Values
Values
Values
Values standards to which a group of society
judges the desirability and importance of
persons, ideas actions or objects. Values are
shared conceptions or convictions, or beliefs in
what are considered desirable or undesirable.
They give meaning and significance to the totality
of society, and culture evolves a system of what
is desirable and undesirable. This in turn, guides
the way men view themselves and the world.
Values make things desirable. Satisfying and
worthy of approval; they define what are
important to people.
Values can be defined as broad preference
concerning appropriate courses of action or
outcomes. Values reflect a person's sense of
right and wrong or what "ought" to be. "Equal
rights for all", "Excellence deserves admiration",
and "People should be treated with respect and
dignity" are representative of values. Values
tend to influence attitudes and behavior.
Values are those ideas and concepts within each
of us that we deem important. Values, help
determine our behaviours as we live our lives and
assist our decision making. They help us decide
right from wrong, and help define who we are and
what we stand for.
Values originate from our families, traditions, religion,
elders and friends. They are formed early in life, and
are reinforced by our life experiences. Once
established values are very hard to change.
Alejo’s loob has world has space, depth and content which
emanate from the core and which one can get in touch
with. The depth, space and content of loob depends on the
relationship with others, the elements of which includes
consciousness level (abot-kamay), affective level (abot-
dama) and capability level (abot-kaya).
“Abot-malay (pangkamalayan, pangkaisipan, alaala,
pagkamalikhain, pagtanaw sa kinabukasan at sa
posibilidad ng hinarap)”
c. Pagmamahal, pagkalinga at pakikipag – isa sa kapwa (love, unity, solidarity and teamwork).
Ginuhit ni.........
10 Commandments of Human Relations
1. Speak to people.
There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.
2. Smile at people.
It takes 72 muscles to frown, only 14 to smile.
5. Be cordial.
Speak and act as if everything you do is a joy to you.
6. Be genuinely interested in people.
You can like almost everybody if you try.
This sense of joy and humor is manifested in the Filipino love for
socials and celebrations, in our capacity to laugh even in the most
trying of times, and in the appeal of political satire.
•This quality of the Filipino is manifested in the ability to adapt to life in any part of the
world; in the ability to make new things out of scrap and to keep old machines
running; and, of course, in the creative talent manifested in the cultural sphere. It is
seen likewise in the ability to accept change.
Filipinos live very intimately with religion; this is tangible--a part of everyday life. We
ascribe human traits to a supernatural God whom we alternately threaten and thank, call
upon for mercy or forgiveness, and appease by pledges. Prayer is an important part of
our lives.
The faith of the Filipino is related to bahala na, which, instead of being viewed as
defeatist resignation, may be considered positively as a reservoir of psychic energy, an
important psychological support on which we can lean during difficult times.
This pampalakas ng loob allows us to act despite uncertainty.
Our faith and daring was manifest at EDSA and at other times in our history when it was
difficult to be brave. It is seen also in the capacity to accept failure and defeat without our
self-concept being devastated since we recognize forces external to ourselves as
contributing to the unfolding of events in our lives.
The results of the Filipino's faith are courage, daring, optimism, inner peace, as well as
the capacity to genuinely accept tragedy and death.
6. Ability to Survive. Filipinos have an ability to
survive which is manifested in our capacity for
endurance despite difficult times, and in our
ability to get by on so little. Filipinos make do
with what is available in the environment, even,
e.g., by eking out a living from a garbage dump.
This survival instinct is related to the Filipinos
who bravely carry on through the harshest
economic and social circumstances. Regretfully,
one wonders what we might be able to do under
better circumstances.
Weaknesses of the Filipino Character
1. Extreme Personalism. Filipinos view the world in terms of personal relationships
and the extent to which one is able personally to relate to things and people
determines our recognition of their existence and the value. There is no separation
between an objective task and emotional involvement. This personalism is
manifested in the tendency to give personal interpretations to actions, i.e., to "take
things personally." Thus, a sincere question may be viewed as a challenge to one's
competence or positive feedback may be interpreted as a sign of special affection.
There is, in fact, some basis for such interpretations as Filipinos become personal
in their criticism and praise. Personalism is also manifested in the need to
establish personal relationships before any business or work relationship can be
successful.
• Because of this personalistic world view, Filipinos have difficulty dealing with all
forms of impersonal stimuli. For this reason one is uncomfortable with
bureaucracy, with rules and regulations, and with standard procedures--all of which
tend to be impersonal. We ignore them or we ask for exceptions.
• Personal contacts are involved in any transaction and are difficult to turn down.
Preference is usually given to family and friends in hiring, delivery of services, and
even in voting. Extreme personalism thus leads to the graft and corruption evident
in Philippine society.
2. Extreme Family-Centeredness. While concern for
the family is one of the Filipino's greatest strengths, in
the extreme it becomes a serious flaw. Excessive
concern for the family creates an in-group to which the
Filipino is fiercely loyal, to the detriment of concern for
the larger community or the common good.
Servanthood
We value a supportive and professional role to serve and protect
our clientele and the community with sincerity, utmost devotion
and dedication above personal interest as we affirm our
unconditional service and love of God, country and people.
Excellence
Empowerment