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 Introduction

Three thousand, four hundred and sixty-two.

That's how many unanswered e-mails are waiting in my e-mail inbox! Many of the e-
mails are from readers of The Flow, sharing success stories (and failure stories) and
asking questions. Others are from readers of our newsletter.

I really enjoy getting all the questions, requests for help, success stories AND failure
stories that you send, as they tell me exactly what YOU need to learn to succeed with
women. So, please keep sending them!

As you could imagine, I won’t ever be able to get around to

answering all the e-mails and that’s why we’ve created our
range of ebook, audio and video products for you to learn
from.

This free report is my chance to recognize the guys who

have successfully used my advice (and say thanks to them),
while also providing you with bonus tips, advice and
insights for success with women.

One of the fastest ways to become skilled at something is to

learn from other people’s experiences first, before
attempting to do it on your own. So, I recommend that you
either have a good read through this report right now, or
print yourself out a copy and read it offline.

I've just poured myself a fresh cup of coffee and I'm ready for some serious typing!

Let's begin!

Dan

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 Table of Contents

• Should You Care What Women Think? 4

• Old Dog, New Tricks 5

• Are You Her 'Lover' or Her 'Comfort Guy'? 7

• Former Nice Guy, Now a Ladies Man… 11

• Does This Stuff Work at College Like it Does in Bars? 14

• Dating a Hot Woman Who Just Broke Up With Her Boyfriend… 16

• 2 Numbers & a Kiss on the First Night of Using The Flow 18

• A Conversation Starter That Almost Always Gets a Laugh 19

• My Ex-Girlfriend is Attracted to Me Again! 21

 QUESTION FROM A READER

"Should You Care What Women Think?"

"Hi Dan,

I have read The Flow book and find some of the things in there invaluable. I
have passed some of the ideas onto my mates. Its allot of fun.

I have one mate who wears glasses. Many people recommend contact lenses,
but according to your system, wearing glasses should make no difference - so
long as it does not affect your confidence.

Cheers,

Adam, 26"

ADVICE FROM DAN:

Hey Adam

A key step in improving your success with women is to first stop caring so much about
what they MIGHT think of you. When women (especially beautiful, sought-after
women) notice that you really care TOO MUCH of what they think of you…guess what?

They usually don't want to be with you.

Why? It shows that you feel a need to impress her and are waiting for her nod of
approval, before you think you deserve her. Women HATE that as it shows a lack of
confidence and self-esteem on your part.

At our first ever Modern Man seminar, Ben was asked the same question about wearing
glasses. He replied with, "If it's not a problem for you, then it's not a problem for her..."

The same goes for your nationality and physical appearance. If it's not a problem for
you, it won't be a problem for her. This is the reason why you see PLENTY of beautiful
women dating dorky or average-looking guys, or guys of a nationality that you think
might struggle to attract women.

Now, there are some exceptions to the rule of ‘if it’s not a problem for you, then it’s not a
problem for her’. In your e-mail, you mentioned that your friend wears glasses. If his
glasses are 'coke bottle' glasses (i.e. very thick glasses that make him look like one of
guys out of 'Revenge of the Nerds') then YES there is a problem and he should 'De-
Nerdify' himself immediately.

The reality is that there ARE some women who are embarrassed to date a guy with thick
glasses. That’s life. However, if your friend is wearing normal spectacles it simply does
not matter.

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Ben from The Modern Man wears glasses. I have NEVER heard a woman make a
negative remark about his glasses.

Cheers,
Dan

P.S. Great to hear that you’re teaching what you’ve been learn to your mates. It shows
that you have the right attitude with this.

SUCCESS STORY

"Old Dog, New Tricks…"

"Hello Dan

Great book dude, bought it last week, read it three times over the weekend.

Monday ran into girl I had been out with a couple of times but failed. Now I
know why.

