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    The Power of Positive Parenting DINIE

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    The document discusses the goals and challenges of positive parenting. It outlines 5 core principles: 1) creating a safe environment, 2) having a positive learning environment, 3) using assertive discipline, 4) having realistic expectations, and 5) taking care of yourself as a parent. Strategies are provided for each principle, such as developing routines, using praise, establishing rules and consequences, considering a child's developmental level, and balancing work and family responsibilities. The benefits of positive parenting for both children and parents are emphasized.

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    The document discusses the goals and challenges of positive parenting. It outlines 5 core principles: 1) creating a safe environment, 2) having a positive learning environment, 3) using assertive discipline, 4) having realistic expectations, and 5) taking care of yourself as a parent. Strategies are provided for each principle, such as developing routines, using praise, establishing rules and consequences, considering a child's developmental level, and balancing work and family responsibilities. The benefits of positive parenting for both children and parents are emphasized.

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    The document discusses the goals and challenges of positive parenting. It outlines 5 core principles: 1) creating a safe environment, 2) having a positive learning environment, 3) using assertive discipline, 4) having realistic expectations, and 5) taking care of yourself as a parent. Strategies are provided for each principle, such as developing routines, using praise, establishing rules and consequences, considering a child's developmental level, and balancing work and family responsibilities. The benefits of positive parenting for both children and parents are emphasized.

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    The Power of Positive Parenting DINIE

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    The document discusses the goals and challenges of positive parenting. It outlines 5 core principles: 1) creating a safe environment, 2) having a positive learning environment, 3) using assertive discipline, 4) having realistic expectations, and 5) taking care of yourself as a parent. Strategies are provided for each principle, such as developing routines, using praise, establishing rules and consequences, considering a child's developmental level, and balancing work and family responsibilities. The benefits of positive parenting for both children and parents are emphasized.

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    Dinie Ratri Desiningrum

    Goals

    • To raise healthy well-adjusted children


    who have the skills to:
    – communicate their needs
    – get on with others
    – try to do their best
    – manage their emotions
    – feel good about themselves
    • In a safe, secure, loving and low-
    conflict environment
    Being A Parent

    Parenting can be:
     rewarding
     enjoyable
     demanding
     frustrating
     exhausting
    We all learn through trial and error
    Every parent has to develop their own goals
    and approach to discipline
    The good news

    Most parents:
    are confident in their parenting
    (77%)
    find parenting rewarding (86%)
    find parenting fulfilling (89%)
    Children behavior

    The The Challenge

    • Some misbehavior is normal


    • Some discipline problems are
    inevitable
    • Managing everyday behavior
    problems can prevent more
    serious ones
    Positive parenting


    • Promoting children’s development
    and managing their behavior and
    emotions in a positive way
    • Building strong relationships
    • Good communication
    • Emphasizing the positive
    • Planning ahead to prevent problems
    • Using everyday situations and creating
    opportunities to help children learn
    Benefits for children


    • Develop skills
    • Do better at school
    • Build friendships
    • Feel good about themselves
    • Have fewer behavioral and
    emotional problems
    • Less likely to become involved in
    drug abuse or delinquent behavior
    Benefits for parents


    • Feelings of confidence and
    competence in parenting
    • Less depression
    • Less stress
    • Less conflict with their partner
    • Less conflict with their children
    Skills children need


    • Good communication and social
    skills
    • Ability to manage feelings
    • Independence skills
    • Problem solving skills
    5 core principles


    1. Creating a safe, interesting
    environment
    2. Having a positive learning
    environment
    3. Using assertive discipline
    4. Having realistic expectations
    5. Taking care of yourself
    Principle 1

    Creating a safe, interesting
    environment
    Strategies


    • Develop predictable routines
    • Provide supervision
    • Have interesting things to do
    Tips for safety:
    • Teach your child road safety rules
    • Provide safety equipment
    • Be safety conscious near schools
    • Teach your child about personal
    safety
    Benefits

    Children: 
    • feel secure and wanted
    • are safe
    • live in a predictable world
    • have lots of interesting things to do
    • have opportunities to learn
    Parents:
    • can be more relaxed
    Principle 2

    Having a positive learning
    environment
    Strategies
    •
    •

    Spend time with your child
    Speak nicely
    • Chat and listen often
    • Share your own experiences
    • Be affectionate
    • Use descriptive praise
    • Give your child attention
    • Use incidental teaching
    • Get involved in your child’s school
    Promoting Development

    Promoting Positive
    Relationships
    Encouraging Desirable
    Behavior

    Teaching New Skills &


    Behaviors

    Managing
    Misbehavior
    Promoting Self-Control

    Promoting Positive
    Relationships
    Encouraging Desirable
    Behavior

    Teaching New Skills &


    Behaviors

    Managing
    Misbehavior
    Principle 3

    Using assertive discipline
    How discipline helps


    Discipline helps children learn to:
    • accept necessary rules and limits
    • develop self-control
    • consider others
    • express their feelings in ways that
    respect the needs of others
    • take responsibility for their actions
    When discipline works


    Discipline works best when:
    • children live in a predictable world
    • children receive plenty of attention for
    good behavior
    • parents have reasonable expectations
    • parents use fair, predictable
    consequences consistently
    • parents support each other
    Strategies

    • 
    Prepare in advance
    • Arrange activities
    • Set some ground rules
    • Praise good behavior
    • Watch and supervise
    • Use planned ignoring for minor
    misbehavior
    • Use your voice effectively
    Strategies


    • Use directed discussion for rule
    breaking
    • Give clear, calm instructions
    – start instructions
    – stop instructions
    • Take away a problem activity
    • Back up instructions with quiet time
    • Use time-out for serious misbehavior
    Principle 4

    Having realistic expectations
    Strategies

    Consider: 
    • Your expectations of your child
    – What do I expect?
    – Is this rule necessary?
    – Can my child understand / do this?
    • What other parents expect
    • What your child’s school expects
    • Your expectations of yourself
    – Are my expectations reasonable?
    Principle 5

    Taking care of yourself
    as a parent
    Balancing work and family

    • 
    Have realistic expectations of yourself
    • Reduce unnecessary commitments
    • Develop good transition time routines
    • Avoid conflict after work and prepare
    for the ‘second shift’
    • Teach your child to be independent
    • Organize good, reliable child care
    Negative thinking

     Helpful thoughts:
    Unhelpful thoughts:
     He knew I was tired • We were both tired
     She did that on • Maybe she’s bored
    purpose to upset me when I’m on the phone
     He’s never going to • It will take time for him
    learn to learn
     She’s just bad • Her behavior is
    annoying
    Changing how you think


    • Notice when you are feeling upset with
    your child
    • Identify what negative / unhelpful
    things you are saying to yourself about
    the situation, particularly why it is
    happening
    • Try to change negative thoughts to
    helpful, more rational thoughts
    Working as a team


    • Talk with your partner and other
    caregivers about daily experiences with
    your child
    • Share the workload fairly
    • Reach agreement on discipline
    • Back each other up
    • Model problem solving skills
    • Hold regular problem solving
    discussions
    Take home messages

    Take home messages

    • 
    Make your family a priority
    • Create a warm, loving, safe environment
    • Encourage your child’s learning
    • Use assertive discipline
    • Have reasonable expectations
    • Take care of yourself:
    – look after your own needs
    – balance work and family responsibilities
    – talk back to negative thinking
    – work as a team
    Tip Sheet

    •

    Review it with your partner or by
    yourself.

    • Review it this week!

    • Choose one strategy you learned


    today to try at home.
    Question time

    Positive Parenting…

    Small changes,
    Big differences

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