Good Times Made Simple
Good Times Made Simple
Good Times Made Simple
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hank you very much for your interest in the Center for a New
American Dream. If this book is your introduction to the Center,
we’d like to welcome you to a growing movement of Americans who are
challenging the “more is better” definition of happiness.
Good Times Made Simple is based on a very simple premise. In
our hectic day-to-day lives, it’s easy to lose sight of some of the things that
bring us real joy - connections with family, friends and nature. This book
offers alternatives to commercial TV, video games and trips to the mall.
We hope it helps you rediscover the simple pleasures of good, old-fash-
ioned fun.
We’ve included suggestions for all kinds of different activities. They
may be things you haven’t done in years, and there will certainly be some
things you’ve never done. We hope you have a fabulous time trying them
out. In many ways, the key to fun is creating the space to follow your pas-
sions. We don’t have a roadmap, just some helpful tips to set you on your
way. We hope you’ll contact us with your own suggestions for how to have
more fun with less stuff.
We’d appreciate your help spreading the word about non-commercial
fun and the Center for a New American Dream. If you aren’t a member
yet, please join! Membership comes with a whole host of benefits (see
enclosed envelope for details) not least of which is that you’ll be helping us
shift American culture away from its excessive emphasis on acquisition
toward a more balanced, sustainable and satisfying way of life.
When you join the Center, we’ll send you a free copy of Good
Times Made Simple to share with a friend. Better yet, share the Center
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with a friend! If you buy a gift membership for a friend when you join, your
friend’s membership is half-price. We’re hoping you’ll agree with us that
some things, like games and innovative non-profit organizations, are too
good not to share!
Sincerely,
Betsy Taylor
“Life is meant to
be enjoyed, not en
dured.”
ANTHONY J. D’ANGEL
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Good Times Made Simple
The Lost Art of Fun
Table of Contents
Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1
Spin a Tale. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4
Creative Carving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8
Play Ball! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10
Sing! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
Cut a Rug . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20
Bad Art . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24
Forcing Bulbs. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26
The California
Indian Storytelling
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Fremont, CA
510-794-7253
www.cistory.org
Resources
Two books with simple, monthly maps of constellations and stories
from Greek mythology are Discover the Stars by Richard
Berry (Harmony Books, 1987) and Stargazing for
Beginners by John Mosley (Lowell House, 1998).
Resources
There are tons of information sources for those who want to get
into woodworking. Here are a few to get you started.
T here’s really nothing like it. A few hours spent out in the great
outdoors. There’s a lot more to getting outside than weeding
the garden, and some of the best outdoor activities require no fuss-
ing, no advanced planning and no equipment.
Let’s start with the all-time favorite outdoor game.
Yes, we mean catch. Catch is ideal for parents and
children — it’s a classic, all-American bonding activity.
You can play with anything: a softball, a baseball, a fris-
bee, a tennis ball, a soccer ball, a soft football. You can
play anywhere you can find 30 to 40 feet of relatively
unobstructed space. And, with the exception of rainy and
icy days, you can play year round.
Drop the ball? No worries, pick it up and keep playing. You
don’t have to be good. Practice will improve your skills, and you and
your catch partner can learn from each other.
It feels great to be outside and moving around. It gets the heart
rate up and stress level down. It gives you and your partner the
chance to talk in a leisurely way, without the pressure of sitting
down for a conversation. The longer you play, the more things will
emerge in conversation.
Playing catch is a repeated activity that has a Zen-like aspect to
it when you do it for a while. If you play on the street or in a park,
you’re bound to meet neighbors and reinforce your community. And
when you play outdoors, you’re spending time in nature. It’s impossi-
ble to play without noticing the sky, trees, birds and the colors of
nature.
For a variation on the theme kick a ball back a forth. Same idea,
same fun, just use your feet instead of your hands.
Other timeless classics include hopscotch, jump rope and tag.
These games were fun when you were young, and they’re still fun.
Introduce them to someone under ten as an alternative to video
games. Don’t know anyone that young? Play anyway! You may just
Resources
Rise Up Singing:The Group Singing Songbook by Peter Blood
and Annie Patterson — Sing Out! Publications (Volume II is on its way)
For the Beauty of the Earth by Pete Seeger, Raffi, John Denver,
Tom Paxton, Tom Lehrer, Bill Staines and John Gorka, Sing Out!
Publications
W hen is the last time you got into nature and admired the
beautiful wildlife? You don’t have to go out to the woods.
Suburbs, towns and even cities all have their share of wild creatures
— raccoons, beavers, turtles, squirrels and birds — struggling to find
a home in an urban world. By planting a few bird- and butterfly-
attracting flowers and building some homemade animal feeders, you
can provide a safe space for these creatures while appreciating them
up close. This year, try adding a new dynamic to your gardening by
creating your own private wildlife sanctuary.