Anyway we went out and ran around. After a couple of hours, I had her so
confused it was funny, who the hell is this guy. I had hr giggling and laughing
and looking at me when I wasn't paying attention to her, the smile, instead of
answering her was brutal, then I kicked her out of my truck.

She hadn't been treated like you instructed before. She will be calling again,
she is hot and 24 yrs old.

Then I had to stop at the vets, an awesome blonde works there and I turned it
up. During the conversation I stepped back and looked her up and down,
before I left she showed me pictures of her breast implant job.

She's in her early thirties. She called me later that day. She has forgot to give
me something I paid for, she wanted me to come back when everybody else is
at lunch. Tomorrow. hahaha!

Dan I just turned 51 years old. Always been confident just didn't know about
the edge. Damn guess you can teach an old dog new tricks

Thanks again
Ken"

ADVICE FROM DAN:

Ken, Ken, Ken…

Nice work!

What I am MOST impressed about is that you are actually using the techniques in
COMBINATION. The techniques in The Flow are powerful on their own. However,
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when used in combination, they AMPLIFY each other and have a greater effect on
women.

Next, I want to point out something you said, "…before I left she showed me pictures of her
breast implant job." Apart from the humor element, I'm glad you brought that up for
everyone else reading this. Was it random luck that she showed you those breast
implant pics? From my experience, I say "Absolutely not".

Why? When you spark the feeling of ATTRACTION inside of a woman, she will not
only see you differently, but she will BEHAVE differently around you.

Further, when you FLIRT with a woman (like Ken was doing with the up/down look he
got from The Flow), the doors will immediately open for SEXUAL communication
between you and her. She will see that you are a man, not a boy.

Enjoy.

Dan

P.s. Dating a 24-year old at 51 years of age? That's awesome man! Inspirational even to
me!

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 FAILURE STORY

"Are You Her 'Lover' or Her

'Comfort Guy'?"
"Hi Dan

Thank you for written this book, really opened my eyes…it really helped me
and I'm about to put it into practice.

I just want your advice on 1 specific problem I've encountered recently.

I meet a beautiful and intelligent girl on internet ...she was recently divorced
and had a very bad experience of a man who cheated and abused her ... she
leaves oversees.....gradually we got an high and true really true connection and
we behave as lovers, 'on-line lovers ', we spend hours and hours online After 6
months of this relationship, I decided to go and meet her personally....1 week
before my travel her dad passed away! I didn't know what to do, or go or
cancel my trip…I decided to go.

We meet at lunch time, we meet during a working day, was a Friday...my first
impression was that she was very distant. She told me that I was not the guy
whom she meet on internet , I was someone totally different an unknown...she
had the impression to be with someone else. Fair enough. We decided to meet
for breakfast the next day on Saturday.

She came to pick me up at the hotel ..we went for a coffee in a coffee shop and
she told me straight away that because of his dad passed away , her mom and
the bad experience with her ex husband…she didn't wanted to have any
relationship with anybody.

She wasn't prepared at all for that. So what I did is I just left .... I told her that if
she wasn't prepared I do respect that and I left her.. on site and left the country
the same day...the whole conversation lasted for 40 min.

After 2 months without hearing or reading anything from her, I pinged

her…she said to be still surprised by the way I left her...but she respects that
and she told me that we can be just friends, nothing else and that she was very
busy at that moment so she just got disconnected from the msn

I haven't seen her on-line since 2 weeks now...so I don't know if write
something to her or just wait that she would ping me someday which I doubt.

So I'm writing to you to suggest me what I did wrong, may be the way I left or
what should I do or say to get her back.

I would appreciate your honest and sincere feedback

D, Ireland"

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ADVICE FROM DAN:

Thanks for the e-mail D

Look I have to begin by saying - Well done…you at least TRIED to get some action.
Next, I have to offer you some 'tough love'. So, brace yourself…this might hurt a little.

One of the things you said about The Flow was, "I'm about to put it into practice"

It makes TOTAL sense to me that you are now about to put it into practice, because it
sounds like you did all the WRONG things with this woman.

