Day Game 101 - What Comes After The Approach

Day Game 101: What Comes After the
Approach
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By: Jeff Stanton

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In the first part of my Day Game series, “Day Game 101, Part I:
Basics and Fundamentals”, you learned all of the fundamentals
of meeting women during the day time. In the second part, “Day
Game 101: A New Way to Open”, you learned how to overcome
one of the biggest hurdles: how not only to approach women,
but approach them in the most optimal way possible, i.e., by
making it seem like it was fate.
I really hope you guys have been approaching women and
working on the fundamentals. If you want to master day game
you really need to focus and grasp those fundamentals!
While the fundamentals are highly important, it’s also important

to have a plan on what to do once you are actually talking to a
beautiful woman during the day. That’s where Part 3 comes in.
Hold onto your seats because we about to go on a wild ride...
After the Approach
You are walking along on a bright sunny day when you look over
and notice a woman standing on the bridge overlooking the
water. She is stunning in every single way. Your mind quickly
recognizes the best way to day game approach her and you
move your feet to put that plan into action. Before you know
what’s happened you’ve just opened her.
“Don’t jump,” you say playfully and with a smile.
You made sure not to startle or scare her, you’re dressed well
and have your fundamentals down, and you came off as
carefree and comfortable as possible. Good job!
She looks back at you, a blank expression on her face, and her
mouth begins to open. This is it; you are almost in a
conversation with a beautiful girl. You did everything right and
you can’t wait to hear her response and see how impressed she
is with you...
“Yep,” she says, with no hint of a smile on her face. She quickly
returns to looking back out at the ducks playing in the water.
Okay, that was strange, you think to yourself. No matter, you

plough ahead thinking that perhaps she is just shy.
“I noticed you have a camera around your neck. You into

photography too? I love it myself.” You know that trying to find a
common interest is good as you say that to her hoping for a
warmer response.
“Yep,” she says once more, in a cold voice this time, without
even so much as a quick glance in your direction.
What do you do now? Do you keep trying or do you walk away.
Why isn’t she interested? What did you do wrong? Questions fill
your head as you spiral into confusion. You decide to walk
away.
Later that day you’re coming back from the city center and
begin to cross the bridge again. You can’t believe your luck!
Right there in the center of the bridge is another woman,
absolutely beautiful with the sun illuminating her body, and
she’s all alone. You are hesitant because of the approach from
earlier but you decide to go for it anyways.
You approach her in the same manner as you approached the

other girl. You decide to even try the same opening words.
“Don’t jump,” you say with a smile.
The girl turns her head and you see a smile on her face.
Giggling she looks at you warmly, “But I was just thinking it

would be a nice day for a swim.” She’s being playful and you
recognize this.
You end up having a great and flirty conversation with her (I’ll
show you how to do this) and you walk away with her number.
Back at home and reflecting over the day though, you are now
more confused than ever. Why was the first girl so cold and
uninterested while the second one was so warm and friendly?
You figure that you must have done something wrong with the
first girl; something to turn her so cold. Maybe not.It’s possible
that the first girl just wasn’t sexually available.
Sexual Availability
Some dating coaches like to say that if a woman responds
coldly to you or if she just isn’t interested in any way then it’s
your fault. The truth, however, is not so black and white. Sure, if
you are new to this and still working on your fundamentals then
yeah, it’s very possible that you are doing something to give
women a negative knee-jerk reaction.
However, if you have your fundamentals down, does that mean

that woman will never react coldly? No. Even if you are doing
everything right you will still meet women who simply are not
interested. This is because they are not sexually available.
Let’s back up. After you walked away from the first girl you were
wondering what you did wrong and why she’s not interested.
You know your fundamentals were down and you can’t think of
anything you did to come off as weird, so why wasn’t she
interested (sexually available)?
There could be a million reasons:

● She could be in a committed relationship, has a low sex drive, and doesn’t cheat.
● She could be a lesbian and not into men.
● She could have just lost a loved one and wasn’t in the mood to meet someone new.
● She could have just gotten cheated on and is in the headspace of “I hate men”.
There are tons and tons of reasons why a woman may not be
sexually available. If you don’t believe you are the reason for a
woman’s cold reaction then don’t worry about why she’s not
available and go find a woman who is.
Is She Sexually Available
No matter how good at making a day game approach you get,

you will still run into many women who aren’t sexually available.
In order to be efficient and maximize your success, you need to
learn how to spot the difference between an available women
and a woman who’s not sexually available.
Sexually unavailable will usually exhibit multiple signs that she

isn’t interested in you:
● She has a blank or cold expression on her face and it won’t go away
● She gives one word answers and seems not to care
● She is constantly trying to walk away as you’re talking to her and seems in a hurry
● She questions your motives in a spiteful way
● She makes no effort to ask you questions back or further the conversation at all
● She won’t look you in the eyes
What do you do if you meet a woman like this? Do you plough

through and try to change her mind, or do you walk away?
That’s up to you, but personally, I just walk away. Once you have
your fundamentals down there will be so many women out
there who are sexually available that you don’t need to focus on
the completely uninterested ones.
Be careful not to mistake a shy woman for a disinterested one.

