There are different dilemmas that single working mothers may encounter
while raising their child on their own. It seems all too much for one person to deal with
sometimes, so they need to find time for themselves. (Srivastava, 2017). E.g., "She's
coming to work late, and she's always using the reason she's a single parent. I usually
don't mind if my workers come to work late as long as there's no urgent work that needs
to be completed. In her situation, we incur a lot of pending / backlog tasks, and most of
the time, she comes in when half of all working hours are already over."Sophie546.
Research Design
The study is using a quantitative approach and utilizing survey methods. The
Libraries, 2017). With regard to the survey methods used in this study, data from
The study was conducted in City of Santiago. Santiago City otherwise known as the
“Queen City of the North” is the only independent component city in Region 2. It is
located at the southern portion of Isabela Province and the gateway to Cagayan Valley
for the study, the study had sixty (60) participants with ages ranging from 20-35 years
old. The participants come from different barangays in consideration with internet
stability, available gadget, referral of the participants and contact of the researchers.
Because of the pandemic, the threat of virus transmission and existing health protocols
restrictions, the researchers are unable to request the list and numbers of Solo parents
to the City Social Welfare and Development Office (CSWDO) of Santiago and there’s
also limitation in travelling within and among barangays. Due to this reason, the
researchers decided to utilize probability sampling method. Since most of the
researchers are from the same municipality but from different barangays, we decided to
use simple random sampling because it is easier for us the recruit participants for our
research.
Table1.
26-30 10 16.7%
31-35 28 46.7%
Elementary 8 13.3%
level
Elementary 3 5%
Graduate
Attainment School
level
5%
High 3
School
Graduate
College
Level 20 33.3%
College
Graduate 17 28.3%
4-6 17 28.3%
7-9 2 3.3%
10-Above 0 0%
10,000-15,000 3 5%
15,000-20,000 8 13.3%
20,000-Above 8 13.3%
Employment Status Employed Full-Time 16 26.7%
Unemployed 4 6.7%
Instrument
The researchers used modified questionnaire with the use of google form to gather
data. The questionnaire was form and based on the study focusing on The Issues and
the study. The participants included in the study are Solo parents at the age of 20-35 in
the target area- City of Santiago. The questionnaire covered the topics of the
as well as the challenges they encounter in personal, financial, parenting and work. The
validity if this instrument used is precise and easy to understand. The questions consist
After the approval of the instrument to be used in conducting this research, the
researchers asked for the guidance and assistance from the research adviser Dr.
Madeilyn B. Estacio in flourishing the methodology to be used for the study. Considering
the current situation, it is risky for both the researchers and the respondent to meet face
to face for the survey. Given that majority of the researchers lived in Santiago City but
from different Barangay, the researchers decided to individually gather data in their
respective barangay and the neighboring barangay while observing the Covid-19 health
protocols.
Data will be collected via google form, the researchers were able to float questionnaire
and gather data to our respondents. There are also some instances that the respondent
can’t answer through the google form, with that the researchers will be the one to
answer the questions as they interview the respondents through the messenger
application. Included in the google form is consent letter asking for their time and
permission to be interviewed to complete the 60 (sixty) participants for this study. Prior
to this, the link for the google form was sent to the participant’s emails and messenger
account so the respondents can answer it when they have free time or time is
convenient for them. The answering of survey questionnaires was facilitated carefully in
a safe and confidential manner. The researchers also translated the questions in local
language to assist the participants and allowed them to understand, share and recount
Data Analysis
Upon the completion of the data gathering the researchers will move to study and focus
all the most valid results possible. The researchers read and sort the respondents
answers and begin identify similarities and categorize the information answered by the
participants. Upon the completion of organizing the results the researchers begin to
interpret the data. This will consist of the researchers interpreting the meaning of the
information from the respondents answers and must represent and visualize the data.
Ethical Considerations
conducting a research study. Prior to the beginning of this study, the researchers obtain
the consent approval from the research adviser, Dr. Madeilyn B. Estacio and conduct
this study by adhering all the guidelines and safety protocols against Covid-19 issued by
the government. We also seek permission from the respondents we gathered if they are
willing to participates and share their experiences to us. In addition, all the research
This chapter discusses the results and findings of the study. The study has completed
Table 2.
Personal Challenges
In table 2, the results show the respondents responsesto the question about their
personal experiences. It states that majority of the respondents frequently find it difficult
to manage their time. Solo parents frequently lose their self-confidence. Sometime
being a solo parent makes them anxious and feel overwhelmed by the responsibilities.
Majority of the respondents feel tired and exhausted by their situation, they feel alone
and helpless. Sometimes they find it difficlt to allocate time for their self and everything
they do is not enough for the welfare of tier child/ren. And majority of the respondents
find it hard to give time to attend their child/ren school activities and find it hard to build
Q2 8 13 16 22 1
Q3 4 4 26 24 2
Q4 3 3 19 32 4
Q5 2 5 18 23 11
Q6 12 8 13 25 2
Q7 7 8 23 21 1
Q8 7 5 26 21 1
Q9 4 2 28 23 3
Q10 7 4 26 21 2
.
Table 3.
Financial Challenges
Q1 8 9 19 24 0
Q2 8 8 20 23 1
Q3 7 6 20 28 0
Q4 8 8 17 27 1
Q5 9 4 21 22 4
Q6 9 7 23 21 0
Q7 8 2 29 20 1
Q8 10 8 21 20 1
Q9 10 6 19 26 0
Q10 6 9 21 23 2
Table 4.
Parenting challenges
DISCUSSION
Conclusion
Recommendation
Based on the results of the study, it is therefore recommending that solo parents
respondents. this programs or services may help them cop up with the different
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APPENDICES
The Challenges Faced by the Solo Parent
Research Question
1.1. Age
Name:______________________________________________
I.
Age
Number of Children
1-3 4-6 7-9 10-above
Monthly Income
Employment Status
Employed Full-Time
Employed Part-time
Unemployed
II. Please rate how often you experience or engaged in the different problems listed
below. Do not leave each item unanswered. Please rate the extent to which you
1 2 3 4 5
Personal Challenges
1 2 3 4 5
parent.
solo parent.
welfare of my child/children.
school, activities.
Financial Challenges
1 2 3 4 5
house bills.
education
future
expenses
child/children want.
amortization.
Parenting Challenges
1. I find it difficult to discipline my child.
parents at home
appropriately
school, activities
child/children’s future.
Work Challenges
1. I experience discrimination at work being a solo
parent.
as a solo parent.
solo parent.
children.
responsibilities