1) Traveling to a different COUNTRY to meet her: Wrong

You were so desperate for a woman that you were willing to travel to another
country to get a couple of dates, when there are probably 20,000 single women in
your local area.

If anything, you should have gotten her to come and meet you on your home turf. I
have many friends who've done that successfully. One, who is now married to the
girl (she was a model in her home country and gave it all up to be here with him).

However, of all the stories I've heard about guys traveling to see a girl in another
country, MOST end up failing. Worse still, whenever I've heard the story from a
woman, she is almost always laughing AT the guy for coming all the way and giving
up what he had (some guys give a job to go and see a woman).

Cruel, but that’s how it works and how women usually react to it.

Women want guys who are confident enough to see themselves as VALUABLE to
women. Guys like that will usually have women chasing them (I say usually, as
there is a right and wrong way to show that you see yourself as valuable to women).

Judging by your e-mail, it's obvious to me that you don't currently see yourself as
very valuable to women.

…and that is a HUGE problem when it comes to dating & relationships.

If you don't improve your self-belief and confidence (I recommend that you listen to
Mastery Methods & Mindsets to learn how to build unstoppable confidence and self-
esteem), you will continue to fail miserably with women.

I also recommend that you stick to your home turf first, instead of blowing loads of
money on international travel to meet ONE woman. Use the techniques from The
Flow to approach lots of women & get LOTS of phone numbers, then set up LOTS of
dates.

…and at least get some sex bro!

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This isn't about having tea and biscuits with women and discussing the hard times
they’re going through in their life. Leave that job for all the other desperate
guys…and if you ever meet one of those guys, send them to TheModernMan.com so
I can give them a virtual 'slap across the back of the head' as well.

2) Thinking that you were lovers: Wrong

You said, "…and we behave as lovers, 'on-line lovers".

But here's the reality my friend…

You were NOT lovers.

You were simply her 'Comfort Guy' as she went through a hard time in her life
(breaking up with her abusive husband who cheated on her).

That's it.

Yes, she may have LIKED you, but she wasn't SEXUALLY INTERESTED in you by
the sound of it. Comfort Guys are really nice guys, who offer plenty of compliments,
do favors for women (like traveling to her country to meet her!) and basically kiss a
woman's ass in the hope of getting some action for being so nice.

It's the WORST strategy for success with women the world has ever seen.

If you're looking for friendship only, then by all means – do exactly what you've
been doing. However, if your objective is to have a sexual relationship with a
woman, do NOT become a woman’s Comfort Guy.

A Comfort Guy will typically spend HEAPS of time fantasizing about the girl
(usually as he falls asleep at night…how cute), without ever getting even so much as
a small taste of the action.

…while her REAL lovers enjoy the pleasures of sex, love and intimacy with her.

3) Meeting her during her lunch break for the 'first date': Wrong

What?

You traveled all the way to her country!

Get her to show you some RESPECT by at least meeting you at night for dinner, or
for a couple of drinks first.

Slotting you in on her lunch break? Geez, she'd have to be giving me a back massage
in the chair at the café (or wherever you met her) and singing sweet lullabies in my
ear to get me out under those conditions.

She'd also better be behaving like an appreciative woman (since I'd traveled so far to
meet her) by inviting me over to her house for coffee, or to cook dinner for me as
well.
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Dude, you've got to be a MAN.

Women walk all over guys like you and as you've experienced - it is just NOT FUN.

Look, I say that to you with a lot of RESPECT and appreciation. As you probably
know, I used to be a total pussy with women as well. Take it from someone who's
seen both sides of this. The grass is much, much greener on the confident, alpha male
side.

4) Your first impression was that she was distant: Wrong

You were her Comfort Guy and she didn't feel sexual attraction for you, so she didn't
want to give you the wrong impression. That's why she immediately told you that
you were not what she expected. The next day she said that she wasn't looking for a
relationship.