Some key differences are:
● Shy women may give one word answers at first but they
usually have warm expressions
● They eventually open up and give you more than one word
● They don’t seem like they are trying to leave
In general the vibe will be different, and with a little experience
you will be able to pick up on her mood better.
Let’s go back to the second girl on the bridge. You approached

her and found that she is sexually available. Is your work done?
Sometimes it is! Sometimes a woman will instantly have a ton
of interest in you from the very beginning, but many times you
still need to do a bit more “work”. The next thing you do after
you open and find out if she’s sexually available is to start a
conversation.
Hold a Conversation Better Than a
Salesman
This is the part that gives guys so much trouble and is one of
the major causes of their fear and anxiety.
“But what do I say?” This is probably the most asked question I

get from guys. Having a great conversation doesn’t need to be
a problem, as it is actually quite simple once you understand
how. Here are some tips:
The first thing to keep in mind is that you want your

conversations to be positive. Stay away from negative,
controversial, and generally bad topics. Also be careful that you
are spreading a positive vibe and not complaining and such.
No woman wants to be approached and start hearing about
your problems.
Secondly, keep the focus on her. How would you feel if

someone walked up to you and just started going on and on
about themselves? You would be bored and not care. Until the
woman opens up to you and is invested in the conversation,
you keep the focus on her.
You can do this easily by simply asking her questions about

herself. A few key mindsets that will help you here:
● I want to know more about this person

● I’m not trying to impress her, instead I want to see if she
impresses me and is a cool person
Let’s go back to the second woman on the bridge. You told her
not to jump and she played along by saying it’s a nice day for a
swim. Where do you go from there? You start doing what Chase
calls, deep diving. Essentially you can go a few directions. You
can build off of swimming and ask her if she likes to swim.
Maybe you notice that she’s wearing Converse All Star shoes
and you mention that you have a pair as well. Maybe she has a
backpack on so you ask her if she goes to the local university.
With some basic observation skills you will find many ways to
start a conversation. I like to build off things they say.
For example, let’s say you ask her about swimming and she
tells you she loves to swim. A great way to build a connection
and deep dive is to build off that. Find out what she likes about
swimming, where she swims, who taught her, and share funny
stories about when you were trying to learn.
Basically, following the initial day game approach, you are

learning about her, letting her talk about herself, finding
common ground, and building a strong emotional connection.
It’s so rare for a woman to meet a random guy who she builds a
strong emotional connection with so quickly. She will be
intrigued with you and want to know more. You are now the
charming mysterious stranger, a man part of all woman’s
fantasies.
Be careful not to beat a dead horse though. If the topic you
picked isn’t working too well then start a different one. All in all
it’s really important to just have fun with this.
Holding a conversation and building a strong, solid emotional

connection with a woman is great and an important part of day
time seduction, but its only one part. The other important part
that you must know about is how to create and escalate the
sexual tension.
Without sexual tension there is a very good chance you will be

placed into the dreaded friend zone category. A lot has been
written about sexual tension before, but most of it has been
with the focus on bars and clubs in mind. There are some key
differences that you need to know in order to be successful.
Conclusion
In this article we discovered how to move forward with a

woman after the initial opener. By now you will also have an
understanding of sexually available vs. sexually unavailable
women and know how to deal with the disinterested ones.
Lastly, we covered how to hold a conversation and build a
strong emotional connection with a woman.
In the final part of the series I will cover that all important
aspect of day game: sexual tension, as well as how to apply it
to make women extremely horny and excited to get alone with
you.
In addition, I will cover how to close, how to get instant dates,

how to get same day lays, what to text, and what to do once you
get a woman back to your place. Next week is going to be a big
one!
Jeff Stanton

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While the fundamentals are highly important, it’s also important

After the Approach

“Don’t jump,” you say playfully and with a smile.

Okay, that was strange, you think to yourself. No matter, you

“I noticed you have a camera around your neck. You into

You approach her in the same manner as you approached the

“Don’t jump,” you say with a smile.

Giggling she looks at you warmly, “But I was just thinking it

However, if you have your fundamentals down, does that mean

There could be a million reasons:

No matter how good at making a day game approach you get,

Sexually unavailable will usually exhibit multiple signs that she

What do you do if you meet a woman like this? Do you plough

Be careful not to mistake a shy woman for a disinterested one.

Let’s go back to the second girl on the bridge. You approached

Hold a Conversation Better Than a

“But what do I say?” This is probably the most asked question I

The first thing to keep in mind is that you want your

Secondly, keep the focus on her. How would you feel if

You can do this easily by simply asking her questions about

● I want to know more about this person

Basically, following the initial day game approach, you are

Holding a conversation and building a strong, solid emotional

Without sexual tension there is a very good chance you will be

In this article we discovered how to move forward with a

In addition, I will cover how to close, how to get instant dates,

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