If you have a yard or a garden, you can go even farther with
birdbaths, feeders and greenery. Summer-fruiting plants such as mul-
berry and honeysuckle attract catbirds, waxwings and robins. Like
Simon and Garfunkel, butterflies love parsley, sage, rosemary and
thyme. Squirrels and rabbits munch on wild plums and cherries. Be
sure to plant species that are indigenous to your area —
once established, native plants don’t require fertilizers,
pesticides or extra water, so they’re low-maintenance
and safe for the environment. You can also build feed-
ers and shelters to attract wildlife. A small, circular hole
in a dried-out gourd makes a great hiding spot for finches,
swallows and wrens. Scrap wood can easily be turned into funky,
creative bird feeders or bat houses. With a little paint and ingenuity,
old ceramic pots or even old toilet bowls and bathroom sinks can
become beautiful bird baths.
If your access to outdoor space is limited, don’t despair. Plant a
window box full of purple bee balm to entice butterflies, or build a
small feeder to hang outside for birds. You might consider adopting a
neglected area in a public space nearby, collecting litter and scatter-
ing birdseed so all the neighbors can enjoy a little wildlife. Don’t for-
get to establish your sanctuary in a prominent location, such as out-
side a kitchen or living room window, for optimal viewing delight.
Library books on indigenous critters can help you and your family
Resources
National Wildlife Federations Backyard Habitat program offers a free
brochure, Creating Habitat for Wildlife at Home, School,
Work and in Communities, which is packed with useful advice
for beginners and resources for additional information.
Resources
Libraries and local historical societies can help you get started. You
can also check out:
H ave the rainy day blues? Had your fill of Candyland and
Monoply? If so, it’s time to get creative!
Some of the best games require no batteries, assembly or expen-
sive gadgets to play. The more games rely on human ingenuity, the
more fun they tend to be. To help you get started we’ve pulled togeth-
er a list of some of our favorite indoor games. Play them as they are or
invent your own variations — indoor games can be as fun as you make
them!
Fictionary Open the dictionary and put your finger down without
looking. What word have you chosen? If it’s one nobody is likely to
know, then read the word, but don’t tell anyone its meaning. Everyone
takes a turn making up their guess the goal is not accuracy, but hilarity.
The person with the most votes for their meaning scores one point,
and gets to pick the next word.
Fun with cards Decks of cards are so versatile they can be used
for games for children and adults of all ages. Instead of the traditional
Go Fish, try something new. Learn some card tricks. Build card houses.
Play a game you remember from your childhood. Or learn a new game
and teach it to your friends and family.
But don’t stop with these games! Play charades, stage a play or
invite your friends and family to invent new games. Pair up and have
two people work out the details for each one. Dare them to be cre-
ative. Once they’ve created it, play the game, no matter how silly it
seems. You could have the next Trivial Pursuit on your hands, or a
game that will entertain your family for generations. In any case,
respect the creation of each family member, and have fun!
Resources
For a list of terrific games, old and new, visit the Game Finder at
http://family.go.com/.
For card games from the U.S. and all around the world, including
children’s games, solitaire and multiple player games, and games that
others have created, visit www.pagat.com/. For great card tricks to
impress your family and friends, visit www.web.superb.net/cardtric/.
101 Best Family Card Games by Alfred Sheinwold and Myron
Miller. Sterling Publishing Company. A wealth of resources for card
game rules and variations.
Resources
Worms Eat My Garbage: How to Set Up and Maintain a
Worm Composting System by Mary Appelhof. Flower Press.
(www.wormwoman.com). Covers all of the Dos and Don’ts of
composting a great book for beginners. You can also buy worms at
her site or by calling her at 616-327-0108.
Amaryllis
What these dramatic flowers lack in
scent they make up for in spectacular
blossoms, as many as a dozen per bulb.
Buy the bulbs in the autumn for $8
to $12 each.
Store them in a paper bag in a cool
place (about 55o F) until you’re ready to
plant.
Place an individual bulb in a pot that is only an inch wider than
the bulb. Surround it with soil.
Keep the bulb warm but out of direct sunlight. Don’t water it
for two to four weeks until the flower bud and stalk appear, then
water it daily to keep the soil moist.
Bulbs forced with pebbles and water grow quickly but will not regen-
erate for a second season. But with proper care, many bulbs can be
potted in soil and coaxed to bloom year after year.
Resources
Forcing, Etc. by Katherine Whiteside. Workman Publishing.
Flowering Bulbs for Dummies by Judy Glattstein, National
Gardening Association.
For Families
Fun Time, Family Time by Susan K. Perry, illustrated by Sandra
Forrest (1996, Avon). There are many, many books about fun
activities for parents and children. This is one of the best.
For Adults
Simple Fun for Busy People by Gary Krane, PhD. (1998, Conari
Press). Krane sees fun as an attitude, and he emphasizes the ways
that playfulness can strengthen relationships. Full of good anecdotes
and suggestions.
We Need You!
We’re moving American culture away from today’s emphasis on com-
mercialism toward a more sustainable, fulfilling and just way of life. We
will succeed — but only with the personal commitment and financial
support of individuals just like you. Please become a member and join
us as we help Americans to have More Fun, Less Stuff!
With your membership, you will receive a copy of the Center’s
new 30-minute video hosted by Danny Glover, More Fun, Less Stuff:
The Challenges & Rewards of a New American Dream; our quarterly
newsletter, Enough; and a More Fun, Less Stuff bumper sticker. We’ll
also send you a copy of Good Times Made Simple to share with a friend.
Better yet, if you buy a gift membership for a friend when you join, your
friend’s membership is half-price.