The reality was that she was just using you. I know that may sound cynical to say
about women, but it's not. I love women. However, I also know that there are some
women out there who are happy to USE Comfort Guys to make themselves feel
better.

Unfortunately, you were being used by a woman who needed a nice guy to tell her
how beautiful and perfect she was, after her husband cheated on her and abused her.

5) Meeting for breakfast the next day on Saturday: Correct!

Well done my friend!

You got her out under better conditions, with no lunch-break time constraints. Well
done for getting some respect! Let me be the first to tell you: You are MUCH MORE
valuable than you think you are. Really, you are.

Don't let women walk all over you.

Don't be needy.

Don't be desperate.

…and most importantly - Don't spend another 6 months pretending to be another

woman's 'online lover'. Get off your computer chair and go and meet some women
in the real world.

You now have the techniques and the women are waiting…

Your friend,
Dan

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 SUCCESS STORY

"Former Nice Guy, Now a Ladies Man…"

Hi Dan, my name is Andrew.

I'm 18, and after reading that the techniques would work on girls my age, I just
had to give it a try.

Before your book, I had been on many dates because, according to girls, I'm
really good looking... keeping my body in good shape has been something I've
always done... BUT, it didn't get me very far, because I became girl's "doormat"
and my relationships usually never were longer than a few weeks.

Also, my primary way of meeting women was off of the internet, namely
Myspace. My friends and I had VERY MANY times gone to a mall, and
"hoped" to leave with numbers, but it never happened...

Ever since your book, I can literally pickup numbers anywhere I go... and my
friends are drooling on themselves!

They frankly "don't know what got into me!". Its excellent, and your
confidence builder has helped me in other ways besides picking up women. I
have allot more friends now, and it seems my life has just gotten better.

To be honest, I would love to keep this knowledge to myself and just gloat
about my ability to approach and date girls, when my friends can hardly talk
to one. But... its not very ethical I guess, so of course I'm going to recommend
this course to my buddies.

Though I could just email send them this course for free, I think that they can
buy it themselves... especially because of what a reasonable price it is, and that
I would have probably paid $300 for that book if I knew it would do this much
for me.

Thank you for sharing your techniques, they are brilliant. I also enjoy those
emails, so keep sending em!

Sincerely,
Andrew, USA"

ADVICE FROM DAN:

Your story sounds so good that a lot of guys reading this report might think that I wrote
your story myself, but hey – I can't help those guys until they are ready to be helped
anyway…

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Congratulations for starting to work on this area of your life so EARLY! You've got a lot
of fun times ahead of you with women. I want to point out something you said and then
share some advice with you and everyone else who is reading along.

"…Before your book, I had been on many dates because, according to girls, I'm really good
looking... keeping my body in good shape has been something I've always done... BUT, it didn't
get me very far, because I became girl's "doormat" and my relationships usually never were
longer than a few weeks."

You've raised a FASCINATING topic there.

I remember when I started getting better results with women and opening my eyes to
what was REALLY going on out there in the dating & relationship scene, I quickly
realized that women didn't really care about a guy's looks.

In fact, around 95% of the time that I saw a beautiful woman dating a man, the man
would NOT be a 'typically good-looking' guy. He would just be an average guy like
everyone else (including me) and not one of the 5% of guys who are ‘good-looking’.

Sure, looks can play a part sometimes, but as you are CLEARLY demonstrating (only a
VERY small percentage of guys in this world actually know this) if you don't have the
right personality, character and behavior – WOMEN WON'T WANT TO BE WITH
YOU.

They would rather be with a physically 'unattractive' guy who doesn’t become their
doormat and who is a confident, flirtatious alpha male. No ifs, buts or maybes – that is
simply how it works.

I know that some guys reading along may not want to believe that looks don’t matter,
but I feel that it's my responsibility to drill this fact into their head repeatedly until they:

1) Accept it.
2. Act on it (i.e. start approaching and dating beautiful women like other ‘average-
looking’ guys do).

Let me tell you a story to show you what I mean…

Ben, Stu and I have a good friend named Mark. We call him Mark ‘The Master’ and we
recently interviewed him in the Confessions of a Natural audio interview series.

He is short and weighs only 94 pounds (43kg), is half-Indian, half-English and because
of his small size, he shops for clothes in the BOY'S section of department stores. Despite
what other guys would see as disadvantages when it comes to attracting women, he is
simply one of the best we have EVER seen with women.

When we enter a bar or party, I sometimes see other guys looking at Mark and probably
thinking, "Yeah, he's no competition…he won't have a chance with any of the girls in here…"
(because of his appearance) but Mark almost ALWAYS gets the hottest woman
available, no matter where we are.

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EVERY time I talk to him (we manage to catch up once every few months) he has new
'bedroom photos' of the girl's he's been with….and they are ALWAYS (not sometimes)
absolute stunners and usually way taller than him too.

So, what is so special about Mark and why does he do so well with women, despite his
perceived shortcomings?

Well, for starters he is actually a really nice guy…but not in the typical way. Just like
Ken referred to in the "Old Dog, New Tricks" story before, Mark is a GOOD GUY WITH
EDGE.

By that I mean: In ADDITION to being a nice guy, he is ALSO confident, masculine,

great at using humor and flirting and excellent at making conversation. Mark is a
sincere, genuine guy. He has a relaxed demeanor, is often smiling (and sometimes
smirking) and takes a GENUINE interest in the people he talks to.

As opposed to a typical nice guy who tries to kiss ass in the hope of people liking him,
Mark already knows that people like and accept him (there's a technique on how to do
that in The Flow. It's called 'Assume Rapport'), which gives him a huge air of confidence
that women are magnetically attracted to.

As Ben and I discovered when we watched Mark in action one night (back when we
were learning), we realized that taking a 'genuine interest in women' was one of the
most powerful things he does.

For example…

When he talks to a woman, he focuses in on her in a relaxed, casual and NON-NEEDY

way. He's just being a casual, cool and genuine guy rather than hoping to pick up.

Can you stop for a moment now and imagine the difference between a guy who is
hoping to pick up vs. a guy who is just being cool, confident, casual and chatty? What
differences can you notice in his body language, the way he talks, etc?

Important: EVERYTHING that Mark does CAN be learnt. He doesn't have a special gift
with women that no-one else can use. He is simply using the techniques that are found
in The Flow. Although, he has never actually read The Flow because he's a natural!

The point is: You get the same results as he does if you learn this stuff.

Anyway, I'm getting a little side-tracked here! I get excited when I start sharing how
amazing your life can actually be and could tell hundreds of cool stories about Mark as
an example, but the point remains:

Success with women is NOT about your physical appearance.

Seriously.

If you saw Mark yourself, you might even say he is 'physically unattractive' but that
SIMPLY DOES NOT MATTER in the dating & relationship scene. On a scale of 1-10 with
1 being unimportant and 10 being highly important:
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Your looks: 2 (unimportant)
Your personality: 10 (highly important).

I am NOT saying this to make you feel better. I’m just pointing out the reality that you
ALREADY know, but don’t want to believe. You see dorky, or below-average looking
guys with hot women all the time.

As you may know, I have been coaching guys on weekend courses for the past 3 years. I
have coached guys of all nationalities, ages (18 to 49 so far) and physical appearance.
Regardless of what they think is lacking about them in terms of attractiveness to women,
time and time again I see BEAUTIFUL women turn to them and talk, laugh and flirt
when the guys use the techniques.

Well done Andrew – you're set for life now dude. Enjoy the good times ahead with
women!

Dan

P.s. You said, "…I would have probably paid $300 for that book if I knew it would do this much
for me" hmm…maybe I'm giving this stuff away too cheap!

QUESTION FROM A READER

"Does This Stuff Work at College

Like it Does in Bars?"
Hi guys

I got your book recently and have been using it at UCLA in California. It has
made it easier for me to approach girls and start talking to them.

But, I'm wondering if the lines I'm using are good because it's still abit
awkward at the start and I haven't got any numbers yet.

Could you tell me a good way to start talking to a girl at college?

Tyson, CA, USA"

ADVICE FROM DAN:

Hey Tyson

Nice work on trying it out at college and don't be worried about not getting any
numbers yet. But, here's how you can do it…

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Actually, before I give the example - please REMEMBER that this will ONLY work if
you are using the other techniques from The Flow to display confidence, use humor, flirt
and playfully tease the woman.

MOST IMPORTANTLY, you also need to use the 'Assume Rapport' technique to get rid
of the awkwardness at the start. I recommend reading that section over and over until
you REALLY understand it.

Okay, so here's an example of how to approach a girl at college for you:

You: Hey, what's going on?

Her: Hi
You: Thought I'd come over and say hi. I'm Dan, what's your name?
Her: Sally
You: Sally huh? Yeah, I think you're in my biology class on Wednesdays…
Her: Yeah, I am
You: Cool, you can give me all the answers to the tests then :p

Then talk about what you've been up to that day, or talk about your weekend and then
ask her about hers. Don't try to get her phone number on the first approach. Instead, just
end the conversation and walk away after a couple of minutes (or less) of chatting,
flirting and laughing.

Meeting women that you see on a regular basis is different to meeting a woman in a
environment where you probably won’t ever see her again. In bars, you usually HAVE
TO get the phone number the first time because you will probably never see the woman
again (take it from me, I coach guys every weekend in bars and rarely see the same girls
again).

However, with girls at college, shop assistants and any other women you see on a
regular basis – you usually need to SLOW the process down. That said, if the woman is
showing you HEAPS of interest (refer to the '3 Stages of Interest' in The Flow), then feel
free to get her number right away.

What to do if you don't get her number…

The next time you see her in class, playfully scrunch your face up and stick your tongue
out at her, then go and sit next to her. Say something like, "Hey, what's happenin’ Sally?"
and then bring up some of the private jokes that you would have created during the
initial interaction. (Examples of how I create private jokes is provided in The Flow) to
get her laughing again.

If she is responsive and showing you lots of interest, then get her phone number or
move it to a coffee date (don't call it that when you suggest it to her. Just say, "Hey, do
you drink coffee or tea?" and after she answers, say "Cool, let's go get a coffee…" ("and a tea",
if she drinks tea).

Keep up the good work.

Dan

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 QUESTION FROM A READER

"Dating a Hot Woman Who Just Broke Up

With Her Boyfriend…"
"Dear Dan,

The reason why I am sending you this email is because I need some advise.
I bought your ebook “the flow” and I have been reading your emails.

I was able to talk to this girl at work that, I had a crush on for the longest and
got her number when she still was with her boyfriend, she is a blond, tall girl,
very athletic.

A few days later she told me she had just broken up with her boyfriend. A day
later I called her and started gaming her, everything was fine, she was into me.

After we talked on the phone and after hanging out for the second time, I ask
her so "how good of a kisser are you?" she answer "why" after a few minutes I
tried to kiss her and she said no a few minutes later she provoke me to repeat
the same routine so that I could kiss her and so I did and kissed her ( she didn't
even hesitate on kissing me either).

After this, we walk to her car, we hug and I was going to kiss her again but she
said no. She said that she thinks she is still going to go back to her boyfriend
but she was not sure and that she had just kissed me, at least she did not said
"lets just be friends".

I was confused but I soon figured out what was going on. I walk away to my
car and she stood there by her car looking all stress out and frustrated and she
was mumbling looking at me, I walked up to her, I told her that it was fine that
I understand.

She said something else, I can't remember what it was and I told her that she
obviously did not know what she wanted, and I said good nite and left her.
Later that nite she text me and said that she was sorry and good nite and i only
said good nite.

The next day early in the morning she text me and ask me if I thought she was
a bad kisser, I said its ok you'll get another chance, she reply asking, "I will?" I
answer maybe.

Then she reply saying I don't know and I answer "That's why I said maybe"
and her last text was "Oooo". I'm kind of stuck here I don't know what to do
next, I still think I have a chance.

Can you please give some advise on what to do here, as soon as possible. I had
never been in this situation before. Thanks.

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 Your grateful apprentice,
Silva, USA.

P.S. Sorry for the long e-mail, I just thought that detail was important."

ADVICE FROM DAN:

Hey Silva

Hooking up with a girl immediately after she breaks up with another guy can be a good
and bad thing.

If she's still really into the guy (this usually happens if the guy broke up with her), then
she may only want to use you as a Rebound Guy to ease some of the pain, and hope that
it will make him feel jealous and want her back when she tells him.

You said "…she didn't even hesitate on kissing me either"

I'm glad that you now have some evidence of the FACT that MOST women will NOT
hesitate to kiss a guy, if he just grows a pair of balls and leans in to kiss her.

Most women would rather NOT kiss a guy (even if they really, really like him) than
have to take on the man's role and make the first move. Women will only usually make
the first move if they're drunk, or if the tension is so strong that they just can’t wait any
longer for it to happen.

However, if you want to set up the right dynamic between you and a woman (so she
stays interested in you), then you need to 'grow a pair' (of balls) and take the lead with
women with kissing and in other areas.

In your case Silva, you did exactly that and you definitely deserve to be calling yourself
one of my apprentices. Nice work man – you're doing me proud. You also said, "…I'm
kind of stuck here I don't know what to do next, I still think I have a chance."

Of course you do. Go back to The Flow ebook and look for the section called 'The 3
Stages of Interest'. That's how to tell if a woman is interested in you. If you notice that
she is doing a number of the things (that I point out in the 3 Stages of Interest section)
when interacting with you, then IT IS ON.

It’s also worthwhile to note that because you have now crossed the Kissing Barrier, you
have moved things from friendly to sexual. It's now just a case of believing in yourself
(you may need to listen to Mastery Methods & Mindsets to learn how to quickly build
up your confidence and self-esteem), using the flirting techniques you know and
continuing to MOVE THINGS FORWARD.

If she still wants to be with her ex-boyfriend more than with you, then don't worry
about it. Go meet some other women and start dating them.

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If possible, bring some of the girls that you’re dating to work functions, or even swing
by work (if possible) with your girl when you're not on shift (if that's okay by your
boss).

By the way, your skills with text messages were quite good. Sounds like you are really
getting this stuff – well done & enjoy the good times ahead with women!

Cheers
Dan

SUCCESS STORY

"2 Numbers & a Kiss on the First Night of

Using The Flow… "
"Dear Dan

I am 46, widowed 15 months and was frustrated. Bought you book last
Monday.

On Friday went out and started. Couldn’t believe it, 2 phone numbers and out
the front kissing. Got a bit cocky on Saturday night and didn’t do as well. I
will read it again.

On the Saturday I didn’t follow the "flow", I just went and asked girls to dance.
I have got to get that bit right, talk first then dance.
Thanks for the book.

D, NSW, Australia"

RESPONSE FROM DAN:

2 phone numbers and a kiss on the first night you used this stuff?

That's awesome!

I love hearing from guys who are using the techniques in real-life. It is one thing to read
my advice, but to actually USE it is another thing altogether. Thank you for showing
that is it EASY to succeed with women if you will just use the techniques.

Nice work D.

Cheers
Dan

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 SUCCESS STORY

"A Conversation Starter That Almost

Always Gets a Laugh…"
"BEFORE I used to approach girls cold (without a Plan). AFTER reading your
material I no longer try to be Mr. Nice Guy, but instead joke around and get
them laughing.

My best opener has been, "Do you want to buy me a drink," which startles
them and really gets their attention. I've also become selective and choose girls
who keep eye contact and laugh with me and generally show that they want
follow up.

I'm still learning but results have been very good.

Richard, California, USA"

Hey Richard

Thanks for the awesome feedback my friend.

Your comment "…BEFORE I used to approach girls cold (without a Plan)" really struck a
chord with me, and I know it will with other readers too.

The reality is that without something to follow - you risk stuffing things up along the
way and losing the girl. I'm laughing at your best opener there…that's very cool!

Here is another tip for everyone reading along: If you decide to use Richard's
conversation starter, then I recommend having a slight, cheeky grin on your face while
doing it. That way, the woman will know that you are joking and play along.

Another comment that I’d like to point out is where you say, "I've also become selective
and choose girls who keep eye contact and laugh with me and generally show that they want
follow up."

I LOVE IT!

If I could high-five you now man I would! That is EXACTLY what you need to be doing.

It's funny (I used to make this mistake as well)…

Most guys are so desperate and so fearful of missing out on ANY opportunities with
women that they are willing to accept any half-decent woman who shows them the
slightest bit of interest.

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The reality is this: Guys who do have standards (and stick by them) usually have
women chasing them. However, when I tell guys this FACT they almost ALWAYS have
a subtle look of fear in their eyes.

"But, I don't want to miss out on ANY opportunities with women! I'll just nod so Dan thinks I
agree with him, but secretly I am willing to accepting ANY half-decent woman who wants to be
with me."

Guess what?

Women can SEE that secret desperation on your body language. If you want the hottest
women out there, then you MUST play by the rules (until you are so good that you can
break the rules and still get the girl).

Cheers
Dan

SUCCESS STORY

"My Ex-Girlfriend is Attracted to

Me Again!"
"I started applying the tips from the flow people at work now say they see a
big difference in me.

Most notably, an ex-girlfriend that was giving me an evil f***-off-and-die vibe

for months suddenly has turned into the most shy and submissive person in
my presence. Everything with her is on my terms and all I really did was start
projecting confidence in all my activities around the office.

Paul A. Alberta, Canada"

ADVICE FROM DAN:

That is FANTASTIC.

One of the questions I often get from readers of this newsletter is "Will this stuff help me
in other areas of life, or just with women?"

Well, the answer is now there for all to see. You will notice improvements in your life
each day, month and year from now on.

I've heard from a lot of readers who have successfully used my techniques to get better
results at university, to get promotions at work and to improve their relationships with
family & friends. The same kinds of things happened to me and I have never looked
back.

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Next, I want to point out something you said that revealed a MASSIVE piece to the
puzzle, "…suddenly has turned into the most shy and submissive person in my presence."

Do you know what it means when a woman behaves submissively around a guy, when
she is not normally like that with others? It's the woman's way of saying, "I am sexually
attracted to you. I will submit to you in the bedroom. You are the man and I am the woman. I
respect you and will submit."

By the way…

To everyone reading along right now: Take that piece of advice into your interactions
with women and watch your confidence soar. Notice when women behave submissively
around you and see it for what it TRULY is.

Once again, thank you to all the guys who have shared their stories here today. I might
do another one of these 'The Flow in Action' reports if I get enough requests from
readers.

Cheers

Dan
P.S. If you’re not already aware, 'The Flow' is the eBook that I wrote recently on how to
approach women & get dates in the modern world.

For more information, head to: http://www.themodernman.com/the_flow.html

You will be able to download The Flow immediately after purchase, so you can start
learning and using the techniques right away. You will discover how to meet and date
the women you want NOW, not next year.

This is your life and it's ticking away, minute by

minute! Why waste another day feeling unhappy with
your ability to approach women and get dates?

You deserve to get what you want with women. Take

action right now and you will begin experiencing the
great life with women that you know you deserve…

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